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Title: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: MoMster on June 09, 2008, 09:56:39 pm
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hey moms..curious lang din about this thing, is it possible to know the conception date? im reading some articles sa web and i want naman po mga ideas ninyo.kx our doctors, they are starting talaga sa first day of the last menstruation di po ba?kaya po bang madetermine and date of conception from this and para malaman ang due date?lalo na dun sa mga women na nkalimutan or di siguro un exact date ng last menstruation nila...

another thing, my due date is on aug 3, is it true na you have to deduct 7 days from your due date and count 3 mos. forward para malaman ang exact date ng last menstruation mo? kx for me parang tugma nga..

il be waiting for your replies mga mommmies!


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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: April Lachica on June 11, 2008, 10:55:27 pm
from your last menstrual period, you deduct 3 from the month and add 7 from the day.
example: your LMP is April 15, 2008, translated as:
4 - 11 - 08
-3  +7
__________
1 - 18  of the next year.

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on June 12, 2008, 10:28:41 pm
I used an online pregnancy calendar. I used the one in my yahoo. There's also at pregnancy.com or you can search google for pregnancy calendar. You will just enter your last mens period or your conception date and your no of days/cycle.
the pregnancy calendar in yahoo works. we followed my most fertile day among the 4 fertile days and voila! Positive na me in 2 weeks.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: tineped on September 03, 2008, 04:44:44 pm
I think it's proper to ask my question posted on another topic here. For first time moms, due date is given with a +/- 2 weeks. How accurate is this +/- 2 weeks? I can't decide very well on when to file my maternity leave.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: maine12 on September 12, 2008, 11:19:59 pm
Very important talaga na alam natin 1st day ng last mens natin kasi jan talaga ngbase ang mga OB para makuha EDC (expected day of confinement) and AOG (age of gestation) ng mga babies

Eto din kasi alam ko.
To compute your EDC
*get 1st day of your last mens

example: LMP- May 23, 2007 

               5    22  07
             -3   +7   +1 constant ito
       EDC= 2    29  08

*yan din kasi tinuro sa amin dati.nursing student ako (as far as I can remember ha, almost 1 year na din kasi ako ngstop since maging mommy)

I think it's proper to ask my question posted on another topic here. For first time moms, due date is given with a +/- 2 weeks. How accurate is this +/- 2 weeks? I can't decide very well on when to file my maternity leave.

first time mom here, my parents & OB  also told me about the +/-2 weeks. My EDC then was Feb 29, 2008 but I gave birth at March 08,2008 (that's about a week after induced & stat CS but close to the EDC on my 1st utz which is March 12). My OB said the first & earliest ultrasound edc is the most accurate, so I think it might help if you use it as reference/basis as to when to file your maternity leave, or better yet ask your OB about it.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: tineped on September 14, 2008, 02:13:41 pm
Mommy maine12, due ko kasi is November 9. My OB advised that the earliest date I could give birth is October 19 kaya gusto ni hubby 3rd week pa lang ng Oct mag ML na ko. Worry ko lang eh what if 2 weeks after pa ko manganak sayang yung nagamit kong ML.Mas nagamit ko pa sana yun sa pagpapabreastfeed. puwede kaya magrequest sa OB ko na magpaultrasound before the 3rd week of Oct para mas malaman kailan?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: elsa08 on September 14, 2008, 02:43:25 pm
hey moms..curious lang din about this thing, is it possible to know the conception date? im reading some articles sa web and i want naman po mga ideas ninyo.kx our doctors, they are starting talaga sa first day of the last menstruation di po ba?kaya po bang madetermine and date of conception from this and para malaman ang due date?lalo na dun sa mga women na nkalimutan or di siguro un exact date ng last menstruation nila...

another thing, my due date is on aug 3, is it true na you have to deduct 7 days from your due date and count 3 mos. forward para malaman ang exact date ng last menstruation mo? kx for me parang tugma nga..

il be waiting for your replies mga mommmies!

hi, yun sa kin kasi, yun LMP ko is too early from the age of gestation kaya when i had my early ultrasound around 6 weeks, late yung age of gestation.. yung how to compute using the LMP as stated ng mga momsie here.. that's the way my OB also computed my EDD.. so i guess, the best way to know yun EDD is through ultrasound..  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: maine12 on September 17, 2008, 10:13:20 am
Mommy maine12, due ko kasi is November 9. My OB advised that the earliest date I could give birth is October 19 kaya gusto ni hubby 3rd week pa lang ng Oct mag ML na ko. Worry ko lang eh what if 2 weeks after pa ko manganak sayang yung nagamit kong ML.Mas nagamit ko pa sana yun sa pagpapabreastfeed. puwede kaya magrequest sa OB ko na magpaultrasound before the 3rd week of Oct para mas malaman kailan?

pag naman malapit na yung due date mas often na yung checkup mo sa OB sa baka malaman mo din kung lapit na lumabas si baby xe db may I.E parang may mga signs din naman yun na sasabihin sau OB mo, pero kasi yung sa ultrasound ang alam ko yung UNA at EARLIEST yung pinakaaccurate, natatandaan ko kasi yung mga latter utz ko parang mas late na ata yung edc ko dun (basta parang ganun, di ko na matandaan,,hehe) tanong mo na lang din si OB kasi dati yung nagpautz na malapit na due date para lang malaman kung ok pa yung amniotic fluid tska c baby...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mama_jo on September 17, 2008, 10:58:32 am
Mommy maine12, due ko kasi is November 9. My OB advised that the earliest date I could give birth is October 19 kaya gusto ni hubby 3rd week pa lang ng Oct mag ML na ko. Worry ko lang eh what if 2 weeks after pa ko manganak sayang yung nagamit kong ML.Mas nagamit ko pa sana yun sa pagpapabreastfeed. puwede kaya magrequest sa OB ko na magpaultrasound before the 3rd week of Oct para mas malaman kailan?

hello, based on my experience..hindi rin accurate ang ultrasound with regard to fetus age and estimated date of delivery...kz due date ko, as determine by my OB, was jan 16, 2008..january 14 was my check-up at close pa rin yong cervix ko kaya i was advised to have Ultrasound/BPS-to check baby's condition..january 15, my US/BPS and the result of the US/BPS: the baby's age - 36 weeks and estimated due date - Feb 16, 2008...very far from the EDD determined by my OB.  january 18, CS na ako kz overdue na at nakadumi na si baby...

just read/hear your body language...i mean, yong signs na malapit ka na mag-give birth, just ask your OB kung ano-anong signs yon...pag 1st baby naman daw, kahit sumakit na ang tummy (labor) di raw agad lalabas yan)...di ko kz yan naranasan, wala akong signs na na-feel at kahit overdue na, di pa rin ako nagli-labor kaya induce at na uwi rin sa CS..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: tineped on September 17, 2008, 11:18:08 am
Hayz, sayang kasi talaga pag napaaga ML ko. Ayoko abutan dito ang mahal sa Makati Med eh. hehe sayang yung matitipid. I will know din sa last check up ko sa OB ko dito. Pag malayo pa then 4th ng Oct na talaga ako mag ML. :D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: johnjoyce on May 29, 2009, 05:14:36 pm
hindi ko po kasi alam kung kelan safe or sure na ndie mppregnant eh.. sabi, 7 days after the period daw? or 7 days before the period? pano pag irregular? my baby is 2 months.. i'm afraid masundan kaagad sya..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommy shelaih on May 29, 2009, 06:40:21 pm
uhm ako 15days from the day of my 1st period yun yung fertile ako yuntalaga sinusunod ko kaya yung nagplan kami ni hubby magbaby nabuo.... nabasa ko rin sa book na pag fertile ka may lalabas sa v*g*na mo na parang egg white (yung parang white mens or filing mo wet) to know if ur fertile kuha ka sa finger tips mo then pagdikitin mo yung thumb at finger tips pag yung parang sipon sya na sumasama or nagdidikit ur fertile pag hindi dila nagdidikit or naghihiwalay agad ur not fertile.... sorry if hindi masyadong nice yung mga words hehe ;D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Miura on May 29, 2009, 08:07:54 pm
korak mommy she.. ;D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: sherolf on May 29, 2009, 08:54:09 pm
un nga din sabi sa kin, kaya lang takot din ako.. baka magkamali, mahirap na...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommielynne on May 30, 2009, 07:52:29 am
ang sabi sakin ng OB ko before if regular period mo 2 weeks from the 1st day of your period hindi ka safe. too bad irregular ako kaya use nalang other family planning method.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: johnjoyce on May 31, 2009, 02:51:29 pm
thanks sa info.. mahirap ata un aa? hehe.. lalo pg irreg.. slamat ndin mommy she.. na-gets Q naman eh.. hehe.. by the way, bago pic ah? hehe
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommy shelaih on May 31, 2009, 03:27:15 pm
hehe kasawa na yung old pic eh... mahirap nga ata pag irreg. ang period
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: gabneth on May 31, 2009, 11:19:03 pm
body temp ok din.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: newbie_mommie on June 01, 2009, 08:42:12 am
sis ang alam ko din hindi puwede ang calendar method kapag ireg ka.. ask ur ob nalang din to be sure.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: gwen's mom on June 03, 2009, 10:35:00 am
the 14th day of your menstruation is your most fertile day ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommykay on June 03, 2009, 11:25:47 am
Share lang po, I read few months ago n sperm cells daw po stays alive sa loob up to 3-5 days kaya if you into calendar method and 14th or 15th ang most fertile stop n po kyo at 10th day para safe po tyo  ;)

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: babylove on August 11, 2009, 04:31:39 pm
Sis, Feb 26, 2009 last LMP ko. Wen dapat due date ko?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: isayhesez on August 11, 2009, 04:46:37 pm
hi mommies.  :D i'm a doctor, although i'm not an OB. anyway, i'll try to shed some light on the issue the simplest way i can:

> you LMP (last menstrual period) is the first day of your last menses. they use this as a benchmark for determining your EDC (expected date of confinement).

> you are most fertile 14 days from the first day of your last menses (LMP), so most likely, you concieved then.

> to compute for the EDC, count 3 months back and add 7 days (like if your LMP is april 10 2009, your EDC will be jan 17, 2010) For mommy babylove your due date falls on dec 3, 2009. :D

> your EDC is marks the 40th week of your pregnancy. term pregnancy is to deliver 37-42 weeks. (this explains the +/- 2 weeks. preterm if less than 37. postterm if more than 42.


> if you really can't remember your LMP, the earliest ltrasound you had during your 2nd month of pregnancy would be the most accurate. towards the end of the pregnancy, they can also measure the size of the head, length of the limbs/legs, abdominal girth to determine the age of the baby.

i guess, that's pretty much it. please let me know, mommies, if there are other issues i can help you with. :D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: cutie_enzo on August 11, 2009, 06:05:49 pm
sis isayhesez said it all. :)

in my case, my LMP was Dec. 12, 2007 and my due date was calculated to be Sept 17, 2008. though i gave birth on Sept 21, 2008.

and I am pretty sure that my baby was conceived on Dec. 26, 2007 :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: babylove on August 12, 2009, 09:38:17 am
hi mommies.  :D i'm a doctor, although i'm not an OB. anyway, i'll try to shed some light on the issue the simplest way i can:

> you LMP (last menstrual period) is the first day of your last menses. they use this as a benchmark for determining your EDC (expected date of confinement).

> you are most fertile 14 days from the first day of your last menses (LMP), so most likely, you concieved then.

> to compute for the EDC, count 3 months back and add 7 days (like if your LMP is april 10 2009, your EDC will be jan 17, 2010) For mommy babylove your due date falls on dec 3, 2009. :D

> your EDC is marks the 40th week of your pregnancy. term pregnancy is to deliver 37-42 weeks. (this explains the +/- 2 weeks. preterm if less than 37. postterm if more than 42.


> if you really can't remember your LMP, the earliest ltrasound you had during your 2nd month of pregnancy would be the most accurate. towards the end of the pregnancy, they can also measure the size of the head, length of the limbs/legs, abdominal girth to determine the age of the baby.

i guess, that's pretty much it. please let me know, mommies, if there are other issues i can help you with. :D

thanks much! Huge help really. Ill be giving birth via C-Sec kaya i want to know the most accurate if not exact EDD. True ba na 2weeks before the EDD dapat me mggive birth. We're planning to have it by Dec 1. Abot pa kaya or mdyo risky na bka mglabor na ko?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: isayhesez on August 12, 2009, 11:08:07 am
hi mommies.  :D i'm a doctor, although i'm not an OB. anyway, i'll try to shed some light on the issue the simplest way i can:

> you LMP (last menstrual period) is the first day of your last menses. they use this as a benchmark for determining your EDC (expected date of confinement).

> you are most fertile 14 days from the first day of your last menses (LMP), so most likely, you concieved then.

> to compute for the EDC, count 3 months back and add 7 days (like if your LMP is april 10 2009, your EDC will be jan 17, 2010) For mommy babylove your due date falls on dec 3, 2009. :D

> your EDC is marks the 40th week of your pregnancy. term pregnancy is to deliver 37-42 weeks. (this explains the +/- 2 weeks. preterm if less than 37. postterm if more than 42.


> if you really can't remember your LMP, the earliest ltrasound you had during your 2nd month of pregnancy would be the most accurate. towards the end of the pregnancy, they can also measure the size of the head, length of the limbs/legs, abdominal girth to determine the age of the baby.

i guess, that's pretty much it. please let me know, mommies, if there are other issues i can help you with. :D

thanks much! Huge help really. Ill be giving birth via C-Sec kaya i want to know the most accurate if not exact EDD. True ba na 2weeks before the EDD dapat me mggive birth. We're planning to have it by Dec 1. Abot pa kaya or mdyo risky na bka mglabor na ko?

hi mommy babylove. actually, your OB will decide if she wants to do the CS once you hit 37 weeks (bec the baby's term already by that time). it really depends on the reason why you're having CS. I had my CS because i was already in my 41st week and i'm not feeling anything 'labor-like'.  ;D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: babylove on August 12, 2009, 11:42:25 am
This is my 2nd child. CS me with the first one din. My Ob told us nga na 2 weeks before the EDD ok na. Anyways, sana unabot sa Dec 1. thanks much sis!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: 4getmenot on August 21, 2009, 03:54:21 pm
hello mommies!!!
safe bang mag do after ng meanstration?  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: stargazer on August 22, 2009, 02:40:28 pm
I got this from one of the threads. Its very easy to follow:

onset of menses                      unsafe period

        1                                                   9-18                 
        2                                                  10-19
        3                                                  11-20
        4                                                  12-21
        5                                                  13-22
        6                                                  14-23
        7                                                  15-24
        8                                                  16-25
        9                                                  17-26
      10                                                  18-27
      11                                                  19-28
      12                                                  20-29
      13                                                  21-30
      14                                                  22-31
      15                                                  23-1
      16                                                  24-2
      17                                                  25-3
      18                                                  26-4
      19                                                  27-5
      20                                                  28-6
      21                                                  29-7
      22                                                  30-8
      23                                                  31-9
      24                                                  1-10
      25                                                  2-11
      26                                                  3-12
      27                                                  4-13
      28                                                  5-14
      29                                                  6-15
      30                                                  7-16
      31                                                  8-17

madali lang yan! ONSET OF MENSES IS THE DAY WEN U START UR MENS, UNSAFE PERIOD yan yung date na di ka dapat pagalaw sa partner mo, rest of the date is ur safe period.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yvaughne on August 22, 2009, 08:40:39 pm
mommy trulala da 2??
kc d na ko puwede pills 5 yrs na ko stright so hanap me iba fp naka patch ako today kc takot nga ko sobrang delayed ako pero nagkarron ako today as in effective to??
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: bhebenigerald on August 23, 2009, 04:10:56 pm
Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yvaughne on August 23, 2009, 07:40:20 pm
hmm i think kung pagbabasehan mo yung 1week before and 1 week after i think safe ka... pero ang tamang inomon pills is 2 weeks dapat me iba pang form of contraception un ang pinakasafe pag bago ka lang iinom.....
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yvaughne on August 23, 2009, 08:26:53 pm
Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....

mommy i think since wala naman na bf mo stop ka na take pills kc ako sa daughter ko ganyan nangyari i got pregnant while on pills (not pregnant b4 i took pills and my ob confirmed it na nabuntis lang ako during that month).. kc nag stop ako tapos uminom unlit ako den dapat pala yan 1st day ng mens mo iinomin tapos for 2 weeks dapat me ibang form of contraception kang gamit after 2 weeks un safe na talaga un.. i suggest u ask your doctor una mali na agad yung pag inom mo... pills kc should be taken on the 1st day or 2nd day ng mens pagbago ka lang iinom..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: bhebenigerald on August 24, 2009, 08:36:10 am
^^
Thanks sa advise mommy yvaughne...actually mas lalo akong kinakabahan hehe.. Yong mga symptoms kasi nong nabuntis ako nararamdaman ko na naman ngayon although its too early pa to end into conclusion. Yong parang namimigat puson ko. Maybe epekto din to ng pills.  May I ask mommy, healthy naman ba si baby pag labas niya, wala bang birth defect na cause ng  tinake mong contraceptive pills?

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: precios on August 24, 2009, 08:51:28 am
i have nothing to say,,d sko marunong sa ganyan eh,,,,
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on August 24, 2009, 10:11:13 am
I think it's safe.  It's been working for us for 7 years now.  This is why we get excited and we look forward after a period. 

Here's why I think it's safe.

A period is simply some sort of a room refreshment.  A woman's body has determined that no conception/pregnancy had occured so it's clean up time.  Replace those "red curtains" please.  It will take another fertility cycle before the body can welcome another possibility of bringing in a new life to the world. 

Here's how I understand it:


Concentrate na lang tayo siguro sa presence or absense ng cervical mucus.  This type of Natural Family Planning is called Billings or Cervical Mucus (CM) Method.  To make it simple...be conscious starting from the time you wake up and go to the bathroom in the morning...and if possible all throughout the day. 

It's almost always dry, which means that you are not fertile.  If sperms gets inside, they will not stand the acidic environment and die.

Inside the womb blood gradually fills and gathers on the walls.

If the mucus is slippery

Wait, this is not lubrication from being sexually stimulated ha. 

