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Title: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: teklah on August 18, 2010, 12:45:57 pm
anyone?

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Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mommyjanice on August 18, 2010, 12:59:12 pm
sorry di ako dad pero sasagot ako..

subukan lang niya..haha

sya kaya ang magbuntis, sya kaya ang mag alaga ng anak, sya kaya ang maglinis..hmm, i strongly dis agree na dahil lang sa kababawan ng rason na iyan.. beauty is just a skin deep..Ang pagmamahal, hindi lang sa pisikal na aspekto ang basehan..

kaya sana maging lesson din ito sa ating mga mommies..na sana, wag ng umabot pa s apuntong ikakahiya na tayo ng ating mga asawa dahil lang sa hitsura natin...


pero ngakaroon ako ng idea siz..matanong nga si hubby maya.. ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: teklah on August 18, 2010, 01:46:03 pm
yung friend ko kasi, ewan ko ba dun, sobrang taba na niya obese na, okay lang sana kung ganun kasi natural lang sa nanganak yung tumaba, kaso parang magsuklay hindi na niya ginagawa, yung nails niya sa paa parang di na niya bina brush, tapos, kung magdamit parang hindi man lang na plantsa yung damit.

I can understand the situation of a mother pero sana kahit konti mag ayos siya. Ayoko naman sabihan baka kasi nangingialam ang dating ko. Sorry sis,mali ba ako na pinag iisipan ko siya ng ganun? Minsan kasi feeling ko yung husband niya nahihiya dahil di sya presentable tingnan.

sorry ha, correct me if Im wrong. :-[
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: reynjoyce on August 19, 2010, 09:04:38 am

actually natanong ko nayan sa hubby ko eh.sabi niya" di naman pero ayoko nang mataba ka kasi di na kita mabubuhat".
 galing mag-alibi ng hubby ko noh!!! hehheheh
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: vanenie on August 19, 2010, 09:33:37 am
mataba ako. my family can't even remember me being thin (except nung baby pa ako). so mataba ako nung bf/gf pa lang kami ni hubby. tumaba ako lalo pagkapanganak at pag-aalaga ng baby. may times na pag andito sa bahay, nakakalimutan ko magsuklay. :o
pero pag lumalabas kami, nagsusuklay naman ako at plantsado aking damit, di lang ako naka-makeup. di naman kasi talaga ako mahilig mag-makeup -- powder at lip gloss lang, okay na.

wala namang reklamo si hubby. pag sinasabi kong ang taba ko na, sabi niya di niya napapansin.  ::) siguro nga, kasi ganun pa rin siya manggigil sa akin! ;D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: BrandonVera on August 19, 2010, 02:22:35 pm
Hi Mommy,
This is a very ineteresting topic, pwedeng pang Mel and Joey,hahah!!

Anyways, I think, never will come a time na ikakahiya ko ang asawa ko.

Pero para sagutin yung tanong, I will and will never will na ikakahiya sya kahit kasing laki na sya ng cabinet ng anak kong panganay..haha

Actually mataba na sya ngayon, hmmm, I think 25 lang waistline niya nung GF ko pa lang sya. Lightweight lang sya nun. When she gave birth to out first kid naging Middleweight, tapos nung sa second baby na ayun heavyweight na sya. Pero never ko sya kinahiya. Kasi in everyday, lalo akong nabibilib sa kanya. Kasi matalino sya eh. Sa call center ako nagtatrabaho, and sa tingin ko talo pa ng wife ko yung trainer namen pagdating sa tamang grammar. Hinde porke may accent eh magaling na mag english.

Well, hinde ko alam kung mababasa niya to.

Pero, Mommy Wendy, I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. Sana makuha ng mga kids naten ang katalinuhan mo...(and sana sa aking nila makuha ang magandang lahi,haha)

I love you Mommy Wendy.

Hope to hear from the other Dad...
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: always_able on August 19, 2010, 02:24:50 pm
sana naman hindi!  >:(
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: momi_chesca kikay on August 19, 2010, 02:33:21 pm
Waahhh!! wag naman....  subukan lang niya,.... :o :-[ >:(
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mich_tatsdwayne on August 19, 2010, 02:54:00 pm
mataba ako. my family can't even remember me being thin (except nung baby pa ako). so mataba ako nung bf/gf pa lang kami ni hubby. tumaba ako lalo pagkapanganak at pag-aalaga ng baby. may times na pag andito sa bahay, nakakalimutan ko magsuklay. :o
pero pag lumalabas kami, nagsusuklay naman ako at plantsado aking damit, di lang ako naka-makeup. di naman kasi talaga ako mahilig mag-makeup -- powder at lip gloss lang, okay na.

wala namang reklamo si hubby. pag sinasabi kong ang taba ko na, sabi niya di niya napapansin.  ::) siguro nga, kasi ganun pa rin siya manggigil sa akin! ;D

Same tayo, sis. Mataba na din ako nung nakilala ako ni hubby. Nung bf/gf pa lang kami, hanggang sa ikasal and before mabuntis, L-XL pa lang ako. Nung manganak ako XXL na. Tapos ngayon XXXL na. Di na ko pumayat at di rin naman ako nagpapapayat. Di rin naman ako pinipressure ni hubby na mag-loose ng weight. Minsan pinapaalalahanan niya din ako kasi concern sya sa health ko. Nasa lahi kasi namin (mother side) ang may high blood pressure at diabetic.

'Pag lumalabas kami I make sure naman na presentable ang itsura ko tsaka di ako lumalabas na hindi plantsado suot ko. Eversince di naman ako nagme-make-up (ayaw din ni hubby) kaya powder ok na. No-no din kay hubby ang nail polish. Gusto niya simple lang talaga.   


 
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mybhie06 on August 19, 2010, 03:07:13 pm
Aw ang sweet naman ni daddy BrandonVera! ::)

Ako din makiki post kahit hindi ako daddy..hehe..naku ako, sanay na kong tuksuhin ng asawa kong mataba! Kahit nung mag bf/gf pa lang kami, "mami pig" na tawag niya sakin. Ngayong nabuntis ako, "mami elephant" na! :o Haha! Pero talagang normal na mapang asar ang hubby ko so ok lang, nasanay na din ako kahit minsan eh nakakainis talaga. Pero at least naman yun, alam kong lambing lang at never naman ako kinahiya ng asawa ko kahit chubby ako. But syempre naman mageeffort pa din ako magpapayat at never ako magmumukhang losyang noh! hehe! Syempre alam kong kahit naman ok lang sa hubby ko yun, dapat may effort ka pa din na magmukhang maganda palagi sa kanya di ba? Saka di lang naman para sa kanya yun, para din sayo yun. Ang panget naman na sabihin ng iba na porket nagka anak ka lang eh nalosyang ka na
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mixx on August 19, 2010, 03:11:47 pm
di ako dad pero as a teenager mahirap kasi importante ang physical features ng isang tao. im known by most people as someone na maganda mukha, maganda buhok, and maganda chest tsaka maganda ang curve ng katawan. naging pride ako ng bf ko sa ibang tao dahil dun. tapos ngayon parang feeling ko hindi na siya ganun kaproud sakin. though iniintindi ko nalang kasi teens kami and malaking factor nga siguro sakanya ang physical aspect ko pero sabi naman daw niya na mahal niya ako kahit baby baboy niya na daw ako :|

so right now, at 37 almost 38 weeks pregnant, super pressured na ako to get my body back. as in super talaga. pati buhok ko pinapahaba ko na ulet, and pinaplano ko na diet ko after giving birth kasi feeling ko di ko masisikmura ang pangaasar sakin ng bf ko.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: vanenie on August 19, 2010, 04:10:09 pm
daddy BrandonVera panalo ka! :D ganyan dapat ang mga daddies hehe :) swerte ni mommy wendystar! (see you both on Saturday yey!)

sis mich_tatsdwayne, apir!!! :D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: yhamsloveģ on August 19, 2010, 04:28:50 pm
I think, never will come a time na ikakahiya ko ang asawa ko.

You're so sweet sir BrandonVera!!

Naalala ko tuloy asawa ko..  :D

ako rin, hindi ko naramdaman na ikinahiya ako ng asawa ko. kahit lumaki na yung balakang ko, kahit mukha pa rin akong 2 months preggy, he doesn't mind...

pero siyempre, kahit pa walang reklamo ang asawa ko, hindi ko pa rin pinapabayaan ang sarili ko. oo nga hindi niya ako kinakahiya, pero ayaw ko naman na siya ang mapahiya sa ibang tao.

i think ganon talaga pag mahal ka ng isang tao. kahit ano pa itsura mo o kahit ano pa nagbago sa katawan mo, hindi niya yun papansinin, kase yung pagiging asawa mo sa kanya ang binibigyan niya ng halaga.  ;) :D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: BrandonVera on August 20, 2010, 11:21:24 am
Thanks to all mommy na natuwa sa post ko.

Pero ang totoo binobola ko lang ang asawa kong si Wendystar. Para hinde niya na kunin yung napanalunan kong Gold's Gym GC dito sa SP(remeber hotdad). Ipambibili ko kasi ng shoes eh..haha

Anyways, Siguro ganun lang talaga pag nagmamahal. You don't really need to be sweet. I mean, let the other people see how sweet you are with the one you love.

Di ko alam kung nabasa na ng asawa ko to eh. But if she did sana natuwa din sya katulad nyo..

