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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #165 on: March 01, 2013, 09:02:48 AM »
hello po sa lahat..bago po ako dito at confused po talaga ako..d ko po alam kong ano gagawin ko. pa help naman please...di ko madetermine kung pwd ba ko mabuntis oh hindi. last day of menstruation ko feb.14 or 15...tapos 1st sexual intercourse ko 4 days ago....feb.25..unprotected sex po un..hindi ko po alam ang gagawim at kung ano eexpect...pahelp naman po..  :(

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #166 on: March 01, 2013, 04:05:26 PM »
@confused1

Feb. 14 ba ang first day ng pervious menstruation period mo?  Kailangan malaman natin yung first na menstrual flow.  Meron ka bang iba pang dates?  Alam mo ba kung ilang days ang Cycle Length mo? Anyway...

Standard Days Method (SDM) ang gagamitin natin para malaman kung pwede ka bang mabuntis o hindi.  Ia-assume natin na ang Cycle Length mo ay from 26 to 32 days at ang fertile days ay Day 8 to Day 19.  Ang ibang days, safe (Day 1 to 7, Day 20 to next period).

Feb. 14 - Day   1 - First Day of previous menstruation period

Feb. 25 - Day 12 - Fertile Day - Sexual Intercourse

You may be highly fertile on Feb. 25 when you had intercourse.  This means that it's possible na pregnant ka.  Please expect or assume that there is now a baby, a new human life (body and soul/spirit), growing inside you for about 2-4 days now.  You will need to share this information and ask the help of a close family member, preferably female, like your mother, tita/aunt or older sister.  Please do not do anything that will harm your baby because you will put yourself at a greater danger (Psychologically, as well as Physically).

You and your partner are responsible for this new baby, this new life.  these past few days, nararamdaman na niyang baby ang stress/anxiety mo.  Please be fair to this baby.  He/she deserves a life in the same way that you and your partner deserved yours.

At this point, wala pang lalabas na positive result sa pregnancy test.  Negative pa ang lalabas niyan at hindi ito accurate.  Makakapag-test ka lang around 1 week after na ma-miss mo ang next menstruatin period mo.

Please pray to God and let life proceed with its course.  It's still possible that you did not or won't get pregnant.

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #167 on: March 19, 2013, 11:47:02 PM »
pls help po regular naman po mens ko and 100% safe po ako nung ng ano kami kasi alam ko after 2 days magkakaroon nako kaya sa loob niya pinutok tapos di po ko ng karoon sa expected days after 6 days nung last namin ng ano uli kami kaso may milky white discharge po ako ano po kaya un? sa loob uli niya pinutok ngayon 14 days nako delay naka 3 take nako ng pregnancy test puro naman negative.
buntis po ba ko or delay lang?

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #168 on: March 20, 2013, 04:38:57 AM »
Hi briscel

Kung may white discharge ka, malamang fertile ka.  Prepare mo na ang sarili mo na baka buntis ka at hindi pa lang nade-detect ng pregnancy test kit.  Sana may dates ka ng first day ng menstruation mo para mas ma-compute natin.

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #169 on: March 20, 2013, 09:59:36 PM »
LMP ko feb 4 2013 expected date ko march 7 cycle ko 30-31 days
ano po mga signs pag buntis?
march 1  yung  una at
march 7 yung last ano namin
13 days delay with white discharge,lowerback ache and light headedness and fatigue po nararamdaman ko?

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #170 on: March 21, 2013, 07:01:34 AM »
Hi briscel

Heto ang mga info mo:
  Feb. 4 - Day 1

  Mar. 5 - Day 30
  Mar. 6 - Day 31
 
 Estimated Next Menstruation Period
  Mar. 6 ( for 30 Day Cycle)
  Mar. 7 (for 31 Day Cycle)

 Mar. 1 - intercourse
 Mar. 7 - intercourse 

 Estimated Ovulation/Peak Day
  Feb. 20 - (for 30 Day Cycle...Mar. 6 minus 14 days)
  Feb. 21 - (for 31 Day Cycle...Mar. 7 minus 14 days)

 Complete Fertile Days
 (5 days cervical mucus, including ovulation/Peak Day
 plus one day of egg life)
  Feb. 16 to 21 (for 30 Day Cycle)
  Feb. 17 to 22 (for 31 Day Cycle)

 Safe Days
  Feb. 4 to 15, and Feb. 23 to Mar. 6)

