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Title: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: milkfish on January 14, 2010, 11:51:34 am
Hello momsies out there! Kayo ba ni hubby nyo still go out on date? Kami ni hubby, yes. If there is an oppurtunity we go out, minus the kids. We dine out and minsan overnight kami sa isang hotel.

I think it's a must for couple to keep the romance in the air like nung mag-boyfriend pa kayo. Minsan kasi lagi lang tayong mga wife naka-focus sa domestic concerns (taking care of kids, bills to pay) and we forgot to have private time together with hubby. I believe that spending time together with our partner is one way of nurturing our marriage relationship.

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Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: maries on January 14, 2010, 12:39:20 pm
yep yep.

before kami ikasal, we made a promise na dapat once a week may date night kami. yung kaming dalawa lang.  inisip kasi namin this is one way para mapaganda pa ang relationship namin as husband and wife.
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Post by: dianne_gwa@yahoo.com on January 14, 2010, 01:13:46 pm
yes din po..me and my hubby still go out on date..at least every once a month nanunuod kami ng movie then kakain kami sa fav resto niya or sa fav resto ko. Even though iba ang culture namin ..i love him so much talaga..
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Post by: kieragarie on January 14, 2010, 02:03:05 pm
yes pag may budget if not kuntento na kami watch ng dvd ;) ;) ;)
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Post by: mishyla on January 14, 2010, 02:05:22 pm
kami ni hubby..yes. pag may budget..recently we ate at Wendys then naggrocery kami..yun din kasi ang bonding moments namin e..aside from watching dvd at home
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Jary on January 14, 2010, 02:22:17 pm
yes, weekly kami lumalabas ni hubby...nanonood kami ng movie at nagtatry kami ng iba't ibang resto...every two months, we try to stay overnight sa hotel...gusto ko kasi ng mga buffet breakfast..

pero starting this year, di muna daw kami lalabas masyado..cost cutting kami kasi lahat ng pwedeng isave sinisave na namin..para may pandagdag kami sa baon namin pag-alis namin sa june..
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Post by: yhamslove® on January 14, 2010, 02:29:42 pm
wow... kainggit naman kayo mga mommies... kami ni hubby, after i gave birth to Geno, hindi pa.

most ng mga paglabas namin eh pagdalaw lang sa inlaws ko or magsisimba kasama ng family ko (as we live in one compound)...

i miss those days na nanonood kami ng movie and kumakain sa labas...

hay.. i hope one of these days makapagdate ulit kami...
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: MissPychi on January 14, 2010, 02:45:06 pm
Yes, during the time when Hubby is still here in Manila (he was relocated to the province), we always spend time together during weekends.  Particularly every Saturday, after work (half day lang kasi kami kapag Saturday).  We go shopping, movies, dine out, etc. basta date. On Sundays, with the kids naman.  However, sometimes we do sneak out during weekdays din, after office hours, kung feel namin.

Now, when he comes home for his monthy visit, sure yan, diretso date.  Kahit saan, basta priority is "us" muna tsaka na yun mga kids.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: GL and KL on January 14, 2010, 06:40:35 pm
Hindi na maxado. .kase pag asa labas kami na kami lang, na aatat nako umuwi agad para kay kirsten. .kaya yung bonding time namin kasama si kirsten. .pero pag uwi niya ulit this year, sosolohin ko siya :) nakakamiss din kasi talaga eh. .
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mariann on January 17, 2010, 02:58:39 pm
not that as often as before.  it depends on our moods. 


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Post by: Chie77 on January 17, 2010, 05:14:50 pm
ideally :)
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Post by: glitter on January 17, 2010, 06:18:26 pm
just like yhamslove, since nung dumating si lia, hindi pa kami ulit nakapagDate ni hubby.. nakamiss na nga eh, siguro magagawa lang namin ulit pag old enough na si lia para iwan sa nanny..
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Post by: PeggyJen on January 18, 2010, 07:39:41 am
yes, most of the time we eat out or watch a movie.
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Post by: mamiof2 on January 18, 2010, 09:57:57 am
kami ni hubby pag may time lang..
the last time is last December 29.
Punta kami ng SM Makati and Glorieta..
nag buy kami ng giordano pants..saya nga eh..
pareho kami ng brand tapos siya nagbayad..hehe
gift niya raw sa kin yun...
then eat kami sa Kenny Rogers..
ang saya namin that day..
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: dhangcabuang on January 18, 2010, 10:11:14 am
yes..pag may time kami talagang pinipilit ko syang magdate kami.kahit dinner lang..(pilitan talaga sis, no joke).heheh. sa sobrang busy niya at syempre kinokonsider din namin yung naiiwan sa mga bata kaya di rin kami masyado nagtatagal.or sa malapit lang din kami kumakain para by 9pm bahay na kami.Importante pa din ang bonding at communication ng magasawa..
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: amber on January 18, 2010, 10:30:18 am
hindi na masyado..pero going out together as family, yes..pero yung date na kami lang hindi na ganung kadalas tulad ng dati.
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Post by: ida on January 18, 2010, 10:44:46 am
yes, hindi matatapos ang buong week na hindi kami lalabas on a date, either dinner or movies.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: pie06 on January 21, 2010, 03:33:40 pm
Kami madalas ang date namin ni hubby kasi both of us mahilig manood ng movies and kumain sa labas. 

