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Title: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 07, 2010, 05:44:22 pm
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Hi mga mommies!!

During ur pregnancy days b nfeel nio mdepress ng sobra?? yung parang ngiisa lang although hindi naman...

para kasing im feelin so alone kahit kasi ko naman c hubby.. mas msyado demanding kc ko na as much as possible, gsto ko lagi lang nsa tbi ko c hubby... hehe :D

Tapos lagi ko cia namimiss everytime na wala cia s tbi ko.. share nio naman experience nio.......... :)

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Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: insensitive on September 07, 2010, 05:53:27 pm
hi sis..natural lang naman ata yan sa buntis.naghahanap ng emotional support lalo na sa hubby.kaya nga spoiled mga buntis eh.Yan ang namimis ko being preggy haha. ako naman nun, dahil hirap makatulog pag buntis, ginigising ko asawa ko pra may kausap ako..gusto ko lagi kami kwntuhan..
saka pg preggy nalulungkot bigla yan kahit walang dahilan,
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: chimendoza09 on September 07, 2010, 05:59:39 pm
hello sis! una sa lahat- - hurray! welcome to SP  :)

sis i understand your situation, pareho kasi tayo buntis napagdaanan ko rin yan nung umalis si hubby for work 4 months tummy ko non, di naman depression yun, nalungkot lang ako. in your case sis, siya yata napaglilihian mo kasi ayaw mo mawala sa tabi mo.. ;D

alam mo sis ganyan din ako nung naglilihi ako, si hubby ko ayaw ko umalis siya, gustong gusto ko amoy niya, lalo na sa kili-kili at ayaw ko siya paliguin kasi natatapangan ako sa sabon at deodorant niya kahit ako naman pumili non dati kasi mild lang, mas gusto ko siya amoy pawis..nakakaloka  ;D

don't worry sis--normal lang daw yan sa buntis--ang pagiging demanding, at sensi! siguro psychological na rin kasi diba pag buntis tayo extra ang affection ng mga tao sa paligid kaya nadadala rin tayo sa pansin na binibigay nila  :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 09, 2010, 09:10:05 am
thanks my sis.! :)
Sometimes kc naiisip ko irritated n c hubby kc d niya mgwa ggwin niya.. i cant help it, sad naman kc ko pg wala n cia s tbi ko kaya tntwag ko cia ulit right away..
4th floor ng building kc kami nkatira, d naman ako mkababa time by time.., yaw n kc ko pababain ni huby, hirap kc ko umakyat grabe.. so dun lang ako mgisa, watching tv, netsurfing, sleep and eating, un lang hobby ko, dndlan nga lang ako ng food ng maid..
Kaya boring talaga.. problem ko kung pnu lilipas yung mghpon ko hehe.. kaya wala ako gnwa kundi kulitin c hubby, netshop kc business niya frst and second floor ng building ;)
Grabe 27 weeks plng ako, tgal ko p gnto.. hehe :P
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: ♥maarte♥ on September 09, 2010, 09:27:15 am
hi sis girl_pretty1212,

what you are feeling right now is sooo normal. siguro lahat na ng buntis sa world eh may naramdaman like sa nararamdaman mo ngayon.  sabi, it has something to do with the hormones... pero kahit ano pa man ang reason na yan, you need not to worry much. baka makasama pa yan sa baby...

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Grabe 27 weeks plng ako, tgal ko p gnto.. hehe :P
each phase of pregnancy id difference from each other. malay mo sa 28th week mo eh uber sa hyper happy ka naman, db?  ;) hehe... basta sis, enjoy mo lang everyday na nasa tummy mo pa si baby.. as much as possible, avoid thinking about sad things and situations...

stay happy and pretty sis... and take care always...  :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sweet&spice on September 09, 2010, 09:47:38 am
Naku, di ata ako maka-relate. Hehe. I thought the reason why I was depressed was from a broken heart, di pala. ;-) But seriously, if my pregnancy then was happy, I'm sure I'd be as depress-depressan as all moms are. I'd have all the impossible cravings. I guess it's true, hormonal nga. Either na-override ko yun because of my situation, or na-aggravate yung pagiging naturally iyakin ko. Akala ko abandonment issues lang, hormonal pala. :$ Goodluck mom. Tambay ka lang here, sasaya ka, promise! Dami mo pa ma-le-learn, right sis maarte?
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sweet&spice on September 10, 2010, 12:13:07 pm
It may be hormonal, but there may be something else that you need to address? You may want to reflect muna...

I am experiencing a similar situation. Sobrang laking help nung nag-advice sa akin yung priest sa min.

sis, are you talking to me? hehe. oo, really it's depressing sometimes. may bouts ng sudden sadness, extreme sometimes.

btw, san yung priest nyo? magaling ba? baka i can visit your priest.  ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: raquel.ducanes on September 14, 2010, 10:45:58 am
ako naman minsan nag tatampo na sakin husband ko
pano gusto ko after ng work bahay agad wag na kung saan dadaan minsan may party sila kinukulit ko sya na umuwi na
agad kahit ilang oras pa lang sya dun ewan ko ba gusto ko lagi ko sya nakikita at ti talaga ako makatulog pag wala pa sya sa bahay tapos gusto ko lagi ko sya yakap hehe lalo na sa november na due date ko...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 14, 2010, 10:51:23 am
ako naman minsan nag tatampo na sakin husband ko
pano gusto ko after ng work bahay agad wag na kung saan dadaan minsan may party sila kinukulit ko sya na umuwi na
agad kahit ilang oras pa lang sya dun ewan ko ba gusto ko lagi ko sya nakikita at ti talaga ako makatulog pag wala pa sya sa bahay tapos gusto ko lagi ko sya yakap hehe lalo na sa november na due date ko...

hahaha... naku sis.. same pla tau.. ewan ko nga b.. i cant help this feeling.. gsto ko lgi ko cia ktbi at lgi ko cia inaakap at nkikita ehheheeh  :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sugs on September 14, 2010, 11:52:32 am
hi mga sis
ako super feeling ko napaka depress ko... super nadedepress talaga ko.. at super lungkot... gusto q lgi ktbi c hubby.. :D  tapus pag nakahiga ako at cia nasa comp lang naman na katabi ng kama eh gusto ko p din katabi cia.. gusto ko lgi cia sa tabi ko.. kaya sobrang nalulungkot ako pag wala cia o kahit wala ako makausap... gusto ko talaga lgi katabi c hubby ko.. 27 weeks n ko pregnant 2m... still lgi p din ako depress... lagi q 2 nararamdaman lalo n pag wala ako kausap..

advise naman po ng pwedeng gawin mga sis... :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 14, 2010, 01:55:32 pm
hi mga sis
ako super feeling ko napaka depress ko... super nadedepress talaga ko.. at super lungkot... gusto q lgi ktbi c hubby.. :D  tapus pag nakahiga ako at cia nasa comp lang naman na katabi ng kama eh gusto ko p din katabi cia.. gusto ko lgi cia sa tabi ko.. kaya sobrang nalulungkot ako pag wala cia o kahit wala ako makausap... gusto ko talaga lgi katabi c hubby ko.. 27 weeks n ko pregnant 2m... still lgi p din ako depress... lagi q 2 nararamdaman lalo n pag wala ako kausap..

advise naman po ng pwedeng gawin mga sis... :)


yan din problem ko sis.. heheh.. mhirap kc pigilin ang emotions.. siguro i divert nalang muna ng konti yung attention ntin s ibng bgay,.. hihih...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sugs on September 15, 2010, 06:37:14 am
siguro nga sis.. pero hirap p din diba.. hehe, haynaku gusto ko n mag december ng makapanganak na.. hahaha
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 15, 2010, 10:18:38 am
siguro nga sis.. pero hirap p din diba.. hehe, haynaku gusto ko n mag december ng makapanganak na.. hahaha

ako din sis yan din naisip ko eh.. kung puwede nga lang ifastforward yung araw eh.. miss ko n din kc na sobrang sweet kami hubby ko, although medyo sweet kami ngyon iba p din kc yung dati tska d ko cia masydo inaaway non.. awa n nga ako kanya pero d ko mpigilan emotions ko.. basta gsto ko lgi ko cia katabi..

mas lalo siguro kami msya pgkapanganak ko kc happy family n kami, yey!! :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sugs on September 15, 2010, 12:42:25 pm
siguro nga sis.. pero hirap p din diba.. hehe, haynaku gusto ko n mag december ng makapanganak na.. hahaha

ako din sis yan din naisip ko eh.. kung puwede nga lang ifastforward yung araw eh.. miss ko n din kc na sobrang sweet kami hubby ko, although medyo sweet kami ngyon iba p din kc yung dati tska d ko cia masydo inaaway non.. awa n nga ako kanya pero d ko mpigilan emotions ko.. basta gsto ko lgi ko cia katabi..