This is the fluid secretion on those days where you decide to use liners/shields.  A slippery mucus means that you have a protective, nourishing fluid for sperms to swim into.  If you want to have more children, this is where you might want to focus or schedule everything. 

Women are said to be more sensitive and easily stimulated during these 4 to 6 days.  In the middle of these days, A woman releases an egg.  This egg will travel through the fallopian tube in a fluid that resembles a wedding gown.  She will meet or await just one out of millions of sperms. 

When semen is deposited inside

Semen will contain millions of sperms.  They will "ride" the slippery mucus inside and rush to the opening of the cervix.  If the egg and a sperm meets, conception will occur and a new life begins. 

The fertilized egg will bury itself on the blankets of blood inside the womb.

If a contraceptive (like a pill) had been used, the chemical would have made the womb dry.

The new life - your little one - will not be able to hold on to anything inside the womb...thus abortion happens.

If the egg does not meet a sperm immediately
, it will remain in the womb and wait.  If it still doesn't get fertilized, it will come out on your next menstruation period.

Going back up to having slippery mucus.

If it seems dry today but you remember you had fluid secretions yesterday.  Consider it a fertile day (2-Day Method).

After days with slippery mucus, it will be dry again and this will be until you have a sticky type of mucus and your mentruation period. 

We cannot tell if there is a slippery type of mucus during menstruation days, so these are considered like fertile days.

Basically, one can only be pregnant if:


Contraception/pills use chemicals to try to:

Natural Family Planning enables us to:

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: 4getmenot on August 24, 2009, 12:52:25 pm
I got this from one of the threads. Its very easy to follow:

onset of menses                      unsafe period

        1                                                   9-18                 
        2                                                  10-19
        3                                                  11-20
        4                                                  12-21
        5                                                  13-22
        6                                                  14-23
        7                                                  15-24
        8                                                  16-25
        9                                                  17-26
      10                                                  18-27
      11                                                  19-28
      12                                                  20-29
      13                                                  21-30
      14                                                  22-31
      15                                                  23-1
      16                                                  24-2
      17                                                  25-3
      18                                                  26-4
      19                                                  27-5
      20                                                  28-6
      21                                                  29-7
      22                                                  30-8
      23                                                  31-9
      24                                                  1-10
      25                                                  2-11
      26                                                  3-12
      27                                                  4-13
      28                                                  5-14
      29                                                  6-15
      30                                                  7-16
      31                                                  8-17

madali lang yan! ONSET OF MENSES IS THE DAY WEN U START UR MENS, UNSAFE PERIOD yan yung date na di ka dapat pagalaw sa partner mo, rest of the date is ur safe period.


thanks stargazer, itatry ko eto  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: 4getmenot on August 24, 2009, 12:54:42 pm
I think it's safe.  It's been working for us for 7 years now.  This is why we get excited and we look forward after a period. 

Here's why I think it's safe.

A period is simply some sort of a room refreshment.  A woman's body has determined that no conception/pregnancy had occured so it's clean up time.  Replace those "red curtains" please.  It will take another fertility cycle before the body can welcome another possibility of bringing in a new life to the world. 

Here's how I understand it:

  • Safe days
  • Fertile, slippery mucus days
  • Safe days
  • Sticky mucus days
  • Red, menses days
  • Go back to 1

Concentrate na lang tayo siguro sa presence or absense ng cervical mucus.  This type of Natural Family Planning is called Billings or Cervical Mucus (CM) Method.  To make it simple...be conscious starting from the time you wake up and go to the bathroom in the morning...and if possible all throughout the day. 

It's almost always dry, which means that you are not fertile.  If sperms gets inside, they will not stand the acidic environment and die.

Inside the womb blood gradually fills and gathers on the walls.

If the mucus is slippery

Wait, this is not lubrication from being sexually stimulated ha. 

This is the fluid secretion on those days where you decide to use liners/shields.  A slippery mucus means that you have a protective, nourishing fluid for sperms to swim into.  If you want to have more children, this is where you might want to focus or schedule everything. 

Women are said to be more sensitive and easily stimulated during these 4 to 6 days.  In the middle of these days, A woman releases an egg.  This egg will travel through the fallopian tube in a fluid that resembles a wedding gown.  She will meet or await just one out of millions of sperms. 

When semen is deposited inside

Semen will contain millions of sperms.  They will "ride" the slippery mucus inside and rush to the opening of the cervix.  If the egg and a sperm meets, conception will occur and a new life begins. 

The fertilized egg will bury itself on the blankets of blood inside the womb.

If a contraceptive (like a pill) had been used, the chemical would have made the womb dry.

The new life - your little one - will not be able to hold on to anything inside the womb...thus abortion happens.

If the egg does not meet a sperm immediately
, it will remain in the womb and wait.  If it still doesn't get fertilized, it will come out on your next menstruation period.

Going back up to having slippery mucus.

If it seems dry today but you remember you had fluid secretions yesterday.  Consider it a fertile day (2-Day Method).

After days with slippery mucus, it will be dry again and this will be until you have a sticky type of mucus and your mentruation period. 

We cannot tell if there is a slippery type of mucus during menstruation days, so these are considered like fertile days.

Basically, one can only be pregnant if:

  • there's sperm
  • there's slippery mucus
  • there's still blood on the walls of the womb

Contraception/pills use chemicals to try to:
  • kill the sperm
  • thicken the cervical mucus so no sperm can fertilize it
  • dry up the womb so the new life can't implant and get aborted

Natural Family Planning enables us to:
  • know more about our body and how a new life comes to the world
  • find the right time, perfect moment to bond wih the one we love
  • give our whole self, without reservation or worries



thanks daddy jojo...  ;D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on August 24, 2009, 01:36:38 pm
Hi Bhebe,

Ingat please.  Kung after lovemaking ka nag-take ng contraceptive, that could be considered as an attempt to perform an abortion.  This is on a general sense ha.  From what I know, contraceptives are used on a certain length of period for the purpose of controlling the entire process of fertility.  Hindi yata ito parang gamot sa sakit ng tiyan na iinumin to relieve the pain. 

You said that this was after your period, so I believe there was no possibility of getting pregnant.  The unfertilized egg you released earlier and stayed with the blood on the walls inside your womb had already left your body on the first two days of your period.  You could not have produced a new egg immediately after that, the process takes days. 

However, if this happened during days when you could get pregnant, you could have an egg that was fertilized, hence a new life...and taking contraceptives/pills would be an attempt to kill what is already a person inside of you.

Please learn about fertility and reproductive health.  Learning how your body undergoes the process may even be an interesting time for bonding.  There is so much to discover, many of them are rather intimate or even romantic.  Involve your boyfriend and tell him what is going on with your body and his...you might discover how you have been wonderfully and beautifully created. Cheers!


Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: riddermark on August 24, 2009, 02:29:20 pm

i hope calendar will work for me  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommytoni29 on August 24, 2009, 04:39:39 pm
sis ibig sbhin b k2ld ko ngkroon ako yesterday aug. 23 d ako pwede mgpglw ng august 31-sept. 9
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: bhebenigerald on August 24, 2009, 04:58:22 pm
Hi Bhebe,

Ingat please.  Kung after lovemaking ka nag-take ng contraceptive, that could be considered as an attempt to perform an abortion.  This is on a general sense ha.  From what I know, contraceptives are used on a certain length of period for the purpose of controlling the entire process of fertility.  Hindi yata ito parang gamot sa sakit ng tiyan na iinumin to relieve the pain. 

You said that this was after your period, so I believe there was no possibility of getting pregnant.  The unfertilized egg you released earlier and stayed with the blood on the walls inside your womb had already left your body on the first two days of your period.  You could not have produced a new egg immediately after that, the process takes days. 

However, if this happened during days when you could get pregnant, you could have an egg that was fertilized, hence a new life...and taking contraceptives/pills would be an attempt to kill what is already a person inside of you.

Please learn about fertility and reproductive health.  Learning how your body undergoes the process may even be an interesting time for bonding.  There is so much to discover, many of them are rather intimate or even romantic.  Involve your boyfriend and tell him what is going on with your body and his...you might discover how you have been wonderfully and beautifully created. Cheers!

Hi Daddy Jojo,

You're absolutely right. What I've done is actually 2nd remedy to prevent on getting pregnant kaso palpak din pala. Now I learned but very worried. I'm not scared of getting pregnant naman talaga, what i'm frighten about is baka maulit yong nangyari sakin 5 months ago( i had miscarriage it was threatened abortion ). Ang advise kasi ng OB ko non, di pa ako pedeng mag buntis 6  months to 1 year. Nakaka phobia maging pasyente lalo na mawalan ng magiging anak! Anyway, gusto ko narin naman tlagang magka-anak na. ;D
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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on August 24, 2009, 05:27:40 pm
Hi uli,

Quick tips.  1. May surpirse gift na malaking grasya (grace) si Lord if you get married ha.  Romantic pa kung kayo lang ng boyfriend mo and the priest sa church (side altar wedding ba tawag don). 2. Mas okay kung planadong mabuti yung day na you will want to conceive your child (identify your fertile day schedule doon ang do).

Hi Bhebe,

Ingat please.  Kung after lovemaking ka nag-take ng contraceptive, that could be considered as an attempt to perform an abortion.  This is on a general sense ha.  From what I know, contraceptives are used on a certain length of period for the purpose of controlling the entire process of fertility.  Hindi yata ito parang gamot sa sakit ng tiyan na iinumin to relieve the pain. 

You said that this was after your period, so I believe there was no possibility of getting pregnant.  The unfertilized egg you released earlier and stayed with the blood on the walls inside your womb had already left your body on the first two days of your period.  You could not have produced a new egg immediately after that, the process takes days. 

However, if this happened during days when you could get pregnant, you could have an egg that was fertilized, hence a new life...and taking contraceptives/pills would be an attempt to kill what is already a person inside of you.

Please learn about fertility and reproductive health.  Learning how your body undergoes the process may even be an interesting time for bonding.  There is so much to discover, many of them are rather intimate or even romantic.  Involve your boyfriend and tell him what is going on with your body and his...you might discover how you have been wonderfully and beautifully created. Cheers!

Hi Daddy Jojo,

You're absolutely right. What I've done is actually 2nd remedy to prevent on getting pregnant kaso palpak din pala. Now I learned but very worried. I'm not scared of getting pregnant naman talaga, what i'm frighten about is baka maulit yong nangyari sakin 5 months ago( i had miscarriage it was threatened abortion ). Ang advise kasi ng OB ko non, di pa ako pedeng mag buntis 6  months to 1 year. Nakaka phobia maging pasyente lalo na mawalan ng magiging anak! Anyway, gusto ko narin naman tlagang magka-anak na. ;D
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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: bhebenigerald on August 24, 2009, 07:01:32 pm
thank you so much sa tip daddy jojo..  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yvaughne on August 24, 2009, 10:11:58 pm
thank you so much sa tip daddy jojo..  :)
hi mommy luckily healthy naman baby ko siya yung nasa pix.. hmm i took gracial kaso after 5 long years of taking it nagpalpitate na ako sabi ob ko nag thicken daw blood ko so i stopped using it last month i missed my period 1st time ao naka expoerience but since my ob and the trans v utz confirmed im not preggy i just waited for my period to come so last sat. i have mine i also started a new contraceptive its a patch called EVRA.. i hope this works for me god bless..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on August 25, 2009, 05:34:14 am
Thank you for sharing 4getmenot...pero concern lang ha. 

Every woman has her own fertility cycle...some are long and some are short.  It might be more accurate to observe signs (Billings or Cervical Mucus Method, 2-Day Method), monitor temperature (Basal Body Temperature, BBT Method), or combining these (Sympto-Thermal Method) to determine fertile and non-fertile days.  Some think monitoring your signs, your temperaute or both are tedious...so the Two-Day method was developed.

Here's a repost of what I shared before:


Withdrawal and Rhythm are not listed among the modern Natural Family Planning Methods. 

When is a woman fertile?

The most simplest explanation I got was on the information about the Two-day Method.

(http://www.irh.org/images/TwoDay-Algorithm.gif)
Full details at  http://www.irh.org/RTP-TDM.htm
 (http://www.irh.org/RTP-TDM.htm)
A woman is fertile if there is a presence of the slippery type of mucus/secretion.  This is not the natural lubrication that develops during sexual stimulation.  It's that wet slippery feeling that usually lasts throughout the day and felt with other fertility signs. 

You see, without this life-nurturing mucus, the sperm could not survive...especially in the acidic environment of the vagina.  I've written this to give you a little assurance whether it's likely that you could get pregnant or not.


I got this from one of the threads. Its very easy to follow:

onset of menses                      unsafe period

        1                                                   9-18                 
        2                                                  10-19
        3                                                  11-20
        4                                                  12-21
        5                                                  13-22
        6                                                  14-23
        7                                                  15-24
        8                                                  16-25
        9                                                  17-26
      10                                                  18-27
      11                                                  19-28
      12                                                  20-29
      13                                                  21-30
      14                                                  22-31
      15                                                  23-1
      16                                                  24-2
      17                                                  25-3
      18                                                  26-4
      19                                                  27-5
      20                                                  28-6
      21                                                  29-7
      22                                                  30-8
      23                                                  31-9
      24                                                  1-10
      25                                                  2-11
      26                                                  3-12
      27                                                  4-13
      28                                                  5-14
      29                                                  6-15
      30                                                  7-16
      31                                                  8-17

madali lang yan! ONSET OF MENSES IS THE DAY WEN U START UR MENS, UNSAFE PERIOD yan yung date na di ka dapat pagalaw sa partner mo, rest of the date is ur safe period.


thanks stargazer, itatry ko eto  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: stargazer on August 25, 2009, 10:07:54 am
mommy trulala da 2??
kc d na ko puwede pills 5 yrs na ko stright so hanap me iba fp naka patch ako today kc takot nga ko sobrang delayed ako pero nagkarron ako today as in effective to??

sabi nung nag post effective daw. sorry sis matagal na akong walang sex life after i gave birth sa youngest ko.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yvaughne on August 25, 2009, 05:38:00 pm
:-)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: crazybone10 on August 31, 2009, 08:45:07 am
my mens started saturday afternoon August 29?? wen ako safe and wen ang bawal? darating kasi ang hubby ko for our son's 1st bday mahirap naman if may maiwan naman na blessing hehehhe safe lang tayo  kaya help mga mommies...as in hindi ko tlaga G ang rhythm rhythm na yan.. Medical course pa naman hehhehe kaya patawad mga mommies and i need your help tlaga  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: crazybone10 on August 31, 2009, 10:12:42 am
thank you tlaga sa pagbigay ng links mommy ahyzeyuh  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: laarni06 on October 08, 2009, 12:18:54 pm
mga mommies, my last mens kase is aug.12, 2009 un ba yung date of conception ko? please help me... i'm confuse eh.. thankz
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: cutie_enzo on October 09, 2009, 06:00:32 am
Mommy, syempre hindi yun ang conception date mo. Your conception date is any day during your fertility days, which usually start 10 days counted from the first day of your LMP. Average fertility days last for 5 days. If you & your hubby made love all days during your fertility days, mahirap mapredict kelan ang exact date of conception. Pero kung isang beses lang, that's definitely the date of your conception.

This assumes, however, that your cycle is regular. Otherwise, mahirap mapredict kelan talaga ang conception date.

Hope this helps.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡ on December 31, 2009, 06:25:40 am
Is the conception date the same as the date you had intercourse?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mariann on December 31, 2009, 01:18:50 pm
sa pagkaka-alam ko, conception begins when the sperm fertilizes the egg. so when you had intercourse on your fertile period, then that's also the time you have conceived.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡ on December 31, 2009, 01:39:16 pm
so when you had intercourse on your fertile period, then that's also the time you have conceived.

kaya naitanong ko, lahat kasi halos ng pinuntahan ko ng due date site yung lumalabas na date of conception eh yung day na ginawa namin ni SD.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ilovegabe on January 01, 2010, 11:55:03 pm
For most yes. The sperm kasi can stay alive up to 3-5 days ata. So it can fertilize an egg anytime given that period. For example you had contact today but then hindi naman nagrelease ng egg ang ovary so hindi ka magcoconcieve. But after 3 days nag release sya ng egg and the sperm is just there waiting and is still able to fertilize it then pwede kang paring mag concieve even without having contact that day.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: luk_resha on January 12, 2011, 01:58:11 pm
sobrang stress lang kasi ako rightnow tapos i cant make kwento to my friends naman kasi nahiya ako... ganito po kasi i had my period last dec 10-13 tapos i decided to stop taking pills e naka-consume ako ng 2 tablet sa bagong banig e dapat pala ubusin yung buong banig before stop para hindi datnan ng maaga kaya by dec 19-22 dinatnan na uli ako... hubby and i had contact until dec 25... may possibility po kayang mabuntis ako nun? and pala we also had contact jan 6 and jan 8 pero withdrawal .
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: miejaide on January 12, 2011, 02:36:21 pm
sobrang stress lang kasi ako rightnow tapos i cant make kwento to my friends naman kasi nahiya ako... ganito po kasi i had my period last dec 10-13 tapos i decided to stop taking pills e naka-consume ako ng 2 tablet sa bagong banig e dapat pala ubusin yung buong banig before stop para hindi datnan ng maaga kaya by dec 19-22 dinatnan na uli ako... hubby and i had contact until dec 25... may possibility po kayang mabuntis ako nun? and pala we also had contact jan 6 and jan 8 pero withdrawal .

diba mga 7 days before and after period, safe un... depednde din sa cycle ng mens mo... ako kasi, i ask my ob kasi ayoko na mag pills.. she calculated yung period ko, she told me 10-21 days after ng 1st day ko d ako safe... pero d ko pinapaabot ng 10th day, gusto ko mas safe  :) kaya mga 8th day pa lang sinasabi ko na kay hubby na d ako safe... hehe
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: arch.fe on January 12, 2011, 10:33:17 pm
Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....


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bhebenigerald, you see, the thing is you should've asked your OB how to use the pill before popping it. She/he knows best. I know that the first pill is taken on the day one of your first period until the whole pack is consumed then you rest for a couple of days and resume taking it on the day one of your next period. That's how the pill works. You can't just go pop pills every time your bf surfaces. It's not good in the event you get pregnant while on pills because it might affect your unborn child's health and your health as well. Pills don't work like magic. It has an S.O.P. to follow. Athough I haven't tried the pill, I had asked my OB about it and the other options for contraception.

