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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #30 on: July 25, 2008, 10:06:34 PM »
i believe in binat.. lalo na ng two moms ko! super strict sila. they scolded me when i had my hair shampoo-ed by the yaya kase nangangati nako. tsaka il be havin a follow checkup ayoko lumabas ng di ako naligo. though warm water person naman tlaga ko, di ako nahirapan sa bagay na yun. pero pag di ako lumalabas, i follow my moms. they always tell me na 'akala mo lang ngayon di mo maramdaman binat, pero when u grow older dun ka maniniwala samin.' and i believed them. naging masunurin naman ako moving forward.
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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #31 on: September 09, 2008, 08:46:06 AM »
oi yong officemate ko nabinat, as in namaga sya... sabi daw doon sa kanila nabinat daw yon...

naniniwala ba sa binat ang mga doctor?

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #32 on: September 09, 2008, 09:17:35 AM »
i believe in binat though CS ako...nong 3-week old na si jana, naging colic baby na sya, grabe...minsan nakakalimutan ko ng CS ako, dance-dance kami to comfort her pero wa epek pa rin, tapos ang nafeel ko, sumakit ang ipin (molar) ko kahit walang sira at ulo...sabi ng mother ko, binat daw yon kaya pinahilot niya ako, syempre, di kasama ang tummy at nakaupo lang ako...aba, tumalab, nawala yung sakit ng ipin..at bilin ng naghilot, wag daw ako magpaambon kz malakas daw yon magpapabinat...sinunod ko na lang din...

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #33 on: September 09, 2008, 09:31:08 AM »
maski nga pagbaba ng hagdan bawal if bago panganak at pag inom ng cold water ...delikado din daw mahanginan...

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #34 on: September 11, 2008, 10:07:07 PM »
i believe in binat though CS ako...nong 3-week old na si jana, naging colic baby na sya, grabe...minsan nakakalimutan ko ng CS ako, dance-dance kami to comfort her pero wa epek pa rin, tapos ang nafeel ko, sumakit ang ipin (molar) ko kahit walang sira at ulo...sabi ng mother ko, binat daw yon kaya pinahilot niya ako, syempre, di kasama ang tummy at nakaupo lang ako...aba, tumalab, nawala yung sakit ng ipin..at bilin ng naghilot, wag daw ako magpaambon kz malakas daw yon magpapabinat...sinunod ko na lang din...

oo nga sis eh, ako di ko talaga ma connect bakit nakakabinat ang ambon :-) pero syempre sunod nalang tayo sa mga matatanda :-)

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #35 on: September 12, 2008, 12:38:43 AM »
I had a different case of binat.  Iba-ibang symptoms ang binigay sakin but two things are consistent sa sinabi nila one is sakit ng ulo the other is you release air on baby's passage way (as if you're farting sa "flower" nga lang)...but unfortunately they told me this nabinat na ko.

I've experienced this 4months after giving birth to my eldest.  We were taking a nap, when I was awaken by a terrible headache.  Palala ng palala yung sakit ng ulo ko.  I feel uncomfortable sa spine ko, the feeling of parang naghahalong init at lamig sa spine ko and I threw up. with my spine i asked hubby to put aceite manzanilla.  I felt better after.  the next day when I was taking a bath eto nanaman yung sa spine and the terrible headache.   that's the time hubby took me to the hospital.  grabe ang headache as in torture!  kahit simpleng hawak sa buhok ko masakit.  den the nurse gave me something na nakatulog ako - probably to help me relax but when i wake up eto nanaman.

It's unbearable talaga.  when hubby touched my head takot sya kasi first time nyang nakahawak ng head na as if daw lahat ng ugat nakalabas na and he can feel the throbbing.  My hospital room's lights are closed. a small light is very painful to my eyes.  I was in the hospital for one week. the doctors could not make a clear diagnosis. 

akala namin makakauwi na kami, so while preparing to go home, hubby gave me a spongbath, eto nanaman, umatake ulit ulo ko.  so we were'nt able to go home.  until finally the doctor gave me a binder, no clear explanation but it could be daw of my wound since cs nga ako.  That night hubby decided to check up on me.  He was so shocked that when he touched my head akala niya naligo ako.  then he touch my bed as in lahat  yung buong kama, pillows & my head to feet basang  basa. akala daw niya nagwiwi me  :P

because of the binder, narelease daw yung "lamig" sa katawan ko. after that i felt better.  WHen i got home, a friend of mine brought someone at home para hilutin ako at pausukan. that was a terrible experience. iyak pa ko ng iyak kasi two weeks kong di nakasama baby ko.  hirap na hirap den yung maid kasi di daw makatulog si baby  :-\
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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #36 on: September 19, 2008, 02:54:30 PM »
CS ako, yung mom ko din todo remind sa akin na wag daw muna ako maligo kasi nga daw yung tahi ko , pero naligo ako as advised by my OB (nakategaderm naman kaya ok lang mabasa), e aun sbi ng mom ko warm water daw gamitin ko e minsan sa sobrang pagmamadali kung ano nasa CR yun na ginagamit ko,tas ayun di ako pinapayagan umakyat sa stairs , kaya yun binaba muna  bed ko sa sala (ilang months di ako dun), tska bawal daw mahinganan yung paa.

Minsan nasusunod ko yung sabi ng mom ko , minsan hindi... pero at that time feel na feel ko yung mga yun kasi parang alagangalaga ako, parang saya ng feeling na inaalagaan ako ng mom ko kahit na mom na din ako. :)

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #37 on: September 20, 2008, 01:24:45 AM »
I think wala namang mawawala kung susundin natin yung mga pamahiin ng mga elders tungkol sa binat.

But in my case its a bit different. My mom lives far and its only me, my hubby and our daughter who live together. Then my husband is an american, kaya parang walang ganung mga factors sa kanya.