mas lalo siguro kami msya pgkapanganak ko kc happy family n kami, yey!! :)

hehe... parehas n parehas nga tayo sis.... ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 15, 2010, 02:51:33 pm
siguro nga sis.. pero hirap p din diba.. hehe, haynaku gusto ko n mag december ng makapanganak na.. hahaha

goodluck stin sis... :)

ako din sis yan din naisip ko eh.. kung puwede nga lang ifastforward yung araw eh.. miss ko n din kc na sobrang sweet kami hubby ko, although medyo sweet kami ngyon iba p din kc yung dati tska d ko cia masydo inaaway non.. awa n nga ako kanya pero d ko mpigilan emotions ko.. basta gsto ko lgi ko cia katabi..

mas lalo siguro kami msya pgkapanganak ko kc happy family n kami, yey!! :)

hehe... parehas n parehas nga tayo sis.... ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 16, 2010, 03:06:20 pm
sa situation ko kasi nung beggining ng pregnancy ko talagang kakadepress isama mo pa ang napakahirap na paglilihi hanggang 6-7 months at nagsisisi ako kung bakit ko tinolerate ang sarili ko na madepress si baby ko ang nagsuffer tsaka im on my 8 months na ngayun tapos maliit pa talaga ang tyan ko dios mio sana lang maayos si baby paglabas niya kaya kayo mga mommies relax2x lang tayo at always be happy wag na tayo magpaapekto sa mga bagay na hindi naman makakabuti satin
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: BuhayMommy Blogger on September 16, 2010, 03:35:51 pm
Hay! Ako kahit malapit na manganak, (as in this month na daw sabi ni OB) hindi parin nawawala pagiging sensitive ko, or feeling ko insensitive lang asawa ko sa mga bagay-bagay. :(
Last past few months ko, palagi ako umiiyak kahit konting rason lang I even think na hiwalayan na asawa ko dahil dito. Pag ako kasi pregnant masyado akong impulsive sa nararamdaman ko na cgro nga this was my phase. Mahirap din mag-control ng nararamdaman. Parang mas nagiging emotional tayong mga pregnant women tapos may mga peer pressure pa diba.

Sakin naman sis pretty1212: Mas ayokong tinatabihan ako ng asawa ko kasi panay yapos at halik.. ;D

Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: nanaylovesbaby on September 16, 2010, 04:38:15 pm
mga moms, ganyan din ako minsan. Pero most of the time, I think naman that I am happy. Mas naging maganda lagi ang mood ko since I knew I was pregnant than before nung di pa ko buntis. In fairness, mas naging pasensyoso ako sa asawa ko kesa dati. Mas madalas pa nga kami mag away dati kesa ngayon. Siguro kasi pinagbibigyan din ako ng asawa ko hehe :D. anyway, yung depression ko naman kasi nag uugat pag wala ako kasama sa apartment o kaya may naiisip akong gawin na di ko magawa dahil nga maselan ang kalagayan ko. Pero after thinking na natatapos din ang mahirap na part at makikita ko na ang baby ko, nawawala rin ang depression ko. andyan din naman ang suporta ng mga malalapit sa akin, like my parents and my husband na walang sawa sa kakulitan at tantrums ko. Just think of the positive that will happen after 9 months of suffering(kung yun nga matatawag mo dito). God bless girl_pretty1212 at sana maging malusog kayong dalawa ng baby mo! :) :) :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: gwen on September 16, 2010, 08:25:33 pm
naku ganyn din ako palibhasa 2wng wkend lang km mgksama ng hubby ko kasi s province sy nadistino ky pag kasma ko sy mdrama ako kpg d ny npagbgyan at ang gsto ko ns akin lang ang atensiyun niya kpg naba2lewa ako naku ang sama sama ng loob ko un na naiiyak agad ako aside p dun s  feeling ko sinulo k talaga yung hrap ng pagbubuntis ko kasi malayo siya wl kng malambingan nung time n may gsto kng kainin.. hayysss :(  tpos lalo n 1st baby namin at ito pa kakainis pag sinasabi niya sayang daw d niya naranasan ungpaglilihi ko,, naku....  :) kasi nga malyo sy tpos naiinis ako pg cnsbi ny babawi nalang s 2nd child namin eh ang hrap kung magliihi, buti nalang pasensiuso asawa ko pag umiyak nko bgay agad kung ano yung iniyakan ko naku pr akong bata   buti nalang naunawaan niya at di ako pinapatulan hehe..
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 17, 2010, 07:43:02 am
 :) thanks mga sisses!! un nalang nga iniisip ko n mkikita ko n din baby ko.. dec 8 due date ko pero bka mga last week nov. sko manganak.. ok naman baby ko, mlaki n cia s tummy ko hehe :) sometimes im assuming na CS ako hehe (",)

wala aman problem s hubby ko, sweet aman cia always... ako lang talaga sensitive eh..npakaweird nga.. pero babalik din s dti at mas happy p lalo kc my baby eryn n kami months from now nalang :)

pag naiisip ko din baby ko, nwawala din depression ko, tpos pg kinakausap ko cia, sumisipa cia n parang knkausap din niya ko, so happy talaga at sarap ng feeling.... sobrang gndang gift to this xmas :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: iam_momiweng on September 17, 2010, 08:38:02 am
momi smile ka lang lagi ha kaya nga may smart parenting para may kakausap kang mga tao like you diba at lagi ka din magpray.  :) smile lang momi at isipin mo si baby pag nandyan na si baby sa outside world malilibang ka din ganyan din ako noong preggy ako in my son. kaya momi smile lang ha...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 17, 2010, 08:52:07 am
ang ganda nitong topic na to' dito ko lang nashare nararamdaman ko hehe yung nobyo ko super maalaga samtyms winiwish ko sana siya na lang daddy n g baby ko kaso baka mapatay ako ni Amboy ko kapag ganun ang nangyari ewan dios mio bahala na kung sinu ang daddy nitong baby ko makikita na lang paglabas  ;D basta ayoko na madepress at magisip ng kung ano ano come what may basta akin ang anak ko at super labs ko sya at nagsisisi ako na nagpaapekto ako sa depression during my 1-early 3rd trimester ko huhuhu sorry anak ha
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: raquel.ducanes on September 17, 2010, 02:26:33 pm
naku mga sis ako din umiiyak madalas
naisip ko din na siguro hindi talaga ako mahal ng husband ko
ewan ko ba pero bigay naman lahat ng mga kailangan ko
tapos sobrang selosa ko talaga ngayon kahit sa pic lang may katabi syang ibang girl inaaway ko agad pero naawa din ako kasi umiyak sya wala naman daw sya ginagawang masama ayun naawa din ako
sabi ko na lang pag pasensyahan na niya ko kasi buntis nga hehe
kung ano ano na nga lang pumapasok sa isip ko ang dami dami
halos negative pero na re realize ko din na mali pala ako hehe
mahal pala talaga niya ko... hhaayy hirap ngmag buntis 9 months mo dadalhin tapos hirap ma nganak tapos hirap din mag alaga ang haba ng panahon na titiisin mo pero in the end worth it naman lalo nat magiging maganda ang future nila...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 17, 2010, 06:17:27 pm
ang ganda nitong topic na to' dito ko lang nashare nararamdaman ko hehe yung nobyo ko super maalaga samtyms winiwish ko sana siya na lang daddy n g baby ko kaso baka mapatay ako ni Amboy ko kapag ganun ang nangyari ewan dios mio bahala na kung sinu ang daddy nitong baby ko makikita na lang paglabas  ;D basta ayoko na madepress at magisip ng kung ano ano come what may basta akin ang anak ko at super labs ko sya at nagsisisi ako na nagpaapekto ako sa depression during my 1-early 3rd trimester ko huhuhu sorry anak ha

pa DNA mo n sis.. heheh.. musta n nga pla sitwasyon mo? ok nb kayo? d kp b sama s jowa mo? sana cia nalang daddy ng anak mo ^_^ be happy always hah...  :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 17, 2010, 09:42:58 pm
 @; girl_pretty1212 uhm, ito okay naman ako sis medyo parati ng tumitigas si baby ko  ;D hicks contraction hehe uhm, sa ngayun nagiipon pa ko ng konting pera pamuhunan ba para sa new life ko, lam mo sis samtyms naisip ko at naipagdasal ko na sana nga si nobyo na lang tatay ni baby pero naisip ko kung sinu man sa kanila eeh malalaman ko na lang yan paglabas hehe basta sa ngayun kahit na prinoproblema pa ko ni Amboy iniignore ko na lang sya lumilipas nga ang araw na dalawa lang naman kami dito sa bahay eeh hindi kami naguusap as in parang wala ako kasama sa hauz hehe pero okay lang mas mabuti pa nga na wag niya ko kausapin kesa naman kinakausap nga niya ako problema naman haayst!!!!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sugs on September 18, 2010, 07:26:04 am
mga sis  :(  :(  :(

di ko alam kung mag seselos b ko o hindi.. yung hubby ko kasi, kita ko my comment siya dun sa ex niya.. by facebook account.. haaayyy.. nadedepress nanaman ako tuloy  :( don't know what to do  :(  :(  :(  :(  :(  :( super sad talaga ko  :(
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 18, 2010, 08:14:48 am
@; girl_pretty1212 uhm, ito okay naman ako sis medyo parati ng tumitigas si baby ko  ;D hicks contraction hehe uhm, sa ngayun nagiipon pa ko ng konting pera pamuhunan ba para sa new life ko, lam mo sis samtyms naisip ko at naipagdasal ko na sana nga si nobyo na lang tatay ni baby pero naisip ko kung sinu man sa kanila eeh malalaman ko na lang yan paglabas hehe basta sa ngayun kahit na prinoproblema pa ko ni Amboy iniignore ko na lang sya lumilipas nga ang araw na dalawa lang naman kami dito sa bahay eeh hindi kami naguusap as in parang wala ako kasama sa hauz hehe pero okay lang mas mabuti pa nga na wag niya ko kausapin kesa naman kinakausap nga niya ako problema naman haayst!!!!