I remembered na 3rd day ko pa nga lang na kalalabas from hospital sa panganganak (CS pa ako) ayun nagyaya na si hubby manood ng movie.  Kaya nung pagdating namin at nalaman ni MIL ayun pinagalitan si hubby  ;D  hehe

Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: rozzy on January 21, 2010, 08:17:32 pm
Hi mommy, yes we go out twice a month. simpleng dinner then sometimes watch movie. of course we have to give quality time to each other kahit parehas kaming working. there were times simpleng pagsabay pumasok and even pag uwi. parang mag kasintahan na naghihintayan. hehe. then, may times na mahabang usapan regarding sa work sa buong araw. we all know mahalaga yung may communication. then hindi naman naaalis yung family day every Sunday, go to church. Kung iisipin parang ang hirap i-maintain but if both party mahalaga at mahal ang isa't isa, mame-maintain naman. good topic ito ah... lalo na nowadays marami na kasi magasawang parehas nagwo-work.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: xhingpie on January 22, 2010, 06:45:28 am
yes. almost every week we go out, madalas sa movies kasi pareho kami mahilig manood ng movie. Minsan ako na yung umaayaw kasi feeling ko magastos na, minsan 2 movies in a day pa. Lagi niya sinasabi sa kin na mas naeenjoy niya yung palabas pag kasama ko and that we both deserve it. tapos pagdating naman niya sa bahay from work, after dinner, nood na kami ng mga downloaded episodes ng kung anuano from discovery channel or mga documentaries, para daw we always learn something new. ok lang naman sa kin kasi enjoy ko rin yun. now he wants to learn digital photography and syempre dapat magkasama kami, when we're done with that, yung gusto ko naman, basic reflexology.  :) very important ang date at bonding sa mag-asawa and thankful ako that hubby also sees it that way.
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Post by: HOTMOM777 on January 25, 2010, 03:17:45 am
yes we still do at least twice or thrice a week kung di magawa ng every week.  we just eat outside or watch a movie together but then we would always go to our girls..saying how much we miss them kaya whenever we got home we have a midnight snack for them & share with them what we have watched or what we did..but we make sure if we have something new to try like a new resto or new activity, we make sure our girls are with us...
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: keih liwanag on January 27, 2010, 09:59:08 am
hubby and i still go out. for us, a MUST yung time alone. kase for us, love will always be there..but staying in love takes a lot of effort and keeping the passion contributes a lot to it (dates, dinners, overnights, and a lot more).

yes, i am happier when AK is with us. pero iba parin ang level of happiness pag may time kayo with each other. kahit quick breaks lang yan from our work schedule. quick dinners after work.. quality time nayun for us. kwentuhan means a lot. we make sure updated kami sa isa't isa.
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Post by: ♥♥♥ RXmom ♥♥♥ on January 27, 2010, 10:24:12 am
yup madalas kasi konti lang yung dating stage namin before as bf/gf.. dapat nga kahapon meron kaso grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr hindi natuloy kasi naman sinabi ko na pupunta kami ng sm san lazaro tapos hellur nakapambahay lang at ako na lang daw bumaba kasi akala niya magbayad lang ng bill.. edi sana ako na lang mag isa nagbayad sa sm north. inis!!!!
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Post by: fairytink on January 27, 2010, 10:47:46 am
^ hehe!

Kami rin, we still go out. Importante pa rin kasi na me time together lalo pag both are working.  :)
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Post by: eli1028 on January 28, 2010, 02:43:05 pm
yes i think it's a must...
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Post by: Mommy Jazz on November 02, 2011, 05:39:35 pm
I've seen it on POP  talk TV program by Tonipet on GMA news TV. Nireplay nila yung carinderia serving international foods. Thai eatery in SAV1 Pque, Japanese carinderia in Tondo and Arabic/Mediterranian eatery in Malate. Has anyone tried any of these resto? Kasi ang price ng foods is like 50% lang ng international resto.
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Post by: rozzy on November 02, 2011, 05:45:26 pm
I've read some blogs and watch talk show with topics marriage and relationship. And may common thing na na-advise which is yung COMMUNICATION. Glad that kahit busy working kaming mag-asawa still w talk a lot at night. Then, sometimes kita kami after office para sa food trip or movie watching...
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Post by: kuliglig^^ on November 02, 2011, 06:35:31 pm
We still go out on dates, kasama si baby sa tummy ko. :P
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Post by: Shey♥Bry on November 02, 2011, 06:45:55 pm
After I gave birth last September 23,2011, nakakapag date padin kami ni hubby, kasama si baby at eldest namin :D:D:D mas masaya nga eh kasi usually, pag nag de-date kami ang dami naming binibili, ngayon sa mga babie's and Kids section na kami pumupunta...
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Post by: sheys_sheys on November 02, 2011, 07:46:59 pm
yes,Just last Saturday we have a date ako pa nagyaya at I'm so proud na ipinagmalaki pa niya sa officemate niya...inggit daw!
It's important in a relationship eh to remenisce and to have the chance to do the things that you were doing nung BF-GF pa kayo...
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Post by: mommyJQ on November 02, 2011, 07:53:59 pm
Hindi na masyado. Super busy na kasi namin sa work, kapag nag-uusap kami, away lang yung ending.
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Post by: addicted2jakey on November 02, 2011, 08:11:53 pm
Usually weekend kami lagi date. Lunch til before dinner, iwith our son, pero after namin cia mauwi sa house and lull to sleep, we go out na kami 2 lang. :)
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Post by: ysLim on November 03, 2011, 09:31:09 am
pag may extra lang..
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Post by: momma_33 on November 03, 2011, 10:46:52 am
yes we go out usually once a week. Dine out or coffee and mega kwentuhan na kami lang dalawa ni hubby. Means a lot to both of us to go out dating kahit mag asawa na kami.
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Post by: makdonna on November 03, 2011, 02:01:07 pm
yes, we still go out. mga 2x a month lang though, kasi most of the time contented na kami magstay lang sa bahay watching TV series or movie marathons. i'm preggy lang now kaya di pa pwede, pero dati what he does is nagtitimpla sya ng cocktails at home and we drink lang while watching TV. usually drinking sessions kasi talaga ang bonding namin. hehe. ;D aside from that pala, we also go out on extended vacays na usually beach trips. though malamang after our baby arrives kasama na rin namin sya palagi sa mga trip namin.  ;)
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Post by: kweykerz on November 03, 2011, 02:26:45 pm
pagkagaling grocery.. kain kami sa labas.. preggy din ako now.. kaya medyo hindi na ko pinapayagang lumabas..