My OB told me to take bath before leaving the hospital, after 2 days of confinement. I gave birth via CS. Pero the OB put a plastic dun sa wound para hindi mabasa. Then, araw-araw ako naliligo. Though, sinabihan ako na wag magbubuhat ng mabibigat at huwag magpapagod. Lagi din mag suot ng tsinelas baka daw pasukan ng lamig & wag kakain ng malalansa.

Yung tungkol naman sa mga naloloka, i agree na baka part yun ng post partum depression & baby blues. Kc ako after 2 weeks of giving birth "naloka" din! Nasanay kc ako na araw-araw pumapasok sa work till the day na manganganak na ako & lakwatsera pa ako. Tapos bigla sa bahay ka na lang. Parang feeling ko, ako lang nagbago ng buhay, sa bahay maghapon nag-aalaga kay baby tapos lahat ng tao ganun pa din. Yung mga nangangamusta, si baby lang tinatanong ako hindi. Eh pampered ako nung buntis ako. Then one time, my husband needs to go out on a dinner with client. Talagang nagalit ako dun. feeling ko napaka unfair na bakit siya nakakalabas pa din at nakakapag-enjoy. Ako feeling ko nakakulong sa hawla mag hapon. Super nagwala talaga ako at lahat ng mahawakan ko pinagbabato ko. As in gumawa ng talaga ako ng eksena. Tinawagan ko pati yung mga ka-dinner niya at inaway ko. Pati pala yung mga kaibigan ko, pinagtatawagan ko at inaway ko out of nowhere.

Then later on, nalaman ko na part pala yun ng PPD. Buti na lang understanding asawa ko pati mga friends ko ;D Hindi ko lang alam dun sa mga business associates na inaway ko din! ::)
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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #38 on: September 20, 2008, 04:49:01 PM »
mommy prettytrisha, i agree dun sa PPD, i think medyo ganun din ako tulad sayo after giving birth, feeling ko sobrang kawawa ako at apingapi kasi yun nga parang ang daya kasi yung iba nagagawa pa din nila mga dati samantalang ako nasa bahay lang, pero sandali lang naman yun nangyari (minsan na lang mangyari ang pag self-pity .hehe) :) i think yun yung part na medyo maconsider ko na naloka ako, kasi diba dapt happy kasi may baby pero ako bigla na lang ako napapaiyak , ayun buti naman at nakalampas na ata ako sa stage na yun :)

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #39 on: September 25, 2008, 08:46:39 PM »
yes i do believe. unang panganak ko, since matigas ang ulo ko, never ko sila sinunod, hayon, ibat ibang sakit ang naramdaman ko after. pero this time, susundin ko na ang mga payo nila, walang ligo for 15 days, punas punas lang ng maligamgam na tubig, tapos papahilot para bumalik ang sipit sipitan, mag medyas, magbalot para di mahanginan at lamigin, magbigkis at kung ano ano pa... mas okay na yon dahil ayaw ko na maranasan yung pain na naramdaman ko :)

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #40 on: October 02, 2008, 07:50:39 PM »
My OB told me I can take a bath as  soon as my wound dries up - actually in a week's time ok na. CS pala ako.

If there is binat, I should have felt that. From day 1, i've been staying up late and carrying my heavy baby - di ba mas nakakabinat dapat yun?

So far, OK naman.

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #41 on: October 05, 2008, 09:26:51 PM »
siguro nga totoo yung binat...kahit normal delivery ako,pinagbawalan talaga ako noon ng mother ko na wag maligo for 5 days!!!grabe sinunod ko sya noon,sa panganay and 2nd child ko.. :D
after 8 years,pinanganak ko yung 3rd baby,normal delivery pa rin..sa hospital pa lang naliligo na ako(wala na kasi sa tabi ko mother ko e)... as in full bath..kaya siguro after one week,nag ka fever and chills ako...grabe!!
kaya hindi rn masama kung susundin/pakikinggan ntin mga kasabihan ng mga oldies ntin.. ;)



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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #42 on: October 16, 2008, 05:12:11 PM »


naniniwala ako sa binat kasi personal experience ko yan sa 3rd baby namin, whom i gave birth through CS. it was only about a week after i gave birth, namalantsa ako ng uniforms ng asawa ko for the whole week (sobrang mahal ko raw kasi siya e!  :P), tapos wala pa kaming helper. alhough ilang pirasong shirts lang yun, gininaw ako tsaka super sakit ang ulo ko after an hour. i texted him, kasi he was on a friend's house dahil birthday ng anak nung friend namin... yung mga friends namin na nasa birthday, sumugod dito sa house! nag-panic sila! tapos ti-next ako ng mother ko, binat nga raw yun... katigasan ding ng lo! o sobrang sipag or sobrang pagmamahal?!  8)


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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #43 on: October 20, 2008, 05:32:06 PM »
i guess, naniniwala rin ako pero ask lang mga mommies.. wala kasi ang mom ko this time para pagsabihan ako after ko manganak... how many days ba talaga before pwede maligo? and what are the other "rituals" na kelangan sundin? pls help kasi im just waiting for my baby's arrival. thanks!

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Re: Binat: Do you believe?
« Reply #44 on: November 15, 2008, 11:55:02 AM »

mga mommies na try nyo na ba na mag sit down sa basin or big arinola.... na may mainit na tubig ( pinakuluan na guava leaves )... grabe ako na try ko yan..... sobra init pero utos na yon ni MIL e....
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Uu naman na try ko na yan ang init noh para daw matuyo ang sugat at kusa daw matatangal ang tahi kasi normal delivery naman ako sinunod ko naman sila lahat sinunod ko ang ritual kay di me nakaranas ng binat wala naman mawawala kung susundin sila.

 

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