Mukhang safe naman noong Mar. 1 to 7.  Mar. 7 ba yung white discharge.  Alam mo, ang ovulation minsan ang nadedelay.  Ang menstruation, halos laging 14 days yan after ovulation.  Possible kaya na nag-ovulate ka ng late, around Mar. 7.  Ang rule ng Two Day Method, basta may discharge, consider as fertile o not safe.  Sana nag-withdraw na lang kayo.  Kung ovulation day mo ay around Mar. 5, 6, or 7 (Day 32), ang menstruation mo ay  pwedeng naging Mar. 17 (Day 42).  May mga cases kasi na up to 42 days ang cycle.  Ang range naman ng days from ovulation to menstruation ay 12 to 16...naka-average lang yan sa 14 days.  Mag-pregnancy test (PT) ka sa Ob-Gyn....sa doctor na at hindi na through PT kit.  Sana Pro-Life na Ob-Gyn para mas i-consider na baka pregnant ka...at hindi pilitin na mag-mens ka.
« Last Edit: March 21, 2013, 07:20:00 AM by Daddy Jojo »

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #171 on: March 22, 2013, 11:39:16 PM »
Ngkaroon nako kahapon march 21 brown n patak patak then ng tuloy tuloy siya ang lakas nga e
Naka 4 na palit ako at may buo buo pa nga malakas parin sya ngaun normal red naman na yung kulay
buntis po ba ko? Ano po ba dahilan bakit ganon ako katagal na delay?

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #172 on: March 23, 2013, 06:47:07 AM »
@Briscel

Kung nag-mens ka at malakas, kahapon, March 21...fourteen (14) days after March 17...para ngang nabuntis ka pero hindi nakakapit ang baby.

Ang pinaka-definite kasi sa lahat ng computation ay yung 14 days after mag-ovulate, ex. Mar. 7...magkakaroon na ng menstruation, Mar. 21.

Mar. 7 to Mar. 20...fourteen 14 days
Mar. 21 - Menstruation Period

Nagtake ka ba ng medicine?  Magpa-check up ka na sana sa Ob-Gyn doctor to be sure na okay ka lang.  Ang nadelay ng husto ay ang ovulation day mo, dapat as early as Feb. 20 lang...umabot ka ng Mar. 7.  Kamusta ba noong Feb 16 to 20....and onwards, nagkasakit ka ba noon, may stress ba, may highly emotional moment ba.  Lahat ng ito at iba pang factors...makakaapekto sa ovulation mo.  Ang menstruation, lagi iyang 14 days after ovulation, hindi yan nagbabago.

Aside from seeing your OB-Gyn, mag-record kayong dalawa ng husband mo ng daily observations.  Para makikita ninyo na halimbawa nagkasakit ka pala o na-tense ka ng husto during your ovulation days...mape-predict ninyo na maiiba ng date ang menstruation mo...for your peace of mind.

Feb. 4 to Mar. 20... forty-five (45) days Cycle ka this time.  Thirty (30) to forty-five (45) days cycle ka na. 

Ang estimated fertile days mo na ngayon:
For 30 days cycle...Day 13 to 18, with the ovulation day at Day 17
For 45 days cycle...Day 28 to Day 33, with the ovulation day at Day 32

Combining these, estimated fertile days are from Day 13 to 33, with the ovulation days, Day 17 to Day 32:

Day    1: Mar. 21
Day 13:  Apr.    2
Day 17:  Apr.    6
Day 32:  Apr.  21
Day 33:  Apr.  22

So safe days mo ay Mar. 21 to April 1.  After nito, kailangan mag-observe ka ng mucus, para malaman mo kung start na ng fertile days mo.

May bago akong share na pang-double checl kung safe pa rin o fertile na:
Feeling your Cervix, position, firmness, softness - another natural way to check

Internal checking ito ng mucus, plus cervix firmness(safe) or softness (fertile).  Around 3 to 5 days lang naman ang fertile days..kung dry na for two days...safe na ulit.  Ang estimated next mens mo ay darating anytime from Apr. 19 to May 4.  Pwede ka ring mag-count ng 12 to 14 days starting on the day na dry ka na at wala ng mucus...for you more accurate menstruation day.



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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #173 on: March 24, 2013, 07:24:53 PM »
Salamat po napakagaling nyo po naliwanagan po ko. Wala po ko
Tinitake na medicine physically stress lang po talaga

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Hi  :) ask ko lang po ano po ba pinagkaiba ng menstration sa spotting lang? Kasi po i want to have baby na but the thing eh nagkamens po ako last may 19 pero ang hina po compare sa previous menstration ko then halos 2 days lang po yung tinagal then now parang brownish nalng po yung discharge. Last month po nagkaroon ako eh april 17-21 pero april 16 po i had contact with my hubby and sa loob po sya nagcum.. After po ng menstration ko nagkaroon ulit kami ng contact ni hubby hanggang april 30..may possibility po bang buntis ako kahit nagkaroon ako ng menstration? Hindi po kasi ako nagPT since nagkaroon naman po ako..thank you po in advance :) big help po..