sa bahay lang pag bagong sahod kami pareho.. luto nalang ng meryenda.. at kulitan..
minsan lang kami magsine.. kasi natutulog naman sya sa sinehan kaya sayang lang.. kakainis..  >:(
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Post by: -joanamber- on November 03, 2011, 02:27:38 pm
Minsan nalang. Lagi kasing busy sa school at work. Namimiss ko na nga yung dating moments namin before e. :(
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Post by: sheizzhynazh on November 03, 2011, 03:01:24 pm
haay kami ni hubby bihira na magkatime together, pareho kaming working.
Everyweek na alis kaming family, malling, grocery play mga kiddos pero yung time alone wala na. Parang namimiss ko rin yung time dati, pero pareho kasi kami ni hubby na laging mga kids namin ang nasa isip, 3yrs old eldest namin & 1yr old naman si bunso.
One time nga sinundo niya ako sa office, since sat halfday lang kami, sumaglit lang kami sa mall to buy gift para sa party na aatenand nila the next day, pero parang i feel guilty na halos gabi na nakauwi, sabi pa ni hubby lagot ka magagalit mga baby mo di mo sila sinama, nasanay narin kasi ako na lagi kaming 4 magkakasama.

Pero i think next year dapat mabago na, we still need time to each other. Kaya lang si hubby kasi di mahilig sa long conversation, man of few words siya hehe. Kulitan sa bahay with kiddos ginagawa niya pagdating sa house, watch dvd pero usually sleepy na ako late kasi siya lagi nakakauwi, bihira yung maaga.
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Post by: Trapidee on November 03, 2011, 03:21:44 pm
Waley na kaming date na kaming dalawa lang ni hubby simula nung ngka anak nakami as in Waley na tlaga! nkakalungkot na nga eh namimiss ko na yung dati! :'(
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Post by: MommyMichell on November 03, 2011, 04:12:40 pm
yes though puro watch lang ng movies tapos eat, mahilig kasi kami mag-watch pareho at kumain, basta may frosty, choco sundae, brownies at popcorn na cheese (sa SM malls ko lang gusto popcorn na cheese ang sarap!) super happy na ko sa date namin  ;)
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Post by: I love_dadilove7503 on November 03, 2011, 05:11:05 pm
Paminsan minsan nalang.. Kasi I feel guilty pag di kasama ang mga bata.. pro Nov last year nag start na kami na kahit papano makapag out f town na walang kasamang junakis., tas last July on my bday also out of town with hubby, so parang date. Were planning for the next year sana meron ulit.

Pag minsan at sabay kami rest day ayun lumalabas pag may time, kaya lang usually its grocery time and kain lang sa labas pag nagutom tas uwi na. Di rin kasi ako mahilig magwatch ng movie kasi feeling ko sayang ang bayad sa sinehan mag DVD na lang.

Iba kasi talaga pag may mga anak na, feeling guilty pag di kasama ang mga bata sa lakad.

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Post by: -joanamber- on November 03, 2011, 05:42:28 pm
^Oo nga sis. As much as possible gusto mo lagi sila kasama sa lakad nyo. Madami talaga nagbabago once na magkababy na.
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Post by: imeego on November 03, 2011, 06:30:43 pm
kami din ni hubby bihira na kasi feeling guilty kami kung iiwan namin si baby....we go out pag may special occasions lang like birthday ko etc :) although every weekend malling kami with baby which is bonding time na din for us
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Post by: macky27 on November 03, 2011, 07:20:53 pm
joining....
 yes mga sis, kailangan kasi sa mag asawa yun na paminsan minsan lumalabas/date pa rin kayo kahit twice a month. may baby na din kami 10 months old, kaya ang date namin ngayon eh child friendly  ;D malling o kain sa labas, date na samin yun. minsan si husband pa nga nagyayaya, mahilig din kasi kami talaga kumain sa labas, nung wala pa kami baby bonding moment namin yung magfoodtrip sa ibat ibang resto.
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Post by: kara on November 03, 2011, 09:30:01 pm
YES!!!  ;D lumalabas pa din kami ni hubby paminsan-minsan, sinusulit hanggang andito MIL ko, kasi pag umalis na ulet sya, taong bahay na naman ako e :)