Tama yan sis.. wag mo masyado intindihin noh... pagkapanganak mo, everything will be alright na,, makakamove forward ka na..
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 18, 2010, 08:16:37 am
mga sis  :(  :(  :(

di ko alam kung mag seselos b ko o hindi.. yung hubby ko kasi, kita ko my comment siya dun sa ex niya.. by facebook account.. haaayyy.. nadedepress nanaman ako tuloy  :( don't know what to do  :(  :(  :(  :(  :(  :( super sad talaga ko  :(


eh sis minsan nraransan ko din yan,... nkakastress nga eh kc pg my mikita tau, nkakadagdag isipin for us.. tau ngsusuffer kc sensitive n nga tau, eh nkakakita p tau ng mgccause ng pain for us.. :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 18, 2010, 08:59:28 am
mga sis  :(  :(  :(

di ko alam kung mag seselos b ko o hindi.. yung hubby ko kasi, kita ko my comment siya dun sa ex niya.. by facebook account.. haaayyy.. nadedepress nanaman ako tuloy  :( don't know what to do  :(  :(  :(  :(  :(  :( super sad talaga ko  :(

haayst ako nagseseLos ako today panu ba naman kasi si nobyo ko hindi man lang ako nirelyAn sa mga txt ko kagabi huhuhu :'( iniisip ko tuloy na baka kasama niya yung malandi nyang X pu**ta!!!
pero mommy sugs iniisip ko na lang yung mga masasayang moments namin together at yung lahat ng trials na napagdaanan namin together ayun gumaganda ang pakiramdam ko kakausapin ko na lang sya mamaya pagnakauwi na sya nasa ibang city kasi sya ngayun at hindi ko alam kung nakisama ba sa kanila yung malanding babaeng yun keber ko ba basta may tiwala naman ako sa nobyo ko ata alam ko mahal niya ako at hindi sya gagawa ng bagay na ikakasira ng magada naming samahan kaya ikaw mommy cheer up! maganda at sexy tayo dis time noh! lalo na ikaw kasi carry mo ang baby ni papalicious mo
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 18, 2010, 09:04:04 am
@;girl_pretty1212    ano nga kaya noh ipaDNA ko kaya si baby ko paglabas hehe magkanu kaya yun tsaka ganu ko naman katagal bago malaman ang result tsaka saan ba pwede magpaDNA dito sa pinas (sa NBI alam ko meron dahil dun sa baby na iniwan sa GULF air hehe
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sugs on September 18, 2010, 02:27:27 pm
thanks mommy pinoytamil, and mommy girl_pretty1212

yon na nga lang nag iisip nalang ako ng magagandang bagay... thanks talaga sa comment nyo.. malakas kapit ko dala ko baby niya eh.. hahaha ;D well naiinip n ko gusto ko n mag december at manganak.. hihi.. gudluck satin mga momies.... ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 18, 2010, 06:17:25 pm
wag naman mommy kasi maoctober pa gosh! aaray pa ko ng bongga!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: momi_chesca kikay on September 18, 2010, 07:43:57 pm
siguro nga natural lang sa atin to mga mommies. Ako naman, aside from the fact that i wanna be with Louie all the time. Sobrang selosa talaga ako ngayon, like pag lumalapit sa kanya guest, may kakausapin or kahit titignan lang nagseselos na talaga ako. Feeling ko iiwan na niya ako porke`t di na ako ganon kasi dahil nga sa pregnant ako. Nakakadepress talaga tipong gusto mong umiyak nalang. Anyways, iniisip ko nalang na normal lang to, 4 sure after giving birth, d ko na pagiisipin yung mga selos na yan. Magfofocus nalang ako kay Lance. :D
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 19, 2010, 08:43:54 am
siguro nga natural lang sa atin to mga mommies. Ako naman, aside from the fact that i wanna be with Louie all the time. Sobrang selosa talaga ako ngayon, like pag lumalapit sa kanya guest, may kakausapin or kahit titignan lang nagseselos na talaga ako. Feeling ko iiwan na niya ako porke`t di na ako ganon kasi dahil nga sa pregnant ako. Nakakadepress talaga tipong gusto mong umiyak nalang. Anyways, iniisip ko nalang na normal lang to, 4 sure after giving birth, d ko na pagiisipin yung mga
selos na yan. Magfofocus nalang ako kay Lance. :D

naku mommy chesca, nkarelate ako s cnbi mo.. sobrang selosa din ako ngayon grabe! cant move on p nga s khapon... nsa mall kc kami then after mgeat pglabas ng resto, nkita niya mga dti niang kasi s gimik n mga girls, tpos lumapit p cia at ngchika chika.. my heart could have been broken into pieces... huhuh kaya last nyt, d ako mkatulog as in naiyak ako ng naiyak... ang hirap talaga noh... huhuh!!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: nanaylovesbaby on September 19, 2010, 08:01:50 pm
naku mga sis, major major cry ako kanina dahil lang di ako nasundo ni hubby. Ganito kasi yun, I came home from a company meeting, then di pala ako ibababa nung van malapit sa house namin. So I had to walk about half a mile para makarating sa house namin cuz kulang na barya ko pamasahe. Pagdating sa kanto, I called hubby asking him if he could pick me up since naka motor naman siya. he said he just came home from where I was waiting for him. I got upset by his lame excuse that I told him then not to pick me up and I'll just walk na lang home. I was manas na and was too tired to walk tapos it was scorching hot pa kaya all the way home, I was tearing up. Nasalubong ko si hubby pero di man lang niya ako napansin(his helmet was just hanging across his elbow). he got home first kasi nga nakamotor sya. when I got home, i started sobbing like crazy. I didn't even defend my actions earlier. Hay ang emotions nga naman pag ganitong preggy. Feeling ko naging EMO ako hehe. wala lang, share lang... ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 20, 2010, 12:28:18 pm
hehe ang ganda talaga nitong topic na to'
ako naman super selos ako kasi hindi masyadong nagttxt sakin yung nobyo ko nung nakaraan for two nights haay kaloka yun pala nagjejelly din pala sya ayun nagusap kami nung isang araw about sa relasyon namin at nagkaintindihan kami at nagkalabasan at nagkaiyakan na din kasi pareho kaming nagjejelly jelly hehe uhm, ayun kahapon labing labing na ulit kami hahaha para kaming mga t=##@!a noh?! hehe haaayst pagibig nga naman!!!!!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: spoiled_brat on September 23, 2010, 09:40:59 am
sali din ako dito.. sahre ko during my first 4 mos sobrang iyak ako everyday kahit anong bagay with regards to my husband nahahanapan ko ng reason iyakan. then 5 months medyo um-ok ako.. ngayong 6mons medyo bumalik ulit na sobrang paranoid naman ako at depress pag naiiwan magisa.napaka-emo ko.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 24, 2010, 02:54:41 am
@;spoiled_brat
nung mga 5-7 months na akong preggy uhm, masyado akong nangangalabit kay hubby baka maexperience mo din yun sis hehe
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on September 24, 2010, 09:46:21 am
sis pinoytamil

sis baligtad tau... 7 months ako ngyon pero parang medyo ayko n ng sex, uncomptable nko... d nga ako ngwewet.. hihih... c hubby abot ang kalabit, minsan pingbbgyan ko nalang pero d enjoy..