Hey, If you want instant protection, use the rubber instead, since diaphragms are not common here in our country. Works for me every time. Moreover, you should monitor your menstrual cycle as well. You're lucky you fell on the safe days when you had contact with your bf. Base on calendar method, which me and my hubby are practicing, If you're a regular, your safe days are the 7 days starting from day one of your menstrual cycle. The 12 days preceding that are your s'ppose to be fertile days. So 19 days all in all. The 20th day till your next period is safe also. You could also try Daddy Jojo's TDM if you want contact within those s'ppose to be fertile days because there are unfertile days that lies in between the 12 days of the calendar method. By the way if your OB tells you not to get pregnant yet, just follow the advise. Don't risk it. The baby will just come when you're ready.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 03, 2011, 02:32:36 pm
hi mga sis. these are the track of my period: January16, February 16. meaning im in a 30days cycle? tama po ba? so here is my questions po? what are my MOST fertile day/s?



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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: iamkiara on March 03, 2011, 02:45:48 pm
hi ang pagkakaalala ako day 11 to day 14 :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 03, 2011, 02:49:00 pm
hi mommy iamkiara! thanks for the reply. :D sis ask ko lang 30days ba ang cycle ko? kase january 16 may period ako then nitong february 16 ulit... tama ba ang compute ko 30days ang cycle ko? regular kase ako magkaperiod.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mybhie06 on March 03, 2011, 02:51:17 pm
Hi sis! Try mo mag ovulation calculator, yan kase gamit ko before and I find it effective naman especially for calendar method. Try mo yung sa http://www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator. Enter mo lang yung first day of your last period at kung ilang cycle days then ayun makikita mo na yung mga fertile days mo. Ni-check ko yung sayo, ang most fertile days mo are March 31, 2011 - April 5, 2011 and if ever ma preggy ka, ang due date ng baby mo is December 25, 2011 (wow Christmas day! hehe!). Anyway, I hope that helps sis! :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: iamkiara on March 03, 2011, 02:53:51 pm
sis 32 days un di sya saktong 30. count mo sa calendar day 1 is jan 16.  ;)
alam ko kasi yung day 11 to day 14 effective lang sya sa regular na 28 to 30 days cycle.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 03, 2011, 03:11:43 pm
@mybhie06: thanks sis! super great help! nag bookmark na ko nung site na yun para may guide ako.sis wag muna sana kase CS ako kakapanganak ko lang 4months pa lang bebe ko   :-\

@iamkiara: sis ganun ba yun? naku mali ang computation ko pala. ibig sabihin magcocount ako from Day1 Jan16 up to Feb16 eto kase yung last period ko. eh 32 days nga un  :-\ sis pano yun? applicable pa din kaya saken ang calendar method? 
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: iamkiara on March 03, 2011, 03:17:26 pm
sis eto muna answer ko, answer uli kita later.

count ng day is yung first day ng menstration mo.  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mybhie06 on March 03, 2011, 03:48:17 pm
@mommylala You're welcome sis :) Naku pareho pala tayo, 4 months pa lang din si bebe ko at CS din ako kaya ayaw ko muna din mabuntis!  ::)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 03, 2011, 03:55:35 pm
ah tlaga! wow! kelan nagbirthday si bebe mo? si bebe ko mag4months this coming march11. pinanganak ko sya nov 11, 2010. sis i have question curious lang ako. di ba you are using calendar method, when u have contact with ur hubby, winiwithdraw pa ba niya? im sori ha nalilito kc ako. kase ako din im using calendar method pero we are also using withdrawal. tama ba yun?  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: iamkiara on March 03, 2011, 04:04:16 pm
^ sorry, nasa work kasi ako.. hehe

ayun, ang naalala at sa pagkakaintindi ko sa pagkakaexplain sa akin ng OB ko applicable lang yung calendar method sa mga regular na 28 to 30 days cycle. kung lagpas ka sa 30 days cycle baka sumablay un :( magcount ka parin baka naman ngaun lang yung 32 days minsan kasi diba nagchachange. imonitor mo na lang yung mens mo kung regular ka (28 to 30 days).

meron kasing mga babae na every month nagkakaron pero hindi ibig sabihin nun regular cycle sya. parang regular in a sense na every month kasi nagkakaron pero irregular kasi lagpas sa 28 to 30 days.

inexplain kasi niya sa akin ito nung nagkaron ako ng problem with my mens, sayang nga late ko na nalaman.. hehe.. nung biniling ko nung nabuntis ako ika 11th day kame nag contact ni SD ko nun kaya un bulls eye :)
pero im greatful parin kasi i am bless with a smart baby  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 03, 2011, 04:30:03 pm
ok lang yun sis. take ur time, ako din eh nasa office. hehe ^ ^  :D
nagmamark kc ako sa calendar at minomonitor ko yung period ko. pero siguro nasama ko yung spotting lang and they say that you dont have to count it daw as my period kaya siguro nadagdagan at naging 32.  :D  included na din ako sa 30days cycle. hayys..kaka stress mag-isip.

explanation ni OB ko is from Day 9 to 18 yun daw ang unsafe.
nung nag contact ba kayo sis eh no withdrawal at all? curious lang ako.  ???


Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mybhie06 on March 04, 2011, 07:49:24 am
@ mommylala Sis mag 5 months na si baby ko sa March 8..nauna pala ako sayo ng 1 month..hehe..October 8 ko sya pinanganak :)

Sis kapag safe ako, di na kelangan ng withdrawal..di na kami nag do sa mga fertile days na nakalagay dun sa calendar method. So kapag hindi fertile days, no need for withdrawal. Kaya lang ngayon sis, nagpipills na ko.. niresetahan kase ako ng OB ko after ko manganak. Mahirap kase sa amin ni hubby yung calendar method. Since nagwowork kami, usually every rest days lang kami nag do..eh pano kung natapat na fertile days di ba? Kawawa naman si husband! ::) Kaya ayun..pills muna for now :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 08:17:38 am
Sis baka ganun na din gawin ko malampasan ko lang to  :(

naawa nga lang din ako kay husband ko kaya pumayag na din ako kahit day11 yun at fertile ako kase nga minsan lang umuwi yun lalo mahirap ata pag sa iba niya ginawa.  ;D

winidraw naman niya eh at sigurado daw siya dun kase nga takot din masundan agad si bebe namin.
siguro i'll wait and see na lang..march4 pa lang naman ngayon. so hindi agad madedetect ng PT yun.
baka ma stress ako ng sobra eh baka lalo ma delay period ko.
sis if in case na preggy nga ako, anong mangyayari saken? :(
4months pa lang ako kakapanganak tapos CS pa...ikamamatay ko ba yun? waaahhhh  :'(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mybhie06 on March 04, 2011, 10:53:29 am
Di naman siguro sis! Kase ako, December last year nag ectopic pregnancy ako..so ayun naoperahan na ko..ang sabi ni OB saken, dapat daw mga 1 year bago ako mabuntis ulet..pero after 2 months buntis na ko agad :o Ayun sabi ni OB ko, medyo risky pero wala na daw sya magagawa nabuo na daw eh! hehe! Lagi naman niya ko minomonitor so wala naman masyadong naging problem buong pregnancy days ko. Ayun nga lang after ko manganak eh niresetahan na ko agad ng pills kase nga daw magkasunod na yung operation ko so pahinga muna ::)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 11:17:58 am
@mybhie06: Thanks sis! parang nabawasan kahit na papano yung worried ko.   :-\

pa 6days pa lang naman ngayon after our contact. sis medyo nakakaramdam ako ng pangangasim and medyo nakirot yung sugat ko. hindi kaya SIGN un na naglilihi na ko?  :'( waahhh 

pwede n ba ko maglihi ng ganung kaaga? pero sbi naman nung iba since malamig ang panahon ngayon lalo't CS eh pasukin ng lamig ang sikmura.


Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mybhie06 on March 04, 2011, 11:41:02 am
Sis wag masyado maparanoid..kaw na mismo nagsabi 6 days ago pa lang yun..it's too early to tell kung buntis ka nga..chill ka lang muna sis..hehe 8)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 11:48:31 am
hehe. pasensya na sis ha at talagang akoy natatakot tlaga  :( , ano na lang sasabihin ng mga officemates ko, eh kakapasok ko pa lang? hehe  ;)

balitaan na lang kita sa development ko. nag ppray na lang ako palagi na wag muna sana.  :-\

kahit next year ok lang pero wag this year :)

korek ka sis. siguro nga dala lang ng lamig ng panahon itong nararamdaman ko, kase too early naman maglihi ano po?  ;)

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mybhie06 on March 04, 2011, 12:08:05 pm
Korek sis! ;D Ok lang yan, I understand naman kung bakit ka paranoid. Ako din siguro if di ako nagpipills I would feel the same..hehe..pray lang sis and ayun if possible mag pills ka na lang muna :) Sige balitaan mo na lang ako ha? :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 12:22:58 pm
ok a big thank you sis mybhie ha!  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yhamslove® on March 04, 2011, 01:39:23 pm
^sis mommylala, you can also check your fertility here: (baka makatulong)  ;)

http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,9372.15.html
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 02:43:54 pm
@yhamslove®: Sis thanks sa reply. :)

sis naconconfuse ako  :-\  kase may nabasa ako sa isang blog na ang pagbibilang daw ng first day ng period is yung mismong kalakasan na... hindi daw dapat isasama yung spot pa lang. tama ba yun o mali?



pls advice sis. thanks  :)

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 02:50:21 pm
mga sis need ur advice and idea din about my case.

nung january nagkaperiod ako dated 16 then
nung february nagkaperiod ulit ako dated 16....

my question is this? ilang days ang cycle ko? di ko rin kc matandaan kung isinama ko yung day na spot spot pa lang ang lumalabas.  :-\ anyway pasagot naman po ng tanong ko please? thanks mwuah!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Tiger Lily on March 04, 2011, 02:55:45 pm
^sis ako i count my menstruation from day na may blood na. ke mahina o malakas.

bakit, meron bang first day na mahina ang flow? ang alam ko, laging malakas ang first day.  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 03:02:31 pm
pero sis yung parang brown pa lang na discharge before magkaperiod? bale hindi ko na isasama yun?  :-\
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 03:08:45 pm
Sis if ever pala i belong to 32days cycle.... this past two consecutive months (Jan & Feb).

Applicable pa rin kaya yung calendar method sa aken?
They say the most fertile day for 28 to 30days cycle is on the 14th...What about in my case kaya?  :-\
Anyone can answer pls.

Thanks mga sis!  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Tiger Lily on March 04, 2011, 03:18:06 pm
Ang alam ko, our Menstrual Cycle varies from month to month. Minsan 28 days, minsan 30, minsan 31... depende sa body activities natin (malakas ang epekto ng stress sa cycle ng menstruation sis)

I checked the link sis yhamslove® gave and on the 6th page of the thread, Daddy Jojo posted something very informative.

Here's the link para di ka na mahirapan: http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,9372.75.html
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 04, 2011, 03:32:25 pm
Thanks tigerlily! It really helps me a lot! dami ko natutunan today ! ;)

THANKS AGAIN
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Tiger Lily on March 04, 2011, 03:39:00 pm
^you're welcome sis! I'm happy to be of help...

Good luck sa inyo ni hubby!  ;)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on March 09, 2011, 03:37:43 pm
Hi everyone,

Ingat po tayo, baka magkamali ng pag-compute.

According to an OB Gyn, ovulation occurs 14 days before the next menstruation.1   

To compute ovulation or peak day, it would be more accurate to subtract 14 from the total days of a cycle.  So, here's how it looks:
 
Fertility Cycle |Ovulation Day |Fertile Days
2814Days 10-15
3016Days 12-17
3218Days 14-19

Ovulation Day = Cycle Days - 14 (subtract)

Start of Fertile Days = Ovulation Day - 4 (subtract)

End of Fertile Days = Ovulation Day + 2 (add)

Medyo sarili kong computation itong table ha. Paki check na lang and verify.  The point is, sperm could survive up to 3-5 days..and the unfertilized egg will only last up to 2 days. 

Heads up po sa mga mas shorter pa sa 28 days ang cycle at mahaba ang menstruation days.  Kaya nabubuntis minsan ay dahil naglalapit ang fertile days sa menstruation days

1Around last month, my napanood ako ng online videos featuring an OB Gyn answering questions. I just can't find them now.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 10, 2011, 09:27:44 am
daddyjojo need to confirm this to you. kase paiba-iba tayo kami ng cycle days depende nga sa mga activity namin right? now my question is this, saang month po ako magba-base ng cycle days ko? yung last 2months po ba?
let say in my case: (im in a 32days cylce)     nagkameron ako        for the month of jan dated 16
                                                                                                                      for the month of feb dated 16
therefore march 16 ang next period ko dapat not march 16 kase 28days lang meron ang February

Daddy jojo, tama po ba ang analization ko?  :-\
Thanks in advance and God Bless

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 10, 2011, 09:29:16 am
i mean is march 19 dapat magkameron instead of march 16...sori daddy jojo, na carried away lang ako dun sa una. sori po ulet
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on March 10, 2011, 03:55:31 pm
Hi MommyLala

Ang Fertility Cycle mo, based on your last menstruation, 30 days.

That's from Jan. 16 to February 15.

If regular at wala namang factors that will change your cycle, your next menstruation will be on March 19.

Ang estimated ovulation or peak day mo ay March 5. 
Ang fertile days mo ay from March 1 March 6

Going back to your previous concern...mas lalong di ka mabubuntis dahil non-fertile day pala ang Feb 26.




daddyjojo need to confirm this to you. kase paiba-iba tayo kami ng cycle days depende nga sa mga activity namin right? now my question is this, saang month po ako magba-base ng cycle days ko? yung last 2months po ba?
let say in my case: (im in a 32days cylce)     nagkameron ako        for the month of jan dated 16
                                                                                                                      for the month of feb dated 16
therefore march 16 ang next period ko dapat not march 16 kase 28days lang meron ang February

Daddy jojo, tama po ba ang analization ko?  :-\
Thanks in advance and God Bless


Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 10, 2011, 04:10:21 pm
wow super duper good news naman yan daddy jo! 

A BIG THANKS PO TALAGA. :)

OT: daddy jojo, yung baby ko 3months, 3weeks, and 6days old, nag-appear na kanina lang tanghali yung first teeth niya. so happy!  :D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on March 10, 2011, 05:03:24 pm
Congratulations on those first teeth!  May your baby remain in good health.

wow super duper good news naman yan daddy jo! 

A BIG THANKS PO TALAGA. :)

OT: daddy jojo, yung baby ko 3months, 3weeks, and 6days old, nag-appear na kanina lang tanghali yung first teeth niya. so happy!  :D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommylala on March 14, 2011, 04:26:01 pm
hi mga sis!

i have my period na. :) hayys parang nabunutan ng tinik.  ;)

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: jevym on March 31, 2011, 06:44:28 pm
hello there...im a little bit confuse... baka po kasi mabuntis ako..
ive been using pills po and decided to switch depo..

ok lang po ba makigpag do even if  5 days after palang ako sa depo? possible po bang mabuntis?

heres a story...Feb 20 is my menstration, and by march 20 din...sa depo eni-inject 1st day at pang 5th day...so March 25 sched ko that was my 1st shot ever in depo...ive been using lyndavel po..


i really need ur help...thanks a lot..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on April 03, 2011, 11:58:12 pm
Hi jevym

First of all, since you are using contraceptives, medyo hindi madali malaman kung kailan ka infertile or fertile.  Based on the things I've been reading (mostly from the personal experiences here), binabago ng contraceptives ang natural cycle ng fertility.

So, in general, hindi advisable ang mag-count based on a cycle.  Anyway, heto pa rin ang counting.  Kung Feb. 20 at March 20 ang mga first day ng period mo, 27 days ang cycle mo from February to March.  Kung next month, 27 days pa rin, sa April 18 ka ulit magkakaroon.  Ang next ovulation or Peak Day ng pagiging fertile mo ay April 4 (this is determined by counting 14 days before your next period). Dahil nagse-secrete ka ng egg-white cervical mucus, kayang buhayin nito ang sperm ng up to 5 days.  So pwede kang mabuntis mula March 31 to April 4.  Sa pag-ovulate mo, naglabas ka ng egg na pwedeng ma-fertilize up to two days.  So isama mo na sa fertile days ang April 5 and 6.

Sa mga date na nabanggit ko, malayo ang March 25.  Hindi ka fertile at di ka pwede mabuntis...kahit hindi ka nag contraceptive.

Useless actually ang contraceptive.  Hindi naman kasi possible na mabuntis sa 20 out of 27 days sa cycle mo.  Sa paggamit mo ng contraceptive...sa pagpasok ng sythetic chemicals sa iyo...aside from the side effects...puwede kang magkaroon ng iba't-ibang sakit tulad ng Cancer.  Ang contraceptive ay may sangkap din na pumapatay sa baby, kapag nabuo ito dahil ang mga ibang halong kemikal ay kulang para mapigilan ang fertilization.

Basically kailangan lang alamin kung kailang pwedeng mabuntis.  Mas madali itong gawin kesa uminom ng pills araw-araw.  Paki-check na lang ang mga sumusunod na video para sa iba pang impormasyon.

Video of interview with Dr. Jay Goldberg, Ob-Gyn:

Ovulation
http://www.videojug.com/interview/ovulation

Cervical Mucus
http://www.videojug.com/interview/how-to-check-your-cervical-mucus-to-know-when-you-are-ovulating

Transcription of video:
How To Check Your Cervical Mucus To Know When You Are Ovulating

How can I check my cervical mucus to know when I'm ovulating?

