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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #45 on: July 16, 2010, 08:24:47 am »

ay mga mommies.. problema ko din ito... gustong gustong gusto ko na itigil breastfeed eh para makainom na ako nung slimming coffee at diet pills hahaha!

Sis parehong pareho tau hahah..gusto ko din magpapayat kaya gusto ko na itigil BF ko.d kasi puwede mga diet pills. Pag may nagsasabing "ang taba mu na sobra" napapaisip ako stop na nga BF pra makainom ng diet pills(d ko kasi kaya bawasan pagkain ubos energy kay baby) PEro at the end ayoko pa din iniisip ko pa din baby ko. Kawawa naman ska sayang ang milk sobrang tipid ako..small can lang gastos ko a week sa gatas. Bongga diba? :) Yaan mu nang mataba ako. :)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #46 on: July 16, 2010, 08:32:30 am »

ako naman sis mixed. Kahit pdeng puro bote na sha, bf pa din ako. iba yung fulfillment na nakukuha ko.
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #47 on: July 16, 2010, 08:40:26 am »

hi again mommies! yun nga, wait nalang natin na kusa silang umayaw dumede, kasi habang may milk tayo go! dami jan ibang mommies di makabreastfeed diba? diet talaga no after manganak! hehe.. di pa ako pwede mag diet, after pa nga lang magpump or dumede ni baby, gutom na gutom nako eh. grabe noh. super bonding din un, pag dumede siya, hawak niya yung isang dede. tinatakpan ko na nga ng kamay ko, kasi masakit eh, nilalaro niya..hahaha
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #48 on: July 16, 2010, 09:38:02 am »

ay actually mga sis.. ako prob ko din yan.. kasi 1 yr and 1 mth na ang baby ko still bf pa din sya... so far hindi naman sya ngkakaron ng grabeng sakit... ok naman sya health at kahit may sakit siya hindi siya yung matamlay talaga... medyo hirap kasi siymepre lumalaki na sya still sa kin pa din sya nkadepend.. though ok lang naman kasi bonding na namin un ni baby ang prob lang don baka mangutong sya kasi while bf hawak din niya yung isang side ng nipple kaya tinatakpan ko din yung isang side... besides sabi naman nila mas better daw un.. kc pag ngkakasakit baby ko at hnd pwede ng formula milk breastmilk at least meron akong pag support sa kanya
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should i give up BF???
« Reply #49 on: September 02, 2011, 02:42:58 pm »

huhuhu, nkakafrustrate na talaga mga mommies..  :'(
yung baby ko po 19 days palang po..pero di siya marunong mgsuck sakin, siguro dahil maliit yung nipples ko. ngtry na po akong mgpump, ok naman po, pero now peang kkomokonti na yung milk prod . ko..bumili din po kami ni hubby ng nipple puller at nipple shield, pero aaw pa din niya..huhuhu..gustong gusto ko po talagang mgfull time BF pro parang ayaw talaga ni baby.help naman po. bka may iba pang praan, pra makapagBF ako..kasi po, im thinking na igive up na lang yung BF kung di na talaga mgwowork..huhuhu..nakakafrustrate talaga! i hope my mgreply. thanks po! godbless..  :(
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Re: should i give up BF???
« Reply #50 on: September 02, 2011, 05:39:42 pm »

wag sis.. wag kang susuko.. kaya mo yan :) baby is so young and matututo pa yan mag suck sau.. basta continue offering him your breasts..if ang reason is nahihirapan sha dahil maliit yung nipple mo, then i exercise mo daily un nipple.. mostly naman pag first time, talagang hindi pa ganong naka pop out ang nipple, kaya others use nipple shield or something..pero swear sa katagalan aangat din yan.. continue lang sis.. sayang ang BM.. kahit sana up to 6 months :)
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #51 on: September 03, 2011, 11:43:40 am »

merged topics about wanting to stop BFding.
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #52 on: September 03, 2011, 11:49:11 am »