dati nung lesser months ako, increase libido ko s sex.. as in gstong gsto ko din halos everynyt minsan kahit morning p.. hehe.. C:

hay unpredictable talaga feelings ng mga buntis, no one can tell kelan mgbabago noh... npakahirap ng sensitivity, pag d ntin inilabas bka mkasama lalo ky baby ntin... :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: spoiled_brat on September 24, 2010, 11:56:17 am
@pinoytamil:
hehe oo sis.. naeexperience ko yun pero di ko maexplain.. gusto ko na ayoko.. na ewan.. napanuod ko nga yung movie ni j.lo, na magiging mahilig nga daw.  parang si sis girl_pretty1212 uncomfortable na rin siguro.   ???
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sugs on September 24, 2010, 02:23:09 pm
sis pinoytamil

sis baligtad tau... 7 months ako ngyon pero parang medyo ayko n ng sex, uncomptable nko... d nga ako ngwewet.. hihih... c hubby abot ang kalabit, minsan pingbbgyan ko nalang pero d enjoy..

dati nung lesser months ako, increase libido ko s sex.. as in gstong gsto ko din halos everynyt minsan kahit morning p.. hehe.. C:

hay unpredictable talaga feelings ng mga buntis, no one can tell kelan mgbabago noh... npakahirap ng sensitivity, pag d ntin inilabas bka mkasama lalo ky baby ntin... :)

7 months n din ako sis.. kelan due date mo??

ganyan din ako dati gusto ko.. pero now ayoko na.. parang nahihirapan na kasi ako pati naaawa ako ky baby.. understood naman ni hubby.. hehe.. kakaawa nga lang sila haha
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 24, 2010, 06:09:14 pm
haay nau mga sis 38 weeks na ko now at due ko sa 10-13 base sa LMP at lam nyo nag do kami ni nobyo kahapon (withdrawal na kasi natatakot ako na ang oxytocin ng kanyang sperm eeh magcause ng preterm labor hehe) uhm, gosh! hindi na masarap mahirap na eeh huhuhu kakainis tuloy nabitin ako hmp! >:(
nung sabi ko na nung 5-7 months ko naku mga sis! kahit ayaw na ni nobyo ko hindi pwede imagine naka 8 ata kami nun sa loob ng 24 hrs ang lala ko talaga kakahiya hahaha as in kasi sobrang bilis ko magcome mga parang 7-12 na in and out lang gosh! ayun na okay na ko hahaha :D tapos sobrang dali ko magwet pero mga sis yung kahapon grabe hindi pa man lang i mean nagkikissing kissing pa lang kami aayst sobrang wet na ko pero hindi naman ako nagcome =( tapos napansin ko medyo masakit na sya sa clitoris
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: abbejay on September 24, 2010, 08:23:17 pm
@pinoytamil: i love your story sis! :)) Grabe i wonder kung kaya padin namin mag do pag nasa ganyang week nako.. Hehe.. Katuwa yun nabasa kong 12 things you miss most during pregnancy, and one of those, a 'rocking' sex life! :))

Anyways, praning nga talaga pag preggy. Grabe as in emotional freak na nga ata ako. Extreme emotions! Minsan super iyak bcoz of so little things naman,minsan naman super galit.. Nagstart lang nabawasan nun 6mos preggy nako. Pero stressed out parin thinking about a lot of things esp gastos! Aawww!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: shadraniaj on September 24, 2010, 08:47:06 pm
I was emotional din when i was preggy pa. Madali akong malungkot at maiyak kahit na mababaw lang ang rason. Kung ang pang-amoy nga naten nung preggy pa tayo e very sensitive how much more pa kaya ang feelings naten. :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pinoytamil on September 24, 2010, 08:54:05 pm
haay naku sis! hahaha dito ko lang nasasabi ang mga pinaggagagawa ko hahaha
si nobyo ko nga halos minsan naiinis na ata sakin kasi naman sis ewan ko ba simula ng magbuntis ako di ko mapiiigiilan sarili ko baliw na baliw ako sa kanya hahaha as in love na love ko sya ngayun kesa dati kaya ayun naman ang resulta gigil ako sa kanya parati at sya na yung umiiwas minsan hahaha para na rin kay baby haaayst! minsan ang sarap isipin ng mga pinagdadaanan ng buntis at minsan naman nakakadepress at napakahirap ng mga situation Lyf talaga super fun!!!!
sis yung gastos wag mo na muna isipin pwede naman tau manganak sa public hspital hehe tsaka sa mga lying in clinic =) mas mura pa hindi naman ata masyado maselan ang lagay mo ( ako kasi may heart problem =) sabi nung ob ko kelangan daw naka epidural ako kung gusto ko magnormal gosh! eeh di magbabayad pa ko nun sa anesthesiologist gosh! tapos diba may pedia pa tsaka yung cardiologist daw or internst na kelangan kapag manganganak na ako haayst! parang lalagnatin na ko sis, =) kaya pipilitin ko na lang iEre si baby ko ng normal iisipin ko na lang yung nakakatakot na bill na malaki makakaya ko to ilabas hehe
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: nanaylovesbaby on September 24, 2010, 09:59:22 pm
natawa naman ako sa story ni sis pinoytamil :D
Tama nga, kasi early in the pregnancy,sobrang crazy talaga ng mga hormones nating mga mommy kaya yung iba sa atin, nagiging mahilig kahit malaki na ang tiyan. Sa kaso ko, nung first and early in my 2nd tri, ganun ako, pero nung na notice ko na yung bump sa tiyan ko, parang na turn off ako sa sarili ko kaya di na ko maka feel ng arousal. :D :D :D kahit si mister, gusto pa rin, pinagbibigyan ko pero sinasabi ko, wag masyadong madiin at baka mastimulate yung cervix ko, mag open ba. takot ko lang ma early labor hehe :D :D :D anyway, may mga iba namang paraan para pagbigyan ang gusto ni hubby, pero di ko na lang idedetalye LOL XD... about naman yung gusto ni mrs, kahit malaki na tiyan, may iba naman position para dun. basta... *wink wink*... ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: BabywantsIceCream on October 10, 2010, 01:02:38 pm
I've been really depressed lately and may separation anxiety rin ako. I live with my baby daddy and we work in the same company so talagang magkasama kami most of the time but on Sundays he plays footsal sobrang nagagalit ako pati nassad pag umaalis sya kahit ilang oras lang naman, I just feel so alone pag wala sya and it's driving me nuts  :-[

I wasn't like this before, naexperience nyo rin ba yung ganun?
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: on October 11, 2010, 02:52:13 pm
^ ako din, sis! instead of footsal e basketball naman hobby ni hubby. he plays with his brods on wednesdays and with his officemates naman on thursdays. dati i'm totally ok with it. now, pag wala sya, I feel so alone and neglected. ayoko naman i-nag sya about it kasi alam kong part naman sya ng pregnancy. ang lagi kong senti theme e "ang dami kong ginive up pero bakit buhay binata ka pa din" saka "9 months lang to bakit hindi mo pa mahintay before ka maglaro", at "hintayin mo pag nanganak ako, saka ako babawi"  ;D kalokah talaga. to think na i'm a super bubbly person.  :o
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: BabywantsIceCream on October 13, 2010, 08:22:44 am
Ganyan rin ako, may pa-guilty effect. Pero ako yung nagguilty sa huli kasi oo lang sya ng oo. Kelangan yata natin ng hobby! Let me know pag may maisip ka :)

^ ako din, sis! instead of footsal e basketball naman hobby ni hubby. he plays with his brods on wednesdays and with his officemates naman on thursdays. dati i'm totally ok with it. now, pag wala sya, I feel so alone and neglected. ayoko naman i-nag sya about it kasi alam kong part naman sya ng pregnancy. ang lagi kong senti theme e "ang dami kong ginive up pero bakit buhay binata ka pa din" saka "9 months lang to bakit hindi mo pa mahintay before ka maglaro", at "hintayin mo pag nanganak ako, saka ako babawi"  ;D kalokah talaga. to think na i'm a super bubbly person.  :o
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: MommyJammy on October 13, 2010, 10:53:14 am
i can totally relate to everyone. Masaydo akong madrama ngayong preggy ako, may farm kasi kami sa antipolo minsan dun si hubby nagi stay, i feel so lonely umiiyak talaga ako kapag umaalis sya, nalulungkot din sya pag umiiyak ako pero kelangan nyang pumunta don.  :'( pero pag umuuwi naman talagang spoiled! kapag wala akong work pinapalaro lang niya ko ng playstation 2 buong araw tapos inaankyatan niya ko ng food and everything. minsan nahihiya na nga ako eh. kaya lang pag umaalis nanaman, iyak nanaman ako :D I hate hormones.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: mommy ni gwen on October 13, 2010, 11:11:37 am
normal nga yata ang depression mga mommies especially during the first trimester.... i'm on my 24th week pero ganyan din, ang dali ko ma depress sa mga bagay bagay... nag worry nga ako na baka dahil dito maging super prone ako sa mga anxiety attacks at post partum depression... ngayon lang ako nakaramdam ng ganito during pregnancy to think 3rd baby ko na to and situationwise, everything is better now than before...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on October 13, 2010, 04:18:52 pm
nakakaloka yung mga weird feelings natin mga sis..