Going back to the topic, ok lang naman talaga kung tataba sya. Meaning masarap at magaling ako mag alaga. haha

Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: chubyswife on August 20, 2010, 12:08:39 pm
share ko lang din to mga sis,

tinanong ko din si hubby kung ikina ka hiya ba niya ako lalo na kung anjan friends niya, sabi niya hindi naman daw.

pero mga sis, kunwari sa mall tapos na kakasalubong namin yung mga friends niya, ako na lang ang humihiwalay, kunwari may titingnan ako sa malayo, kusa ko pong gagawin yun, feeling ko kasi hindi sya proud sakin o kaya nahihiya sya na mataba ang wife niya while ang si sexy parin ng mga friends niya. iwan ko ba sis? o baka paranoid lang talaga ako.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: teklah on August 20, 2010, 12:42:49 pm
^hi sis! bakit mo naman nasabi yan? meron bang incidents na tingin mo ikinahiya ni hubby mo ang hitsura mo?

wag kang ma insecure sa mga friends ng hubby mo. natural lang at karamihan talaga ng mga mommies lalo na yung medyo may edad na, let's say nasa forties na ang medyo tumaba. dapat confident ka.  wag ka ma insecure sa mga wives na sobrang sexy at ganda baka kasi yung mga yon eh walang ginawa kundi mag gym at mag pa spa, at pinapabayaan naman ang pamilya at puro pagpapaganda ang iniintindi.  as long as alam mo sa sarili mo na mabuti kang asawa at ina sa mga anak mo, dapat confident ka ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: chubyswife on August 20, 2010, 01:01:27 pm
@ sis teklah
yun na nga po sis, im only 22 at isa pa po ang anak ko, pero yung waist line ko umaabot na sa 31, di po bagay sakin kasi 5 flat lang po height ko. sis alam nyo ba yung feeling na ang taba taba mo, tapos ang si sexy ng mga taong naka paligid sayo. :'(
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: insensitive on August 20, 2010, 01:07:05 pm
Makisagot nga din..i belong eh hahaha..

Ako din mataba na eversince pinanganak hehe.Pumapayat lang ako pag nagkakasakit. Nung bf/gf plng kami chubby ako 27 waistline hahaha.May korte naman katawan ko.Nung nabuntis,grabe tumaba na hanggang ngayon hindi na ako nakapg-move on.31 na waistline,kumusta naman yun.
Anyways kahit gusto ko magpapayat hindi pwede kasi i need foods to sustain my energy kasi i breastfed my baby. Hindi ako nagkokontrol sa pagkain, saka bawal din mga pampapayat so no choice.Saka na lang pg hindi na BF baby ko.
Inaasar lang ako ng asawa ko lagi,syempre nakakahurt at napipikon ako.Pero never ko naman napansin na kinahiya niya ako,ako ata ang mas nahihiya sa katawan ko hehe.

Importante kahit mataba ka,blooming ka naman diba. Hindi ka pabaya sa sarili mo.Maayos ka manamit ska presentable :)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: chubyswife on August 20, 2010, 01:13:55 pm


Importante kahit mataba ka,blooming ka naman diba. Hindi ka pabaya sa sarili mo.Maayos ka manamit ska presentable :)
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oo naman sis, sa bagay yung weight lang naman yung problem diba ok na yun may araw din na papayat tayo siguro nga di pa ngayon kasi, kilangan kumain ng marami para sa gawaing bahay at para din sa pag aalaga ng anak! :) nabuhayan ng loob!
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: wendystar on August 20, 2010, 02:07:46 pm

Di ko alam kung nabasa na ng asawa ko to eh. But if she did sana natuwa din sya katulad nyo..




OT: Thanks for being proud of me. of course natutuwa naman ako :) I'm also proud of you. :) 

Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: dhangcabuang on August 20, 2010, 02:13:30 pm
^wow, ang cheesy..

mataba din ako.lagi n lang sinasabi sakin ni husby na kain ako ng kain ang taba taba ko na..pero lahat yun ay pangaasar lang niya..pumapayat lang ako pag bagong panganak at pag naglilihi..

pero sana nga di niya ako kinakahiya..XL ako sa damit..huhu..

pero naisip ko lang, inaawat ako sa pagkain tas pag nagkasakit ako pipilitin akong kumain...ang gulo!

enway, gusto ko tong post na to ha..natuwa ako sa mga sagot ng dads dito..
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: J0 on August 20, 2010, 02:50:09 pm
Hinde.  Hindi siya tumataba, hindi siya nagmumukhang losyang.  Ako lang ba ang nakikita siyang ganoon o totoong lalo pa yata siyang blooming.  Siguro ganon pag happy and content ka sa love, hehe.  Subukan niya huwag mag brush pagtulog sa gabi at mag-bad breath sa umaga.  Magtu-toothbrush ako and freshen my breath tapos kiss ko siya hehe.

Bahala siya...kahit wala siyang effort.  Ako magpapapogi, magpapakaslim, magsisipag sa household chores, at magpapaka fresh at magpapakabango for her hehe.


Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mommitikya on August 20, 2010, 03:46:44 pm
Ako naman, feel ko di rin ako ikakahiya ng husband ko kung tumaba ako. Kc extra large family sila, lahat pati mga pamangkin. Kaya nga nung nakilala niya ko, sbi ng mga ate niya "naku pag mag-asawa na kayo, malamang magiging kasing taba ka rin namin!" Totoo nga, tumaba ako..pero ako pa rin pinaka-slim sa kanila pag magkakasama kami...so, sexy pa rin akong tingnan! hehe! ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: teklah on August 20, 2010, 04:09:02 pm
Hinde.  Hindi siya tumataba, hindi siya nagmumukhang losyang.  Ako lang ba ang nakikita siyang ganoon o totoong lalo pa yata siyang blooming.  Siguro ganon pag happy and content ka sa love, hehe.  Subukan niya huwag mag brush pagtulog sa gabi at mag-bad breath sa umaga.  Magtu-toothbrush ako and freshen my breath tapos kiss ko siya hehe.

Bahala siya...kahit wala siyang effort.  Ako magpapapogi, magpapakaslim, magsisipag sa household chores, at magpapaka fresh at magpapakabango for her hehe.


ayos ka daddy jo jo! astig hehe! sana lahat ng dads tulad nyo ni brendon!
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mrsbueno on August 20, 2010, 04:10:12 pm
Samen ni husband.

Mas ako yung nagwo-worry, ako yung pumapansin sa sarili kong looks, figure etc. Me time pa rin kasi na feel ko matulog na nka-und**s lang tapos mahabang tshirt! sasabihin niya "sexy ng babe ko ah!" kahit parang me kulubot sa tummy owel, that's because dun nag stay babies diba mommies? kahit flat tummy ko meron pa rin kulubot part na nag-he-hello.

Sabay din kami maligo every morning so, minsan pag nakita ko sya nakatitig at some point ako yung iiwas nakaka-insecure kasi. Kng nsa mall naman kng feeling ko bad hair day for me lalayo din ako just incase me makasalubong sya na kakilala. Kapag feeling ko naman sexy ako syempre when you have flaunt it!
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: syndyela on August 22, 2010, 10:33:26 pm
Hmm...bakit ganun...asawa ko naman, ayaw niya na masyado ako ma-kikay.  Ok lang sa kanya kung super casual ang mga damit ko, nabibigla siya na nagme-make up ako, bakit daw kailangan ko pa bumili ng beauty products or magpa-facial.  Haynaku.  Sabi ko sa kanya, sa work namin hindi pwede mukhang losyang.  Yaw ba niya ako magmukhang maganda???!!!  Gosh.  Pero one thing's for sure...sabi niya sa akin, yaw niya na maging sobrang mataba ako. Hehe.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: anerba :) on August 23, 2010, 12:11:55 am
Natanong ko na rin si hubby kung ikinahihiya na niya ba ako...ang sagot niya...never at sobrang mahal niya ako. Nung gf/bf pa lang kami ang payat ko...let's just say sexy hehe....pero yung nanganak na ako ayun from 110 to 140lbs. Sa buong buhay ko ngayon lang ako tumaba ng ganito kaya nga mga friends ko nagugulat eh. Hindi ako mahilig magmake up at pumorma since wala na ako gaanong damit dahil 95% ng damit ko ay hindi na kasya. hubby loves me for being simple pag lumalabas lipstick and face powder lang ako pero kahit paano hindi naman ganun ka panget damit ko.

Kung mahal ka talaga ng hubby mo kahit ano man ang hitsura mo...never ka niya ikahihiya at everyday nagsasabi sya sayo ng "i love you asawa ko..." ganyan si hubby ko...panalo!
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: JoshuaGummies on August 23, 2010, 01:03:49 am
sabi ni partner hindi naman daw niya ako kinahihiya pero miserable ako noong tumaba ako kasi naman di ko masuot damit na gusto ko, feeling ko ang pangit pangit ko, lalo na nakikita ko dimpled dimpled sa balat ko dahil sa katabaan at sagging na bilbil, lage ako masungit at lage ko sya inaaway, kaya miserable din sya :'(

sya sinisisi ko kasi dahil sa pills na iniinom ko kaya tumaba ako, ayaw kasi magpa vasectomy >:(

2006 w/ 4 yrs old baby na wala pang pills, happy ako sa body ko ;D
(http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs078.snc4/35251_128495263858681_100000946252857_131754_7186249_n.jpg)

April 2009 nang dahil sa pills, ang pangit ko at ganyan na swimwear ko kaya miserable ako :'(
(http://lh3.ggpht.com/_5hcDItB9eyU/TBXYzvdPkwI/AAAAAAAAAeY/iZgqMeofPdo/s512/meWcharish.jpg)
may 2010 and june 2010
(http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs295.snc4/41093_1571434047441_1283202069_1613717_1651284_n.jpg)

now, happy na ulit kasi unti-unti nang bumabalik ang dating ako! gusto ko magpapayat di lang dahil sa kanya pinakauna para sa sarili ko, para ma"feel good" ako, masuot ko gusto ko at para humaba pa buhay ko para sa anak ko pangalawa at sige sa kanya na rin ang panghuli ;D

takot ako sabi "Gaining weight means inviting disease!" jim poore

Jim Poore's Story (di sakin ang site ha)  ;)
http://losefathow.blogspot.com/2008/04/from-jim-poores-story-i-learned-that.html (http://losefathow.blogspot.com/2008/04/from-jim-poores-story-i-learned-that.html)

Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Ho
Post by: Mariel Arun on August 24, 2010, 09:37:12 am
I was 36-27-38 nung mag-bf/gf palang kami ni hubby ngaun do the math multiply those stats by 2, ngek! but I'm not sad kasi ganito na body ko now. I'm comfortable with my body now than before. I asked hubby tungkol dito and he said hindi kasi my worth to him as a wife appraises  every time I give birth sa tatlong anak niya (cheesy!). well, this is me now, with this body and this heart and wisdom as the mother of his kids so take it or leave it!. (but better take it if he knows what's good for him  ;D)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: nylej20 on August 28, 2010, 08:08:55 pm
tumaba din ako after manganak pero now nag enroll ako sa gym para kahit pano mabawasan mga belly ko and maging presentable din..this is one way of bringing bak my self confidence..isa pa para wala sya excuse na maghanap ng iba noh???especially na he's working abroad..so far smooth naman relationship namin..lagi niya sinasabi na kahit daw tumaba pa ko ng katulad kay donya buding mahal pa rin niya ko..syempre di na ko papapyag na tumaba ng ganun noh?
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: J0 on August 29, 2010, 04:26:51 am
I read this on an FB status today

Quote
"To be in love is merely to be In a state of perpetual anesthesia: To mistake an ordinary young man for a Greek god Or an ordinary young woman for a goddess"

This explains why I keep on seeing my wife like the goddess in my favorite painting.
(http://en.academic.ru/pictures/enwiki/49/1863_Alexandre_Cabanel_-_The_Birth_of_Venus.jpg)
"The Birth of Venus" (French: "Naissance de Venus"). A painting by the French artist Alexandre Cabanel (1823Ė1889).  (http://en.academic.ru/dic.nsf/enwiki/2415703)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: >r0sey cHeeKs< on August 30, 2010, 07:56:25 am
natuwa naman ako sa topic na to ;D
since isa rin ako sa mga mommies na tumaba simula ng nagkababy
sweet naman ni daddy jojo and daddy brandon vera, kainggit naman mga wifes nio
 mommy wendy star bongga! ;D
pareho tayo mommy chubyswife im also 22 din infairness pareho tayo ng height and waistline hehe..
pagkabasa na pagkabasa ko ng topic na to tinanong ko agad si hubby  ;)
ito sagot niya copy paste ko nlang:
hindi huh, kahit ano kapa, kahit tumaba kapa ng husto, hindi kita ikahihiya, pero mas maganda kung magpapayat ka, luv you
natawa na lang ako :D
im trying to lose weight pa rin not for my husband or for anyone else but for myself syempre connected pa rin un sa health natin in the future diba?
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: ceejhei on August 31, 2010, 11:45:06 am
^ isa din ito sa mga kinatatakot ko mangyari. i was an ex-model with a stats of 34-26-36. almost perfect. kaso after i gave birth tumaba ako. Everytime na pupunta ako ng mall and nakikita ko ang mga co-models ko na nag eevent or simply bumping them somewhere, nahihiya ako. although i gained a little weight lang naman. pero iba pa din ang confidence kapag alam mong sexy ka. i weigh 110 pounds before. tapos after mga naging 125. pero dahil bata pa ako (24) at si hubby ay nag ttrabaho sa call center at alam kong madaming babae dun at baka ma-tempt siya, kaya eto nag sumikap akong ibalik yung sarili ko sa dati. konti nalang ay babalik na ako sa dati kong shape i am now at 115lbs pero and hindi ko lang matago ay yung belly fats, kasi nga nalagyan na ng bata sa loob kaya ang hirap na ipabalik unless magpa surgery ako.

i asked him din dati kung tumaba na ako ng as in mataba na, ang sagot niya? "walang problema hun, edi magpapataba din ako ng sobra para pareho tayo."
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Post by: Mommy France on August 31, 2010, 12:07:23 pm
Tumaba ako pero mas lumaki yung asawa ko kesa saken.

Nag-cold turkey kasi siya para hindi na siya manigarilyo and na-focus sa eating lahat.  Ayun.

So, I'd speak for the partners na lang of those who had gained weight.

Hindi ko kinakahiya yung husband ko. Love na love ko yun. Hindi naman kasi siya nagbago saken and pogi pa rin siya.

Xiempre minsan malulungkot siya pero I always try to boost his self-confidence. Kahit nga tumaba siya andame pa rin lumalapit eh. Mas lalo pa kaya kung hindi.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: angelicabo on August 31, 2010, 12:32:21 pm
naiiyak ako habang binabasa ko yung thread na to.  :'(

ako rin kasi tumaba after i gave birth. pag inaask ko naman si hubby kung kinakahiya niya ako sabi niya hindi. pero iba naman yung nararamdaman ko. lagi na lang niya akong inaasar everytime na kakain kami. like kanina. nakaka degrade kasi ng personality... gusto ko ng mag diet but the thing is, sobrang pagod talaga from work at pag uwi sa bahay si baby kahit may yaya na sakin pa rin. kaya pag eating time na, dun ko binabawi ang kaapguran kaya kain ako ng kain.  :-[
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: keih liwanag on August 31, 2010, 01:57:56 pm
it's sad when women lose their confidence because of weight problem, either under or over. it affects us really. what's even more saddening is when the love of our lives get affected too.
honestly, my husband was never affected. before, i would ask him several times or even spy at his answers just to get assurance that he is not mindful of my weight. eversince we met, i already am chubby. i receive compliments even so. and even if he doesn't give compliments much on my figure, his praises on the way he adores my face and intelligence are more than enough for me to be confident.

i actually learned it from my mom who is chubby as well. she once said that if i want to go on diet, my heart should be into it. she only meant one thing, i should have discipline and most importantly, i am doing it for myself, not for any body else, even for my husband. she said i cannot live with his compliments for the rest of my life and happiness coming from compliments are just an immediate effect, instead, i can only be beautiful if my mind said so.

not that i don't care about losing weight any more, i still go on diet. it's just that now, i am more after the healthy me, not the sexy-physical me. pano if sexy ngako pero sakitin naman ako. or sexy ngako pero wala naman balance ng nutrients sa katawan ko. i am more after to making my heart healthy, my resistensya, my respiratory system. hehe kase mas hahaba ang buhay ko pag dito ako nagfocus.

after all those years, i have learned to accept it. that beauty is not just physical. if you project it, you will be. if you focus on some areas on your body - smile, hair, teeth, skin, and a lot more... you still can be beautiful.

take it from me mommies, matagal nakong chubby.  :)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: J0 on September 01, 2010, 02:51:14 pm
Mas masarap kayakap ang mataba at medyo mukhang losyang lalo na kung mahal mo.  Ako, ayoko ng wife na sa sobrang conscious about appearance eh nababawasan o affected na ang interaction namin.  Mas nakakalungkot naman na ang marami diyan na parang isa lang o limited ang notion about beauty.  Siguro, sa sobrang panonood ng TV, Magazine, Billboards, internet images at iba pang media. 

"Beauty is truth, truth beauty," - that is all
        Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know."

- John Keats, Ode on a Grecian Urn

Hindi mo na alam ngayon kung totoo pa ang nakikita mo sa media.  Parang standard procedure na ngayon ang mag-alter ng pictures.  May makita ka mang maganda in person, di mo alam kung babae ba iyon o lalaki.

Ang babaeng sinumpaan mo na mamahalin habang buhay ay kilalang-kilala mo na. 


When you came, you were like red wine and honey,
And the taste of you burnt my mouth with its sweetness.
Now you are like morning bread,
Smooth and pleasant.
I hardly taste you at all for I know your savour,
But I am completely nourished.

-- Amy Lowell, Decade

You no longer see her as she appears but you experience her, wholly, completely.  Paghawak mo sa braso niya, hindi mo mapapansin na kung medyo iba na ito...pero mararamdaman mo ang kakaibang init.

Pagyakap mo sa kaniya mula sa likod at mata-touch mo ang tiyan niya...di mo na maiisip kung nagbago man ang puson niya...may kilig pa rin na nararamdaman sa paglalapat ng inyong katawan.

The body remembers, that's what my wife and I would always say.  Meron kayong intimacy na kayo lang ang nakakaalam.  You no longer see each other at a distance and see mere appearances.  You are so close that you are no longer two different persons.  Body and spirit - you would always feel each other's existence because you are one...and you are as infinite as the universe itself. 

Sana madiscover pa ng maraming tao ito. 


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Post by: yhamsloveģ on September 01, 2010, 04:39:22 pm
^Daddy Jojo... simula ngayon titira na ako sa refrigerator!! o di kaya sa kusina na ako matutulog!!

it's nice to hear such words from a guy!

Sana madiscover pa ng maraming tao ito.

