'It's Possible To Heal Relationships': Lorin Says Mom Ruffa, Dad Yilmaz Agree To Co-ParentLorin and her sister Venice recently had a reunion with Yilmaz in Turkey after 15 years.
Naglabas ng kanyang saloobin ni Lorin Gutierrez, 18, kaugnay ng muling pagkikita nila ng kanyang ama matapos ang labinlimang (15) taon.
Si Lorin at ang kapatid niyang si Venice Bektas, 17, ay mga anak ng actress-beauty queen na si Ruffa Gutierrez sa ex-husband nitong si Yilmaz Bektas, isang Turkish businessman.
Nitong June ay nagtungo sina Lorin at Venice sa Istanbul, Turkey para muling makapiling ang ama.
Ngayong Lunes, July 18, naglabas ng vlog si Lorin para ilahad ang reunion nilang mag-aama.
Sa higit 28-minute vlog, inamin ni Lorin na marami ring negatibong komento siyang nakuha sa importanteng kaganapang ito sa kanyang buhay.
Lorin appeals to bashers and critics
Matapos pasalamatan ang mga positibong feedback sa kanilang family reunion, binanggit ni Lorin na may mga kritiko rin.
Sabi ng dalaga, may mga komentong tinrato silang parang mga tauhan sa pelikula.
“As if you know everything or as if it’s so simple, and this is this and that is that. It’s really not black and white.
“There are a lot of people giving theories or negative opinions and blah-blah-blah, whatever...
“Usually, I shrug off all, like, negativity or whatever because, like you know, it’s always gonna be there,” pahayag niya.
Pero hindi niya raw puwedeng balewalain ang masasamang sinasabi ukol sa kanyang pamilya.
Pakiusap ni Lorin, iwasan ang pagbatikos sa kanyang pamilya dahil personal ito para sa kanya.
“We decided to share this part of our lives with you because obviously the split between my mom and dad was very public and I know that comes along with it.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
“But, please, like, if you can leave a hate comment on any other piece of content that I produce, and you can say whatever you want about any other aspect of my life…
“But when it comes to this, especially like me seeing my family again, please, just be careful and be sensitive of what you do comment…
“Because this is possibly the most monumental moment of my life that I decided to vlog and share with the world.
“So, it’s a bit intimidating to put such a personal aspect of me out there.”
A lot of hurt left in the 15 years
Nagdesisyon din daw si Lorin na ibahagi ang reunion nila ng kanilang ama para maghatid ng inspirasyon sa mga kagaya niyang may isyu sa pamilya.
“I’m not really that much of a public person, especially about my personal life. I keep that very private,” paliwanag ni Lorin.
Nais daw niyang ipaalam na posible ang magkaayos sa pamilyang may mga isyu.
Aniya, “There were definitely moments in my life where I was convinced I didn’t know when I was gonna see my father’s side again.
“The fact that suddenly I’m at a point where I’m on good speaking terms with my father and my father’s side, and him and my mom are now entering this new chapter of co-parenting both me and my sister…”
Sabi ni Lorin, dumating na siya sa puntong inisip na niyang hindi na muling magkakaayos ang kanyang mga magulang.CONTINUE READING BELOWRecommended Videos
“I want you to know that it is possible to heal those relationships, it is possible to move forward, it is possible to grow even if it feels like it’s impossible.
“The right people will come back into your life in God’s perfect timing.
“Obviously, there’s a lot of hurt in 15 years, but my mindset is that the past is the past.
“There’s really nothing we can do to alter or change it and I’m not the type of person to dwell on the 15 years, but instead, focus on the next 15 years.”
This story originally appeared on Pep.ph.
*Minor edits have been made by the SmartParenting.com.ph editors.
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