tulad ngayon namimiss ko nanaman love ko, nasa second floor lang siya,., huhuh... gusto ko siya ihug at ikiss ng sobra! bedrest kasi ako ngayong maghapon kaya di ako lumalabas, dinadalan lang ako ng maid ng food dito s 4th floor... feeling ko tagal na namin hindi nagkikita.. sobrang lungkot ko... di ako makatulog... huhuhu
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sukibeef on October 17, 2010, 01:04:27 pm
Hello mga sis!

share ko lang din yung akin, dati grabeng depression din pinagdaanan ko lalo na yung 1st and 2nd trimester ko (teka--tama ba? nablanko ako bigla.sorry.) nasisira ulo ko pag wala si hubby and pag wala ako kausap. di ako mahilig manuod ng TV so ang last resort ko is kumain and matulog. I gained 15 pounds and lalo yun nakakadagdag sa depression ko. Nung lumipat ako ng OB sa CGH, my new OB gave me fish oil capsules take ko daw as a regular vitamins. nung una okay okay ako, andyan parin yung depression ko nung kalaunan, napapansin ko kakainom ko ng fish oil, nawawala yung galit ko sa mundo and yung ga mundong depression ko. nag research ako and I found out na maganda itong fish oil for pregnant moms na may depression and nakakatulong na mabalanse yung hormones kaya ayun, naging okay ako and balik normal na naman kahit buntis. ;)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: girl_pretty1212 on October 17, 2010, 07:59:11 pm
waah grabe feeling ko now... kc naman ngselos ako, my customer kc maikli shorts, tapos huling huli ko si hubby na tinitingnan legs nung girl habang paalis. huhuh feel so jelous.. lalo na now na sobrang laki ng weight gain ko.. huhuh...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: mommylove :) on October 26, 2010, 05:36:32 pm
ako naman ang pinaka nakakatawang hindi ko maintindihan, nakita ko nag wawatch ng Victoria Secret fashion show si hubby. galit na galit ako kasi nagseselos ako. feeling ko hindi na ako sexy kaya kailangan na niya mag watch ng ganon :( sobrang sad ako and gusto ko umuwi sa mommy ko. ganun pala talaga yun. super amo naman si hubby and hindi na daw mauulit. weird :( parang napaka insecure ko sa lahat ng girls na sexy. lalo na mga naka 2 pc! :(
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: mommy ni gwen on October 26, 2010, 05:52:08 pm
naku kakaiba na nga talaga at out of this world ang moods nating mga preggy mommies! while reading the other mom's posts, super relate ako! hahaha
 
kaya lang ba't ganun mga sis, i have this weird feeling about my hubby and his ex. dati kasi talaga super na insecure ako dun. tapos na overcome ko. then nung first trim ko, na brought up ulit yung issue for no reason at all.. bigla lang ako na insecure at naging away pa namin. tapos when i learned na preggy ako, super nasabi ko na lang sa sarili ko, kaya pala. then ngayon parang bumabalik ulit, to the point na napapanaginipan ko! tapos maiiyak na lang ako pag gising ko sa morning... nagtataka si hubby why minsan bigla ako natatahimik at sad. di ko naman masabi yun kasi sasabihin lang niya kung ano ano iniisip ko...  :(
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: gripfast on January 27, 2011, 12:18:17 pm
haay! buti na lang may thread na ganito. I feel so sensitive these past few days. grabe! naiinis ako sa bf ko kasi laging busy. sobrang iba ang mood swings ko ngayon, I feel ugly and at the same time I feel really bitchy! haayz! I hate it.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sushilover123 on January 31, 2011, 03:37:43 pm
 Ganito talaga siguro kapag buntis. Medjo nakakarelate ako sa mga kwento niyo mommies. Hindi ko alam kung depression ba ito o anxiety. Pero nalulungkot ako lagi, siguro dahil na din sa situation namin ng bf ko. He was about to board a cruise ship for his work,and 2 years na niyang hinihintay to. Ako naman i was studying law when we found out na i was pregnant. I begged him na wag muna umalis kasi malungkutin talaga ako and di ko kakayanin. Although tangap naman ng both sides ang situation, pero ayaw ng dad ko na pagsamahin kami kasi di pa kami kasal.

Lagi ako umiiyak talaga nung 1st trimester ko. Yung tipong habang nagsshower e umiiyak. Tapos kapag nagkikita kami ng bf ko lagi ko sya inaaway. Ang sama ng mga iniisip ko sa kanya. Kapag di niya nadala yung gusto ko na food e todo iyak ako na kesyo di niya ako pinapahalagahan. Minsa nagagalit na siya sakin kasi iiyak na naman ako at nakakasama kay baby yun.

Lately medyo ok na kasi nakahanap na siya ng temporary work dito sa pinas. Pero kapag namimiss ko sya e iiyak talaga ako. Di naman nagkukulang bf ko sa paalala na magtiis muna para kay baby kasi para sakanya naman lahat ng gingawa niya. Buti nga nakahanap ako ng libangan dito sa SP kasi naaaliw ako at nawawala yung lungkot ko. Sana talaga pumayag na father ko na pagsamahin kami. Haaay.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: yacixian on February 03, 2011, 06:59:50 pm
Welll, sad to say, medyo depressed nga rin ako. I'm 7 weeks pregnant tapos yung dad pa ng baby ko, umiiwas sa akin nung nalaman na preggy ako kasi hindi niya daw gusto to. Anyways, as much as possible, ayoko magentertain ng mga negative thoughts. Right now, di pa rin alam ng parents ko na buntis ako. I'm scared, oo pero iniisip ko na lang na soon matatanggap din kami ng family ko. I'm hoping and praying na igui2de kami ng baby ko ni God. I know kakayanin ko to.. :)

Goodluck and Godbless mga moms! :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sushilover123 on February 04, 2011, 11:46:52 am
^iacy thats sad sis. Pero its good na your still keeping the good vibes. Ako din, i tried to hide my pregnancy at first.. At hindi talaga ako makatulog. It was on my 8th week nung sinabi ko na sa dad ko. And nakakagaan ng feeling. At nabawasan na yung iniisip ko. Like mine, im sure matatangap din nila si baby mo. I suggest na as early as possible, sabihin mo na kasi makakadagdag lang to sa pagiisip mo. Makakasama kay baby yan. Kausapin mo si bf to be with you when you tell your parents.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: yacixian on February 04, 2011, 04:03:19 pm
@ sis sushilover123; Sad talaga, 2 weeks ko na tinatago from my parents bout sa condition ko. Everyday, binubulungan ko nalang si baby na soon, magiging ok kami. I can't tell them pa kasi di ko pa nakakausap ng matino yung dad nito kung anong plano niya. He didn't say anything bout our baby. He just blamed me kung bat ako nabuntis. :( and til now siya pa ang galit. I can't believe na may lalaki palang ganon.. :( :'(  I guess nagkamali talaga ako bout him pero andito na yung baby eh... Yun baby nalang yung iniisip ko. Magfofocus nalang ako sa baby, ayoko na isipin yung dad nito. Tulad nga ng sabi ko, kung ayaw niya sa amin ng anak niya- bahala siya!  >:( For sure di naman kami papabayaan ni God. Mga 2nd week of Feb. ko pa balak sabihin sa parents ko, humahanap lang ako ng perfect timing kasi pag ngugulat/nagagalit sila tumataas yung BP...haaay... :(

Basta let's hope and pray for the best...all the best pra sa ating mga mommies! Godbless you all! :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pearaine on February 06, 2011, 09:52:43 pm
Hi! mga moms...
I'm a newbie here. Actually, I'm fond of reading each topic here parang nabasa ko na ata lahat. (he!he!he) I'm having my second baby and nakarelate lang ako sa depression, di ko nga sure if that was the term sa feeling ko. Sometimes, I'm fed up of having a family. I want to be alone. ( I know it's so bad but I can't help that feeling) Lalo pag makulit si panganay. Then, I think sometimes na di pa ako ready for the second but my hubby really wanted to have this and did this without consulting me. I was really lost. Away k hubby pag over na inis ko and I always tell him na ikaw na kaya magdala nito coz I'm working sometimes stress sa work and all. He will just answer if he can oly do that. Hay!  think I'm over reacting to things. I can't talk to him about this coz I know it's quite weird. Any piece of enlightenment pls. Thanks!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: sushilover123 on February 09, 2011, 02:59:49 pm
@iacy. How are the things going on with your situation na sis? I hope nasabi mo na. Naaalala ko din kasi ganyan din yung nafefeel ko. Its really hard to tell them pero habang tumatagal lalo kang mahihirapan. I tried writing a letter but ended up saying to them na lang. Just blurt it out sis. Kaya mo yan. You might be suprised na baka maexcite pa sila diba? Anyway..browsing on forums like this and sharing my experiences with my pregnancy with others helped me a lot to cope with my depression. All things will be better sis. Basta alagaan mo si baby. Im proud of you kasi it seems na your so strong despite not having any support from your bf. I cant imagine how hard that is pero your so strong! Your baby will be proud of you as well. Be strong sis and pray ka lagi.