I totally agree!
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: momofrainchira on September 01, 2010, 06:44:39 pm
hehe... :)i love this topic...
last week lang cnamahan ako ni hubby bumili ng new pants ko na size 31,from size 24...after nun cnamahan din niya ko mamili sa megamall ng sunblock,spa salt,pang ahit ng kilay,at kung anikanik pang beauty,hindi naman niya ako cnsaway infact minsan sya pa suggest try ko pkulay ng hair,pa facial kami etc...
nmeet niya ko chubby ako,kasi restau ako work so puro fuds,tas nung stop ako pumyat ulit ako,so nkita niya sexy daw pla ako kaya ayun tinuluyan nko then nbuntis s pnganay namin,tumba ulit after 2 years pumyat ako ulit ayun nsundan tuloy may bunso n kami ngayun...hehe...ask ko sa kanya if kinkkhiya niya KO DHIL ANG LAKI talaga ng tinaba ko sabi naman niya ok lang nadadaan p naman daw sa face value,pero malakas mang asar c hubby minsan big mama tawag niya skin...pero ok lang kasi kahit ganun nkikipag holding hands parin naman cia skin wen wer out,tsakakasama ko parin cia nagsusukat ng malalaking size ng hehe...
but then ayokong pabayaan sarili ko kasi maraming haliparot jan pogi pa naman c hubby,kaya lapitin... ;D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: JoshuaGummies on September 02, 2010, 10:44:52 pm
nakakatakot :o hmmmm..
(http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs316.snc4/41150_1586169775825_1283202069_1657950_6439156_n.jpg)
(http://www.healthy-wealthy.me/_/rsrc/1277866009597/health/wtrends_mag05.gif?height=200&width=158)

daddy jojo sana lang lahat ng lalaki/asawa tulad mo! kahanga hanga ka! :)
pero realidad hinde! :'( karamihan tumitingin sa panlabas na kaanyuan at kung may option naman na mas healthy and fit ang mahal mo di ba mas ok? ;D

Being Fit and healthy ay kayamanan hindi naman sya beauty lang .... siguro as long as "you feel good about yourself" mataba or fit man... Beautiful ;)  me personally,pag mataba ako di ako happy kaya I dont feel beautiful:(
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: JoshuaGummies on September 02, 2010, 11:00:26 pm
proud na proud din ako sabihin na Im soooo lucky kasi partner ko tulad ni daddyjojo na di ako ikinahiya noong Fat ako! and sa kahit anong paraan ipinaramdam niya na love niya ako kung ano man itsura ko but mas proud akong sabihin na dahil bumalik ang fit/healthy/sexy na ako mas super love niya ako ngayon...  ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: babywaby on September 02, 2010, 11:13:53 pm
my hubby never liked obese nor chubby girls. i used to be slim. after 3 kids im 130lbs na with a big tummy from 2 c-sections and round fat arms. he wants to transfer his lifetime membership in slimmers world to my name, he wants me to box, swim, play tennis...before im dying to lose weight primarily for him. it became my insecurity. when he had a one night stand while i was preggy with our baby girl, i told myself if i will do anything to myself, it will be for ME. not because of anyone. not just to please other people. so now im taking time. i will lose these fats in due time. not to please my husband but to please myself. i will wear sexy clothes again not for my hubby but because i want it. i will swim and play tennis because those i my sports that i missed doing-not because my hubby said so. :)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: anhing on September 03, 2010, 01:41:51 am
nice topic we got here....

i use to have a "sexy" figure prior to having a baby. back then, si hubby p yung umaawat saken, bwal too much make-up, huwag masyado malilim ang neckline, no body hugging shirts/jeans, even my shoes sinisita. pansinin kc ku becoz of my complexion and modesty aside, maganda talaga figure ku nun at hinde naman aku panget! hehe. but after i gave birth.. kablam! inaasar nga ku ni hubby n pwede ku n labanan si pacman becoz of my weight. but did i ever feel na kinakahiya niya ku? NEVER! naku ngagalet p nga un kung nag-ddiet aku. but i still want to loose a few pounds. i want to bring back the old me, not about being sexy, more of being confident. after all, sexiness is measured on how confident you are, right mommies?  ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: dianne_gwa@yahoo.com on September 03, 2010, 06:42:18 am
Hello mommies
I had to ask the help of our daughter to translate this question for me. I am Dianne_gwa husband, for me there's nothing I can be ashamed of my wife. She is beautiful, intelligent, kind, caring , loving words cannot describe the good qualities that she has!
Sometimes she is complaining about her "extra fats" on her tummy, I always telling her she is fine. I love her flat nose and her brown skin. No matter what will be the physical look was, the important is the character. I LOVE MY WIFE SO MUCH
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: JoshuaGummies on September 03, 2010, 01:56:45 pm
sa lahat ng mommies na tulad ko, sana lang di dahil ikinahihiya tayo kaya gusto natin magpa fit at sana lang hindi dahil di tayo kinahihiya na mataba tayo kaya ok lang. Our husband/partner deserving naman siguro na bigyan ng FIT and di losyang na asawa/partner at siguro mas lalo nyang mamahalin at bigyan ng halaga ang lalong magandang tayo ;).

at sana lang aware tayo na ang pag-gain ng weight ay di maganda sa kalusugan at di naman ito sa pagandahan lamang:).
maraming safe na paraan para magpahealthy, Let's fight global epidemic which is OBESITY...

that's why kami we are promoting COMMUNITY WEIGHT LOSS CHALLENGE :)

Overweight and obesity are defined as abnormal or excessive fat accumulation that presents a risk to health. A crude population measure of obesity is the body mass index (BMI), a personís weight (in kilograms) divided by the square of his or her height (in metres). A person with a BMI of 30 or more is generally considered obese. A person with a BMI equal to or more than 25 is considered overweight.

Overweight and obesity are major risk factors for a number of chronic diseases, including diabetes, cardiovascular diseases and cancer. Once considered a problem only in high income countries, overweight and obesity are now dramatically on the rise in low- and middle-income countries, particularly in urban settings. -WORLD HEALTH ORGANIZATION
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mommy ni lijah on September 09, 2010, 10:30:56 am
samin naman ni hubby, pareho kaming lumalaki... hehe from 96 lbs dati ngaun siguro 140 lbs ako... while preggy akalain ba nmng pumalo ng 180lbs... hindi na baboy, dinosaur na ko nun... hehe pero oks lang... wala namang sinasabi si hubby pero syempre, minsan napapaisip ako, lalo na yung mga asawa ng frends ni hubby sexy pa rin... hehe

pero if i would go on a diet, its because i want to and for health reasons.. may high blood na kasi ako... so yun...  sa mga magdidiet jan, good luck saten!!! hehe
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: simplengmisis on September 09, 2010, 11:43:49 am
Lagi akong tinutukso ni Hasband na ang taba ko daw at nagagalit pag nakikitang kumakain ako ng merienda o chitchirya. Hindi ako umatend nung HS reunion kasi nahihiya ako magpakita, si Mister lang ang nagpakita kasi magka school mates kami noon. Pag uwi ni Mister, sabi niya mabuti daw na ako ang nakatuluyan niya kasi talagang nagtabaan na husto na di na niya nakilala yung ibang school mates namin.
O kitam?
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: FighterDad Rob on September 10, 2010, 01:23:33 am
Absolutely NOT!  My wife is beautiful no matter what she does.   :D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: ainge88 on September 10, 2010, 06:56:23 am
ang sweet naman ni daddy! hehe

nung nakita kong topic na to, tinext ko agad si hubby. hindi pala alam niya kung ano ibig sabihin ng losyang. haha

pero alam ko ayaw ako nun tumaba ng sobra kasi alam niya na hindi healthy yun and kasi medyo health buff si hubby. maganda pa rin katawan niya and ayaw rin niya ng pinapabayaan sarili ko.. gusto nun laging malinis ako.. kaya for me positive din yun kasi i exert more effort in making myself look presentable, kahit nasa bahay lang ako.

sabi niya nung tinanong ko yun, i just want you to look and be your best..
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: FighterDad Rob on September 10, 2010, 05:18:36 pm
Haha thanks ainge88.

What really matters is how healthy naman a woman is.  And I don't mean healthy as a euphemism for chubby! :D

Even if there's extra weight or less weight, we all should take care of ourselves.  The standard rule, everything in moderation. 

In other words, if there's something men should be concerned about sa mga wives/partners nila, it should be the numbers on her cholesterol, blood pressure etc.  Not on the scale. 

If a guy thinks less of his wife because she's "losyang" he should take on hard look at himself.  SINO BA NAGBUNTIS?  And another look to see if he still looks as macho as he did in his prime.  They should include for fatter or for thinner sa marriage vows.  Woot Woot!
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Post by: honey-ecclaire on September 10, 2010, 06:09:17 pm
of course not..I can say na ako pinaka maganda sa mga naging gf ni hubby...and he always saying na im maganda at sexy...as for me naman i never let myself to be losyang no matter how busy i am.....

i know he loves me more everytime I do my part as a mom and wife...
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Post by: shine82 on September 26, 2010, 12:15:11 pm
naku may mga ibang daddies... lakas lang mangasar.... pero deep inside , mahal na mahal nila asawa nila ...
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Post by: JhoLapierre on September 26, 2010, 01:14:38 pm
even before we got married my hubby honestly told me not to gain weight..(coz im balingkinitan) he even told me that he will trade me for another chick  ;D but i know he was just bugging me. i actually appreciate his honesty, he wants us to have a regular gym activity
so aside from keeping our figure right, its healthy for the both of us.

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Post by: gorgeous_mommie on September 26, 2010, 02:48:21 pm
sabi din ng hubby ko noon Di niya daw ako kinahihiya kasi alam naman niya naging ganun katawan ko dahil sa kanya narin(when he got me preg.) pero di naman excuse yon.. kahit ano pa sabihin niya syempre i can feel na minsan pag sa harap ng friends or staffs niya nag aalangan sya pakilala ako.. unlike nung pumayat nako na feeling super yabang niya pag meron lumilingon sa misis niya kasi nagagandahan...
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Post by: banet1029 on September 30, 2010, 01:11:41 am
i felt that he is not proud of me...meron pang factor na kailangan niya akong pagselosin para pumayat ako.kaso para lalo ako nadedepress eh..parang hindi nakakamotivate eh.. thank you for spending time reading.
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Post by: StillSingleMale on October 03, 2010, 09:30:14 am
Not ikinakahiya, but it makes us look where "the grass is greener"....
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: jcbasty8 on November 09, 2010, 11:22:40 pm
Hi to all dads out there! Thanks sa topic na ganito. .well para sakin ok lang kahit maging super chubby ang wife ko kasi hndi naman sa physical aspects ko lang sya minahal ska d pa naman ganun kchubby wife ko 26 palang waist line niya ngy0n we have a 1yr old daugter ska sobra happy ako kasi kht sbihin ko ok lang magptaba sya ,sya naman eto pilit nag diet . . Uo hndi maalis sa mga guys na humanga sa mga sexy girls pero iba parin kapag asawa m0 na dun m0 mkita lahat ng katangian ng mahal m0. .ska sbi nga till death do us part . .i hope mdami pa dad na mka appreciate ng mga ganito sites . .i always love u and our daugter caitlin kai . .
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Post by: khaki_e on December 08, 2010, 12:12:53 am
Wow ang sweet naman ng mga daddies natin or takot lang kay kumander??