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Hi lilibethmagdamo,

Menstruation Period - kapag flowing blood for two (2) or more days.

Spotting - kung konting bleeding lang for two days or less.

Kung gusto ninyong magka-baby...magandang pag-usapan ninyong mag-asawa ito (at patuloy na pag-usapan).  Kung desire ninyong dalawa ito as a married couple...hold the desire in your heart, continue to share the experience of desiring it and prepare...because you will need more that just physical space when a person enters your lives.  If you believe that it is God who creates, do include God in your discernment and desire.  Pray and ask God.

Pinakamataas ang chance mong mag-concieve kung ita-time ninyo ang contact/intercourse sa ovulation o highest fertile day mo.  According to Ob-Gyn/doctors, ang ovulation, o araw ng pag-release mo ng egg ay yung 14 days bago ang menstruation mo.  So, kung ang Day 1 ng last mens mo ay Apr. 17, ang estimated ovulation day mo ay Apr. 3.

Paano mo mape-predict ang next na ovulation day mo para doon na lang ang contact?  Kailangan mo mag-list ng lahat ng Day 1 mens mo at alamin ang Cycle Length mo.  Kapag nagawa mo na ang mga ito, magagawa mo nang mas accurate ang prediction ng start ng mens at ovulation.

One important point nga pala, after mag-ovulate, o mag-release ng egg...about 1 day na lang ang itatagal ng fertile days mo.  Ang estimated last fertile days mo ay March 31 to Apr. 4.  Infertile days na from Apr. 5 and up to menstruation days.  So sa Apr. 16 na contact ninyo ng husband mo, hindi ka mabubuntis.

Mas madalas, hindi mabubuntis.  May acid ang vagina...intended to protect it from infection...pero ito ring acid na ito ang pumapatay sa sperm.  Kapag malapit ka nang mag-release ng egg, mao-observe mo na magkakaroon ka ng mucus discharge (a.k.a. white mens), kapag parang raw egg-white na ang discharge mo, very fertile ka.  Ang mucus discharge na ito ang magpo-protect sa sperm para makaligtas sa acid at makarating sa egg.

God bless you and your husband.

Source:
"The menstrual phase is the phase during which the lining of the uterus, called the endometrium, is shed as menstrual flow out of the cervix and vagina. This process is what women experience during their menstrual periods, and the menstrual flow actually consists of blood, mucus, and tissue. The first day of menstrual flow is defined as day number one of the next menstrual cycle. Menstruation lasts for approximately 3 to 7 days, although some women have shorter or longer periods. Menstruation is triggered by reduced levels of the hormones estrogen and progesterone at the end of the previous menstrual cycle. The onset of a new menstrual period indicates that the woman is not pregnant."

"Spotting occurs when the uterus sheds blood intermittently between periods. Alternative names for spotting include: abnormal uterine bleeding, bleeding between periods, intermenstrual bleeding, and metrorrhagia. Many women who experience spotting can be alarmed."

The Menstrual Cycle - University of California, Santa Barbara
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/menstrual-cycle
« Last Edit: May 27, 2013, 12:24:08 PM by Daddy Jojo »

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Thank you po Daddy Jojo:)

More power and God bless po to you and your family:)

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #177 on: June 08, 2013, 06:05:02 PM »
hello po ask ang po ako feeling ko po kasi pregnant ako lagi ako nagugutom, ihi ng ihi, tapus lumalake  yung tiyan... pero nagkaroon po ako ng mens... buntis po pa ako?? guzto ko na po kasi magkababy

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #178 on: June 08, 2013, 08:49:02 PM »
hello po ask ang po ako feeling ko po kasi pregnant ako lagi ako nagugutom, ihi ng ihi, tapus lumalake  yung tiyan... pero nagkaroon po ako ng mens... buntis po pa ako?? guzto ko na po kasi magkababy pls po reply kayo

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Re: Missed period? Spotting? Am I pregnant? What are the signs? (Part 2)
« Reply #179 on: June 08, 2013, 09:29:40 PM »
^ Hello .. ang alam ko pagnagkaroon ka ng mens, ibig sabihin hindi kapa buntis
(em i right?)  ???

yung sa paglaki naman po ng chan mo, baka dahil lang po yun sa kain ka ng kain ..  ;D

 

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