@pearaine. Hi mommy! Welcome to SP. I think what your feeling right now is pre pregnancy depression nga. Lagi ba ganyan nararamdaman mo? Sa story mo sis, naalala ko yung movie na Shrek3. Napanood mo na ba? If not,try watching it.
Sometimes talaga our husbands/partners do not understand whats going on with us mommies. Mahirap maging mommy to add to this working mommy ka pa. I suggest talk to your hubby. And dont forget to give yourself a break din every now and then. Have a weekend vacation with your husband without the kids or a simple pedicure will do. Siguro mommy your just tired kaya ganyan ang nararamdaman mo.
Nakayanan mo nga yung first baby mo so im sure makakayanan mo yang second. Of course with the help of our loved ones. Pray ka lang sis..all things will be well din im sure.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: pearaine on February 14, 2011, 01:17:44 pm
Hi! I really got a lot of insights from your various posts.
Mom Sushilover123 - Thanks for that. Actually, maybe that was pre pregnancy dep. with regards to my 1st it's like heaven, I never felt awkward or something. Even the untoward symptoms.. wala talaga. Ngayon...HUHUHU! it's one of a kind kaya nga siguro feeling ko bago lang ako sa ganito coz I felt the world is really turning somewhere. Yung Shrek3 - yah, it's nice. updated me dun kasi yung panganay ko likes that movie. Si hubby is very kind so to speak. Allowing me to buy and do whatever I want. Kahit medyo OA na ako. Mag out of town pa kami just to go sa restaurant na type ko. Ewan ko ba somebody told me mag Yoga daw ako. Maybe. ..I hope mag end na to kawawa baby ko. Anyway, I hope mga moms na we can carry everything for the sake of our little angels..(lalo na me).God bless us all!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: neko07 on March 08, 2011, 08:34:31 pm
parehas tayo ng na fifeel... pero one day narealize ko na nag iinarte lang pala ako. hahaha gusto ko lagi ko katabi si hubby, lagi kami nag uusap, nag kukulitan at nanonood ng movies. pag wala nga siya hindi ako mapakali eh, tinetext ko siya ng tinetext pag hindi makapag reply, tinatawagan ko na. hindi talaga ako mapakali kapag wala siya sa tabi ko.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: toughmom moderator on April 30, 2011, 10:03:38 am
Have you heard of Hysterical Pregnancy?
new SP article "What is a Hysterical Pregnancy?"
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/pregnancy/health-nutrition/what-is-a-hysterical-pregnancy
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: momma_33 on May 05, 2011, 10:25:17 am
@toughmom: Hi mommy! Haven't heard of that Hysterical Pregnancy, what is it all about?

@pearaine: Hi mommy! We almost have the same feeling, I started to feel sad with almost no reason at all sa 2nd trimester ng pgbubuntis ko but lately unti unti ko nalang nilabanan but still every now and then I just find myself crying as in umiiyak ako parang ang dami ko iniisip. My husband is with me only on week ends kasi malayo work niya, eh ayaw ko naman ma spoil ang moments namin tuwing andito siya. Just like you im also working, minsan how i wish to just stay in the house and rest for the whole day but i just cant kasi nga meron work, but napakasayang naman iwan natin work just because we have blues this time. Maybe this is just a matter of managing ourselves but sad to say that its easy to say  but really hard to do.  Minsan umiiyak ako kasi sobra ako natatakot sa delivery day ko, what might happen to me and the baby and so on..... How I wish nalang na pgkatapos ko manganak everything will be alright na sana. I really dont want this thing to create a mess between me and my husband kasi medyo OA nga me sa ngayon ang dami issues.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: zellisimo on May 22, 2011, 02:04:53 pm
hi.. im one of those people who are having a hard time.. im more or less on my 13th week now.. hmm, this is an unexpected pregnancy and this situation changed my whole life.. ive suddenly lost interest in everything like im not in the mood to go out,or i dont fix myself anymore;the things i usually do seemed to be the things i cant longer do. plus im maselan, i think it adds to my misery. i was even hospitalized because i cant eat, i always vomit. my basin became my bestfriend. im just hoping that this coming 2nd trimester, this so called morning (all day) sickness will be gone..

my parents are supportive to me, my friends cheer me up. but i still feel lonely. im gonna be a single mom, well, actually the father is willing to support me, he wants to be there for me, to take care of me and our baby. but my parents are angry with him and they dont like the idea of me, still getting in touch with him. as for me, i just wanna obey them. i am also kinda angry with the father coz it's like he really wanted me to get pregnant from the start so that i could marry him.. or that im gonna be with him forever.. so there, im so stupid.. sabi nga nila, "nasa huli ang pagsisisi". at sobrang nagsisisi ako ngayon. :(

my father works abroad, so we're only three in the house, my mom and kasambahay. i dont have sibs. by the way, im 22 but i still feel like im a teenager. i became dependent again to my mom that i want her to be with me always, i dont sleep in my room anymore but in theirs. sometimes im really getting paranoid.. or i always make kulit to my mom. if mahirap ba talaga magbuntis. pano ba pag labor na, etc. then she would say, ibaiba naman talaga ang pagbubuntis, nagkataon na yung sakin, maselan.. etc.. even to my friends, im so makulit lalo na sa mga nurse kong friends.

im afraid for the baby. im afraid im not gonna be a good mother. im afraid, what if i dont love the child.. things like that.. im so clueless of the feeling. coz as of now, i still cant accept this pregnancy.. this is far from what i want my life to be. BUT im still trying.. im trying to accept things.. this baby.. the responsibilities.. i just always pray to God, hoping everything will be fine again.. medyo inip narin ako, matagal tagal pa ang hihintayin ko bago lumabas yung baby.. november is my expected due month.. hay.. i just help myself by reading pregnancy books, and forums like this.

sorry, naging mahaba.. pls bear with me.. thanks a lot..
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: Kendra27 on June 12, 2011, 07:55:13 pm
I love this thread, i can relate. I am 14weeks now and i'm sooooo bored most of the time and so i get depress. My partner is the one doing the work. So i always stay at our place alone, most of the time. Though umuuwi naman siya every night. I don't know, i just get depress easily with things. Now, i realized that this is just normal?!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: kaice on October 05, 2011, 09:37:15 am
i was diagnosed to have severe depression before we got married, was in anti depressant meds and need to be be off from it when we lerned that i was pregnant. it was difficult kasi aside from hormonal changes, depression creeps in and i can't take any medications. it became very difficult because the work of my hubby needs 36 hours in work every 3 days so he goes home 3-4 times a week lang and mostly sleep deprived. we go to same workplace though so i adjusted my sked kahit maaga ko gumising para may quality time na magkasama kami kahit sa sasakyan lang. the difficult part is when im alone in the house, dati nung wala pang baby at ganito ang feeling, baka nasaktan ko na ang sarili ko pero dahil preggy, iniisip ko a lang din si baby and i control my emotions especially excessive crying kasi baka ma-affect si baby :)

happy thoughts no matter how difficult situations are :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: kweykerz on October 05, 2011, 12:18:23 pm
nalungkot naman ako sa situation mo mommy krazychic, mahirap nga yang pinagdadaanan mo..
but anyway.. be happy parin kasi hindi ka naman tlaga nag iisa.. isipin mo nalang lagi mong kasama si baby.. lagi mo syang kausapin..
ganon kasi ang ginagawa ko pag wala si hubby.. nadedestino kasi siya minsan sa malalayong place like cebu, isabela etc. minsan weekly lang ang uwi niya so sobrang nakakadepress talaga yon..
pero carry lang.. as long as alam kong OK kami ni baby.. i'm 31 weeks pregnant.

dapat pala sayo.. may kasama ka sa bahay para may kausap ka palagi. kahit isa sa family member nyo..o kaya mangapit bahay ka minsan para hindi ka mabore sa bahay. kasi tlagang nakakadepress yong wala kang makausap. o kaya libangin mo sarili mo... mag-mall ka, see some friends, para maaliw ka..
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: kaice on October 13, 2011, 01:59:49 pm
^thanks!  my mom lives on the 3rd floor and kami sa 9th floor ng condo, minsan pag wala si hubby, dun ako kumakain at natutulog pero ayoko din maging habit kasi may bahay naman kami.

now, im in a bout of depression na naman (i think) may stigma talaga ang seeking psychiatrist help dito sa atin pero i dont care na rin, i need to be ok for myself and baby. di naman ako bored kasi uber busy ako with work, masteral school plus may events planning business ako with friends. diversion na rin ito on meeting new people :)
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: athenarissa on October 13, 2011, 07:43:23 pm
me din mga sis, im experiencing it right now. gusto ko lagi ako lang ang center of attention ni hubby, and konting di ko na gustohan mag rereact na ako and mapapaiyak na lang as in super tampo ako. mas tumindi pa sya nitong last trimester ko. at meron din akong kinaiinisan na tao di ko alam kung bakit everytime naririnig ko sya at nakikita naiinis ako sa kanya. madali din uminit ulo ko sa eldest ko, lalo na pag sobrang pasaway at makulit. minsan naiiyak na lang ako bakit ko nagagawa yun mga yun.  :-[
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: littleNudger on October 15, 2011, 11:17:47 am
Hi mga sis..