I am lucky to have a husband na ang type eh mga chubby... pero he always want me to look presentable...
and what really matters to him eh yung asikaso yung family.. in every aspect.
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Post by: Prometheus on December 10, 2010, 07:11:24 am
Kinahihiya? Never! My wife may no longer have the swimsuit model body she used to have when we were dating (honestly, neither do I). Especially since we had our son. But frankly, I don't care. She makes me smile with her soft and gentle ways..more importantly she makes both our son and I feel very much loved and because of this I know my son will grow up to be a confident yet compassionate individual. My wife has sacrificed a lot to make our family what it is. She sacrificed a lucrative career to take care of our baby (since I work out of town). She's given up a lot of the hopes and dreams she had when she was much younger to ensure we have what we do today. And she does it with a smile and a song. She is the heart of our home and she never lets a dark or cloudy mood in it without challenging it with love, hope and prayer.

My wife ages but doesn't get old. She is plump but never unpresentable. She is beautiful though And that's only 0.2%. It's her personality that makes her radiant. Her personality, her infectious smile, her warm laughter, and her inner strength not only help keep our home warm and inviting but also keeps a place for God  in it. My son and I are very blessed to have her. And God willing, when my son is grown and has left the home to start his own family, my wife and I can sit back and greet old age with grace and a smile.   

Anyone who is happily married knows that this is what really matters. The physical no longer matters much after the I do's. If it does, its only in the medical sense. Anyone who feels ashamed of his wife for being chubby doesn't know his priorities...
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Post by: khaki_e on December 10, 2010, 09:49:35 am
@ Daddy Prometheus -"Anyone who is happily married knows that this is what really matters. The physical no longer matters much after the I do's. If it does, its only in the medical sense. Anyone who feels ashamed of his wife for being chubby doesn't know his priorities..."
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wow! that is so true!

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Post by: ^_mOmmyaIra_^ on December 12, 2010, 08:04:49 pm
ill try to answer ha kahit di ako dad.. hehe.. Based on my observation, dati kasi nasa med-large lang ang mga damit ko.. after giving birth now nasa XXL na sya.. tsk!!! (poor me, thats one of the reason y ako may PCOS  & highblood )  Anyway, sa hubby ko feeling ko nahihiya na sya nung lumaki ako ng ganito.. Especially before nung kakapanganak ko lang, im so haggard & wala talaga akong tsaga mag ayos.. In short, na losyang ako.. Pag lalabas kami nung dati nung mag bf kami kung todo akbay sya sa akin, since tumaba ako ng ganun kalaki hindi na..  Meron pang point na nauuna pa sya maglakad sa akin as if di na kami magkakilala... tsk!  But now, since my baby is with my mom in nueva ecija, Ive change a lot.. I started to have my hair rebond, fix my self, take care of my skin, nails & im trying to loose weight.. I can see that my hubby change.. hehe.. Medyo mas naaappreciate na niya ako ngayon, maybe because im starting to gain self confidence again & bring back my own (ME).. :D
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Post by: JoshuaGummies on December 12, 2010, 08:54:16 pm
Go sis  ^_mOmmyaIra_^  so happy for you sis!  ;)

oo minsan ayaw lang talaga aminin ng mga BF/patner/hubby pero syempre kung mas sexy ang mahal nila mas naappreciate nila at napapahalagahan:)

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Post by: bbmack on December 13, 2010, 12:37:07 am
IMO, hindi reason ang pagiging buntis, panganganak, pag-aasawa etc para mapabayaan natin mga sarili natin pati simpleng pagsusuklay, given na hindi naman tayo kinakahiya ng mga husbands natin pero aantayin pa ba na dumating sa point na yun? discipline lang naman yan sa sarili, if we cant lose weight that easy, well atleast maintain natin yung neatness sa katawan na pati pagbbrush ng kuko wag kakalimutan..kasi katamaran na yon.. LOL..

just my 2 cents.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: Prometheus on December 13, 2010, 05:35:11 pm
Thanks Mommy Jacqui_e!

I think yung loss ng gana na mag-ayos during pregnancy is part and parcel of being together as a couple. I'm sure it's even worse when the post partum depression hits. My point was that a husband should even be more supportive of his wife at this point to bring back her confidence. Keeping your wife at arms length when you don't feel she is pretty or sexy speaks volumes about a husband and his priorities. It doesn't speak well of the relationship either because it sets pre-conditions for a harmonious relationship. This particular thread really shows the difference between love as a feeling and love as a commitment.

Sure, I notice when my wife is not looking 100% but it shouldn't be a condition for me to be sweet and loving to her. When I get home, my wife isn't usually dressed up like a model smelling like the purest lotus bud in china. She's sweaty, in house clothes and sometimes smells like baby poop. But she still is and always will be...my gal.

If you can't love unconditionally then chances are you love yourself the most.
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Post by: xhingpie on December 13, 2010, 09:58:30 pm
i like this topic. I admire all the Dads that can see and love beyond the flabs and love handles of their wives.
Kasali ko sa mga overweight na Mommies, Mabuhay  ;)
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Post by: AKA on January 26, 2011, 09:58:49 pm
@daddy prometheus-i like your answer! :) reminds me of my hubby, he said that he doesnt care if tumaba ako. plus nalang daw if I would be able to maintain my figure.. haha.. but guess what, that inspired to go back in shape after maternity... mas payat pa ako ngayon kesa nung bf/gf palang kami, my hubby doesnt mention/compliments me pero I can feel that he is proud of me kasi hindi ako mukhang mommy  ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: DD on February 21, 2011, 01:53:00 pm
hehe.... I like this topic..
maybe mahihiya a little..
kasi wife ko sexy pa rin after she delivered our son.
anyway in our case its the husband that gaining weight =(...
Mahihiya din kaya ang mga wifey if your husband is sta clause..
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Post by: tammy on March 02, 2011, 03:38:21 pm
sana lang wag niya akong ikahiya  kahit pa mataba ako noh  at baka upakan ko siya hahaha.pero baka naman ipagpalit ako sa sexy hahaha kaya naku dapat maging kerida lagi sa paningin niya .o diba mga girls
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Post by: prettyann on March 02, 2011, 09:14:09 pm
hehe.... I like this topic..
maybe mahihiya a little..
kasi wife ko sexy pa rin after she delivered our son.
anyway in our case its the husband that gaining weight =(...
Mahihiya din kaya ang mga wifey if your husband is sta clause..

@DD, sa case ko si hubby ren ang nag gain weight.., but it's okay, i don't mind if he looks like santa clause now... Never ko siya kinahiya or ikakahiya... Besides, mas masarap i-hug ang chubby hubby!!! :D
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Post by: mamacharis on March 02, 2011, 10:05:49 pm
ay sana wag naman ganun hubby ko na ikakahiya ako pag tumaba ako.. sa ngaun may 1 yr old back to pre preg weight ako.. di lang siguro ako tabain.. sabi niya sexy pa din daw ako. hihi!  sya din medium built till now pero lumalaki tyan .. ganun ata lalaki pag tumatanda lumalaki tyan.













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Post by: jhoicee_01 on March 05, 2011, 04:36:20 pm
ay i hope not..

before 55 kilos lang ako, now 74! OMG! i just hope na even if Im this fat (but syempre not ugly! lol) eh di ako ikahiya ng asawa ko. I always ask him if he wanted me to loose weight na ba, he always say "basta masaya ka, masaya na din ako" kaya nevermind na lang muna.. i believe papayat din ako in due time =)
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Post by: ryuu on March 09, 2011, 11:54:38 am
kapag sinasabi ko sa husband ko na ang taba-taba ko na, he'll always say hindi naman, ayos lang.. mas gusto pa nga daw niya yung maraming napipisil kesa sa tingting.. kaya i'm not pressured to lose the weight i gained during pregnancy.. i was 55kg when i got pregnant and is 58kg three months after giving birth.. :)

so i guess my husband doesn't feel shamed of my physique.. nagagalit lang yun pag hindi nakapuyod/nakatali yung buhok ko.. hindi daw niya makita yung mukha ko saka yung batok ko.. nagiging kamukha ko daw si dora (oo, dora, the explorer) pag hindi nakatali yung buhok ko..  ::)
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Post by: bachyds mom on March 09, 2011, 05:42:30 pm
yung husband ko naman nakamind set na di talaga madali for me na pumayat ... ang benchmark niya ang mom ko ... i feel na di naman niya ako kinahihiya so long as di ko pabayaan magmukha akong losyang kahit me baby na kami...
 
