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thansher01

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Re: my baby is aloof from other people
« Reply #15 on: November 12, 2009, 12:14:56 am »

sis, nangingilala lang si baby mo. same lang tayo ng situation..

pag vivisit kami sa ILs ko umiiyak talga si Tyler. as in. nahihiya nga ako sa FIL ko kasi ayaw niya talgang sumama. kasi naman parang ermitanyo yung FIL ko. haba ng buhok tapos may mustache and balbas pa. heheh! sa lahat ng tao sa haws ng ILs ko hindi agad sasama si Tyler.

pero sa family ko super active sya. he'll play with his cousins and sasama sya sa aunts and uncles ko..

ganun lang siguro pag minsan lang makakita ang ibang tao..
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Re: my baby is aloof from other people
« Reply #16 on: November 12, 2009, 06:14:53 pm »

Sis minsan may advantage din n hindi basta basta sumasama si bebe s iba kasi hindi siya makikidnap  ;D ;D ;D

Kidding lang po.
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Re: my baby is aloof from other people
« Reply #17 on: November 12, 2009, 07:26:14 pm »

^wow,,ang galing naman ni sis chie,,
naalala ko tuloy nung college ako,bout erickson theory,,napastrict ng prof namin,,lage ako takot,
antway,,same with my pamangkin,,pag dumalaw lola niya from province,,ayaw tumingin at kung titigan talaga siya,supper makaiyak,,ayaw talaga niya makita yung lola niya na yun,,tas ang sama pa ng tingin sa kanya,,
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Re: my baby is aloof from other people
« Reply #18 on: November 12, 2009, 08:02:56 pm »

hi sis mhami_dhadi (hehe..bro na lang kulang ah..just kidding! :D) you try to expose your baby sa mga tao para ma-familiarize sya na hindi lang yung mga kasama niya sa house ang tao sa paligid. it's natural sa mga babies na nangingilala and aloof sa ibang tao wether kilala nila or not especially kung di nila laging nakakasama but it helps kung ilalabas nyo sya lagi para ma-expose din sya sa ibang tao and madevelop yung social skills niya kahit baby pa sya. like pag morning paaraw kayo sa labas and sa mall..with my baby dati super ms.friendship sya pero nung malapit na syang mag-one yr. old til now may mga certain people na lang syang sinasamahan and yung iba nyang kilala ayaw niya inaaway niya like my mom. kaya lagi ko syang pinapasyal sa bahay ng mom ko para ma-familiarize sya sa mga tao dun. and habang lumalaki si baby minsan pasamahin (basta you're around din) or ipakarga mo rin sa iba mong relatives and friends kahit umiyak (saglit na iyak lang pag ayaw tumigil kunin mo na lang ulit,hehe..) para kalaunan masanay din. ;)
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Re: takot sa ibang tao baby ko
« Reply #19 on: November 13, 2009, 01:52:23 am »

Same topic threads merged.
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Re: takot sa ibang tao baby ko
« Reply #20 on: November 13, 2009, 09:58:45 am »

pero minsan mga sis, ang sarap sa pakiramdam ko na ganun siya kasi feeling ko talaga alam niya na mommy niya ako at love na love niya ako..kahit na lang sa paghalakhak, namimili sya..smile lang sya sa ibang tao pag nilalaro sya..sa akin, halakhak talaga ng bonggang bongga..;D ;D kaso nakakaawa si hubby.ginagawa niya naman lahat para mapalapit sa baby namin..aalis na naman sya pero ganun pa rin si baby sa kanya..
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« Reply #21 on: January 29, 2011, 02:42:33 am »

Hi moms, just wanted to ask if nangingilala yung babies ninyo? If so, how many months?
My baby kasi is only fond of those people na hindi masyado dominant yung ugali or dating. Like my parents, brother ko, syempre bf ko and lahat ng tao na andito sa bahay pero pag yung mga taong dominant, like MIL ko or lola ko, ayaw niya. (dominant yung personality ha).
Actually medyo happy ako sa ginagawa niya , medyo ang mean, kaso itong mga taong to kasi hindi ganun kabait sakin. ewan ko kung napakapsychological lang, pero parang yung anak ko yung naglalabas ng hinanakit ko sakanila.
My daughter Aiden is 5 months na, and nagsstart siya magwala a few minutes after kargahin siya ng someone. Hindi siya iyakin na baby pero first time ko siya makita ngayon na nagwawala and umiiyak ng bongga with tears just because my kumarga sakanya.
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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #22 on: January 29, 2011, 05:17:45 am »