To detect whether or not you have spinbarkite or ripened cervical mucus. You would insert a finger into the vagina and then remove it. Then usually simply by taking your index finger and your thumb and separating them, the ripened cervical mucus tends to typically not snap. If you separate and it snaps, it's not as healthy. If you separate it and you can stretch your fingers as far apart and there's still a string that remains there, that's usually a healthier cervical mucus or cervical ripening. Typically you'd do it around when you anticipate ovulation so maybe ten to twelve days after your period starts you could start doing it. Typically in a woman who has cycles that range from twenty-six to thirty-eight days, it would appear within a couple days of you initially starting to check.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: jevym on April 14, 2011, 10:10:30 pm
@daddy jojo
thanks a lot po....thanks for the very big help..natoto po talaga ako...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: heartchelle14 on June 01, 2011, 05:52:31 pm
hi,

ask ko lang po, ased on your last menstruation, 31 days.

That's from April 30 to May 5, 2011

and regular naman ang period ko, when ko po dapat uing next period ko,

ask ko po when ang ovulation or peak day ko?
when ang fertile days ko?

normal lang ba na iba iba ang cycle ng menstruation ko?

when kami puwede mag DO para makabuo ng baby..

i need  advice,badly..

thanks..

rochelle
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on June 03, 2011, 02:36:01 pm
Hi Rochelle

Please be sure kung 31 days nga ang cycle mo.  May record ka ba ng previous menstruation period mo.  Ang importante lang ay yung first day.

Kung April 30 ang previous starting day ng mentruation mo, then we can assume na ang next ay sa June 1.

So, tama ba, nagkaroon ka na ba last June 1?

Sana natatandaan mo pa at maishare dito kung ano pa yung ibang dates.  In my own personal opinion, normal lang naman na iba't-iba ang cycle ng menstruation.  Tao tayo eh, affected tayo ng iba't ibang situations, moods and other factors.

Kung nagkaroon ka nga ng June 1, at 31 days pa rin ang cycle mo...July 3 ang next.

From July 3, count tayo backwards, ng 14 days para malaman kung kailan ang ovulation o peak day mo...yung day na magrerelease ka ng egg.

June 19 and possible na ovulation day mo. 

Observe mo from June 15 to June 19, kung pagbangon mo sa umaga at pagpunta sa CR ay may maramdaman ka na madulas down there.  Then pag-upo mo sa CR, check mo kung may lumabas na transparent fluid na parang sa hilaw na itlog.  Try mo i-stretch sa pagitan ng thumb at index finger mo.

The more stretchy, mas healthy.  Mas mataas ang possibility na mabuntis ka.

(http://g8rk8.files.wordpress.com/2011/01/cervicalmucus.jpg)

Cervical Mucus ito.  Ito ang magpo-protect sa sperm ng hubby mo para makaabot sila sa egg mo.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: momkate on August 22, 2011, 12:19:23 pm
kindly share naman ur ideas with natural family planning... yung mga signs na fertile ang babae. irregular kasi ang mens ko... help!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: luk_resha on October 12, 2011, 04:30:15 pm
it is advisable to take the pill on the first day of menstruation but how about if after e saka nag start mag take ng pill? will this affect the next menstrual cycle?

August 28 - first day ng last mens then
September 18 - first tablet
October 7 - last tablet (althea - 21pill)
October 8 - start of my 7free day pill

hindi ako dinatnan ng September so i am thinking na its because i am yet to consume my pills muna and during the 7 free day pill pa ako dadatnan. as of this time (5th day of my free pill) hindi pa ako nag kakaroon hoping na meron na hanggang friday since that will be the end of my 7 free day pill.

i just need some views if ganito po ba talaga ang nangyayari kung ang pag take ng pill e hindi during the first day of your period. let say adjustment of the body because of the pill?

i am not entertaining  ;D  the thought of being pregnant  ::) since naging cautious din naman kami  ;) withdrawal and we had contact naman after a week pa of taking the pill...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: patty_1031 on October 18, 2011, 09:58:22 am
hello daddy jo,

confuse kasi ko eversince i dont know how to use the calendar method..
di ko mdetermine kung san cycle ako belong kung 28 days cycle ba or sa iba pa..
may last mens. after ko managank was sept. 18 2011  yan  yung first day.
pls. help thanks.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on October 18, 2011, 10:43:58 am
Hi patty_1031

The Calendar Method is no longer regarded as an effective Natural Family Planning Method.

To start, kailangan sana may record ka ng lahat ng cycles mo.  Sana magkatulong kayo ng husband mo sa ganitong activity.  Natural lang na paiba-iba ang cycle.  Kaya importante na may record ka lagi.

Kung wala talaga...observe na lang, in addition, ang cervical mucus mo and try Two Day Method (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,20910.0.html).

Later, kung ma-determine mo na ang range ng cycle mo ay 26 to 32 days, pwede mong i-combine sa Two Day Method (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,20910.0.html) ang  Standard Days Method (http://www.natural-family-planning.info/standard-days-method.htm)

I'll try to find time to help you some more, okay.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: patty_1031 on October 18, 2011, 11:17:44 am
Hello Daddy JoJo,


I really appreciate your response,
Thanks a Lot.
i hope i could still ask you just incase
naguguluhan ako..
Again Thanks a Lot :)

God bless You.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on October 18, 2011, 11:36:02 am
Hi ulit,

Sana makapagshare ka pa ng additional dates ng first day ng menstruation period mo (aside from Sep. 18)...para ma-compute natin.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: patty_1031 on October 18, 2011, 02:22:55 pm
sige po i will :) hinihintay ko pa  yung period ko this october... :) thanks!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mumzeth on November 01, 2011, 08:39:38 pm
normal po ba na after pregnancy magiging irregular yung menstrual cycle? i mean kasi ganito yung nangyari sakin.. sobrang worried po ako kasi bigla akong naireg.. kinakabahan po ako..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mompau on November 02, 2011, 11:24:22 am
hi daddy jojo,
help me pls on this my last menstrual period were as follows
august 19
sept 18
oct 20
most likely what dates are my fertile days, im so confused which to follow the sdm, mucus, calendar, withdrawal....i already have two teens, already stopped taking birth control pills 6months ago and now i'm confused=(

thanks so much
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommyitelity on November 04, 2011, 11:51:51 pm
mga sis, may question po ako.. lagi po kami ni hubby nag do do everytime na may mens ako, pero widrawal pa din. pero kanina pang 3rd day na ng mens ko nag do kami, sa loob niya pinutok. may chance kaya ako na mabuntis? thanks mga sis..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yhamslove® on November 05, 2011, 01:09:51 am
As far as I know, the chance of you getting pregnant if you had sexual intercourse during your menstrual period is very, very low.

Magsearch ka sa google marami kang makikitang sagot. Isa na ito: http://www.healthcaremagic.com/articles/Sex-during-menstruation/7408
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: bratzako on November 20, 2011, 07:56:06 pm
hi ask lang po ako.. 3 yrs na po kame ngsasama ng asawa ko pero wala pa po kameng baby. ngask po ako kung pano pinakamabilis na paraan para mabuntis ako. karamihan po sa sagot nila is. magtake daw po ako ng pills then after 10 days istop ko daw po. tama po ba yung ganun?

thnks po sana masagot..  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: seosin on November 24, 2011, 12:23:47 pm
sa lahat ng cycle :

just minus 14 days from your cycle ... sample 30 days cycle mo. -14days then pinaka fertile ka on the 16 day :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: janecruz30 on January 28, 2012, 03:26:30 pm
hi im jane,..ask lang ako if safe ba or hindi ang nangyari samin ng bf ko last wed night..ang 1st day of last menstruation ko kc nung jan 1, 2012, ..natapos ang mens ko nung jan 6 0r 7 at naglove making kami every other day, withdrawal naman ang ginagawa namin, but then last wed night jan 25 di niya naiwithdraw..possible kaya n mabuntis ako?..pls i need an answer...thank u so much..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: BestCo Photobooth on April 17, 2012, 08:51:04 am
give some opinions and advice pls.. wori kasi yung friend ko..
nakipag do siya 4days after ng mens niya..
sefe po ba un?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: kurdapya101 on April 18, 2012, 11:39:04 am
safe yun :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: NanaylovesAJ on April 18, 2012, 12:00:19 pm
yes.. its safe pa din
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ysLim on April 21, 2012, 04:47:27 pm
yes!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: LLLA on April 21, 2012, 06:21:00 pm
yup.................. ;D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: dmnq on April 21, 2012, 08:44:45 pm
safe un sis.. sabi nila 10 days after ng period safe na safe.. kaya kami ni hubby hindi nag iingat pag ganun :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: BestCo Photobooth on April 24, 2012, 01:31:15 pm
' thank's po.. i tell her po kasi di pa daw sya nagmemens ..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: kissablesam on April 24, 2012, 03:09:25 pm
pasali po.

so if ang period mo nag start ng April 1 tapos nag end ng April 5, safe makipag lovemaking until 11 w/o using any protections? correct me if im wrong please. thanks!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: BestCo Photobooth on April 25, 2012, 09:25:47 am
pasali po.

so if ang period mo nag start ng April 1 tapos nag end ng April 5, safe makipag lovemaking until 11 w/o using any protections? correct me if im wrong please. thanks!

' 8 daw po sila nag do..
wori kasi sya kasi di sila gumamit ng proteksiyon..
saken sya nagtatanong.. kaya nagpost po ako dito..
thank's po mga sis..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on April 25, 2012, 04:48:49 pm
Possible na hindi safe, kung short ang cycle.

Kung nag-22 days ang Fertility Cycle, magpapang-abot ang menstruation at Fertile Days

Halimbawa, kung 4 days ang mentruation, from Apr. 1 to 4.  Sa April 4, pwedeng sumabay na Fertile na rin, pero di ito madali ma-detect. 

(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-xglRR-iCZa8/TzzNt18rdnI/AAAAAAAAAqw/UNbDU2c1q40/s800/2012-02-16_172939%252022-Day%2520Cycle%252C%2520Mens%2520and%2520Fertile%2520Days.jpg)

Ang Ovulation/Peak Day (P), o yung pag-release ng Egg Cell ay nangyayari 12 to 16 days before the next menstruation.  May OB Gyn na ine-eksakto na lang ito na 14 days estimate.

So kung ang start ng previous menstruation, or Day 1, ay April 1...at nasa 22-Days ang Cycle, count 14 days backwards from April 22.

Ang possible Ovulation Day ay April 8. Sinasabi rin na 3 to 5 days before Ovulation, magkakaroon ng secretion ng Cervical Mucus/White Mens/Discharge.  Kaya magiging Fertile (F) ang April 4 to 8.  Nabubuhay ang egg ng hanggang 24 hours, at meron pa ring Cervical Mucus after ng Ovulation Day, kaya hanggang Apr. 9, possible pa rin na mabuhay ang sperm at ma-fertilize ang egg.

Kailangan alamin muna ang range ng Fertility Cycle. Heto ang example ng may 28 to 35 Days Cycle.

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-m8kTKV8p4Dk/T2A6QjU6OPI/AAAAAAAAArM/-jnfEQSChqg/s640/2012-03-14_142410_NFP_Ellena.jpg)
Click to view in Full size (https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-m8kTKV8p4Dk/T2A6QjU6OPI/AAAAAAAAArM/-jnfEQSChqg/s800/2012-03-14_142410_NFP_Ellena.jpg)

Iko-combine ang Fertile Days ng lahat ng recorded na Cycles, para ma estimate ang susunod na trend...para malaman kung kailan safe o hindi.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: aikarex on May 01, 2012, 08:33:27 pm
Daddy Jo,

Please help me po.  I'm an avid follower of ur post. Ako naman ang mag-ask ngayun. Eto ang period ko:
Dec. 20-25,Jan 26-30, Feb. 26- March 1, March 31- April 4. Tas ngyon pong May hindi pa ako nagkakaron. Eto mga tanong ko:
1. Regular po ba period ko?
2. Pano po ba ang correct na bilang ng cycle start po ba siya sa 1st day of mens or after? nalilito kasi ako.
3. Ano pong natural method ang masusugest nyo sa akin?
Kasi po darating si hubby on May 11 at for good na kami magkakasama papuntang Toronto,lagi kami magkalayo kaya hindi ko masydo nawawatch ang period at cycles ko. Ayaw po kasi namin ng pills.



Thank you!
Aika
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on May 07, 2012, 05:47:33 pm
Dear Aika:

Thank you for being an "avid follower" of my posts.  Update naman, wala pa rin ba period mo until today, May 7?

Nagsisimula lagi ang bilang on the first day ng menstruation period.  Iyon ang Day 1.  Nagtatapos ang bilang sa first day din ng next mens.  Based sa dates na binigay mo sa akin, Long Cycle ka, 32 to 38 days.  Hindi pa kasama dito ang cycle mo for Mar. 31 to May.

(https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-uvyXZ2w1yP8/T6eSPWudqlI/AAAAAAAAAsU/2RTBXUPDl_I/s800/aikarex_NFP.jpg)
Click here for Full Size (https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AufQD_fER1xzdGpheTNxZjdNQjJQNkxxMjMzRTM3OEE)

Heto ang estimated safe and fertile period mo.  Pagdating ng hubby mo this May 11, safe pa. 

Kung magkaroon ka na ngayon, May 7, ibig sabihin 38 days nga ang pinakamahaba mong cycle.  From Day 1 to Day 13 (May 7 to May 19), safe pa.

Ang possible na next fertile days mo, May 20 to 31.  Observe mo sa days na ito kung may mapansin ka na discharge/cervical mucus/white mens pagkabangon mo sa umaga at pagpunta sa CR.

Ang pinakamalaki ang possibility na mabuntis ka, o pinaka-fertile days ay May 24 to 30.

Possible na ang mao-observe mo na cervical mucus/discharge sa dates na ito ay parang raw egg-white.  Mas okay sana na, aside from your menstruation dates at cycle lenght, sana maisulat o i-record ninyo ng hubby mo ang na-observe ninyo.

In addition, i-take note ninyo rin ang mga secondary signs ng fertility.  Feeling very sensitive ba sa touch?  Mataas ba ang sex drive?

Ang ginawa kong chart ay estimate lang.  Mas accurate kung maidadagdag mo ang actual observation ng cervical mucus at iba pang signs.

Please consider trying the Two Day Method (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,20910.0.html).  Pwede mong gamitin ang chart na ginawa ko.  Just let me know and I'll find the time to edit it so that you can use it.

BTW, hindi pwede sa iyo ang Standard Days Method o kahit anong calendar-based method ha.

Please keep on sharing here so that others will also learn.  Thanks.

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: aikarex on May 07, 2012, 06:35:28 pm
Daddy Jojo,

Ur wonderfully amazing Daddy Jojo! Everyday ko nga wait reply mo eh. Kala ko nga di mo ako sasagutin. Thank you so much! At eto po ang update, just yesterday May 6 lang ako nagkaroon, at tama po kayo ang haba ng cycle ko..hehe.. Normal naman po ba ang period ko?

Sige po, i will let you know my progress on understanding the whole thing.

Pano po kayo ng end up sa bilang  dun sa estimated safe at fertile days ko? Saka ano po yung mga nakahilight na yellow na vertical at horizontal sa table ko?

Tama po kayo based din po sa mga nabasa ko na post nyo. Hindi ako pwede sa Standard Days Method.

Sa Billings pwede din po ba ako aside from two day? saka pwede po ba paki explain pa po mabuti? Di ko kasi masydo magets..hehe

Thank you,
Aika
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on May 08, 2012, 06:22:39 pm
Dear aikarex,

Thank you for your appreciation ha.  Heto na ang updated chart mo.

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-Vt8_aDFlIRI/T6jlmTLTYaI/AAAAAAAAAs4/_LNMJU0aljE/s800/aikarex_NFP%2528new%2529.jpg)
Click here for Full Size (https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AufQD_fER1xzdGpheTNxZjdNQjJQNkxxMjMzRTM3OEE)

Ang fertility cycle mo ay 32 to 38 days.  This is based on the dates of your previous menstruation period.  Ang estimated dates ng next mens mo ay June 6 to 13. 

Please involve your husband in your fertility observation, kahit malayo pa siya sa iyo.  This should be a good opportunity for bonding and intimacy.  For example, he could help you remember that it's time to check if there's a need to buy sanitary napkins na.

Normal ba ang period mo?  Alam mo, para sa akin (opinion ko lang), karamihan naman yata ay normal.  I wonder, ano kaya ang normal o hindi normal?  Is there such a person na perfectly 28 day cycle all the time?  We are human beings.  We are alive...so, the more irregular, the more indefinite...the more that we are unpredictable...that's a sign that we are normal living persons.  So we shouldn't be alarmed and think that we need to normalize.  Siguro, kung makikita ng OB mo ang long cycles mo eh baka sabihan ka na, "Ay, kailangan 28 day cycle ka" tapos reresetahan ka ng contraceptives.

Anyway, salamat ha, for choosing to consider Natural Family Planning.  You are saving lives...your own unborn children...by just having this choice.

Going back...yung naka-highlight na yellow ay ang mga Fertile Days (F) mo.  Ito kasi yung days na may mapapansin ka na mucus.  Nagsisimula ito na sticky at medyo yellowish (infertile to low fertility) at unti-unting magiging clear (high fertility).  Ito yung mga days na pwedeng mabuntis.

(http://nfp.marquette.edu/images/fertillity_level.gif)

Ovulation or Peak Day
Ang Peak Day (P) ay ang pinaka fertile sa lahat ng days na ito.  Ito yung time na nagre-release ang babae ng Egg Cell.  Sinasabi ng mga books at OBs na ito (na tinatawag ding Ovulation Day) ay nangyayari in about 12-16 days before the next mentruation.  Kadalasan, this is pegged at 14 days.  Subukan mo i-check ang days sa chart na may P sa ilalim.  Halimbawa, noong Dec. to Jan na cycle mo (1st row), Jan. 12 ang estimated na nagrelease ka ng egg. Ang ibang mga dates ay Feb. 12, Mar. 17 at April 22.

Other Fertile Days
Three to five days before the Peak Day, a woman will notice secretions as she gets up in the morning and goes to the bathroom.  Ito yung Mucus na galing sa Cervix.  Kapag naging parang raw egg-white na ito, mapo-protectahan nito ang sperms para mabuhay, makapasok sa Cervical Opening, sa Uterus, at kung wala pa ang Egg doon, makakadiretso sila sa Fallopian Tube.  Ang estimated 3-5 days na ito sa chart mo ay ang Jan. 8-12, Feb. 8-12, Mar. 13-17, at Apr. 18-22

The Woman's Egg can survive 2 Days
Ito ang dahilan kaya sa chart, may extra day pa after ng ovulation.  Ang two days na ito sa chart ay ang Jan. 12-13, Feb 12-13, Mar. 17-18 at Apr. 22-23.