 
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Post by: misyelicious on March 09, 2011, 06:20:36 pm
ako nalang sasagot for my hubby ,yun lang napapansin ko sa kanya..before i became preggy ang payat ko talaga..i was expecting na after ko manganak babalik kahit pano ang weight ko..or konti lang madadagdag sa weight ko..pero na shock ako kasi pagkapanganak ko..konti lang nabawas sakin..huhu..parang di ako nanganak!!haha.. ..yung hubby ko di naman sya sinasabi or pinapakita na nahihiya sya na tumaba ako.. .what he always did is inaasar niya ko like sinasabi niya ang taba ko na daw!,laki na ng braso ko etc.. .pabiro lang naman pero it hurts!!! ..minsan nakahiga kami tapos pipisil pisilin niya yun mga braso ko..alam ko na kasunod non...asaran na naman..o kaya yun tummy ko hahawakan tapos sasabihin .." ano pong hiwa gusto nyo..pang beef steak po ba o pang porkchop?" hahaha... s*ra ulo... alam ko biro lang yun pero tinatamaan ako ..ginawa ba naman akong baboy na tinitinda! pero in fairness to him..nung nag start akong mag food supplement napansin nyang medyo pumapayat ako..yun nga lang butas bulsa niya kasi sa kanya ko humihingi ng pera pambili nun..hihi..
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Post by: ryuu on March 09, 2011, 07:11:19 pm
^natawa naman ako dun, mommy.. butas bulsa niya.. hihi.. ;D
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Post by: misyelicious on March 09, 2011, 07:54:28 pm
@sis ryuu kapag umaangal na sya sinasabi ko lang sino ba nagpataba sa akin??di ba ikaw??binuntis mo kasi ako! haha..sasagot naman sya  ng.. kayo ni baby kain ng kain nung buntis ka eh..pinipigilan kita ayaw mo papigil.. :D ..sagot ko naman..an sarap kumain eh..saka di ko mapigil di kumain nung buntis ako..pag gutom ako,kain talaga..kaya siguro laki ng tinaba ko..hayyzzz!!
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Post by: spoiled_brat on March 09, 2011, 08:21:02 pm
@misyelicious: natawa ko dito sobra. and to think im in training right now, napatingin tuloy trainer namin sa akin. sabi ko i just read something funny hahaha

ako rin i gained weight after pregnancy hopefully mabalik ko kase frustrated ako na masuot ko yung dati kong mga damit. si hubby, support lang sa akin. he wants me to lese weight also but di naman niya ko kinakahiya kase kahit naman saan sya pumunta kasama ako.
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Post by: ryuu on March 09, 2011, 10:15:14 pm
sis misyelicious
oki lang yan, mommy.. malayo pa naman ang first birthday ni baby miggy.. may time pa para magpapayat.. hihi.. ;D
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Post by: simplyme28 on March 18, 2011, 10:07:57 am
ako din sobrang laki ng tinaba ko after my pregnancy..hay.. pero kadiri naman hitsura ko nung highschool days ko patpatin talaga parang  dko na keri ang ganun.. gusto ko lang yung medyo may laman ng konti.. :-)
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Post by: iecubita on March 24, 2011, 01:45:03 pm
Mas masarap kayakap ang mataba at medyo mukhang losyang lalo na kung mahal mo.  Ako, ayoko ng wife na sa sobrang conscious about appearance eh nababawasan o affected na ang interaction namin.  Mas nakakalungkot naman na ang marami diyan na parang isa lang o limited ang notion about beauty.  Siguro, sa sobrang panonood ng TV, Magazine, Billboards, internet images at iba pang media. 

"Beauty is truth, truth beauty," - that is all
        Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know."

- John Keats, Ode on a Grecian Urn

Hindi mo na alam ngayon kung totoo pa ang nakikita mo sa media.  Parang standard procedure na ngayon ang mag-alter ng pictures.  May makita ka mang maganda in person, di mo alam kung babae ba iyon o lalaki.

Ang babaeng sinumpaan mo na mamahalin habang buhay ay kilalang-kilala mo na. 


When you came, you were like red wine and honey,
And the taste of you burnt my mouth with its sweetness.
Now you are like morning bread,
Smooth and pleasant.
I hardly taste you at all for I know your savour,
But I am completely nourished.

-- Amy Lowell, Decade

You no longer see her as she appears but you experience her, wholly, completely.  Paghawak mo sa braso niya, hindi mo mapapansin na kung medyo iba na ito...pero mararamdaman mo ang kakaibang init.

Pagyakap mo sa kaniya mula sa likod at mata-touch mo ang tiyan niya...di mo na maiisip kung nagbago man ang puson niya...may kilig pa rin na nararamdaman sa paglalapat ng inyong katawan.

The body remembers, that's what my wife and I would always say.  Meron kayong intimacy na kayo lang ang nakakaalam.  You no longer see each other at a distance and see mere appearances.  You are so close that you are no longer two different persons.  Body and spirit - you would always feel each other's existence because you are one...and you are as infinite as the universe itself. 

Sana madiscover pa ng maraming tao ito.


You know what daddy jojo..sana lahat ng husbands kagaya hehe..wish ko din my husband is kagaya mo..there are times kasi specially when were at the mall..hindi niya talaga ako makuhang sabayan sa pglakad..minsan nga ako nalng ang lumalayo sa kanya kc I donít wanna feel the pain na  nararamdaman ko everytime when were together na the feeling parang nilalayuan..na mas nauuna siya lumakad as if wala siya ibang kasama..katwiran niya ang bagal ko daw lumakad..for me its only an hehe...minsan nga I rather prefer na ako nalng pumunta ng mall kung hindi mn lang kasama mga kids hehe..siguro nga Iím not presentable na for him..thats why I feel so hehe...I donít know eh..feeling ko hindi niya ako makuhang ipagmalaki sa mga friends niya..even sa fb niya wala tagala siya upload na pix na kasama ako.. :) that is why ngpapapayat na ako but not for him for my self ofcourse..just to gain my self confidence .. :)
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Post by: J0 on March 25, 2011, 01:23:03 pm
Hi iecubita

Binasa ko yung qouted message, akala ko sulat mo.  Sabi ko, aba okay ah, very interesting ito.  Uy, may quoted poems din siya.  Ano ito, parehas ng quoted poems ko rin.  And then saka ko na-realize na message ko rin pala yung quoted.  Hindi ko talaga na-recognize sarili kong message.  Haay, I should really tell the moderators about this na talaga...wala nang distinct formatting ang quote as message.

Anyway, thank you ha.

Alam mo ang mga husbands ang nagpapaganda sa wives nila.  Mahalin lang ng husband ang wife niya and make her feel good about herself...magbu-bloom na ang asawa niya.

It works both ways ha.  Kaya just take a look at couples.  If they look fresh and beautiful kahit nakasakay mo lang sila sa jeep...alam mo how much they love each other.


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Post by: iecubita on March 26, 2011, 04:43:51 pm
thanks for that daddy jojo..yeah! mga husbands talaga ngpapaganda sa mga wives nila..sana nga ganun din c hubby ko =)
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Post by: simplyme28 on April 13, 2011, 10:55:28 am
go daddy jojo.. tama ka dyan!
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Post by: cute ako on April 21, 2011, 11:56:50 am
 hindi din ako dad... makiusyoso lang sana..sa first year namin ng hubby ko sexy ako, after a year i really gain weight. as in yung mama ko pa parang concern sa diet ko kesa asawa ko. I ask naman my hubby what if lalo pa ako lumaki, he says okey lang naman daw eh. wow, humaba an tenga ko, jeje... pero gurls, we need to take care of ourself pa din, we must be presentable and SHOULD always look beautiful to our dearest partner. kaya ngayon healthy lifestyle na ako.
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Post by: CIB on April 21, 2011, 05:44:59 pm
My hubby told this on my face  :'(

"Ang taba taba mo na kain ka pa rin naman ng kain. Mag-ayos ka naman para maiba lang. May times sa totoo lang nawawalan na ako ng gana sa yo.Mag manicure ka naman ng pula  :-[ Mag-iba ka man lang ba."

Until now almost a month na it still depresses me pag naaalala ko. He said while we were fighting and out of nowhere, out of topic talaga sinabi niya lang to. And the answer he gave days after I asked him why? He said he said that just to inspite me because of the things Im saying was hurting him. How could one just do that? The moment I heard him say that was like my soul left my body and I felt I was outside looking in. So that it wont crush me. I was so stunned for a few moment I literally forgot how to breath.

In fairness naman just like all the mommies here I was a bit chubby when he met me. He even said before I was like the ones in those paintings nung panahon ni da vinci. And I still breastfeed up to now. Mag 2 na si baby. But I am what a "normal mommy" would look I guess. And even proud of my body despite of my love handles because I wear it like a badge for being a happy mommy. A lot of times I still catch a man or 2 staring at me while Im out alone tulad nung dalaga pa ako. Fastfood, supermarkets, jeepneys, church and wet markets where I got a lot of freebies because of being pretty despite of being chubby. Dialogue ko lagi "Thank you ha. Paborito kasi ng anak ko eh." And they would laugh shyly "Sorry te ha akala ko dalaga ka pa."  ;D Kahit sa mga babaeng tindera A lot of times nasabihan na ako ng  "Nanay ka na pala."or "Nanay ka na pala ate." I have that since I become a mother and for a long time Im really happy.

That's why of all people, something like that would come from somebody who I thought loved me unconditionally. I never thought he measured me so very little for being his wife and as a mother compared to what in his eyes is beautiful. It just so sad.
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Post by: marikit on April 21, 2011, 06:23:57 pm
^Hi Mommy CIB, sorry guys ha out of topic to. I knew it, there must be reasons why your husband is watching porn baka isa yan sa reason. From what i remembered may boy friend ako as in yung friend lang ha and she has a wife na friend ko rin(actually magkakapitbahay lang kami). Hiniram ko cp niya para makitext, since pakialamera ako sa mga app ng phone eh tinignan ko yung video gallery niya and shocked na puro porn video. Sympre lam ko naman na common lang sa guys yun di ba pero shocked na as in buong laman ng video gallery/folder x-rated. As a friend, tinanong ko siya i asked "Friend baket naman puro porn laman ng video mo?" Sabi niya "Badtrip yan kasing kaibigan mo, laging ayaw. saka feeling di na ko naattract" sabi ko "Sama mo naman!". Her wife is so cute before, medyo napabayaan lang nung magkaanak not so losyang naman pretty pa rin siya pero di ko alam kung baket di na siya tingin attractive sa hubby niya. I advise him na baket di niya kausapin wife niya, na baket dati kulang na lang sungkitin niya moon and starts just to be with her. Hindi ko alam kung nafall out of love na si boy friend sa wife niya.