mommy mixx, 5 months din nagstart baby ko magkaroon ng stranger anxiety. Hindi rin sya iyakin. But nung me ibang taong kumarga sa kanya, di naman sya nagwala, slowly naiiyak sya and hanap niya ako or daddy niya. And ayaw din niya yung noisy, loud people na todo magpansin sa kanya lalo pag first time pa nakita.
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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #23 on: January 29, 2011, 10:07:49 am »

ano ba yung stranger anxiety moms? kasi baby ko turning 7mos and very friendly. kahit sino kumarga, go lang. kakainis nga minsan eh. hehe pero after mga 30mins or pag matagal tagal na, naiiyak na and naghahanap na sakin.. yun na ba yun?? same din, kahit sino maglaro sakanya smile ng smile, pakyut. feeling ng mga tao "special" sila kasi napangiti nila agad pero hindi nila alam ganun lang talaga si baby, hindi mapili. tsk.

mommy mixx, baka baby aiden feels you don't like your MIL, tapos ayaw na din niya sakanya. sana ganyan din baby ko. hahaha joke.  :P

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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #24 on: January 29, 2011, 10:19:14 am »

^correct mommy ainge88! malamang nafefeel ni baby aiden yung feelings ni mommy mixx. para siya ang gumaganti for her mom, ay ang bad ko naman. hehe. gusto ko nga din ganyan baby ko, iiyak siya dapat ng sobrang lakas kapag binuhat siya ng "someone" na hindi ko gusto until now ;D
 
yung baby ko nung Christmas at 6 months hindi nangilala nung binuhat siya ng relatives ni hubby na first time niyang nakita. ngiti nga ng ngiti kahit hindi na siya tinitignan.
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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #25 on: January 29, 2011, 11:05:37 am »

stranger anxiety yung iiyak pag hawak ng iba. may nagsabi sa akin na it usually starts around 7 months onwards. pero some babies may have this earlier.
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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #26 on: January 29, 2011, 04:56:34 pm »

mommy mixx, yes may mga baby na tlagang nangingilala.. strangers anxiety ang tawag nga.. My friend (nurse) told me n talagang by 6 months magkakaroon ng stranger anxiety ang baby.. matatapos daw yun by 8th to 9th month ni baby..

My baby started to have stranger anxiety when she's 5 1/2 months, hay naku ako lang at yung MIL ko ang nakakakarga.. pero napaka friendly at smile sya ng smile kapag binabati sya ng mga tao, but once na kinarga sya ng ibang tao ayun.. cry cry cry...

kaya ang bagsak saken den.. minsan d tuloy ako mapahinga. ayoko naman magkaroon ng Yaya kc ayoko na mas malapit pa ang baby ko sa yaya kesa sa aken at sa daddy niya..

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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #27 on: January 29, 2011, 07:45:48 pm »

yes,I agree with all the mommies here...
this is one of my problem before nung si ate ko ang nag-alaga kay baby ko,whole day ako nasa work and minsan pagdating ko sa bahay it will took my son quite sometime para makilala niya ako...
then even mga tao sa labas lalo na yung mga lalaki and with big voice talagang natatakot sya...

in time like 9th to 10 mos it will go away naman na,when they want to play most of the time.
just don't let aiden na may kumarga sa kanya na takot sya,hindi din naman advisable na lagi syang ibigay to someone na takot sya para ma-overcome yung anxiety niya eh.let that someone play with aiden muna habang hawak mo or someone na she's comfortable with,
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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #28 on: January 29, 2011, 08:08:51 pm »

my baby also started mangilala when she was 5 months, that was nung umuwi kami ng province the first time, nung kinarga sya ng atay at inay ko, umiyak sobra ng malakas pero pg kinukua ko tumitigil..pero sandali lang after a few a hours, nung na familiarize na sya sumasama na sya,,
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Re: Nangingilala
« Reply #29 on: January 30, 2011, 12:24:29 am »

my son was around 6 to 7 months nung nangilala. pero hindi naman siya umiiyak, tinititigan lang niya yung kumakarga sa kanya.

pero one time, nung kinarga siya ng auntie ko, umiyak siya ng malakas. ewan ko pero dahil siguro sa makapal na kilay (drawing lang) ng auntie ko saka makapal na eyeliner... natakot anak ko!  ;D
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