Ang lahat ng Fertile days mo ay naka-highlight as yellow. Ang pinaka-fertile ay light yellow.

Combine Your Cycles and Estimate Your Next
Pag pinagsama-sama ang 32 to 38 cycles mo, mae-estimate mo na ang next na safe and fertile dates mo.  Safe from May 1 to 13.  Possibly fertile on May 14 to 25.  Possibly most fertile on May 18 to 24. Afterwards, sure na safe na ulit from May 26 and until the next Menstruation Period day and beyond (about 12 more days).

Take note ha, these are only estimates ha.  Ang pinaka-accurate sa lahat ay kung mag-record ka ng actual signs mo.  So starting May 14, huwag na muna kayo mag-all-the-way.  Kailangan kasi walang ibang fluid o secretion na hindi galing sa iyo.  Kung may deposit kasi ng semen na galing kay hubby on that day, mahirap malaman kung may mucus/white mens ka.

Sa chart, pwede kang magrecord ng observation ng cervical mucus sa row na may label na CM.  Ito na yung pag-gamit nga ng Billings Ovulation Method.




Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mami shae on May 09, 2012, 06:18:39 am
@Daddy Jojo,

wow! I am so impressed with your explanations.. I have been taking contraceptive pills for 7 years, until my husband and I decided to stop and we decided to have natural family planning...So I really wanna learn about this as well as my husband, I involved him about this din. For now I am using an application in my Ipad for tracking my period, so far accurate naman sia kase I have menstruation on the exact date stated there.. have you heard about it? but anyhoo I still want to learn it 'natural way". how can I have this kind of chart? and how long ko kailangan i-track yung period ko to be sure na tama na yung cycle ko?

thank you so much
your response will be very helpful :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: aikarex on May 10, 2012, 07:10:51 pm
Daddy Jojo,

Thank you so much po! ang dami dami kong baon na aral pagpunta ko sa Toronto ;D

Sana kahit andun na ako, sagutin nyo pa din po mga queries ko ha?

More power!

God bless :)

Aika
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on May 15, 2012, 06:59:23 am
Dear mami shae

Thank you for your appreciation of what I've shared.  I have been trying to reply to your message since the very day you posted it.  However, I have been preoccupied with other inquiries in both the main board and in private messages which came in first.  The response I composed for you was lost.  Anyway, I've written a new one and I'm finding the time to finish it.  I hope to be able to help you. 

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mami shae on May 15, 2012, 01:27:06 pm
^thanks so much... no worries! very much appreciated :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: rodcielle_07 on May 15, 2012, 03:14:56 pm
@Daddy Jojo,

Im so impressed, hehe puwede mo rin ba ko ipaggawa nung table or chart na yun? pero wag muna now, preggy pa :) pag nagkaperiod ako ulit, pm na kita.. pero mukhang matatagalan pa, coz planning to exclusively breastfeed my baby... :)

or maybe you could teach us how? regular naman ang period ko..

Thanks at nakilala kami na may malasakit sa kababaihan at sa pagpaplano ng pamilya..:)

God bless
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: luminous on May 23, 2012, 12:30:06 am
@Daddy Jojo.
sobrang impressive yung chart!! galing mo naman, at ang tyaga gumawa ng chart..
i'll try to copy the format and make my own chart na din.. gusto din kase namin ni hubby natural family planning talaga and so far 1yo na baby namin and di pa naman nasusundan.. pero standard days method yung una kong inaral dito.. then i realized, after monitoring my period for ilang months na, ang haba pala ng cycle ko, ibig sabihin hindi puwede standard days diba?  and mas lalo ako naconfuse sa Standard days dahil nagkaroon ako ng April 29 pero yung parang raw egg-white mucus discharge na nasa "peak" level, meron kanina..

now, ilang months dapat yung marecord ko na period and yung cervical mucus para masabing accurate yung magawa kong Fertility Cycle? and what's this method called po?
thanks!!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: toughmom moderator on May 27, 2012, 10:45:50 am
Ccheck out SP's Fertility Calculator
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/community/tools/fertility-calculator/
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mami shae on May 30, 2012, 12:34:29 pm
will try this... but how do you know your cycle?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: cklyneshearnf on October 12, 2012, 08:11:36 am



Good Morning Everyone !

--- ako po si mamy Shea! ask ko lang po if paano ko ba malalaman kung kelan ako safe at hindi ? kasi iregular po ang menstration ko minsan 2tyms ako ng kakaroon sa 1buwan .. lminsan 2nd week nd last wik of the month minsan naman po 1st wik nd 3rd wik of the month minsan naman ngakaroon ako sept 10 ntpos 16 tas this oct 11 nag stop ng 12 panu po ggwn ko patak patak lang ngaungh month eh di naman po kami ng dodo ni mr.since lastmonth ..pa po pls ans.ny question at gaano po kahaba ang cycle q ireg kasi ako kaya nalilito ako :(

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: dhates on October 12, 2012, 11:09:10 am
http://www.woomb.org/

you can check this website. medyo magulo lang siguro pag una mong binasa pero may pdf yan na downloadable mas madali maintindihan.

busy ata si daddy jojo to answer queries hehe, pero you can review yung mga previous post niya you will surely find answers..  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on November 18, 2012, 06:26:36 am
@rodcielle_07
Kamusta na?  Exclusively Breastfeeding na ba on the baby?  Correct ito ha, Breastfeeding is a Natural Family Planning Method.  While breastfeeding, the whole process of fertility-ovulation-mentruation stops temporarily.   If you would like to be more certain about, you can monitor your cervical mucus discharge.  Kung meron na, baka magkaroon ka na ng mens after 14 days.

Hindi kailangan maghintay ng pagbalik ng menstruation period parfa makapag-start ng Natural Family Planning.  Basta check lang lagi ang signs ng fertility.

I'm always checking for Private Messages.  Minsan, kaya di na ako nakaka-reply ay dahil sa dami ng PMs.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on November 18, 2012, 09:17:57 pm
Hi cklyneshearnf/mamy Shea

Safe yung days na malayo sa Ovulation Day - o yung pag-release ng egg.  Fertile o hindi safe, yung days na malapit sa Ovulation.  Ang Ovulation ay madalas nangyayari, 2 weeks or 14 days before the next menstruation. 

Sep. 10, 2012  ---------------------------------------------------------------->Oct. 11, 2012
(http://billings-ovulation-method.org.au/act/images/cyclngth.gif)
Source: Length of the Menstrual Cycle. Copyright © Ovulation Method Research and Reference Centre of Australia (http://billings-ovulation-method.org.au/act/cycles.shtml)

Kailangan alamin mo ang mga Menstrual Cycle Lengths mo at, kung gusto mong double sure ka pa, take note of daily observations, para malaman mo kung kailan ka safe o hindi.  Madali lang naman ito, bibilangin mo lang lagi ang days ng Cycle mo.   

Sa pag-count ng days ng Menstrual Cycle Length, bibilangin mula sa first date ng previous period hangang sa first date ng next.

Hindi na kasama sa pag-count kung ilang days na may mens ka o kung may spotting...pero sa Natural Family Planning na gumagamit ng chart, sinusulat ito para may record.


kailangan, may iba ka pang dates ng first day ng period mo para malaman kung ano ang lahat ng Cycle Lengths mo.

(http://www.ansci.wisc.edu/jjp1/ansci_repro/lec/lec9/men_cycle_var.jpg)
Source: http://www.ansci.wisc.edu/jjp1/ansci_repro/lec/lec9/lec9fig.html

Ang fertile days mo ay ang Ovulation Day mo, 3-4 days before this and 1 Day after.  Malalaman mo ito kung alam mo ang Cycle Length mo.

Kung ang date ng last mens mo ay Sep. 10 at Oct. 11, ang latest cycle lenght mo ay 32 days.  Nag-Ovulate ka (o nag-release ng egg) noong Sep. 27.  Ito ang date na tinatawag ding Peak Day ng Fertility mo.  Kino-consider din na Fertile Days ang Sep. 23 to Sep. 28.

(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Kvx_4ht9QE4/UKhQMumE7PI/AAAAAAAAA3E/Q3lDDEP5eSM/s800/201209-10%2520Shea%2520Calendar%2520contrast.png)

From Sep. 23 to 28, kasi, possible na nagkaroon ka ng secretions ng Cervical Mucus (o white mens).   Ang Cervical Mucus ay nagli-liquify pag fertile...at ito ang nagpo-protect sa sperms ng husband para makapasok ang mga ito sa Cervix at makaabot sa Uterus o kahit hanggang sa fallopian tube...para hanapin ang egg at ma-fertilize.

From Sep. 10 to 22 at from Sep. 29 to Oct. 11...dry at walang secretions ng Cervical Mucus.  Ito ang mga safe days mo.  Kung nagkaroon ng sperm sa loob, mamamatay agad dahil sa acid.  Kahit may makaligtas, hind makakapasok sa cervix, dahil masyadong sticky ang cervical mucus...para itong plug na naka-seal sa opening.

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: wakuzave on January 31, 2013, 12:26:26 pm
ito po tanong ko pano b malalaman ang cycle ng metration kung ovelation or not.kc nung jan 2 2013 ngkaroon ako tpos ito n naman 27 ngkaroon ako agad ang bilis 2 to 3 days lang tinatagal ng menstration ko normal lang b un poble bng mabubuntis ako agd thanks s mgcocoment.. :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on January 31, 2013, 01:31:32 pm
question about knowing one's cycle, merged with this thread.
Related topic:
Calendar Method
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,9372.0.html
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on April 10, 2013, 06:32:58 pm
hello !want to ask something lang po...may nangyari samin ngayon april10,bali feb 10 po ako nanganak so exactly 2months na ko,nagkaron napo ako nun april3,first mens ko after manganak.question ko po safe po ba ako ngayong april 10?di pa kasi ako makapag decide kung anong contraceptive gagamitin ko thanks
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: princess23 on April 11, 2013, 08:49:16 am
hi sis,

kelan natapos un mens mo na nagstart ng april 3? five days ba naglast which is tumapat ng april 7? kasi yung april 3 start ng mens mo that's ur day 1.. ang pinakaunsafe na days is from day 10 to 20, but to be exact is day 11 to 17.. so kung april 10 may nangyari senyo, safe ka nun.. kasi april 10 un yung pang 8th day mo pa lang.. try not to do the deed from april 13 to april 23..

hope this helps you.. :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on April 11, 2013, 02:19:58 pm
thanks sis..natapos ako siguro or humina na siya i think april 6 o 7 ...naku sana nga kasi di ba may mucus chorva tayo na chinecheck if fertile or not,eh kahapon ata o kanina may mucus ako di ba kahit ano pang secretions pwede ding sign na malapit o fertile ka na kaya yun..what do you think?natatakot ako huhu
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on April 11, 2013, 02:56:41 pm
saka isa pa sis princess23, d ko pa kasi alam kung talagang ok na mens ko since kakaresume niya palang..sabi kasi maaaring maging ireg ka after manganak kahit regular k naman before ka mabuntis kapraning e
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: princess23 on April 11, 2013, 03:08:38 pm
breastfeeding kb? kasi pag breastfeeding ka and you are doing the deed, less chance na mabubuntis ka.. better check with your OB about the chances of you to get pregnant again kasi after pregnancy magulo pa kasi yung hormones natin, so minsan yung menstrual cycle nagugulo dn.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on April 11, 2013, 04:32:42 pm
nag stop nako sis ee..yung 1st month niya bf siya..now hindi na full bottlefeed na siya ..natatakot tuloy ako sana nga tama yung tingin mo na di ako fertile nun o what ever hays kulit kasi ni boyfie ;(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on April 19, 2013, 08:48:29 am
hi moms!paki bigay naman po ng link sa sp's fertility calculator,di ko po kasi makita,thank you! (=
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: toughmom moderator on April 19, 2013, 10:10:17 pm
^Link posted my May 27, 2012 reply on this thread dated. Please back read.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ilovekendra on May 15, 2013, 12:57:09 pm
Mommies, I'm turning 24 yrs old na po this year pero until now di ko pa rin naiiintindihan ang fertile days. Pahelp naman po.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on May 15, 2013, 03:33:09 pm
"Fertile Days" merged with this topic.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on May 16, 2013, 02:39:02 pm
Hi ilovekendra,

Maraming mommies are on the same situation as yours.  Hindi yata kasi included sa lessons sa school (Reproductive System, Menstruation, etc)...ang tungkol sa fertile days.  Siguro intentional na hindi ituro...para kung walang alam sa fertile days, patuloy na mabebentahan ng contraceptives at iba pang artificial birth control products.

I'm a daddy.  Kaming mga lalaki, always fertile.  So, can I help, even if I'm not a mommy?

Women are only fertile during specific days...kaya it's pointless that a lot of people are poisoning themselves with contraceptives and killing their babies...when all they need to do is get to know their own bodies.   Most of the time, women are not fertile.  The vagina has acid that protects it from infection and kills sperms.

Ovulation Day - Most Fertile Day
Simply count 14 days backwards from the first day of menstrual flow...that's the most fertile day or Peak Day.  It's also called Ovulation Day, because that is the time that an egg is released.

If you want to know how to estimate it ahead of time, then you need to have a list of all your first days of menstruation.

Other Fertile Days
Around 3 to 5 days before Ovulation and one day after it, a woman will have discharges of Cervical Mucus.  This mucus can protect sperm from the acid in the vagina.  Thus, Fertile Days are from 17 to 13 days before the first day of your menstruation. 

(http://archive.irh.org/images/Secretions.jpg)
(http://nfp.marquette.edu/images/fertillity_level.gif)

Aside from observing cervical mucus discharge...the cervix position and condition may be checked internally. 

(http://www.glowm.com/resources/glowm/cd/graphics/figures/v6/0160/011f.jpg)

Related message: Feeling your Cervix, position, firmness, softness - another natural way to check (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,54201.msg879721.html#msg879721)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: hollabackgirl on May 18, 2013, 09:39:33 pm
hindi accurate ang calendar method regarding fertile days.

I have a regular period and I GOT PREGNANT two days before my expected period.

So wala akong tiwala sa calendar method because egg can be released any moment you don't expect it..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on May 20, 2013, 10:35:17 am
Hi hollabackgirl,

Thank you for your comment.  I agree..."hindi accurate ang calendar method regarding fertile days."

Ang sine-share ko sa thread na ito ay hindi ang Rhythm o Calendar Method.  Obsolete na ang method na ito at matagal ko nang sinasabi sa mga moderators dito na palitan na ang title ng thread na ito. 

Ang sine-share ko dito ay Standard Days Method, Two Day Method at iba pang modern, scientific, proven effective and accurate Natural Family Planning Methods.

If you had full information about any of these Natural Family Planning methods then you could have been able to determine your fertile days.  You could have even increased the probability of getting the desired gender for your child.

The release of an egg or Ovulation and fertile days can be affected by stress and other factors, thus a woman's menstruation period moves to a different day.  It's possible that what you might have thought as two days before your expected period...was actually the day when you release an egg that has been delayed.

It is important that one gets accurate information and observation of one's body.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: luk_resha on May 20, 2013, 04:37:24 pm
my husband and i learned that self discipline is the primary key  ;) we have been practicing calendar method + two days method for more than a year and a half now and we are glad na working samin  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ¸¸.♥ kyutie ♥.¸¸ on May 31, 2013, 01:58:31 am
hi daddy jojo,
ask ko lang if tuwing fertile days lang ba may chance na mabuntis? medyo naguguluhan kasi ako. yung iba kase, para malaman mo if kelan ang safe days mo, mag sisimula ka mag count s unang araw na nagka mens ka hanggang seven day.. for example, MAY 21 ang unang menstration ko, then MAY 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28 hanggang 28 lang yung araw na safe ako.. ganyan po kasi ang ginagawa ko para sure.. pero kanina po kasi, nag do kami ni hobby at ng matapos sya, hindi na niya nailabas. medyo kinakabahan ako, kasi ika-10th days na yun baka hindi na safe.. almost 1h din ako nag search at nag basa basa.. yung ibang nabasa ko, 10days after mens safe pa, yung iba naman, hanggang 7days lang gaya nyang ginagawa ko lagi.. medyo hindi kasi ako sure jan sa 10th day.. posible po ba akong mabuntis?  :-\ please answer ASAP
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ¸¸.♥ kyutie ♥.¸¸ on June 01, 2013, 02:20:12 am
jan sa mga date na sinabi ko, what if hindi nga ako safe nung araw na yan, (MAY 30 at ang LMP ko is MAY 21) so sabihin na nating posible po akong mabuntis, yung mga araw po ba na 11 to 20days (na yung araw na fertile tayo o ako, kasi pag ika 8 or 14days daw fertile diba?) what if kung mabbuo yung baby na yun, yung mga araw pa na susunod, lalabas paba yung sign na fertile pa ako? *sensya na medyo tan** lang hehe* please answer ASAP po :(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on June 01, 2013, 08:04:03 am
^sis di ako expert ah?share ko lang yung alam ko :) bago madetect na preggy ka lilipas muna 2-3weeks after ng last do,if ganun kaaga,di pa siguro magiging obvious kung preggy o hindi ,kung regular ka at bigla ka na di dinatnan ayun na yun!hihi
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ¸¸.♥ kyutie ♥.¸¸ on June 01, 2013, 01:08:20 pm
^ What i'm asking sa last post ko sis, if posible nga na mabuo ang baby after namin mag do, (kung hindi ako safe ng araw na yun) yung mga susunod ba na araw na fertile ako, (diba kapag fertile ka, ang sign nito may mucus,) magkakaroon paba nun kung may nabuo na?  :-\
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on June 01, 2013, 01:36:02 pm
ahh,sis ang alam ko nabasa ko din to sa mga post ni daddy jojo,pag may nabuo na no need na ng mucus,parang di ba nga sign pag magovulate na,bat pa magovulate kung may baby na :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ¸¸.♥ kyutie ♥.¸¸ on June 02, 2013, 09:00:52 am
^ Ahh.. thank you sis.. titignan k nalang siguro sa mga susunod na araw kung mag kaka mucus paba ako.. dun nalang siguro ako babase kung buntis naba ako o hindi ..  :-\ (sana wag muna) akala kasi ng hubby ko, safe pa ako nung araw na yun.. sis nabasa mo ba yung unang post ko nito sa taas? sa tingin mo ba safe pa ako nung araw na yan? ang LMP ko is MAY 21 den nag do kame MAY 30.. hindi niya ni release kasi dahil akala niya safe pa ako..  :'(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ¸¸.♥ kyutie ♥.¸¸ on June 04, 2013, 12:12:33 am
Hello, anyone can help me answer my question? everyday akong nag oonline at more than 5x a day kong chinechek kung may reply ba dito .. (sorry im not blaming you guys if may suamgot man o wala..) masyado lang siguro akong na pra-praning .. :( its been 2.6 years ko nang ginagawa / sinusunod yung nababasa / natutunan ko dito about safe days at unsafe.., 100% effective naman sya para sakin.. ngayon lang kxe talaga ngyari ito after a year.. akala kxe ni hubby safe ako nung 30.. kea sinadya niya i release lahat sa luob .. may LMP is MAY 21 2013.. saktong 28days po b4 ako magkaroon.. ang madalas kasi naming ginagawa is, bago may 8 days, if mag do-do kame, ni rerelease niya lahat sa luob.. pero nitong MAY 30 kxe, bale ika 10th day ko ayun .. almost 2h< akong nag sesearch at nagbabasa basa, ang sabi ng iba dito ayon sa aking nababasa o search, count 1 to 7 days (yung day1 yung unang nagkaperiod ka hanggang 7days, safe) yung iba naman, pag period mo is 5days, kunyari JUNE 1 1st day ng period mo, at nag end ang period mo nung JUNE 5, mag cocount ka sa JUNE 6 + 5 days so = JUNE 10 safe pa, basta ang daming iba't ibang way.. binabasa ko din ang mga previous post, nung time na mag DO kxe kame ni hubby, sure ako na medyo dry at wala mucus na lumabas e.. (diba pag ganun sign yun na safe pa ako? tska pasok pa naman sa date na safe ako) pero kinabukasan ng gabi kxe, may lumabas na mucus e.. yung katulad ng pinaliwanag ni daddy jojo.. huhu.. posible po bang mabuntis ako?  :'(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on June 04, 2013, 05:51:52 am
relax ka lang sis! pero syempre,alam naman nating ang 10th day although sabe ay safe pa pero alanganin nadin,di kita tinatakot or what ah sis?yung pang 8th day nga na nag do kame kabado na ko nun,pero thank god di naman ako nabuntis,malay mo naman di ba?pero kung na timingan kayo,well its a gift :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on June 04, 2013, 06:05:49 am
Dear ¸¸.♥ кяιzzℓє ♥.¸¸

