Some people can be insensitive and relentless in their bashing that they need a proper, classy shutdown. That's what Heart Evangelista did to a netizen who said she needed a baby in one of her shot-in-Paris OOTD Instagram posts.
The remark earned a polite but stern reply from Heart. "God is all you need, and everything else is a bonus," she said. But the person didn't stop and replied Heart needed a bonus "badly."
PHOTO BY Instagram/Heart Evangelista"I'm too blessed, my love. Too shy to ask more from God. If He gives me—a big thank you," Heart said. She then told the person her comment was inappropriate.
PHOTO BY Instagram/Heart EvangelistaADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOWTwo years ago, in 2018, Heart suffered a miscarriage. She was initially pregnant with twins but lost one baby because it didn't develop properly. Eventually, she lost the remaining one, too.
Heart Evangelista says having a miscarriage is traumatizing
The uncalled-for remark reminded Heart of her tragic loss and forced her to leave a lengthy explanation about why it was rude and insensitive to bring it up. "Having a miscarriage is the most traumatizing feeling," Heart said.
It is her choice when to try to conceive again, but if she still does not get pregnant, then it's God's choice, and she accepts it without question.
PHOTO BY Instagram/Heart EvangelistaHeart disclosed that her doctor wanted her body to naturally let the twins go, so she had to carry them in her womb for four months. "It was the most horrible feeling thinking maybe God can bring them back to me, or me thinking am I not a good person for this to happen," Heart added.
CONTINUE READING BELOWwatch now"Now coming to my IG and posting a comment on a pic that has nothing to do with that is hurtful. To even ask or shove it down, my throat is unthinkable or doesn't say much about you as a woman," she stressed.
Heart said she's very happy with her life, with or without a baby. "I have a loving family, a home, a solid relationship with God. Contentment is what I have and that my dear is hard to achieve," she said.
Having a miscarriage early in pregnancy is more common than people think. Most cases of miscarriage can’t be prevented. Still, women who go through are often angry, blame themselves, and doubt their ability to conceive again.
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