• Pinays Are Not Yet Ready to Forgive and Forget 'Na Ano Lang'

    "The usual excuse of humor at the expense of women’s dignity is simply unacceptable."
    by Rachel Perez .
  • Pinays Are Not Yet Ready to Forgive and Forget 'Na Ano Lang'
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  • Since the controversial "na-ano lang" incident, many people have publicly condemned the derogatory remark against single mothers. While Senator Vicente "Tito" Sotto III has already apologized, there has been outpouring support for solo moms -- and they're not letting it go. 

    The Commission on Human Rights (CHR), for starters, released a statement affirming that the remark is sexist, and it discriminates against single moms.

    "It is deplorable that such a comment came from an elected senator and that it elicited laughter from the halls of the Congress," the CHR's statement read. It added that even if the remark was made in jest, it discriminates not just against Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) Secretary Judy Taguiwalo, but all women, period. 

    The CHR further stated, "It shows the Senator’s insensitivity to the every day and multiple burdens that women face including unpaid care work and which are compounded for women who raise their children on their own." It added that such comment only contributes to the stigma and prejudice that solo parents and their children face.

    "We reiterate what we have pointed out before that the usual excuse of humor at the expense of women’s dignity is simply unacceptable," the CHR said.

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    Senator Risa Hontiveros, who is a single mother, schooled her colleague as well. "We, solo moms, take our child rearing and our work outside the home very seriously," she said via a text message sent to GMA News Online. "All solo mothers deserve respect; all mothers deserve respect, all women deserve respect," she added.

    The Philippine Commission on Women (PCW), in a statement, said it was gravely concerned that the topic of Taguiwalo having kids and not being married was brought up by the Commission on Appointments (CA) confirmation hearing. It said it was "uncalled for and [done] in bad taste."

    "It was a mockery of a woman's circumstance as a solo parent as [her] status has nothing to do with her professional qualifications, which should have been the focus of the CA," PCW chair Rhodora Bucoy said in the statement.

    Instead of judging them based on how they ended up as solo mothers, the PCW said, "We call on everyone to focus on the strengths of solo parents, most of whom are women; making both the work environment and the communities where they live more compassionate and enabling for them to rear their children well."

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    Indeed, we've heard from celebrities who are solo moms themselves, such as Jennylyn Mercado and LJ Reyes, from celebrities whose moms had raised them single-handedly, such as Lea Salonga and Pokwang (real name Mariette Subong).

    Apart from condemning controversial remark, many on social media decided to show their support for the moms who stood as both mom and dad.  

    Nick Gan expressed his emotions for his mom and Sen. Sotto quite clearly

    Arlene Sunga shared her mother's story.

    And Lulu Reyes showed why solo moms are superwomen. 

    Honor moms, single or not, by posting photos and why you admire them on the comments below or send us a message on Facebook!

    *Facebook photos and posts shared with permission.

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