According sa Standard Days Method (SDM), ang estimated na fertile days ay Day 8 to 19.

Day 1 ang first day ng menstrual flow.  Ang Day 10 ay fertile day.

Sa isang posted message mo noong Mar. 31, 2011, tama yung calendar mo.  Kung ang start ng Period ay 4th of the month, ang estimated safedays ay 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 (Day 1 to 7), Fertile ang 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, and 22 (Day 8 to 19).

Pero ang SDM ay estimate lang.  Ina-assume na ang range ng cycle mo ay 26 to 32 days.  Sa 26 Day Cycle kasi, ang Day 8 ay ang start ng fertile day...at sa 32 Day Cycle, ang Day 19 ang last day na fertile ka.

Dapat mo itanong sa sarili mo, "Ano ba ang Cycle Length ko?" "26 to 32 Days ba?" "Pwede ba sa akin ang SDM?"

Para masagot mo ang mga tanong na ito,kailangan may listahan ka ng mga dates ng start ng menstruation period mo.  Heto ang ilang dates ng start ng Menstruation period mo (Day 1)

May 21, 2013
Jan. 6, 2013
Jun. 25, 2011
May 31, 2011 - 25 Days Cycle (May 31 to Jun. 24)
May 3, 2011 - 28 Days Cycle (May 3 to 30)

Since meron kang 25 Days Cycle, hindi applicable sa iyo ang Standad Days Method.    Possible kasi na sa Day 7 ay fertile ka na.

Heto, may ginawa akong illustration ng Fertile Days ng bawat cycle. Putol ang right side nito ha...kaya huwag mo iassume na hanggang Day 22 lang lahat ito.  Kapag binuo ko kasi ang image, masyado nang liliit at baka di mabasa.

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-hfQGGRAmhc4/UTKHaNaRHYI/AAAAAAAAA34/rKVPQREh3Rk/s800/23-34%2520Day%2520Fertility%2520Cycle%2520%2528cropped%2529.JPG) (https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-hfQGGRAmhc4/UTKHaNaRHYI/AAAAAAAAA34/rKVPQREh3Rk/s800/23-34%2520Day%2520Fertility%2520Cycle%2520%2528cropped%2529.JPG)
F - Fertile Day
P - Pinaka-Fertile, Peak Day, Ovulation or that day when an egg is released.

Ang estimated Cycle Length mo ay 25 to 28 Days Cycle. So, kung pagbabasehan ito ...at May 21 ang Day 1 ng previous menstruation period mo...possible na Fertile ka from May 27 (Day 7) to Jun. 4 (Day 15).  Paki check sa image sa itaas ang 25 Days Cycle at 28 Days Cycle.

Estimate lang ito...based sa computation ng Cycle Days mo.  Ang mas accurate ay kung sasabayan mo ito ng pag-check ng mucus.  So kung wala kang na-observe na mucus discharge noong May 27 hanggang May 30...possible na hindi ka pa fertile.

Pero dapat laging nagsisiguro...kahit walang na-observe na mucus...pero Day 7 na...mas sure kung hindi na muna mag-all-the-way sa loob.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on June 04, 2013, 01:46:41 pm
so daddy jojo,kung ang cycle ko is between 28-34 puwede sakin ang SDM?since nanganak ako (feb)nagstart ako magmens ng april, sa 3mos na nagkameron nako (april,may,at ngayong june)ibA iba sya, may 32days,34,at ngayong june 30days,pasok ba ako sa SDM o observe muna pa rin ako?grabe hirap naman kasi di makapag all the way,plan ko na tuloy magpa iud if ever
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on June 04, 2013, 08:11:19 pm
Hi zeatot10,

HIndi, pwede sa iyo ang Standard Days Method (SDM).  As I have said, para lang siya sa mga 26 to 32 Days ang cycle.  Ang fertile days nito ay mula Day 8 to Day 19.  Ang Day 20 onwards ay safe na para sa SDM...pero hindi sa iyo.  If you can see the image of the chart I posted (notice the days highlighted in yellow), sa mga may 34 Days Cycle na tulad mo...ang Day 20 ang isa sa possible na pinaka-fertile day.  Hanggang Day 21 ang fertile Day mo.

Para sa iyo na 28 to 34 Days Cycle...pagsama-samahin mo ang mga fertile days ng 28 Days hanggang 34 Days Cycle.  Ang estimated safe days mo ay Day 1 to 9 at Day 22 to Day 28 (up to Day 34 or next mens).

Ang Fertile Days (F) mo ay Day 10 to 21 (in Yellow) at ang estimated na possible Pinaka-fertile Days (P) mo ay Day 14 to Day 20.


(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-hfQGGRAmhc4/UTKHaNaRHYI/AAAAAAAAA34/rKVPQREh3Rk/s800/23-34%2520Day%2520Fertility%2520Cycle%2520%2528cropped%2529.JPG) (https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-hfQGGRAmhc4/UTKHaNaRHYI/AAAAAAAAA34/rKVPQREh3Rk/s800/23-34%2520Day%2520Fertility%2520Cycle%2520%2528cropped%2529.JPG)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ¸¸.♥ kyutie ♥.¸¸ on June 04, 2013, 09:46:14 pm
Hi daddy jojo! Thank you for the quick response  ;D para ka talagang si superman .. hehe
pasensya na ha, kung medyo makulit ako.. ganito lang ako kapag masyado napangungunahan ng emosyon at natatakot..
anyway, yang pinost mo na sinasabi ko na 25 days lang ang cycle ko, last year pa yan diba? nag iba na sya ngayon daddy jojo.,. lagi nang sakto sa 28 days yung cycle ko.. pinaka matagal na yun.. hindi sumosobra.. kahit 1day.. laging 28 talaga.. ang pinka shortest naman is 27 .. ito yung mga LMP ko this year;
JANUARY - 7, 8, 9 medyo hindi ako sure alin jan sa tatlo basta hindi bababa sa date na 7 at lalagpas sa 9
FEBRUARY - 3
MARCH - 2
MARCH - 28
APRIL - 25
MAY - 21

kung icacalculate mo lahat ng day, 28 yan halos.. iisa lang yung 27days (correct me if i'm wrong)
hayy.. kaya nung nag do kami ni hubby, nung MAY 30, ni release niya talaga lahat sa loob.. (sa pag aakalang safe pa ako) kaya nag search2 agad ako at nag basa basa.. naghahanap ako ng chance kung posible bang mabuntis ako that day.. pero nung MAY 30 pababa kxe, wala naman ako na observe na mucus.. :(
anyway daddy jojo, diba malalaman mong fertile ka if may mucus (yung parang egg white sa itlog or parang uhog gaya ng pinaliwanag mo sa mga pinost mo?) how about kung wala akong na observe na ganun, laging parang watery lang pero walang amoy.. inobserbahan ko kasi yung secretion ko kung may sign ba na fertile ako basehan ko kasi na fertile ako is yung mucus.. pero panu kung e2ng araw na fertile na ako gaya sa pinsot mo na yan na fertile na ako ngaying araw or nung isang araw / kahapon, wala pa din mucus? pansin ko kasi watery lang sya eh... sign naba yun na buntis na ako?  :'( :'(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on June 05, 2013, 04:30:06 am
^^ay oo nga.hehe mobile lang kasi gamit ko daddy jojo kaya di ko makita, gustuhin ko man talaga mag NFP ang hirap talaga :( mahirap na ngayong malusutan eh 4mos palang baby namin,nakakabitin talaga.hmms!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: joyrn on June 05, 2013, 02:34:25 pm
hi im new here pls help me..nagkaron po kc ako nung may 28-first day ko po yun natapos ako  june 2  pero may spotting pa din ako nung june 3.tapos nag make love kami ng bf ko nung june 4, safe po ba yun na di ako mabubuntis? worried po kc ako. thanks
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on June 05, 2013, 04:54:56 pm
Hi zeatot10

Ano ang mahirap sa NFP?  Starting sa first day ng mens mo, may 7 days kayo na unlimited sex.  Sa pang-8th hanggang 21st day, baka pwede na munang puro foreplay at stimulation, walang munang genital penetration...pero pwedeng mag-come...both of you...just be creative.  Pag 22nd day na at hanggang sa next mens mo...unlimited sex ulit.

Try nyo rin kaya ang ibang aspect ng marriage, aside from sex.  I develop ninyo ang inyong bond as partners for life.

Recently, may nagsabi sa akin na couple na gumagamit ng IUD...harang sa sex pag tinatamaan ang nakalawit na tali ng IUD.  Sa IUD at Pills nabubuntis pa rin...kadalasan dahil sa position ng IUD at ng kemikal sa Pills...nalalaglag ang baby...kaya akala ng marami effective ito...dahil hindi natutuloy ang pagbubuntis.  Ang mother ko na nagtatrabaho sa hospital noon, muntikan nang mamatay dahil sa infection sa IUD.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: licious10 on June 06, 2013, 01:26:47 am
waaah!daddy jojo naman e,wagas manakot (~.~) balak ko palang naman yun,di pa din ako sigurado dun kasi natatakot din ako syempre,ayoko lalo talaga sa pills,baka lalo ako manaba pati sa chemicals na din,mas gusto ko talaga NFP pero kasi di pa ko sure sa mens ko kung regular na talaga siya,kasi mag4mos palang kami ni baby...marame naman kami boNding time aside from sex syempre,di naman talaga kasi dun umiikot ang pagsasama ng magpartner,marame kami time like pagaalaga kay baby,watching tv o movies,foodtrip,etc. Katakot lang talaga mabuntis ngayon,plano pa naman namin 8-10yrs gap ng mga baby namin
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on June 06, 2013, 11:42:04 am
Hi joyrn

Kung May 28 ang Day 1 mo...ang June 4 ay Day 8.

Possible na fertile ka at pwedeng mabuntis kung ang Cycle Length mo ay 26 Days Cycle (or shorter).  Ano pa ba ang ibang dates ng first day ng mens mo? 

That morning, pagbangon mo noong June 4, may na-notice ka ba na mucus discharge?

Kung meron, possible na fertile ka nun at pwede kang mabuntis.

I hope you can consider also your overall health.  Hindi lang ang concern na baka mabuntis ang risk na iko-confront mo when you choose to be sexually active.  DI ba, hindi madali maging babae, especially sa aspect ng feminine hygiene.  When you get into an intimate relationship with someone who is not fully matured and committed to you...as in married to you and you live together (meaning kabisado mo na ang personal hygiene at health ninyo)....mataas ang risk mo na mahawa ng Sexually Transmitted Infections.
Matagal ang maturity ng mga lalaki, especially sa relationships at sex.  Kahit may karelasyon na, nakikipag-sex pa rin sa iba. Pataas ng pataas ang bilang ng may HIV/AIDS...at karamihan dito mga lalaki. Here's a private message sent to me recently.

Sent to: Daddy Jojo on: 2013-05-10, 10:14:33

"Hi po daddy jojo...May Girlfriend po ako 5months n po kami..Nakipagtalik po ako sa ibang babae hindi ko po alam may  Tulo pala sya,after 2 days po daddy jojo hindi ko pa nalaman na may tulo pala yung girl ,nagtalik kami ng gf ko daddy jojo pagtapos after 1 weeek doon ko na po nalaman na may tulo na ako.. May posibilidad po ba na mahawaan din ang gf ko?"

Ang sakit na mentioned dito, tulo ay yung Gonorrhea.  Malapit nang maging untreatable ang sakit na ito.
"Gonorrhea soon untreatable - WHO" from Philippine Council For Health Research And Development. Department of Science and Technology  (http://www.pchrd.dost.gov.ph/index.php/2012-05-23-07-46-36/2012-05-24-00-03-06/2684-gonorrhea-soon-untreatable-a-who)

Some disease are deadly, like HIV/AIDS and the HPV which leads to Cervical Cancer.  Ang akala siguro ng marami, simple lang, pag nakamamatay....mamamatay lang...pero ang pinakamadalas na hassle ng sex...yung suffering from infections at disease...Urinary Tract Infection (UTI), Pubic Lice...

Pubic lice are tiny insects that infect the pubic hair area and lay eggs. These lice can also be found in armpit hair and eyebrows. Pubic lice are known as Phthirus pubis. They are found mostly in teenagers. Pubic lice are often spread during sexual activity. - U.S. Department of Health and Human Services National Institutes of Health

...Herpes, na nahahawa kahit sa kiss lang...ay hindi gumagaling....nagagamot para mabawasan ang symptoms...pero hindi gumagaling...at patuloy na nakakahawa.

...at marami pang iba.  Sana makatulong ako sa pagse-share ng information para sa isang empowered at fully informed choice.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on June 12, 2013, 10:03:20 am
Topic "calculating your cycle and determining your fertile days" merged with this topic.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: chillerz0029 on July 25, 2013, 08:21:35 pm
hi po good evening hinge lang po ako ng advice kung pano malalaman kung kylan safe and not safe ako last ng dalaw ko nung july 14 pano po ba yung pag bilang and ano po bang yung ovalation sana po masagot nio po yung tanong ko salamat...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Elisabel21 on February 04, 2014, 02:51:02 pm
Last January 19 patapos na po yung mens ko. so by january 20,21 at 22 kunti nalang talaga yung mga dugong lumalabas. Then last january 30 nki pag sex po ak,. unsafe sex po sya. ? Nag pregnancy test po ako kaninang umaga. negative naman po. Ibig bang sabihin nun hindi ako mabubuntis? Or uulitin kong mag pregnancy test ulit this coming February 19.?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: toughmom moderator on February 05, 2014, 01:23:49 am
Question from another thread, merged with this topic.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on February 07, 2014, 09:50:51 am
Hi Elisabel21

Yes, possible na nabuntis ka.

Hindi mo nilagay ang pinaka-important information...kailan nag-start ang mentruation period mo...ano'ng date?  Yun lang ang mahalaga, ang Day 1 at hindi yung final days.

Jan. 17 ba o Jan. 18...ang first day?

Kung bibilangin,  Jan. 30 is about Day 14.

Ang Day 14 ang estimated most/highest fertile day ng 28 Day Cycle.  Ibig sabihin yun ang possible time na nagrelease ng egg (Ovulation/Peak Day).

The only possibility na hindi ka nabuntis ay kung na-delay ang Ovulation mo at naging long cycle ka.  This means na mare-reschedule din ang next menstruation mo on a later date.

Sana makapagbigay ka pa ng dates ng first day ng menstruation mo at para malaman na rin natin kung ano ang cycle length mo.

Kung fertile ka during that time of sexual intercourse...wala nang paraan para pigilan pa yun ha.  Mabubuo na ang baby nun.  Any attempt would be considered as trying to perform an abortion and this puts a mother to a great health risk and the baby being born with abnormalities.

Pregnancy test will not be accurate until around after a week a period has been delayed (I think I read that somewhere).


Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommygracy on March 20, 2014, 10:46:47 pm
Hi moms and dads! I've been reading this thread and i learned a lot since i just stopped taking contraceptive pills. My hubby and i wanted to try SDM. Pero may question lang po ako, dinatnan kasi ako around 9:00 in the evening. Should i consider it as Day 1? TIA
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on March 25, 2014, 07:30:55 am
Hi mommygracy,

Congratulations on your decision.

My answer to your question is, yes, that's Day 1.

It should be a flow of blood and lasting for more than two days, that is what's considered a menstruation and that first day of observation is Day 1.  You may send me a private message if you need more help. 

