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It's 2021! 'Tumataba Ka' Isn't A Greeting, Okay?Filipinos are wired to be pintasero/pintasera.by Reportr.World .
On December 26, 2020, actress Janella Salvador tweeted: "Filipinos are the worst body shamers. Let me enjoy my christmas pudding in peace. Happy holidays to you too!"
She articulated the pain of everyone who parried relatives' half-meant jokes during Christmas reunions: Filipinos have a knack for body-shaming.
At the Noche Buena table, it's "tumaba ka (you got fat)." It doesn't matter if the excess poundage was due to months of quarantine. For the rest of the year, the targets are celebrities who outgrow their swimsuit bodies. It doesn't matter if they had just given birth like Janella.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
How many offensive Tagalog words are there for fat? Tabachoy, lumba-lumba, dabiana, baboy.CONTINUE READING BELOWRecommended Videos
How about slim? What else aside from payat?
Language confirms it. Filipinos are wired to be pintasero/pintasera.
"Social media heightened ang isang ugali, lalong-lalo na ng mga Pilipino. Ang Pilipino may kuyog mentality. Pag may nahuling magnanakaw, lahat gustong maki-bugbog. Sa social media, nagba-bandwagon effect," said Nestor Castro, a cultural anthropologist from the University of the Philippines-Diliman.
Why do Filipinos body-shame?
For centuries, Filipinos have this stereotype for beauty — fair skin, a trim waist and a flat tummy. Anything that goes outside of it can be considered ugly, Castro told reportr.
Angel Locsin, her generation's Darna, the super-heroine who defeats monsters and criminals while wearing a bright red bikini, gets bashed for her frame. It does not seem to matter that she had proven to be a heroine to those in need in real life (or that those who criticize her never achieved her figure when she played Darna).ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
"Very, very seldom na may makikita ka na nagpe-praise ng may kalakihan ng katawan. Dahil sa kine-create na imahe," Castro said.
"Pinaka-vulnerable sa body-shaming activities ang celebrities kasi may pino-project sila na image. Napapanood sila sa TV, sa fashion magazines na nagco-conform sa kung ano ang tingin ng society is sexy or beautiful," he said. "Pag nag-defy na sila doon, doon na sila binabansagang lumba-lumba."ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
What is the role of social media?
Filipinos make sure they have their best lives on display on Facebook and Instagram to avoid getting body-shamed or criticized, Castro said.
That's why some people, during quarantine, hide their weight gain in black shirts or take selfies from the chest up. Christmas trees and gifts provide convenient camouflage for quarantine bellies.
"Mas madaming oras ang tao, mas madaling mag-online. Wala silang pinagkakaabalahan. Kahit work from home, wala naman na kabantay," Castro said.
Castro said that's the toll of being told for generations that being fat or ugly is shameful. Remember how comedians during the slapstick era were named after what society perceived as their flaws? Like the late Palito and Babalu.
It's called cultural emphasis, said Castro. Tagalog only has two words for something that smells good: mabango and mahalimuyak. There's a list for foul odor, especially if the stench is from the armpits — putok, anghit.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
Will the body-shaming ever end?
There are signs that Filipinos are shaking off the pintasero culture. For a time, makers of whitening lotions faced uproars on Facebook, and skin whitening soon evolved to skin brightening.
"Nauuna na yung sa skin color. Mas nahuhuli yung sa body-shaming kasi ang kalaban mo diyan the establishment — mga nagbebenta ng diet at gym."
Celebrities are also challenging the status quo. In 2018, women-led organization She Talks Asia headed by popular figures Iza Calzado, Vicky Herrera, Lynn Pinugu, Sarah Myer, and Bianca Gonzalez organized "The Body Love Revolution," a conference that aimed to promote body positivity, particularly among women.
The journey to promote the love of one's body still has a long way to go, particularly here in the Philippines.
"Lahat naman ng cultures nagbabago. Hindi ko masasabi na mapanlait na tayo forever and ever," Castro said. "Dapat, on guard tayo sa mga gusto natin baguhin, ito ay magagawa through education, formal and non-formal, positive images."ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
And while local media has yet to truly discuss and confront the issue, perhaps it can always start where it matters most. It can begin at home, with parents telling overweight children that cutting the fat is for their own health and not because being round is ugly, he said.
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