tas sakto na yung ka-group ni hubby may coffee shop na malapit samen kaya kapag nagkayayan kahit gabi na, puwede kasi malapit lang :)
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Post by: sheizzhynazh on November 04, 2011, 09:31:51 am
Tamah! feeling guilty talaga pag di kasama mga kids. Pagnalabas kami, automatic na yun kasama 2 kids namin. Kahit na late night naubusan ng diaper, kasama parin sila o kahit gardenia lang bibilin magkakasama parin kaming 4 hehe.

Pero mga sis tama rin na magkaron tayo ng time alone w/ hubby, yun talaga nababasa ko. Kasi Nawawala na yung husband/wife satin laging mother & father nalang. Hirap nga lang pag nasanay na tulad ko na lagi kasama 2 kids namin.
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Post by: sheys_sheys on November 04, 2011, 07:09:01 pm
yes,kami nga will go out tonight antay niya lang out ko at 8pm the Gora na sa date....

I ahve to sulitin the time na medyo baby pa ang son namin,Though naguguilty din akong di sya kasama...But hat we do is to go to a place muna date naming dalawa then the next time kasama na namin sya...
Sulitin yung time na medyo baby pa sya(2 yrs old)..kase pag 3 and up na sya naku for sure we much want to gout with him kase he can appreciate the place,activities,food more.,...
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Post by: mommy♥cheng on November 13, 2011, 10:08:09 pm
hay! namiss ko tuloy si hubby.. nung andito ko sya kahit pano madalas naman din kami mag date together, minsan din group date with friends :))
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Post by: mrs_mv on November 13, 2011, 10:51:43 pm
 :) Yes we still go out together minus our son at least once a month... We have DVD marathon time together if budget won't allow.

We also enjoy sleepless night time talk together ON BED at least every month :)  My husband works at night and ako naman morning so hindi talaga kami nagsasabay matulog. Well, hindi lang naman "love making" at tulog ang enjoy gawin sa bed for couples. For us, to talk also! Anything under the sun... as in anything kahit panaginip pa yan or craziest thoughts while at work hehe
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Post by: galathea on November 13, 2011, 11:04:15 pm
:) Yes we still go out together minus our son at least once a month... We have DVD marathon time together if budget won't allow.

We also enjoy sleepless night time talk together ON BED at least every month :)  My husband works at night and ako naman morning so hindi talaga kami nagsasabay matulog. Well, hindi lang naman "love making" at tulog ang enjoy gawin sa bed for couples. For us, to talk also! Anything under the sun... as in anything kahit panaginip pa yan or craziest thoughts while at work hehe

Korek na korek ka jan mommy mrs_mv... It is very important for husband and wife to have time for themselves outside of being parents, dapat hindi nawawala yung bonding and kilig moments...

Of course you have to focus on your baby pero dapat make it a point na may time pa rin kayo with each other and for each other para hindi mapabayaan ang marriage...

FYI my husband is working overseas and he gets a chance to have a vacation every 3-4 months, so kapag bakasyon niya may time kami kay baby and we also have time for each other...
And yes lovemaking is not the only thing that the husband and wife can do together...

Happy parenting mommies and daddies and God bless our families and our marriages!
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Post by: princess080910 on November 14, 2011, 12:13:04 am
joining...

oo naman. importante yun siyempre. since may maliit na kami tapos wala akong yaya. w/ my inlaws too busy sa trabaho nila wala talaga kaming mapapag iwanan kay meyer. pero natutuwa ako kay jay.(my hubby) nagpapaalam yun sa inlaws ko na e de date daw niya asawa niya. ganun yun makipag usap. tatawa lang sila mommy niya and daddy. basta hindi overnight go kame. para kasing di ko kakayanin malayo ng 24 hours sa anak ko. kaya di namen binabalak yun ;D
maganda kasi sa mag asawa eh may time pa rin sila together kahit gaano ka busy sa trabaho plus sa baby ;D
kaya siguro kahit snob ang personality ni jay mahal na mahal ko siya ;D

latest out of town namen ni hubby w/ meyer's godmothers
parehas na school pinanggalingan namen ni hubby i mean were classmates pala, kaya parehas din mga kaibigan namen
share ko lang some pix ;D

http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.2641107145745.2149050.1197568459&type=1&l=9a2226815e
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Post by: avengeus22 on November 14, 2011, 09:06:23 am
Yes,at least once a week. We still need to feel na asawa pa din tayo at hindi lang  parents...
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Post by: Trapidee on November 14, 2011, 09:41:34 am
nakakadepress naman.. lahat kayo Yes ang sagot  :-[
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Post by: Princess Dizon on November 14, 2011, 10:55:59 am
Yes,
We still go out every weekends pa minsan kasama si baby minsan hindi . :)
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Post by: mommy chen on November 14, 2011, 11:05:10 am
big YES!..
syempre we need to have romantic time together..kahit na may baby na kayo...and i am excited this coming Thursday..may date kame (advance screening ng twilight : Breaking dawn) sweet sweetan time ;)
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Post by: Mommy France on November 14, 2011, 11:14:05 am
May Fri-date kami usually ng husband ko. Pero lately, actually late august nawala. Kasi nag-start na yung mumunting negosyo namen and parang ang daming kailangang gawin at parang sobrang kulang sa pahinga.