Cheers,


J0
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommygracy on April 01, 2014, 10:11:55 pm
Thanks for your response Daddy Jo. Very informative ang thread na ito because of you. Just by merely reading, marami na akong natutunan  ;D
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: anna014 on May 16, 2014, 11:07:13 am
PLS help ME PO, LAST MENS KO APRIL 13 TO 18 ...NAGKARON PO CONTACT SA BF KO APRIL 21 TO 23...TAPOS NAGKARON PO KO MAY 06 SPOTTING lang D KO NAGAMIT NAPKIN KO LINER lang DEN 2DAYS lang PO ALA NA AGAD ....EARLY naman PO MASYADO yung BLEED kasi dapat 1MONTH BGO PO KO MAGKARON ULI....NKA TRY NA PO KO 3 TIMES NG PT PERO NEGATIVE LAHAT NGAUN NASUSUKA naman AKO ALA AKO MAISUKA AT yung MANGGANG MAASIM PARA SA KNILA EH MATAMIS SA PANLASA KO PLS help IM SO VERY CONFUSED ...THANKS
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on May 16, 2014, 11:35:22 am
Hi anna014,

Kung Apr. 13 ang first day ng last mens mo, ang Apr. 21 to 23 ay Day 9 to  Day 11.  For many women whose cycle is 29 days and below...high fertile days ito.  Possible na buntis ka.

Kung buntis ka nga, di na ito mapipigilian at pwedeng may masamang mangyari kung susubukan mong pigilin.  Sana meron sa family na nakakatanda na babae...tulad ng mother mo, older sister o tiyahin na pwede mong makausap tungkol dito.  Then magusap kayo ng BF mo at sana makausap din ang side ng family niya.  Sana maharap ninyo together ang responsibility na ito.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ferl on May 18, 2014, 11:56:39 am
Elow mga mami...newbie po ako
tatanong ko lang po kung buntis ako.nagkamenz po ako noong may 4,2014 tapos po nag end siya ng may 8.then ngcontact kame ng husband ko may 16,2014 possible po ba mabuntis ako? Patulong po mga mami..thanks po
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Post by: toughmom moderator on June 08, 2014, 01:31:10 am
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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: gelcuray on June 28, 2014, 03:03:01 pm
hi po daddy jo. ask ko po sana kung posible ba na buntis ako. first day po kasi ng mens ko june 2 gang june 4. then nag do-do po kami ni bf ng june 6 at 7 sa loob po nag c*m. then june 17 po nag do ulit kami kaso nagwidraw po sya 2 times. after that, next day dami na po lumalabas sa akin na white blood. then nung 23 po nag do ulit kami kaso may konting blood na lumabas. so di na po namin tinuloy. akala ko po may period na ko kaso di  naman nagtuloy, pero yung white blood madami pa rin. posible po kaya na buntis ako? pls help."
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: dagz26 on June 28, 2014, 04:05:01 pm
Hi, po.. mag tatanong lang po ako.. kinakabahn kasi ako ehh,.. nag start po ang mens ng GF ko june 9 then pag ka june 15 nag make love po kami... pinasok ko po pero hindi naman po lahat kasi natakot ako...  parang dinikit ko lang... pero nilabasan ako sa labas tinanggal ko... tatanong lang ako.. safe bayun? first time kasi ehh,.. kinakabahan ako... :'( . . .
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Qina on July 17, 2014, 08:19:23 pm
Good eve! Magpapatulong po sana ako. Delayed na kasi menstruation ko. Bale eto po yung history ng period ko since June 2013:

First Day of Period / days
June 16, 2013     
July 20, 2013 / 34 days
August 17, 2013 / 28 days
September 13, 2013 / 27 days
October 10, 2013 / 27 days   
November 17, 2013 / 38 days
December 22, 2013 / 35 days
January 21, 2014 / 30 days
February 26, 2014 / 36 days
March 27, 2014 / 29 days
May 1, 2014 / 35 days
June 3, 2014 / 33 days
                        / 44 days (as of today 7/17/14)

Wala naman po akong nararamdamang kakaiba. Medyo hilo lang pero parang normal na sa akin, lalo pag nagpupuyat ako. Didn't use PT pa or consult to OB-Gyne. I'm still hoping na sana magkakaroon na ako, na hindi na muna sana ako mabuntis. I & my BF had lovemaking after my menstruation (didn't remember the last day of menstruation), pero pag lipas na ng 5 days pagkatapos ng menstruation ko, we do the withdrawal method naman. Ngayon lang yata ako na-delayed ng ganito katagal. Patulong naman po sa pag-analyse nito please. Tsaka what are the signs po pag pregnant pag wala pang 1 month? Thank you!
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on July 23, 2014, 12:02:48 am
Hi Qina,

Sorry for the late response.  I've been quite busy.  Ang shortest cycle mo ay 27 days.  That means na as early as Day 9 (or nine days after your menstruation started), possible na mag-fertile ka na.  Ang period ay 3-5 days.   So kung ang-end ka nung Day 4 or Day 5, then after 5 more days, may penetration ulit...that's already Day 9 or Day 10...yes pwede kang mabuntis.

Hindi lahat ng lalaki, may full control at kaya ang totoong withdrawal.

High risk, hindi lang sa possible pregnancy, kundi lalo na sa pagakaroon ng Sexually Transmitted Diseases...kung hindi mo pa lubusang kilala ang ka-partner mo at ang relasyon ninyo ay hindi lifetime at permanent commitment tulad ng kasal.

Nakakasira ng relasyon kung magiging sexual ang isang relationship kung di pa kayo kasal at nagsasama bilang mag-asawa...kasi di made-develop ang non-sexual aspects ng inyong relasyon.  Mase-set aside ang mga mas importanteng aspects sana tulad ng sacrifice, unconditional loving, at iba pa.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: mommyonsale on July 25, 2014, 01:59:08 pm
hello po sakin po tanng ko na din..

June 19 at July 21 po yung dates ng una kong araw na nagkaroon and it always last for three days... Ask ko po tuwing kailan ako safe na makipag DO sa asawa ko kasi never kami gumamit ng contraceptives puro withdrawal lang kaso after 4 years nabuntis ako sa bunso namin and now ayaw ko na po kasi masundan yung dalawang anak namin... Kindly help po...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Chris011322 on August 08, 2014, 10:46:18 am
Hello guys, just wondering(kinda new sa ganitong process)if pwede mag patulong sainyo about the calendar method..

si wife kase june 17 2014 sya nagkaroon ng mens then july 18 2014 yung pangalawa niya.

so anung araw sya sa august mag kakaroon?

meron ako ditong calendar app which is para syang calculator.. pero hndi ako syempre masyadong nag titiwala sa mga ganun.. so i just want to know if pano ko malalaman yung menstrual cycle and luteal phase niya.. which is kung kelan yung 5 days na fertile sya and ovulation day niya. thanks sa makakapag reply agad.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on August 08, 2014, 11:14:28 pm
Chris011322 and mommyonsale, Please find answers to your question on this post:
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,1092.msg887425.html#msg887425

In addition to that, mas accurate at mapi-pin point ninyo yung 4 days na "no go" if you combine it with Basal Body Temp and Mucous Method. I read that the sperm can live up to 5 days (not 48 hours) if the woman is nearing ovulation and immediately gets killed by the woman's acidity on non-fertile days.

Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: kimberly. on August 09, 2014, 01:57:01 pm
hellow new po ako pwede ko po bang malaman kong kailan ako fertile last menstration ko po is nung july 27 thanks po
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ZachAmber on October 28, 2014, 01:36:29 pm
HI, good afternoon new member lang po ako dito at gusto ko lang malaman kung preggy ba ako or hindi. Bale ganito po, nung Sept 4, 2014 nagkamens po ako i think tumagal sya ng 5days, after that nag do kami ng bf ko until the 25th of sept.,  then nagulat na lang ako ng biglang nung Sept 26, 2014 dinatnan na naman ko nag last sya nung 30. Hindi ko alam kung bakit twice ako dinatnan sa month ng September. Ngayon hindi ko po alam kung anong cycle ko. So nagbase na lang ako sa last period ko, so dapat last Oct 25 or 26 meron na po ako, kaso lang 28 na ngayon wala pa ring signs na dadatnan ako. Paki clear naman po kung tama hinala ko na i might be pregnant. Thank you and hope to hear from you asap.  :-)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: dhyzha on November 26, 2014, 08:31:17 pm
Hi SP Moms  :)

I want to share my natural family planning method, more than 1 year ko na itong ginagamit, kaya lang applicable lang sa regular ang period. Ang website na ito ang katulong ko para malaman kung kailan safe at hindi safe.

http://www.divine.ca/en/health/period-predictor-and-fertility-calendar/c_320/

1) dapat alam niyo ang first day ng period, cycle niyo at kung ilang araw tumagal. Sa akin ang cycle ko ay 32 days.

(http://i755.photobucket.com/albums/xx193/denden_28/2.jpg)

2) (http://i755.photobucket.com/albums/xx193/denden_28/3.jpg)
Ganyan ang lalabas na result, yung titinganan po ay yung ovulation , yan po ang unsafe days. Pero nag aadjust po ako ng araw, ginagawa kong total of 2 weeks ang unsafe days, so ang unsafe days ko po ay from Nov. 30 - Dec. 13, 2014, the rest of the days are safe. Nag-adjust ako ng araw para siguradong hindi papalya.

3) Mas maganda kung ililista niyo ang first day ng period at ang unsafe days para hindi po tayo malilito.

4) Mas mabuti kung mapag-uusapan niyo to ng partner niyo at mapaintindi sa kanya.

Madami na sa atin ang may internet kaya hindi na ito mahirap gawin.
Sana makatulong. Thanks :)





Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: dreamingbaby on May 16, 2015, 10:49:39 pm
hello po sa lahat member dito..im new this site...hingi sana ako ng advice sa inyo..if kailan fertile ko..heto yong last record last mens ko [jan 27-31] [march 14 -18] [may 4-8]..grabi halos more than 1 month ako delayed,,bago ako datnan..pro ngsimula lang delayed ko nong january..normal naman talaga period ko dati..atsa ka 1st check up ko sa  by january..simula noon delayed na ako..gsto ko na talaga mgkababy..by the way..wala naman problem sa akin..yung husband ko ngsperm count na rin sya..medyo mababa tlaga spermcount at the 200,000 at the 1st..at now naging 2m na..sana matulongan nyo ako..salamat po..wait po ako sa repz..ingatz po kayo lagi
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: japj11 on May 24, 2015, 06:03:25 pm
Hi im new here.. Gsto ko kc malaman kung unsafe ako. First mens ko april 27-may 3 but nxt day my spotting pa rin mhina flow lang cia until 7 ng c*m inside thn my discharge kasi konti blood. Thn next day aftr niya mag c*m discharge but konti lang. Thn may 11 -12 c*m cia inside. Thn my white mens lagi i think 4 days im not sure until wen discharge sken. parang thick cia wen i pee my kasama white. Safe or unsafe po ba ako. I want to know kc i really want to have a baby. By the way im 35 yrs old and this will be my first baby. And is it true ba na pag nsa 35-40 up is difficult na mabuntis?? Pls. help i really want to have a baby. Thank u
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: jhelica15 on June 01, 2015, 07:06:23 pm
Hello po , Newbie lang po ako dito and may
questionspo ako n kaylangan ng kasagutan.
Natatakot at kinakabahan po kase ako lalo na
yung gf ko .
Nagkamens po sya nung may 20 upto may 27
daw po and nag do po kame after 3 days ng
knyang period and its on may 30.
Natatakot lang po kame kase after 1 hour
mtapos namin mag do, may lumabas daw po n
buo buo na kulay white sa ari niya n malagkit
daw at bigla daw po sumakit puson niya.
Nangangamba po kame baka po kase mabuntis
siya, pero sure naman po ako n wala ako
naiputok n sperm inside, un nga lang po xempre
natatakot din baka nga kase my naiputok s loob
eh di ko lang naramdaman .
So ang tanong ko lang po is posible po bng
mabuntis siya at ano po kaya yung lumabas sa
ari niya ?
Sana po masagot niu po kaagad yung tanong
ko . Maraming salamat po.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: jhelica15 on June 01, 2015, 07:22:16 pm
eto po number ko , sana po may magandang
loob n tumulong at sagutin mga tanong ko po.
. salamat . .
09063269885
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: fionnah0325 on June 06, 2015, 10:57:05 am
^ im not totally sure pero pag once may 20 nagstart mens niya taz may nangyari sa inyo ng may 30 means fertile yong girl....unsafe period is may 28- jue 6..if ever nagkamali ka then im sure mabubuntis gf mo....bakit ka natatakot if mabubuntis siya?yong lumabas sa kanya means fertile siya non yon ang sign non
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: meshie14 on July 20, 2015, 11:41:37 pm
Question po :
Posible po kayang pregnant ako?
Mens :
March 10-14
April 4-10 (1week maaga)
May - no mens
June 6-11
July upto now wala pa po mens.

It never happen to me since before.
May anak na po ako isa 6y.o. di pa nasusundan.
Last contact namin ni bf is March 30...Pero madalas kami mag Do the entire march...
In my entire life never happen sakin na mawalan ng mens.Negative PT.Iniisip ko baka may problem sa pagbubuntis ko kasi mahirap na ako mabuntis.
Please help...
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on July 21, 2015, 10:23:52 am
Dear meshie14,

Thank you for sharing ha. Nabasa ko rin ang private message (pm) mo.

May I ask kung yun bang April 4 at June 4 mo ay menstruation period talaga?   Flow ba siya ng blood for 2 or more days?

Kung menstruation nga talaga yun, hindi ka buntis.  Pero kung hindi, baka bleeding or spotting yun...baka nga buntis ka at kailangan mo magpa-check up na sa Ob Gyn doctor.  Baka mag-order na rin siya sa iyo ng mas thorough at accurate na pregnancy test.

Ang menstruation period ay sign na hindi na-fertilize ang egg na ni-release mo.

Now, may I ask kung meron ka bang hindi nabanggit na info, like gumagamit ka ba ng artificial birth control?

Heto nga info mo:
March 10 to April  3 (25 Days Cycle)
April 4 to June 3 (61 Days)

Kailan ang last mens mo?  Magkaiba kasi ang binigay mo:

June 4? - (sabi mo sa PM)
June 6? - (sabi mo dito sa forum)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: meshie14 on July 21, 2015, 11:06:33 am
Thank you po sa pagsagot.
June 6 po sir sorry.
Hindi po kami gumagamit ng birth control or umiinom ng kung anong gamot para di mabuntis.
Nagwoworry lang ako kasi for the month of May at July di ako dinugo nung June meron naman.Ngayon lang kasi nangyare ito wala naman nabago sa mga ginagawa ko araw2.

Napapaisip lang ako na baka buntis kasi may mga nababasa din akong mga experience ng ibang mommy na nagkakamens (regular mens) sila even they are pregnant.

#Salamat
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: ghail68 on July 26, 2015, 02:21:48 pm
pg 23 cycle puh kelan safe at hindi??
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: tonnhie on July 28, 2015, 04:43:40 am
hi po gusto ko lang po sana ng confirmation kung possible ba ako mabuntis..if ang day 1 ko is July 17 at ngcontact kami ng bf ko July 24 next day may napansin po ako sticky brown na lumabas sa akin. please help po...want to make it clear lang din po. hindi ko rin po alam ang cycle period ko.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Tonet Pabaya on November 03, 2015, 11:24:09 pm
Hi guys bago lang po ako dito need ko lang po talaga ng answer . Nagkaron po ako ng october 22 and natapos po sya ng october 30 may kasama pa po kasing spotting ee . Nag do po kami ng bf ko nung october 30 din po and hindi po sya nakapag withdraw . May possible po ba ako na mabuntis ? Please help me po . Badly need it . Safe po ba ako nun? Slmat po sa sasagot :(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on November 05, 2015, 08:35:09 am
Hi Tonet,

Na-receive ko rin ang private message (pm) mo ha.  Dito na lang ako magre-reply para helpful na rin sa iba.

Kung Oct. 22 and date ng first day ng menstrual flow (hindi spotting)...Ang Oct 30 ay Day 9.  May low possibility na mabuntis ka.

Meron ka pa bang ibang dates ng menstruation mo?  Kailangan natin kasi malaman ang cycle mo.  Kung short cycle ka, like 26 days or shorter (nangyayari na twice in a month ka nagkaroon), mas mataas ang possibility na mabuntis ka.

These days ba nakaka-experience ka ng discharge?  Today kasi, Nov. 5...Day 15 na.  Kung meron kang cervical mucus discharge na liquified or stretchy these days, sign yun na di ka nabuntis.  Meaning, highly fertile ka these days at nago-ovulate ka.  Ibig sabihin hindi nagstop ang ovulation mo (pero mataas ang possibility na mabuntis ka these days ha).

Now, may I suggest sana na mas i-build up at i-develop ninyo ng BF mo ang mga non-sexual aspects ng relationship: sacrifice, involvement, etc.  Like kapag may ganintong concern ka, dapat magkasama kayo sa concern at dalawa kayong mae-experience ang kung anong stress ang dala nito.

Heads up nga pala...kung nasi-stress ka these days or kahit emotional lang baka ma-delay ang ovulation mo...therefore pwede mag-move ang date ng next menstruation mo.  Kaya try to relax ha.