Mommy i'm not saying naman na baka your hubby don't find you attractive anymore or na-fall out na siya. For whatever it is there must be a reason..Try to discuss it with him, kahit na pabiro yung mga sinasabi niya if that affects you that should be settled.
Ako naman sobra sobra yung pinapakitang affection ni partner kahit maraming tao ngunguso yun para ikiss ako, ako na nga nahihiya eh sinasampal ko minsan hehe. That's why i always feel beautiful inside and out it's because of the affection that someone i love giving.
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Post by: CIB on April 22, 2011, 07:43:12 pm
@sis marikit

Hay naku sis buti ka pa nauna mo pang nalaman. I never knew how deep I was on this Sh!t until he told me that. Last march 23. Imagine  :'( I never even take it that "serious", seriously. We were fighting over something I couldnt even remember now. All I remember was asking him "What do I have to do to make it better?" because he's always angry nagugulat na lang ako palagi. I was even thinking maybe he wants me to be more malambing, to be extra patient with him though in the last few months that's what exactly I been trying to do. And you know what? After pausing for a long time...that's what exactly he said. I felt as though that green-eyed monster that eyeing me for so long has finally revealed his face to me.  I stop crying then look at him and told him "Talaga." At exactly same moment as the hurt of it cut me at my heart I asked myself "God, where is that guy you gave me?" And mind you I really felt so patethic I even laughed so hard. Hahaha  ;D Kinabukasan I researched everything about it and darn, I never knew that the joke was really on me. 2 days after I wrote him everything about it and yun.....

That's the only reason he has. Because Im fat and he is a complete jerk.

To this day sa kanila pa rin sya umuuwi simula nung pinalayas ko sya. Life's too easy for him. Though Im sad on the thought he was hurting right now, the bitchy side of me still nags "He wouldnt know how much it hurts." The agony, the pain, the shame I felt about myself for over a year wouldnt compensate to what he is going through right now. You dont just hurt anyone just like that. Naku, we might need a different topic go on the details of how was it to be a wife to a porn addict  :'(

The red nail polish thing is what gave him away. I was never, ever done a  manicure in my life. Our whole knows that.

Sory uli Ot na haba pa. Thank sis...
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Post by: yangyang08 on April 24, 2011, 06:11:23 pm
Tama si daddy jojo! Ako Im 8 yrs older than my husband,34 na ko and 26 pa lang sya.To think na at that age,mapaglaro pa yan and malapit sa tukso.pero buti na lang si hubby magaling mambola,he always make it a point na pinupuri ako everyday.For what I did,sa itsura ko or naglalambing sya minsan.Kaya ang feeling ko naman is prettiness ako lagi kasi proud sya sa akin kahit alam ko sa sarili kong hindi naman ako maganda.In return is I make it possible na maayos lagi ang itsura ko tuwing uuwi sya,lagi akong mabango.Hindi ako nawawalan ng cologne sa katawan kahit matutulog na ko.Ganun lang yata talaga yun,give and take ng love!Poz open ang communication para nagkakaalaman kayo kung ano yung mga ayaw nyo kesa maipon sya and comes to the point na bigla na lang mag eexplode!
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Post by: mommy honamie on May 26, 2011, 09:59:44 am
natuwa naman ako sa topic na to.. and sa mga nabasa kong response sweet naman ng mga daddy sana lahat ng lalaki ganyan, ;)
ako din when I got pregnant last year sobrang laki ng weight gain ko kaya naging eclamptic ako ayon naging CS tuloy :D hahaha after ng delivery ko ang weight ko was 67kg and now 50kg. nalang!! :) di naman nabago yung treatment and love niya sakin kahit nung tumaba ako kaso di na magkasya yung mga damit ko and kailangan ko rin talaga mag diet kasi nga sa highblood ko also I want to be gorgeous on my hubby's eyes so im doing my best para magawa yon.. I enjoy doing this for him and for my self also, pero sya tumaba na rin sya ngayon pero I still love him so much! ;) ;)! I just want to give him the best out of me.  :D :D
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Post by: davesant32 on May 28, 2011, 06:44:31 pm
nakakatawa basahin mga posts dito hahaha ;D
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Post by: simplengmisis on June 16, 2011, 01:04:41 pm
aynaku. ikahiya niya aku kung maliit na uli ang tyan niya.
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Post by: Mariel Arun on June 17, 2011, 01:21:13 am
^haha ;D nice one mommy! oo nga wag sila maging choosy tayo nga accepted na natin mga flaws nila if ever mang meron.
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Post by: chaby on June 17, 2011, 12:27:12 pm
^ korek mommy wag sila dapat maging choosy...baket may six pack abs ba sila? ba isang malaking abs lang...hehe okrayan na to. I gained weight din kasi simula ng nanganak ako...and nahihirapan talaga ako magpapayat sarap kc mag foodtrip :)
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Post by: mariann on June 20, 2011, 07:01:18 pm
i'll answer on behalf of my hubby.
 
will he be ashamed of me if i grow big with my face sagging?  the answer: YES! YES! YES!
 
as a wife, i believe, it also my responsibility to look attractive to hubby,  especially with the kind of profession he practices.  i also have to look attractive to others not just because of my work, but it's one way of having self-confidence and positive disposition in life. 
 
being attractive doesn't mean being physically slim or pretty.  what's important is that you are physically fit, ready to tackle everything (especially the different positions in making love ~ joke!). 
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Post by: on June 20, 2011, 07:54:12 pm
depende naman yan sa tao e, men kase is mostly on the physical aspect sa opposite sex while women look for the character..

yung ibang husbands naman proud sa wife nila kahit mataba, pero sana naman wag naman pabayaan ng mga mommies ang sarili nila at maging obese na ng bongga.
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Post by: Panatag-Ama on July 02, 2011, 04:21:32 am
Hindi ko kata kayang ikahiya ang wife ko maski pa she gained an XXX pounds hahaha (because I gained a lot too mula nung magka-baby kami).  So ang tanong na ngayon ay ikinakahiya kaya namin ang isat-isa hahaha!  4 years ago my wife and I were both physically fit but when she got pregnant, both of us started to gain weight.  During her first trimester, my wife refuses to eat because she worries of gaining too much weight.  So I would always cook good dishes for her so she can't resist to eat because I worry that our baby won't get enough nourishment at sinasabayan ko sya kumain.  After 4 year...kami ay isa ng...

PANDA FAMILY!!! wapak!   :o

Our son just turned 2 years old.  We hate the fact that we are having difficulties losing pounds now but somehow nakatulong din, we can't be too thin kase hirap mag alaga ng toddler.  We need all the energy we can get (out of eating).  We don't have help and we do everything ourselves.  I don't mind having "kanin belly" and gaining "man boobs"...yes...you heard me right MAN BOOBS!!! ???.  From a lean slender body to a FATSO!  Nakakatulong din may malaking tummy kase may tuntungan ang anak ko kapag buhat ko, hindi gaanong mahirap magbuhat hehe.  Sabi nga ng isang friend ko talaga daw ganun kapag nagkakaanak, hinahayaan ni GOD na magka tummy ang Daddy para comfortable daw ang baby kapag buhat sya.  We know we can lose XXX pounds (cross fingers).



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Post by: SunlifeAdvisor on August 18, 2011, 03:56:48 am
ill be proud of my wife kahit tumaba sya someday... though ill be worried about her health, syempre ayaw ko ma byudo hehe
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Post by: toughmom moderator on September 03, 2011, 01:21:04 pm
Women Gain Weight after Marriage, Men after Divorce
(http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/images/site-alpha/articles/news/weight_gain_marriage_divorce/wedding-rings-ci.jpg)
According to a recent study, marriage affects men and women differently when it comes to their weight. Women were found to be more likely to pile on the pounds once they get married, while men gain weight after a divorce.

Find out how true this research is.
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/community/news/women-gain-weight-after-marriage-men-after-divorce
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: Bry♥Shey on September 13, 2011, 12:23:04 am
 hindi lang naman physical ang reason kung bakit nagustuhan ko ang wife ko. there are a lot of reasons why gusto ko siya. and we all know as the years go by. mag fafade talaga ang beauty ng isang tao. not just girls but boys as well. so my answer is no :)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: Shey♥Bry on September 13, 2011, 02:07:21 pm
Samin naman ni Hubby, nung mag Bf/GF palang kami, Ako skinny, but not too skinny. Si hubby medyo chubby :) He loves food kasi talaga, nung nag settle down na kaming dalawa, sobrang siba kumain ni hubby .. hihi. to the point na umabot sa 165lbs siya. I'm really worried sa health niya kasi may lahi silang Diabetic, his mom Died because of Diabetes and now his Dad is taking meds to control his sugar level.. Kaya nag diet si Hubby ko, pero never ko siyang kinahiya na mataba siya,, hihi. mas masarap nga siyang i-hug eh, malabot kesa sa may 6 packs, parang bato  ;D


Tapos naman ako ngayon, I gained so much weight because i'm preggy :) from 89lbs to 134lbs (but I know nasa Normal Level pa naman ako) lumaki yung thighs,braso,double chin na din ako, nagkaroon ng konting stretch Marks around my belly :( but my hubby never said na ang pangit ko na, or nawalan ng gana sakin :) Minsan, sinasabi ko sa kanya "Dad, ang pangit ko na, ang taba taba ko pa :(" tapos sasabihin niya, "Normal lang yan Mommy kasi you're Preggy, kinuha muna ni Baby pansamantala yung ganda mo :) " Tapos sasabihin niya "Kung mataba ka, eh ano pa ako? Baboy?" hehe
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: thirds_mom on September 14, 2011, 11:34:39 pm
joining..

natatawa ako sa mga posts dito
;D ;D

anyway kami din ni hubby palakihan ng katawan haha eversince naman mataba na kami pareho lalo na husband ko ako chubby sexy kasi balance ang laki ng katawan ko pero nung nagbuntis ako pumayat ako kaya sabi nila reverse daw but nung nanganak na tumaba ulit doon na nagbago yung katawan ko but my husband never na ikinahiya ako proud pa siya lalo na pag may bumibisita samin na friends or relatives niya na 1st time ko lang ma meet, until now lagi pa din niya sinasabi sakin how beautiful iam at sexy sa paningin niya but yes important pa din na physically fit for healthy reason lalo na si hubby na seaman kada sampa niya medical so dapat maintain ang weight..