Sa sobrang kulang ng time namen, naiisip namen si miggy kung kaming dalawa na lang ba ang lalabas or isasama namen yung little big boy namen.
In the end, either stay kami sa house and i'll prepare something or lalabas pero kasama pa rin si Miggy.

Basta may naka-plano kaming getaway this late november. Babawi kami. :D
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Post by: working_girl88 on November 22, 2011, 01:12:40 pm
yes.. yesterday we just watched breaking dawn in SM Megamall. hehe! next wk na due ko pero pinilit ko talaga magbyahe para lang sa date namin kahapon.. hehe! hubby was  so thoughtful and caring naman kaya, it was good.
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Post by: Dada08 on November 22, 2011, 01:44:33 pm
yes, we still go out ...  mas lalo kaming sweet ngayon.. :D
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: vanenie on November 22, 2011, 02:35:29 pm
yes, we still go out. :) hindi naman kailangan romantic date. basta magkaroon lang kami ng time na kami lang. mahirap kasi pag kasama si Sophie, ang gulo hehe kahit kain lang sa labas or nood ng sine. minsan kahit simpleng errands lang, date na sa amin yun. sabi niya, hilig namin mag-date sa supermarket hehe
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mommy ivan on November 23, 2011, 03:13:55 pm
yes! and we do a lot lately.. we realized after our 10th year anniversary date na dapat pala talaga may moment na kaming dalawa lang. to keep the flame burning!  ;)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: proudmamma ;) on November 23, 2011, 03:41:11 pm
yes, we still go out  :) nakakagaan at lalong nakaka-inlove kapag lumalabas pa rin kayo ng mister mo lalo na kapag kayong dalawa lang (wala muna ang kids hehe)  ;D

mas happy at excited ako kapag unexpected ang pag-invite ng date ni mister. 'yon bang walang occasion, he just asks me out just to drink coffee, see a movie, or to simply buy something  :D
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: sosweetmom on November 24, 2011, 02:57:49 pm
kami yes. we still go out on adate. sa sobrang kabzhan it helps pag lumalabas na kming dalawa lang. ska yun ang pinakabonding time namin
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: fashionistamom on December 04, 2011, 09:33:30 pm
Yes we go out every week para magdate :) tapos pag weekends lagi na namin kasama si baby.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Errych on December 04, 2011, 11:58:23 pm
Before, we rarely have time for each other. Sobrang busy sa work and sa bahay. But recently, one saturday night, we decided to go out without our daughter. Nakaka-relax pala.  :) So we decided that it will be our date every Saturday night.  ;)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mishyla on December 05, 2011, 11:20:51 am
we do...sometimes we watch movies then eat out, konting shopping. hindi naman kami aabutin ng 8 hrs e. so ok lang maiwan si baby sa nagaalaga. 4 hrs is ok.at least we have time to date pa din.

Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: gummyflies on December 05, 2011, 02:29:07 pm
yes we still date, at least 1x a week  ;)
un nga lang, kasama si baby  ;D family date!
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: xoxjanexox on December 05, 2011, 07:37:22 pm
yes date padin.. minsan para kaming binata ata dalaga ulit..hehe..
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Mommy Jazz on December 06, 2011, 09:20:30 pm
I can't remember the last time we did kasi talagang bihira. Lat Friday we had lunch at a small Thai resto near our place while the kids are at school, my treat. Sarap pala ng feeling na ilibre naman si Mister minsan.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: ilove323 on December 07, 2011, 12:34:45 am
I wish! we used to before naman kaso now that our baby is growing up we rarely have alone quality time with each other... so what we do is like go out of town with friends and their kids as well..
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mami che on December 31, 2011, 06:52:22 am
Yes, still going out on a date with hubby. Movie watching & dinner twice or thrice a month... Kaso lately, busy sya e  :( kaya nagdedemand ako ng "mommy time" next year  :D --- once a week saka kids day din  ::) demanding? Hehe
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: LLLA on January 16, 2012, 06:08:29 am
we still do..  ;) kahit nga ngayon preggy ako (jubesity pa).. we still go out na kaming dalawa lang  ;D
kaso iwas Starbucks (fave hang out namin when I was not preggy) kasi bawal Kape.. hehe!
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: swtgrl_bee on February 27, 2012, 03:08:47 am
Hindi na :( Kaya nga siguro lagi din kami nag aaway nowadays dahil wala na kaming time together :(
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Bry♥Shey on February 27, 2012, 08:43:33 am
Yup. especially if pareho kami ng off  :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: rozzy on February 27, 2012, 06:29:57 pm
Last Friday we go out to watch Ghost Rider at SM City Masinag. Minsan talaga need na magkaron ng time ang mag-asawa. Spending time with each other is a good way to keep the relationship. Tipong kahit mag usap over the night, ok na. :) Nakakatuwa mga sis mga kwento nyo...
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: lai_lanzaderas on February 29, 2012, 12:51:25 pm
hindi na.  but i don't mind.
we both work from home and don't have a yaya or a maid, never had one.
when we go out, magkakasama lagi kaming tatlo.  :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: emz c on February 29, 2012, 01:13:45 pm

di man uso sa partner ko ang date kahit noon pa, pero pag andito sya magkadikit lagi kaming tatlo ng baby namin kaya okey lang siguro.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mommy_tl on February 29, 2012, 01:18:19 pm
its nice to try out some new stuff with your husband..