Please read these inspiring stories of three moms who battled challenging situations in order to breastfeed their children.
Breastfeeding against All Odds


http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/mom-dad/breastfeeding/sharing-milk-stories/breastfeeding-against-all-odds
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Re: should i give up BF???
« Reply #53 on: September 03, 2011, 12:57:00 pm »

wag sis.. wag kang susuko.. kaya mo yan :) baby is so young and matututo pa yan mag suck sau.. basta continue offering him your breasts..if ang reason is nahihirapan sha dahil maliit yung nipple mo, then i exercise mo daily un nipple.. mostly naman pag first time, talagang hindi pa ganong naka pop out ang nipple, kaya others use nipple shield or something..pero swear sa katagalan aangat din yan.. continue lang sis.. sayang ang BM.. kahit sana up to 6 months :)

sana nga po! every morning ngdudwelo (term ko po sa pagtatry kong ipasuck yung breast ko kay bebe, nahihirapan kasi kami preho :) ) kami ni baby..hay! sana nga po matututo na siya, for the mean time, ngpupump pa rin po ako, sayang kasi talaga..gusto ko man mggive up na, pero nanghihinayang din kasi hehe, salamt po sa suporta! :)
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #54 on: September 05, 2011, 01:09:54 pm »

ako din sis i'll support you. continue lang but for the meantime pump mo na lang muna ng pump para atleast BM pa din naiinom niya and nai-stimulate pa din   breasts mo. i have a friend na pumping lang gnawa niya hndi daw sya nagla-latch kay baby niya pero nkpag pump sya til 6mos baby niya, working mom pa sya nun ah.. hope this will inspire you. i realized sis ang BFing talaga is super sacrifice on our part with strong determination talaga kaya dont ever give up. =)
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #55 on: September 06, 2011, 12:41:45 am »

My daughter is now 1 year and 8 months and she's still being breastfed. At first, I thought it was hard. Marinig ko pa lang ang salitang 2 years, sobrang natatagalan na ko pero sa umpisa lang pala yun. Once you get used to it, sisiw na lang. I was also under medication when I started pero hindi naging hindrance yun for me to breastfeed her. Until now, I'm enjoying it. Problem ko lang is sobrang payat ko naman. Para bang naubos na lahat ng katas ko.:) Kung nakaya ko at ng iba, kaya nyo rin!:)
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #56 on: September 06, 2011, 02:08:20 am »

^agree with you mommy! ako naman almost 23 months ng nagpapa breastfeed sa baby ko and looks like i'm not going to stop anytime soon. mukhang di pa kasi ready si baby na mag wean. till now i'm still expressing milk sa office kasi she refuses to drink formula milk. tried several brands of milk ayaw talaga niya so i need to pump talaga so that she'll be able to have her milk pag wala ako. inggot ako sa yo kasi pumayat ka. ako naman kabaliktaran. feeling ko lalo akong naging blimp kasi kain ako ng kain. hehe...

para maginig successful talaga in breastfeeding dapat maging determined ka. hindi lang kasi gusto mo mag breastfeed and dahil sabi ng mga tao sa paligid na breastmilk is the best. pwede kasing gusto mo lang but the determination and commitment are not there. walang mangyayari pag ganun.
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #57 on: March 30, 2012, 09:24:23 am »

^ agree ako sayo sis. DETERMINATION talaga and COMMITMENT. I applaud all breastfeeding mommies! especially working mommies who pumps at work... all the best for the babies talaga..
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #58 on: May 02, 2012, 06:10:54 am »

@malyn07 - hindi kaya nipple confused si baby kaya ayaw mag latch? increase mo din yung skin to skin contact mo with your baby sis para ma encourage sya mag bfeed.
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Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« Reply #59 on: July 28, 2012, 10:47:02 pm »

Ako naman gusto ko icontinue breastfeed si baby kasu hindi nako nawalan ng pimples since nag buntis ako until now meron parin kahit anung facial ko at gumamit ng topical antibiotic walang effect pero yung single ako syempre makinis ang mukha ko...na dedepressed na ako minsan kaya nag decide ako mag stop na  :-[

kaso parang wala na syang ibang gatas na gusto kundi yung akin lang nahihirapan ako mag desisyon feeling ko tuloy na paka unreasonable at selfish ako. kaso yung confident ko sa sarili ko na wala na dahil sa mga pimples na to
tama ba yung gagawin ko iniisip ko din baka hindi uminum ng gatas yung anak ko at mangayayat at mag kasakit :-\ hay
pero lumalaki na ang baby ko parang di  na yata magandang dumedede parin sya sakin..
mga moms sa tingin nyo?
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