Kung may discharge ka these days at okay ka lang...in about 14 days...around Nov. 19 magkakaroon ka na ulit.  Thank you for sharing here ha.  Please don't hesitate to ask for more inforrmation.  Sending me a pm also helps a lot since I would be notified through email.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Gail Magno on November 08, 2015, 04:15:12 pm
Hi ask ko lang if pwede ba ako mabuntis kung nag do kami during may last day of period nag start ako ng nov 2 then nung fri nov 5 nag may nagyare smin then nag stop yung regla ko after nun
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: leny pascua on January 07, 2016, 11:21:26 am
bago palang po ako dito.. pa help naman po.. matagal na akong naghahanap ng ganitong usapan.. Kase nalito dn po ako kung kelan ako fertile. nagkaroon po ako nung May 13 2015, tapos po, yung regla q, 13-15 meron po tapos nag stop siya, tapos meron ulit ako ng 17-19 pero d na po malakas, hanggang 22 po my lumalabas pa dn po skin pero spot spot nalang po.. tapos May 23 di ko po sinasadya na may nangyari sa amin ng ex ko dahil na rin po sa kalasingan ko.. tapos May 26&27 may nangyari dn po sa amin ng boyfriend ko, ngyon po pregnant po ako.. na iistress po ako kung kanino po ako nabuntis.. feb20,2016 po due date ko.. please help me po.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on January 07, 2016, 12:06:29 pm
Hi Leny,

Thank you sa pag-share ng situation mo.  Meron ka pa bang ibang dates ng first day ng Menstruation Period mo bukod sa May 13?  Medyo mahirap i-estimate pero nagpre-prepare ako ng sagot at explanation para sa iyo ngayon.  Magpo-post ako ng isa pang message pagkatapos nito.

bago palang po ako dito.. pa help naman po.. matagal na akong naghahanap ng ganitong usapan.. Kase nalito dn po ako kung kelan ako fertile. nagkaroon po ako nung May 13 2015, tapos po, yung regla q, 13-15 meron po tapos nag stop siya, tapos meron ulit ako ng 17-19 pero d na po malakas, hanggang 22 po my lumalabas pa dn po skin pero spot spot nalang po.. tapos May 23 di ko po sinasadya na may nangyari sa amin ng ex ko dahil na rin po sa kalasingan ko.. tapos May 26&27 may nangyari dn po sa amin ng boyfriend ko, ngyon po pregnant po ako.. na iistress po ako kung kanino po ako nabuntis.. feb20,2016 po due date ko.. please help me po.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on January 07, 2016, 03:15:42 pm
Dear Leny,

Kung magbibigay ka pa ng ibang dates ng first day ng menstruation period mo, malalaman natin and Fertility Cycle Length mo, kung standard, long o short.

Kung ang last mens mo ay nagsimula ng May 13, ito ang Day 1...ang May 23 ay Day 11...at ang May 26 at 27 ay Day 14 at 15.

Sa maraming mga doctor at nurses, ia-assume nila na 28 Day Cycle ka at Day 14 ang possible Ovulation mo.  So, pinakamataas na possibility na ang ipinagbubuntis mo ay sa boyfriend mo.

Kung ang baby mo ay lalaki...sa boyfriend mo nga siguro.  According sa Shettle's Method of gender selection, malaki ang possibility na male kung sa mismong ovulation day o within 2 days.

May low possibility na sa ex mo ang baby.  Ito ay kung short ang cycle mo o kung maaga ka nag-ovulate.

Anyway, may I suggest na mag-usap kayo ng boyfriend mo at isama ninyo sa mga procedures ang paternity test, para sure at fair sa kaniya.  Kapag, nagkasundo na kayo, sana, mapirmahan niya ang birth certificate ng baby mo para makapagtulungan kayo sa pag-aalaga.

Salamat ha, sa pagpili na ituloy ang pagbubuntis at tanggapin ang baby na ito.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: leny pascua on January 13, 2016, 04:20:41 pm
Sir jojo,ang natatandaan ko po kase, march 11, april 10, tapos may 13 po. tapos nga po nung may 23 after po naming mag do, parang may lumabas pa po skin na parang brown.. so naicp q po na may spotting pa po ako dat date..  sa tingin mo po possible po ba na nabuntis po ako? kahit po ba after nun naghugas dn po ako ng bongga. pls help..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on January 14, 2016, 05:22:18 am
Dear Leny,

Thank you sa pagbibigay ng mga dates ng first day ng menstruation period mo.  Good news.  My computation indicates na sa boyfriend mo ang baby.

Based on your previous menstruation pattern, ang fertile days mo ay from May 24 to June 1.  Hindi ka pa fertile noong May 23. Namatay agad yung mga sperm ng ex mo dahil sa acid na nasa vagina.

Ang possible peak time o ovulation days mo ay any day from May 28 to 31.  Ibig sabihin, ito ang dates na possible na nag-release ka ng egg.

Nung may nangyari sa inyo ng BF mo noong May 26 and 27.  Nasa body mo lang ang sperm, protected ng Cervical Mucus Discharge na meron ka since May 24.  Pero mas nauunang namamatay ang sperm carrying the chromosomes for a possible male na baby.  Naka-survive ang sperms carrying chromosomes for a possible female baby. Reference: Shettle's Method of Gender Selection.

Kaya, girl ang baby mo :-).

I am glad that I have answered this ha.  Mas nasubukan ko ang accuracy ng Natural Family Planning Method.  Try mo na sabihin sa doctor mo ang possible day of conception mo na May 28 (or 29)...para ma-recompute kung kailan ang mas accurate date ng panganganak mo.

May God bless you with a healthy baby and a loving, understanding boyfriend.  Be at peace na...baka maka-affect kay baby kung may anxiety ka.


Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: leny pascua on January 14, 2016, 02:02:47 pm
Sir jojo, thank you so much po.. Mula po nabuntis ako, supper stress po ako, an tagal ko pong naghanap ng mapagtatanungan na ganito.. kaya thankful po ako at sinagot nyo po mga katanungan ko. Maraming maraming salamat po  :)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: nina apo on February 29, 2016, 10:06:47 pm
Nagkaroon po ako nung january 18 nag stop nung jan 23 then nung jan 25 my ngyari smen pinutok niya sa loob kase alam ko my before and after. then ayun dnugo ako nung feb 1-3 pero hndi sya totally mens. ngaun dipa ako dinadatnan.. ano po ibig sbhn non?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: elaela7 on March 28, 2016, 02:26:22 pm
Hello po sir Jo ask ko lang po kasi i just gave birth last nov 22 2015 and dumating yung first period ko ng dec 18 nag stop ng dec 23 or 24 diko na po matndaan and same date the ff month jan 18 and feb 18. Ang concern ko po hindi ko matandaan kung kelan kami ng makelove ng asawa ko pero im sure hindi kami nag all th way lagi withdrawal or may condoms for safety lang. Pero till now wala papo yun period ko whch means delayed nako may possibility po ba na mapreggy ako? :( please response po mga co mommies ko. :(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: J0 on March 28, 2016, 04:34:32 pm
Hi,

kailangan ng dates ng mga first day ng menstruation period mo at ng date din ng intercourse para malaman natin talaga.

Hindi ka naman siguro buntis.  Kung nagkasakit ka o kahit na-stress noong days na dapat ay nag-release ka ng egg (Ovulation or about 14 days before next mens)...pwedeng ma-delay ang ovulation mo at ma-move on a later date ang mens mo.

Hello po sir Jo ask ko lang po kasi i just gave birth last nov 22 2015 and dumating yung first period ko ng dec 18 nag stop ng dec 23 or 24 diko na po matndaan and same date the ff month jan 18 and feb 18. Ang concern ko po hindi ko matandaan kung kelan kami ng makelove ng asawa ko pero im sure hindi kami nag all th way lagi withdrawal or may condoms for safety lang. Pero till now wala papo yun period ko whch means delayed nako may possibility po ba na mapreggy ako? :( please response po mga co mommies ko. :(
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: elaela7 on March 29, 2016, 12:03:00 pm
Hi sir jo thanks po sa response ang first day po lagi ng mens ko after i gave birth is 18th of the month.
And if ever man po na mag contact kami ng asawa ko lagi withdrawal and with condoms.
Medyo stressed out nga po ako lately lagi din ang sleeping hours ko by 2am na. And right after we made love lagi ako nag wiwiwi and nag wawash after. May brown discharged po ako ngayon eh and malakas siya. Is it possible po na preggy ako? Thanks si much sir
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: elaela7 on March 30, 2016, 08:02:53 am
Sir waiting po ko sa response niyo. Niistress nadin ako kakaisip tulad ngayon ngkasakit pako :( until now wala papo, if preggy po b possible na mg lihi n ko this time? Naalala ko po ang last contavt naman ng asawa ko nubg march 20 but withdrawal kami. Thabks sir waiting po ako
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yanna punzalan on July 23, 2016, 04:39:40 pm
hi po im newbie here while im searching sa net kung pano po mabilis mabuntis nabasa kopo ang thread nato im 34 years old 8 years na po kame using condoms in 6years then 2 years withrawal but ds time ready napo ako mag baby and gusto ko na po talaga sana makabuo kame agad so nag plan kame ng vacation 4 our honeymoon kaso hindi kopo alam yung date ng period ko kasi naadjust sya ng date so yung honneymoon day na nabook ko is wrong timing po magkakaroon na pala ako on that week napaka wrong timing nung june lang po yun so aftr my period nag pa TVS po ako healthy naman daw po and after nagpapasmere po ako then may dinownload po ako na apps on my phone para malaman yung fertility days we made love po with in my fertile days na sinunod ko sa apps halos evryday nga po as in napadalas nung june then may period came yestrday ganun pala feeling medyo nakaka frustrate,😟 sabi kase mas mabilis daw makabuo aftr papsmere and pag madalas pero wala naman po 😞sana po matulungan nyo ko to conceive faster  here is my period record April 14-16 then 17 may bahid pa konti sa underwear counted pa din po ba yun?dyan po ako nalilito minsan kung sasama kosa counting yung konting bahid na mkikita sa undies then May 19-22 23 meron pa po konting discoloration spot June 21night discoloration hndi pa totaly lumalabas then 22 lumabas na till 23 24 nagstop dahil siguro po nag do kasi kami nung 23,25nd26 spot nalang Tapos ds july po 22 first day pano po ba right time im taking folic acid ferrous na din po pls help po Godbless🙏🏻
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: yanna punzalan on July 24, 2016, 02:14:35 pm
please po pareply po sana thanks wait kopo
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on July 24, 2016, 06:05:27 pm
Ang Apps po ay guide lang. Hindi siya 100% accurate kasi depende pa rin yon sa katawan ng babae at iba-iba tayo ng pangangatawan. You can check for yourself if you are fertile and have a high chance of ovulating. Some signs are thick creamy or egg-white like discharge, good appetite, strong craving for foods, high sex drive. Check mo sa app mo yung time na sinasabing fertile ka kung kasabay nito yung signs na binanggit ko.


Better to have contact on days when you have egg-white or creamy discharge (this means you're ovulating) kasi this can protect the sperm for days. Within the time-frame na thick and discharge mo, mag-o-ovulate ka (which is only 24 hours), they can meet and increase chance of conception.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Tintin ventenilla on August 31, 2016, 01:34:12 am
Hi po. Aug 13-17 ang period ko. Ng do po kami ng bf ko aug 17&21. Tapos po nung august 27 up to now may brown discharge po sakin medyo sticky po. Ask ko lang po kng possible ba na mabuntis ako? Withdrawal naman po yng ginawa. Please need lang po ng info. Salamat.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Ana Busano on October 11, 2016, 06:26:19 am
Hi po ask ko lang po Nag mens po ako nung SEPT 30 at nag end po nung OCT 4 taz po nag sex po kami ng asawa nung OCT 8 or 9 ata un .. Posible po ba na mabuntis ako nun ? At mga ilang days puwede po mag sex para mabuntis??Kc gusto na dn po sana namin magkababy 26 years old na po kc ako kaya baka po mahirapn magkababy :( sana po masagot nyo po yung tanong ko .. Bago lang dn po ako dto eh sana po mapansin msg ko :( SALAMAT PO and GODBLESS !
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Jackie Dantos on October 27, 2016, 12:06:40 pm
Hi itatanong ko po kung posibleng mabuntis ako yung menstruation ko po oct 8-11 at nag do po kami nung bf ko nung oct 22 tsaka 24 hnd po siya nag withdraw
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on November 11, 2016, 09:51:08 am
Read this article about billings method, sa page 3, nakasabi ang indications na kung kelan pwede at hindi pwedeng mag contact, kung gusto niyong magka baby or practice birth control.

http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/pregnancy/getting-pregnant/the-billings-ovulation-method-the-natural-way-to-achieve-or-postpone-pregnancy
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Rose Labs on February 25, 2017, 06:01:48 pm
Hello pa help namam po, paano ko malalaman kong kelan next fertile ko? Kasi iba iba kasi ang menstruation ko na dedelayed po siya. Gustong-gusto ko na talaga mag ka baby kaso di talaga kami mka tyempo. Kailangan namin makabuo bago siya mangibang bansa this coming march mga 2nd week. Pa help po please
Last mens ko po feb 13-17, 17 18 19 20 nag do po kami ng bf ko ni release niya po lahat sa loob ko kasi nga safe siya diba.
Ito po un mga palatandaan ko po na naka save sa apps.
Jan6 - 10 (38days)
Dec 13 2016 make love
Nov 22 - 26 (45days) (nov 15 make love)
Oct 22 - 26 (31days)
Sept 17 - 21 (35days)
Aug 9 - 13 (39days)
July 6 - 10 (34days)
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Eeraah Montefalco on February 27, 2017, 12:04:16 am
Hello po ask ko lang po if may possibility ba na buntis ako? Kasi nung feb 24 and 25 nag do kami ng boyfriend ko, halos katatapos lang din ng period ko nun. Feb. 15 ako dinatnan pero di ko na maalala kung kelan yung last day. Lagi ko lang kasi naaalala first day ng period ko. Medyo nagtataka din ako kasi ngayong feb 26 nag white discharge ako. Bago ako datnan alam ko nag wawhite discharge ako after ng transparent na discharge mga ilang araw white na then ilang araw nanaman period ko na. May possibility ba na buntis ako? Medyo makati na din yung ano ko di ko alam kung bakit. Every nag do kami ng boyfriend ko always withdrawal lang kaya alam kong safe kami. Pero this time nababahala na ako eh. Eto yung mga past month kung kelan ako dinatnan.
June 23
July 20
August 18
September 16
October 15
November 14
December 12
January 14
February 15
Sana may makasagot.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Legna De guzman on June 13, 2017, 11:26:55 am
HI PO..
nagkaroon po ako nung june 3 then natpos ako by june 7. Fertile po ba ako by  june 12
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mariellen Cruz on June 20, 2017, 09:09:25 am
good day po. ask ko lang po last na period ko po ay june 10. tapos yung last day ko ay june 15. may nangyari po samin ng bf ko. ng june 18. possible po ba na mabuntis ako? kahit na nakacondom sya at sa labas niya na nilabs? sobrang praning po ako na. salamay po sa sasagot
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Lyka Plata on May 05, 2018, 04:17:50 pm
Ask ko lang po, last mens ko po nung april 2, then ang next mens ko ngayong may 2 kaso dipo ako dinatnan then nag ano kami ni mister nung araw na din na yan unang beses niya pinasok sa loob, posible po ba kong mabuntis? Kasi hanggang ngayon dipa ko dinadatnan
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on May 05, 2018, 05:13:13 pm

This article po from Smart Parenting can teach you how to determine kung safe ba kayo nun or not.
https://www.smartparenting.com.ph/pregnancy/getting-pregnant/natural-family-planning-guide-calendar-method-a00026-20171101.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: joy lorie on June 08, 2018, 08:20:07 am
hello. gusto ko lang sana mag open at magtanong. nag iisip kasi ako kung buntis ba ko? kasi nung may nangyare samin tatlong beses nyang pinutok sa loob. may tendency ba na hndi ako mabuntis? o siguradong buntis na ko?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Claire Claire on February 05, 2019, 04:10:14 pm
Hello. May concern lang po ko may possibility po ba akong mabuntis or fertile ba ko king ang first day ng mens ko ay nung  January 21 at nakipagtalik po ko nung Jan 25 and 27?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Charlene Trenchera on February 06, 2019, 12:34:58 am
Hello. May concern lang po ko may possibility po ba akong mabuntis or fertile ba ko king ang first day ng mens ko ay nung  January 21 at nakipagtalik po ko nung Jan 25 and 27?

I just wanna address thus question. I dont know if im doing it right, di ko alam saktong pag reply sa message. Sharing my 2 cents lang po ito.

Ang knowledge ko about ovulation is, within 11-13 days (including yung araw or first day ng period mu) dun kana magsstart mag ovulate at maging fertile. Try tracking your period. Kung ilang days cycle mu like 28 days 30 and so on.
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mia Tan on June 09, 2019, 12:43:35 am
Hi po pls.help me I'm a new here... yung period ko po noong March 27,2019 then nag dodo po kami ng husband ko nung April 6,2019 at nagkaroon ulit ako ng menstruation nung April 29,2019 until May 2,2019 ask lang po sana ako kung safe po ba ako? Kc nangangamba po kc ako ayoko pa po kc mabuntis dipa po ako ready..
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Anehr Sbrab on September 07, 2019, 12:51:13 pm
Posible bang mabuntis after mens my mens started on june 12-18 then 19 may nangyari smin.. Posible ba na fertile ako niang day na yan
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Parentchat Admin on September 08, 2019, 08:43:01 am
Basahin ito para malaman ang mga araw kung kailang kayo posibleng fertile.

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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Lorraine Anne Lim on October 24, 2019, 08:20:23 am
May tanong po ako for 6 months nagrerange ang cycle ko between 26 to 29 days.. then oct 22 supposedly dapat magkakaroon na ko. Pero may nangyare samin ng partner ko ng oct. 20 and oct. 21 is it safe?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: John paul marquez on December 20, 2019, 02:15:20 pm
1st day period niya is oct,30 nag make love kami is nov,3 possible po kaya mabuntis sya?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Mommy Jazz on December 21, 2019, 11:46:56 am
Very slim po. Ngayon na sexually active na kayo, better educate yourself on fertility, ovulation and responsibilities.

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Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Carla Jaro on January 07, 2020, 02:48:58 pm
hi po ask ko lang po kung posible mabuntis kung paagap ng paagap ang menstration cycle ko..kasi po nov.24 ngkaron ako last dec10 dinatnan po ulit ako,.tpos ngaung jan.5 meron na po ulit ako..bakit po kaya ganun?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Monalisa Malong on February 11, 2020, 07:57:29 am
I wanna ask possible na na mabuntis ako 8 days before period?
Title: Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
Post by: Grace Rivera on April 12, 2020, 05:52:51 am
May possibility po ba na mabuntis ako? Kasi nag ka regla ako march 16-23 tapos nag sex kami march 23 last ng regla ko. Safe po ba yon?