one time we went to resorts world..laro laro sa slot machine kahit hindi naman marunong..try out a new resto or food sa grocery..it doesnt have to be expensive..kahit nga nasa bahay lang as long as you are doing something together which is out of the routine is already a big deal for the relationship..
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: denise2214 on February 29, 2012, 04:18:58 pm
yes!at dapat talaga...mas magiging sweet kayo sa isat isa...dati kc d namin ginagawang magdate na d kasama c baby.kc nga nakakaguilty..ginagawa namin pag lunchtime kc malapit lang office namin sa bawat isa or minsan mana pag tulog na baby namin sa gabi...tsaka kami nanunuod ng cne...pro madalas sa greenbelt na kami nakakapanood...mas late kc last show dun...
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Julia Allison on March 08, 2012, 10:21:32 pm
Ever since lagi kami magkakasama tatlo pero it's ok, we want it that way...After church service every sunday ang "date" namin 3 & we are looking forward to it kc minsan wala n kami maisip mapuntahan, we went to Washington Sycip Park in Makati ok din!
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: lovemybabe on March 09, 2012, 09:27:48 am
I usually plan our dates, Saturday night is date night, sunday afternoon is family day!
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Maya Ranario on March 22, 2012, 10:21:12 am
..dati nung wala pang anak,lagi kaming umaalis lalo pag weekend, nagbabar tapos inom konti,punta ng mall manood ng  sine at kung saan pa,pero ngayon andito na si baby,di na kami nakakaalis na kaming dalawa lang,kasama na namin si baby sa pag-alis.wala kasing mapag-iwanan. :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: toughmom moderator on March 22, 2012, 10:39:24 am
Helpful SP articles on dating hubby
(http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/images/site-alpha/articles/being-a-parent/taking_care_of_mom/glam_date/glam_CI.jpg)
Study: Double Dates Found to be Healthy for Couples (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/mom-dad/relationships/study-double-dates-found-to-be-healthy-for-couples)
double date actually helps improve relationships in terms of the following aspects:
• Increases partners’ attraction to one another
• Creates a better understanding of the opposite sex
• Allows couples to see how other couples socialize and resolve differences

9 Tips for an Unforgettable Date Night for Parents (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/mom-dad/relationships/9-tips-for-an-unforgettable-date-night-for-parents)
Keep it Spicy. If you’ve been a couple a long time, things can get routine. So to keep things fresh, reminisce about what turned you on while you were still dating.  Encourage each other to take up a new interest and create a real schedule to make it happen.

Glam It Up And Go On A Date: No Kids Allowed (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/mom-dad/taking-care-of-mom/glam-it-up-and-go-on-a-date-no-kids-allowed)
When was the last time you dressed up, blow-dried your hair, put on some make-up and got ready for a date? If it has been too long to remember, it's time for you to take that little black dress out of your closet and make reservations for two at your favorite restaurant. It also gives you the chance to wear those sexy stilettos that never see the light of day at parent-teacher conferences or trips to the drugstore!
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: hardtoplease on April 04, 2012, 02:26:26 pm
yes we do! :) our latest was a movie date ... hunger games. we promised to go out on a date like ... every pay day. hehe.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: chester on April 04, 2012, 02:34:43 pm
yes! we watch movies and nghahanap lagi kami ng resto na masarap pero mura. ;D
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: FayeP on April 08, 2012, 05:55:13 pm
yup.... kahit mga once a week during my restdays, we go out kahit sandali lang, naiiwan sa mom ko un baby namin...

pero cyempre ayaw din namin magtagal kasi naiisip namin pareho si baby...

we usually go to the church tapos mall or movie tapos kain or minsan out of whim we went to manila zoo, to take pictures of the animals (Off topic: parang napabayaan na un mga animals dun talaga)

Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: tashasabs on April 29, 2012, 11:23:54 pm
Yes. Kahit simpleng lalakad lang kami papuntang bayaran ng utility bills tapos nun kakain ng meryenda sa tabi-tabi, sinisingit namin.  :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: rozzy on April 30, 2012, 12:28:20 pm
Sis FayeP, me and hubby want to bring our daughter sa Manila Zoo. Paano kaya punta ron? From Recto na lang siguro ano kaya sakyan namin. Thanks ah... :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: FayeP on May 01, 2012, 08:34:44 pm
mommy rozzy,

sa recto or sa may avenida pala, sakay kayo ng mabini harrison-baclaran jeep tapos sabihin sa driver na ibaba kayo sa manila zoo, sa may Quirino Ave kayo ibaba sa may Bangko Central...tapos un tapat ng banko central, manila zoo na un eh...

lakad na lang kayo sa kabilang side kasi dun un entrance...