ang importante tanggap tayo ng mga asawa natin no matter what as long as nabibigay natin ang dapat
;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mumzeth on September 14, 2011, 11:57:43 pm
pasali.. :D

mga daddy bakit po may mga lalaki na sasabihin sa partner nila na.. "Ayoko ng magpapaganda ka ah. gusto ko simple ka lang." "Kumain ka ng marami ayoko ng payat ka."

mga mommy pag sinabihan kayo ng partner nyo ng ganito ano maiisip nyo? pano nyo sasagutin?
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mamacharis on September 15, 2011, 12:28:23 am
@mumzeth


true love. yahooo! pwede naman na seloso or threat sa kanya pag nagpaganda ang babae dahil madami hahabol na boys.

sinasabihan ako ng ganyan at eto lang ang sinagot ko.. Weee? di nga? ;D
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mumzeth on September 15, 2011, 12:35:31 am
@mamacharis- aaaaaaaaahhh ganon pala yun.. haha! ngayon alam ko na kung bakit ganon ang sinasabi ni SD sakin before and while preggy si watashi.. :))
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: jenstelian on September 15, 2011, 10:57:38 am
mas gusto ni husband ko na mataba ako yung may laman ba not totaly yung malaki ha...sabi lang niya i-maintain ko nalang daw kung anong meron ako ngayon kasi ayaw niya papayat na ako kasi parang kawawa naman daw ako..hindi niya hanap ang sexy pero hindi rin ang obese balance lang b ganun. pero may iba ako kilala na guy n mas gusto ang mataba tlaga....so its defend parin sa guy/gurl kung anong gusto nila sa love one nila... ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: cheena on September 20, 2011, 11:15:14 am
naalala ko my hubby told me last year na magpataba naman daw ako, then i said sige basta bibili ako ng mga bagong damit kasi hindi na magkakasya yung mga damit ko if tumaba ako, then sabi niya 'ay sige wag na, ok na yang katawan mo' .. hehe, takot sa gastos..

sa tingin ko naman more on character sya not on physical appearance, sa tingin ko lang ha...   ;)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: MommyMichell on October 11, 2011, 03:57:19 pm
chubby ako since birth (yung tipong may gilit-gilit pa sa taba :)) hanggang magdalaga, nagstart ako pumayat nung naglihi na ako (though wala naman nabago sa kinakain ko, ang lakas ko pa nga kumain ng cake at ice cream) at di na ko tumaba uli after 2 kids, so far never pa naman akong ikinahiya ng asawa ko (sa pagkakaalam ko hehe ;D) pero ayaw nyang losyang ayos ko kasi hindi ako pala-ayos, dito sa bahay naka-duster lang ako or pajamas e ayaw niya ng ganon gusto niya lagi naka-sando at shorts ako, pag lalabas kami gusto niya nakamini skirt at sleeveless at nakamake-up kaya lagi ko ask kung balak ba niya kong ibenta ::) lol pero di ko naman sya sinusunod, may pagka-manang pa rin ako manamit kaya mga sisters at tita ko padala ng padala mga sexy na damit para isuot ko (pag nagbabakasyon sila dito talagang pinipilit nila ako isuot kung ano gusto nilang ipasuot sakin ;D) at pinapadalan nila ko make up na madalas natatapon ko lang kasi more than a year na di ko pa nagagamit expired na yun di ba, pero naisip ko since i'm 30 naman na pwede na siguro ako magmake up kahit papano kaya pag mamamasyal kami sa magandang lugar use nako lip & cheek tint tas cream foundation na kinakatuwa naman ni mister kasi nga gusto niya lagi akong nakaayos pero kung mag-grocery lang at pasyal ang kids, no make up at all kahit face powder wala at jeans & tshirt lang suot ko (favorite kong outfit)
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: janapot on October 11, 2011, 08:24:33 pm
si hubby?
sagot nun OO!
haha..
saka ayaw niya din ng payat! kasi muka kong mas matanda ng 10 years..

altough no choice siya, kasi lagi ko sinasabi, EBF po ako, full time mom, full time wife, full time katulong sa bahay..
kaya kung gusto niya kakong bumalik yung malaman kong figure, eh di maghire ng yaya at katulong sa bahay. kain tulog na lang gagawin ko para tumataba ulit ako..

reverse psychology lang yan..

pag sinasabi niya parang LOLA na ang tummy ko sa dami ng stretch marks,
sasabihin ko lang at least may mala-prinsesa kang anak na kasama mo ngayon!

wag na lang natin damdamin kung medyo mapuna sina hubby sa physical appearance natin,
worried lang din kasi sila sa iisipin ng ibang tao, na baka napapabayaan tayo kahit hindi naman..

saka para sakin, it shows na concern sila.. especially if they give effort to make you change for BETTER ha..
minsan mas alam kasi ng dad what is Good for us..
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: orangejamgirl12 on October 17, 2011, 09:39:33 am
makikireply din kahit di daddy. hehe.. kakatuwa basahin mga posts... ^_^

hubby ko since bf/gf pa lang kami, medyo mapuna yan sa looks ko pero di naman degrading or what or dahil kinahihiya niya ko. more on what i wear, pag oily na face ko. ayun. tapos gusto niya medyo magpataba ako. so ngayong buntis ako, medyo happy naman sya at nagkakalaman na ko, mas bagay naman daw.

Gusto lang talaga niya na presentable ako. and ako rin, gusto ko maayos ako pag lumalabas kami.

kaya better to make it a point to still look presentable kahit na mommies na tayo.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: Shey♥Bry on October 18, 2011, 12:53:15 pm
Never akong kinahiya ng asawa ko, kung tumaba man ako or pumayat. Kasi kung tumaba ako, malamang tataba din siya, pag pumayat ako papayat din siya hehe.

Before kasi ang weight ko is hindi tataas sa 100Lbs, gustong gusto niya ang figure ko, pero ayaw ng asawa ko na nagsusuot ako ng Mini-skirt at Sleeveless or Sando pag lalabas kami. Conservative type kasi yun hehe.

Ang gusto niya lang is maging presentable ako lalo na sa mata ng ibang tao. Naisip ko din na ganun ang gusto niya kasi nga naman pag losyang ka, hindi ka marunong mag ayos eh aakalain ng ibang tao eh porket kasal kana at anjan ang asawa mo sa tabi mo palagi eh hindi mo na aalagaan ang sarili. Nagiging too confident ka na hindi titingin sa iba ang asawa mo. Siyempre kahit naman na may asawa kana, need pa din nating maging presentable.

Nung pumatong ako sa weight na 115 Lbs, feeling ko ang taba taba ko na talaga. Tapos si hubby pumatong ng hanggang 160 Lbs. Sobrang naging palakain kami nun, pero nung naging Bulimic ako, minsan nalang ako kumain sinusuka ko pa, pumayat ako ng hanggang 89 Lbs, si hubby naman sumabay sa pag da-diet, in one month, from 160lbs to 145lbs. hehe.

Ikahiya niya ko kung payat siya .. hmmmp!! hehe. Pero hindi niya yun gagawin. kahit ngayong kakapanganak ko lang, feeling ko nga dalaga pa din ako sa sobrang lambing ng asawa ko eh. Pag sinasabi kong ang laki ng tyan ko , sasabihin niyang "syempre mommy, nanganak ka eh".. Nung buntis ako sa bunso namin sobrang nag-gain ako ng weight pati din siya sumasabay sa pagkain ko. hehe. Kaya walang karapatang manlait ang asawa ko hahaha!!![
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: mariann on October 18, 2011, 06:41:00 pm
between the two of us, it was hubby who gained more weight than me.  good thing, i lost too much weight after giving birth to my two kids that i even have to be prescribed with appetite stimulant.  now, i'm maintaining my weight. 
 
and since hubby is going to the gym, i also enrolled myself for cardio exercises and for toning.  it's one way of bonding for us before we go to our respective work.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: Daddy_Jay on March 26, 2014, 09:47:58 pm
di naman sa kinakahiya, I just prefer my wife to be slim and fit.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: annamariemomof3 on March 30, 2014, 03:15:20 am
i remember one time my husband's friend complained to us na nagpabaya naman na ang asawa niya sa sarili niya. i guess it's understandable na tumaba because of pregnancy at makalimot magsuklay during the first year kaya lang kasi that time 7 years old na anak nila so i kind of understand his frustration. i asked naman my husband    sabi niya mas gusto daw niya katawan ko ngayon kesa dati, i don't look like i had twins daw. alam ko naman bola lang yun but nevertheless accpet ko na rin with open heart di ba. i don;t think it's about how much you weigh or how much make up you put on as long as you make some effort naman para ma feel naman ni husband that you still care for him, that you're not just a mommy, you're still his lover.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: tweenselmom.com on May 20, 2014, 04:05:26 am
Ganda ng topic nato. And I can relate because my husband's family have pretty ladies, yung mga hipag at biyenan are magaganda and mapuputi. It was a pressure in the past na mag asawa ng medyo hindi mo kalevel ang itsura. Pero my husband had always gave me the confidence, ako lang ang praning talaga minsan.

Ang sakit naman marinig na kinahihiya. Syempre di naman aamin ang mga hubby minsan pero syempre kahit papano mas mapapalingon pa din sila pag nakakita ng bata, sexy, maputi at halos nakahubad na ladies minsan. Pero I let my him be kasi totoo naman maganda and kahit anong patiwarik ko sa diet e di nako magiging ganon ka sexy :-)

Para sakin, honesty is the key, basta wag lang garapal na ang taba mo at losyang ka na. Minsan talaga sa sobrang ngarag siguro, feeling mo nakasuklay ka na di pa pala enough. Basta malinis at mabango palagi, wala yatang losyang na malinis at mabango.
Title: Re: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest
Post by: Denaia on May 20, 2014, 08:06:47 am
when you get fat after giving birth and your husband tells you how fat you are just tell him this:

"well who got me pregnant in the first place?" ;D