Sobra kong nakakarelate dito, kasi everyday pag kailangan na ni hubby pumasok sa work, as in pahirapan kami sa morning kasi lagi ako umiiyak.. Lalo na pag nagbibihisa na sya tapos lalabas na ng door.. Grabe iyak ko jan.. Like ngayon its 11:12am and kanina pa syang 6:30am umalis pero until now umiiyak pa din ako. Lalo kapag nagtetext sya, or kapag naririnig ko voice niya (he works as a DJ kasi) so kapag on air sya, lalo ko syang namimiss  :'( Super pinipigilan ko yung iyak ko pero grabe ayaw tumigil ng tears  :'( Sumobra yata pagiging emotional ko ngayong pregnant ako. Nahihiya na tuloy ako.. Hehe

Anyway yung house ng mom ko katabi lang ng house namin so pag nsa office sya, lumilipat lang ako sa kabila.. But then yun nga, di ko talaga mapigilan :(

Title: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: danel_em on October 24, 2011, 10:31:25 pm
I want to know how others feel their depression during pregnancy.

I felt my partner has no patience at all during my first and second trimester... He didn't even listen to what problems i want to express to him. now im on my due.. we're fine. but there are issues that grudges my mind still... i just ignore them now. and i  manage my stress on him the same way he manages his stress on me. just ignore it :)

my mom has caused me a lot of stress too.. its like she's deciding everything for me and my baby. We had a huge fight about our recent problems with each other when i was 5 months pregnant. I told her everything about my disappointment, depression, soberness and my anger. I hate her when she buys useless things for our house or for my nephews (like too expensive toys that aren't educational). Now im really upset that she bought everything for my baby without asking anything about my likes and dislikes.. It like she's just doing panic buying but she really doesnt care at all. everything was not on my like and not on my baby lists and most important of all, it was not on my budget!!! i want them to buy what i want and not the things i am sure i can have on my baby's christening. it really gives me a huge stress until now im a week from my due.
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: annamariemomof3 on October 25, 2011, 07:40:36 pm
it's ok to feel stressed and worried because our body is going through a lot during pregnancy. don't sweat the small stuff sis remember in just a few weeks the happiest moment of your life is going to happen. mahirap talagang maintindihan ng ating mga hubby ang ating pagiging emotional wreck during these times, aminin mo man o hindi ikaw mismo nahihirapan nang intindihin ang sarili mo at times. as for your mom, excited lang yan stage lola as they say. just be thankful na super involved siya sa pregnancy mo kesa naman la siya pakialam di ba. di na natin maiaalis sa lolo at lola ang pakikialam kasi super love lang nila ang mga baby natin eventually naman maiseset rin ang boundaries. saka if you don't like naman the things na binili ng mom mo meron naman sulit at ebay and such sites to sell or swap di ba. wag ka na ma stress just enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. good luck
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: MommyMichell on October 25, 2011, 09:00:51 pm
hi sis, i also suffered a mild depression when i was pregnant (and also post-partum), i felt like things were not going the way i want or expect them to, so i kind of know how you feel, my mom too was a stage lola and bought most of the baby stuffs (imagine i was only 5 months pregnant but my baby almost have everything na, including his very own drawer :D) but her being a stage lola and so involved in my pregnancy made me happy not otherwise, so i'm a bit curious (and confused as well?) as to what is it that is making you upset and unhappy with your mom buying baby stuffs? is she spending your money or her own? if it's your money then you definitely have a say on what things are needed to be bought (but still, don't forget that your mom put an effort in buying them, so let's give her an A for that ;)) but if it's her own money, i think you should just be grateful, it maybe just her way of showing her excitement for the coming baby (and it's her money after all)

as to your issues with your partner, make him listen and understand how you feel, ignoring the issues at hand will solve nothing and in time you'll start resenting him (believe me you will)

good luck sis, hope you'll get through all these, be strong, try to be happy & take it easy para happy si baby sa tyan bago sya lumabas  :)

Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: danel_em on October 26, 2011, 03:24:36 pm
MommyMichell & annamariemomof3 thanks for the warm replies :D that made me realize i just have to be more understanding than before hehe there will be more issues after i give birth so i better be ready for those :) thanks a lot for helping me clear my cluttered mind :D God bless!! Happy Halloween!
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: MommyMichell on October 26, 2011, 04:30:51 pm
hi sis danel_em, happy ako nabasa ko tong message mo parang mas magaan na mood mo, sana tuloy-tuloy na, actually dapat yung mga tao around you mas umiintindi sayo pero anyway sorry kung mga comments/reactions may halong onting sermon, alam mo naman dito sa sp parang totoong magkapatid kung magpayuhan kaya di nawawala yan, sis update mo kami ha, go for happiness!
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: lykeil on October 26, 2011, 04:55:33 pm
I also had my pre-partum depression when I was conceiving my 3rd child. I even got huge fight with my mother which I never did before because I am proud to say I'm her favorite child kaya lahat ng gusto ko she give in for me. Siguro that time I was really having depression and in denial kaya lahat ng frustrations ko naibaling ko sa kanya..but I felt bad about it until now, e, 2 years old na si baby kaya I am still guilty for what I said and done to her. But we patch up things and we are ok. She forgave me even I don't say sorry to her. She is ever supportive to me even I was bad at her.

Siguro it's a lesson for us to learn kaya we go through these mood swings pag buntis kasi we are going to mother our child/children with unconditional love like our mother is showing us. We thought its wrong for our parents especially our mom to evolve in our life during this time kasi nasa isip natin, we are grown up na with our own family etc..  but she shared her experience to us because she'd been there, and done that and she is guiding us. We should be grateful that she give us time and her effort on caring on us especially in our delicate situation.

So, just say sorry to your mom and love her more! You will surely appreciate her more than your mother-in-law! hehe! 