if mag LRT naman, sakay kayo then baba ng Quirino station, dun kayo baba sa may exit na katapat ng Female Area, then lakad kayo papasok ng Quirino ave, sa left side un Manila Zoo
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: swtgrl_bee on May 02, 2012, 08:56:12 am
This week I'll promise myself and my husband. Magdate kami :) Kaming dalawa lang, sana matuloy. Pero dapat matuloy kasi kahit sa bible nakasulat talaga na dapat ang married individual eh lumalabas padin na sila lang <3
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: rozzy on May 02, 2012, 11:21:47 am
Thanks sis FayeP! :) Glad to know right way to Manila Zoo. Sana nga maka-set na kami ng date for this. :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: tashasabs on May 02, 2012, 01:18:00 pm
Thank you sa pag-share paano pumunta dun! Maipasyal nga mga anak namin saka si husband, hehe.  ;D
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: rozzy on May 04, 2012, 10:30:13 am
Hi mga sis, I know you will have your date this coming Mother's Day! :)

Advanced happy mother's day sa inyo mga sis as well as sa mga mothers nyo na rin... :)

What kind of date you are expecting for this day? Ako maybe a simple dinner with my family (hubby and daughter) and pasyal sa park. Hehe! Kasi iba talaga yung may time pa rin kami lalo na at parehas kami working.

Sharing to you also this article about SP Mother’s Day Gift Guide (http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/mom-dad/taking-care-of-mom/sp-mother-s-day-gift-guide). Enjoy! :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: coolit on May 04, 2012, 12:41:15 pm
kami din paminsan minsan nag dedate, simba together  pag first friday malling and eat lang sa labas. pero di kami nagtatagal kase nagi guilty kami pag di kasama si daughter. pero lagi naman kami me pasalubong sa kanya at halos sya topic namin, hehe.  ;) ;)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mommy_tl on May 26, 2012, 12:26:32 pm
so excited to end my shift today..hubby and i will be watching mark gungor videos..even wataching movies at home is considered our date.. :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: toughmom moderator on February 09, 2013, 12:40:47 am
Reminisce your wide-eyed days of courtship...Take your pick...
Wine and Dine your Wife: Where to Bring Her on Valentine’s Day
(http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/images/site-alpha/articles/forest-house.jpg)
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/mom-dad/dads-corner/dine-to-impress-where-to-go-on-valentine-s-day/page/1
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mhie_lhy on February 09, 2013, 09:19:11 pm
kami,yes pag may budget din..:) pero madalas ang bonding namin grocery kami lang 2 tapos kain sa labas o kaya watch na lang ng dvd.:)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: luk_resha on February 11, 2013, 03:26:39 pm
yes pag may extra budget  ;D kaya lang napapaisip na kami lately kasi yung last two dates namin ni hubby aba umeeksena ng sakit yung baby namin kaya tuloy napapauwi kami ng agad agad ni hubby sa pag aalala...
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: imiyeeyesiam on February 11, 2013, 07:43:57 pm
 ::) sabi ko nga kay hubby wag na muna kami mag date..kasi lagi nalang ako ang gumagastos date namin ..sabi ko yayain nalang niya ako pag meron na siyang pang date.. hehe :P
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mommylovesarmil on February 17, 2013, 05:37:52 am
Yes! Yes! Yes!

Pero It's been awhile since the 2 of us went out. November pa ata yun.
Though kaka-out of town lang namen last month kasama officemate ko and their hubby din :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: benj on February 17, 2013, 11:41:15 am
Yup we go out on dates. Usually kasama si baby. Minsan kami lang din. Dinner out lang naman trying different restos and pasyalan happy na kami.
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Post by: mika-madz on February 17, 2013, 01:08:10 pm
yes, pagnagbabakasyon sya dito sa Pinas.. we see to it na lalabas kami on a date..kaya looking forward ako lagi pag uuwi sya.. :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: macon on February 19, 2013, 02:51:41 pm
yes... basta mat time date pa rin
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Post by: mommyMidya on February 20, 2013, 10:41:11 pm
Bihira kaming magdate na kming dalawa lang, lagi naming kasama si baby.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: miminiyou on February 23, 2013, 09:40:10 pm
we tried but lagi kaming nagmamadali to go home to our son. parang di masaya if di sya kasama kaya we just buy food and have movie night every weekend - happy meal and cartoons.  ;D
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: Mefca on January 23, 2014, 10:46:41 pm
Di na kami lumalabas ng hubby ko. Nababagot na nga ako eh. I miss dating out. I love watching movies. I used to watching like 2 movies in a day when i was still single... Can you imagine the itch marriage brought me? SUPER NAKAKAINGGIT ANG IBA NA PRIORITY OF THE HUSBAND IS THE WIFE.....  :-[
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: MommyniAddie on January 24, 2014, 08:02:20 am
Yes mga sis..we still do..just like nung mag bf / gf pa lang kami :)...watch ng movie, kain sa labas minsan..di na nga lang masyadong matagal kasi mama ko ang nag aalaga sa baby namin if gusto namin ng "me" time kaming dalawa :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: imeego on January 24, 2014, 09:51:23 am
we go out every weekend, pasyal sa mall, shopping and dinner out  pero kasama 2 kids and 2 yayas haha, considered date ba yun? ;D yung kami lang dalawa ni hubby, sobrang bihira, lalo na ngayon may 2nd baby na kami na 6 mos old pa lang...if ever we do, kelangan iwan namin sa MIL ko ang mga kids coz wala akong tiwala na maiiwan lang sila with the yaya..few hours lang yan, di kami pwede magtagal dahil nagi-guilty kaming iwan ang kids namin..honestly, nakakamiss din mag-date na kami lang, i cant even remember the last time we watched a movie (3 years na din ata yun hehe)..
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: sandracotton on February 20, 2014, 11:08:38 am
Yes, I make sure na me time kaming dalawa mag date date. Yong parang bf/gf pa rin. Me isang baby na rin ako 1 mo old. Iwan lang sa haws with yaya or with lola.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mummyichn on February 21, 2014, 08:49:16 pm
Yes we do this kaya lang paminsan nalang, hehe recently we had our date hehe malling shopping mga stuffy ni baby and i was sufprising that he buy me a new samsung cellphone and the he told me na "yan na ang valentines gift ko sa'yo ha" hehe hang sweet lang :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: lhazygirl on February 24, 2014, 01:14:09 pm
yes pero lage kasama baby namin d maiwan e at di ako snay wala baby namin hehe tska masya kami pag un nkikita happy c babau twing nglalaro hehe

spoiled kc baby namin smin unti ayun
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: kathnrhai on February 26, 2014, 12:47:43 pm
yes. we still go out for a date ni hubby.. pero with our son na w/c is turning to three na.. mas enjoy kasi pag kasama namin si baby. family bonding pa.. minsan kasi pag kami lang dalawa, iniisip din namin si baby. parang kulang. hehe.. like nung nakaraan, we celebrated my birthday at Vikings MOA branch.. hehe. lunch buffet. wherein free kami ni baby ko. since may promo sila for birthday.. and si baby is lagpas palang sa 3ft. kaya free of charge na rin sya... after naman, malling and nanuod na rin kami ng sunset...
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: shiningstar on February 26, 2014, 02:25:13 pm
not as much as when we were bf-gf. But we enjoyed it even if it's a short lunch date or a merienda before going home or the simplest drive on our way home. We make sure that we laugh as much as we want. Though sometimes we chose to stay at home we have this wine night thing that after we put the kids to their beds we watch a movie with wine and something to munch on :) I think it's twice as fun as before. In my humble opinion you dont need to go OUT to have a date or an alone time with your spouse. Of course it's not like before that you can stay up all night but it's really nice just chillin with your spouse at your own place. The wine has it's magic :) or if both of you prefer beer it'll do too then watch a good movie together.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: vmjanne on February 28, 2014, 04:08:01 pm
Dating before kids is okay, mahirap lang mag adjust when kids are here. While a having a date mas naiisip yung kids na naiiwan sa bahay, so opt na lang for a family bonding like watching movies or cooking at home.. by the time kids grow up, mas marami pa kayong time to really have a date outside of home. Simpleng dropping by sa office niya to grab lunch will do or all through out the day checking each other like constant reminders or text ng ''ingat mahal.'' will even do.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: ayami on March 12, 2014, 06:02:10 pm
Mas madalas na compared when we were still bf-gf. Mas madami kaming time together pero nung second baby na laging 3rd wheel si baby dahil sa breastfeeding kami haha. Next month anniversary namin we plan on a weekend getaway without kids kaya hoping ako na makaipon ng stash good for 2 days
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: annie0312 on March 17, 2014, 04:31:55 pm
Last time na lumabas kami ni hubby ng kaming dalawa lang was last year, on my birthday. Tapos hindi na nasundan pa. Kung lalabas man kami palagi kasama mga bata. Nakaka miss din mag date ng kayong dalawa lang pero pansin ko kasi pag nag de-date kami pinag uusapan din namin yung mga bata tapos mamimiss din namin sila kaya para d namin sila ma miss sinasama nalang namin. hehe!!! Minsan naman naguguilty ako kapag kami lang dalawa ang lumalabas.
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: rozzy on March 21, 2014, 11:40:58 pm
We had our date last Feb 14. Pero not the usual dinner date or gala mode. Bonding moment may consider since we gave that day for our daughter's new school. Haha! School hunting mode kami, we visited 4 schools tapos kwentuhan lang at tawanan while traveling. Then kain lang sa Razons then grocery. :D
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Post by: nikgel on March 24, 2014, 12:07:09 pm
bihira na kami mag date ni hubby...most often kasama ang unica hija namin.  :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: KtheaG on March 25, 2014, 12:10:19 pm
Since, di namin kasama si baby dito sa manila, we always go out every Sunday after attending mass..gala..movie date..kain sa labas.. :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: mommacey on September 02, 2014, 10:59:11 am
yes, we do. We make sure that we go out at  least once a month and we believe that it's essential to our growth as hubby and wife :)
Title: Re: do you still go out on date with hubby?
Post by: thesweetmom on September 06, 2014, 01:02:37 am
yes we still do! it's very important kasi it's one of your roles in life, kaya kelangan mo rin pangalagaan.

the last time we had it though was on my birthday. ang saya nun, just like nung mg.kasintahan palang kami, kilig-kilig din :D haha