Have a happy pregnancy and safe delivery!  :)
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: danel_em on January 04, 2012, 09:58:16 am
lykeil MommyMichell thank you.. ok lang sermon ng ibang tao sakin, sawa na ako marinig sermon ng nanay ko :)) medyo ok ok na ako ngaun, frustration ko nalang is BF.. 1 month na ko d nagBF, due to abnormal anatomical structure of my nipples hahaha inverted kasi.. i want to buy all the necessary equip to help my nipples to protrude kaso d naman ako sinusoportahan ng magulang ko kht umaapaw kayamanan niya sa kakabili ng d ko naman gusto, hahaha kung ano pa yung gusto ko un pa ayaw nila gawin :)) pilitin ko daw anak ko dumede sakin the fact kita naman nila hirap si baby hahay... i think they're just not educated sa mga bagong paraan ng BFing for inverted nipples kaya ayon deadma nalang ako kahit masakit sa kalooban ko d ko mapadede si baby sa akin. naffrustrate pa ako s mga naririnig ko na lean ang baby ko kasi d ako nag BBF... ewan! deadma nalang talaga or sumtimes i cry it all out while taking a bath :) good thing kay baby mabigat sya.. kaso may dillema parin sa utak ko na iba yung growth niya nung nagpupump pa ako ng milk ko for her.. ang bilis kasi ng laki niya for her first month.. ngaun, nababagalan ako.. ewan ko.. siguro paranoid lang.. i just want someone to tell me its really fine to feed my child with formula. i want to hear someone says its just the same with BFed babies :)) although i know its not ..
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: michimac03 on January 13, 2012, 09:19:10 am
ako nga sisses, everyday my anxieties and fears are getting worse. i was diagnosed with chronic depression a few years back but i aced my therapy and recovered faster than the set time frame. i thought it will not come back but as i become pregnant, nagkaroon ako ng unexplained fears and worries, lalo ako naging anxious and too protective of the baby, and almost all of the things na feeling kong bad sa kanya e kinapapraningan ko. takot ako sa animals because of rabies, sa mga tarnished na bagay because of tetanus, yun mga ganun..wala na ngang kwenta pero anlaki ng takot ko talaga.. im willing to seek help, but i don't want to take in medicines, haiz...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: kulotski on January 13, 2012, 08:53:14 pm
Hi michimac, maybe there's something aside from the pregnancy that's stressing you out. Kung wala naman, are you willing to try seeking therapy? There was a time I had a nervous breakdown talaga kasi baby daddy virtually abandoned me and my family hated me for getting knocked up. In fairness, going to a shrink helped ease my nerves a bit.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: michimac03 on January 14, 2012, 10:21:44 am
^yes sis kulotski..im now in search of a psychiatrist who has a more conservative way of treating depression, kasi most of them prescribe meds talaga.. haiz, i just hope my depression does not affect my baby's mental development.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: kaice on January 16, 2012, 08:18:07 am
sis michimac30 - supportive therapy will really be recommended. i stopped all meds when i learned that i am pregnant.  pero there were difficult times talaga. parang i need to pop meds pero im concerned with my baby's health.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: michimac03 on January 17, 2012, 07:32:30 am
super thanks sis kulotski! i just hope the meds did not affect your baby..im really scared..i pray a lot, but i think i really need to seek help...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: ehmm on January 17, 2012, 09:06:14 am
pa join, ako rin super ang depression ko ngayon kahit 19weeks na kami ni baby.. naawa n nga ako sa baby ko eh kasi napapanay ang iyak at kakaisip ko.. hayzz para akong nababaliw na.. I am praying na lang na ma overcome ko ito.. palagi pang wala sa tabi si hubby so napapaisip talaga ako kung meron syang ibang babae.. hayzz ang hirap!!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: missheizy on January 17, 2012, 03:35:32 pm
Hello everyone! I think normal na may ups and highs tayo during pregnancy, yesterday I was so happy and this morning nasa mood talaga, super lambing and sweet pero kanina, I got uncomfortable kasi parang sumikip na yung doll shoes ko, huhuhuhu, may konting swelling at I started to be conscious, okay lang sana kung sa kili-kili or singit may umitim pero yung parang lolobo, kakalowka talaga, nag-iba timpla ko kanina but I went to my co-faculty mate and shared may feelings and right now, medyo okay na ako tapos nakita ko tong thread na to, I think in times like this, find a person who understands your feelings and pray lang talaga kay God. Kaya preggy mommies, kaya naten toh basta ialay naten kay Lord ang ating strength at faith na andiyan siya whatever happens. Smile mga mommies, may EDD pala is april 24 :)
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: mommy girlie on February 19, 2012, 04:00:19 am
Ang DHA ng ina napupunta sa baby, kaya nagkakaroon tayo ng depression during pregnancy and kapag nasilang na sumasama sa baby kaya naman nagkakaroon tayo ng post partum
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: wandergirl_turn_mom on February 28, 2012, 02:42:54 pm
 :-[  Ako din feeling sad lately.  Medyo magulo at mahaba ang story:
1. Naghiwalay kami ng daddy ng 1st born ko 5 yrs ago. Then my parents helped me raise my kid.
2. Last December, nagkaroon kami ng "contact" so eto preggy ulit for the 2nd time.
3. Hindi ko pa nasasabi sa parents ko, for fear na baka paalisin kami ng anak ko sa poder nila.
4. Hindi rin ako mapanagutan ng daddy kasi naka line up na yung petition niya for US, and getting married will ruin his chances. Maghihintay ulit siya ng 10 yrs or so.
5. He told me to get rid of the baby first, then we'll get married after 2 years ( pag balik niya galing States).
6. Sabi ko, NO. So, he abandoned me. Saying na, since decision ko na ituloy ko. Then I'm on my own.

NAKAKA-GALIT.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: Anne Mercado on March 01, 2012, 09:13:01 pm
I didn't feel depressed when I was pregnant. I was actually happy...:)

One piece of parenting advice though regarding depression and pregnancy. There's this study which found that fetuses develop faster when the mom's disposition was consistent throughout pregnancy and after (meaning either happy or depressed all the way).

If you want to read more about it, go here: goo.gl/kHBqY
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: michimac03 on March 13, 2012, 11:16:27 am
hello sisses!ako naman over protective ako sa baby sa tummy ko...im having a bad case of OCD which develop fully when i got pregnant...natatakot tuloy ako sa post partum...haiz!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: momsieblair on March 28, 2012, 12:22:16 am
 :'( ako din mga mommies, super depressed ako ngayon.. 20 weeks na ako.

its been two and a half months na since nilayasan ko si partner (nasa Zamboanga ako ngayon and he's in manila), upto now, di pa ako ready na bumalik ulit sa house namin.. binigyan ko sya ng conditions, though minsan nagccomunicate kami.

1st makahanap na sya ng work, isantabi na muna niya ang pagiging artist-artist niya (check)
2nd get help from a psychiatrist (inamin naman niya na bipolar siya and may mga anger and alcohol issues) (x)
3rd maintenance (meds niya re:condition #2) (x)


Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: tashasabs on May 12, 2012, 07:36:43 am
May ganito pala. Minsan kasi bigla na lang akong nadedepress for no reason at all. Sinasabi ko sa sarili ko 'wag ako padala, hormones lang. Kaya lang minsan ang hirap din eh. Nakakagulat lang kasi okay ako tapos maya-maya ayan umiiyak na.
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: tashasabs on May 16, 2012, 09:20:57 pm
therobotfla Uhm, what October 2012 post? Sorry, got confused there. Double checked the thread, last October 2011 sinimulan 'to nung TS. :-\
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: danel_em on May 18, 2012, 02:59:02 pm
humanap ang kapatid ko ng psychiatrist para sakin.. i took medication gals.. for those who are searching for a good doctor sa Sunrise hill po ako nagpatingin.. maganda dun kaso may kamahalan talaga ang professional fee hehe.. i'm doing good now gals and running errands parin for my 6 month old baby girl Sab :) advice for those who are depressed, isa lang pala katapat lahat ng pagaalala, mag dasal, matulog, at kumain ng tama.. totoo un.. pag lipas ka sa tulog at kain dun na dedevelop yung anxieties and depression.
Title: Re: Pre-Partum Depression: Worrying, crying, and planning alot for the future.
Post by: Morefun on October 19, 2012, 07:49:39 pm
Ako din nung preggy ako, akala ko nababaliw din ako.  Lagi akong umiiyak, nalulungkot, nagagalit...nawala lahat ng patience ko  ;D  Yun pala hormones lang yon.  Andami dami kong iniisip at marami akong fears and worries.  When I look back sa mga nangyari, until now napapa kamot ako ng ulo at napapatonong, bakit nga ba ako sobrang init ng ulo noon?  Ngayon alam ko na kung bakit  :P  hehe, kaya I'm so thankful for this website kasi ngayon ko na naunderstand lahat ng nangyari sa akin.  Thanks SP!
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: Jean_31 on June 07, 2013, 04:04:36 pm
Hi mga mommies.. :( I feel so depressed. I really dont like this feeling.. I feel ugly, I feel fat....  my husband recently enrolled in gym, nagppalaki sya ng katawan.. madalas din syamagpraktis ng magbasketball during his off or after duty. Sana totoo Lang, I should be happy for him, kasi health concious sya, pero naiinsicure ako... naiinis ako pag pupunta sya gym or praktis ng bb... feeling ko tuloy npka selfish ko... I feel sad pg ngssend sya ng pictures niya na may improvements while ako getting bigger and fat.... im so sad...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: SheIsErika on August 08, 2013, 10:44:40 am
during my pregnancy mommies, i felt the same way actually until now there are times na nasasad ako.
pero before, ang moody ko talaga nung buntis pa ko. biglang iiyak, malungkot, naiinis, every emotion talaga.

pregnant women talaga are emotional daw, pero siguro nakadagdag sa lungkot is yung im a single parent nga.
the guy left me when he found out that im pregnant. super sad.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: AnJelatine on August 13, 2013, 10:30:42 am
Nung preggers pa ako (pati ngayon postpartum), everytime na nalulungkot ako, iniiyak ko lang tapos mga after 30 minutes, back to normal. Haha! ;D
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: MommyniAddie on August 13, 2013, 10:53:00 am
Blame it to the hormones mga sis...normal lang naman na madepress pero wag lagi...dapat happy ang outlook ng mga preggers para dala nyo on D-Day ;)..take it from me...stay happy and be safe mga moms to be...
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: KaceC on October 21, 2013, 06:39:31 pm
Hi! may alam ba kayo na psychiatrist / psychotherapist for pregnant women? I really need it ASAP, I joined SP baka kasi may alam kayo.. please.
Title: Re: depression during pregnancy
Post by: Mommy Jazz on October 21, 2013, 09:19:36 pm
^ you can ask your OB to recommend one. Most likely same hospital din yung clinic nung ire-recommend niyang Psychiatrist. I think it's a good move to see one para you would know the source, how to cope and understand yourself better. Tips and infos from reads can help but not totally.