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Title: single mom and pregnant
Post by: sissymeg on July 12, 2013, 03:35:34 pm
hi there mga moms!!!

I'm so happy na may single mom forum pala din dito sa smart parenting! I just want to know if there is/are also single mom and preggy like me here...  :)

how do you handle this situation lalo ngayon mas emotional tayong mga preggy?

ako instead of focusing on my situation, mas kayod ako sa work.. focus ako sa pag iipon kasi ayoko talaga manghingi sa side sa kabila, plus creating and reading other moms' pregnancy blogs help a lot.. nakakatanggal ng stress! and I always look forward sa check up ko sa OB ko para may bagong update na naman ako kay baby..  :)
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: Andreas on July 12, 2013, 04:45:05 pm

Sis Single mom din ako nung time na preggy ako focus lang ako sa baby ko di ko iniisip yung nang iwan sa akin.. para d rin maapektuhan ang baby ko d ko inistress ang sarli ko... pagkapanganak ko c ex pa tumawag at ngpadala ng pera tulong daw niya.
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: sissymeg on July 13, 2013, 07:49:41 am
thanks sis! onga e.. Nay Tay e. (Nanay ka na.. Tatay ka pa).. ineenjoy ko lang din yung pregnancy ko kesa ma stress ako sa tatay ng bata.. :)

did u take the money? ako kasi sabi ng parents niya they want to support.. I still don't know what to do.. ayoko kasi tumanggap ng tulong sa kanila e pero sabi ng friends ko, tanggapin kasi para naman sa bata
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: Andreas on July 13, 2013, 11:53:11 am
oo sis i tinanggap ko peru d ako nanghihingi at all. pagngbigay tanggapin mu peru wag ka hihingi, until mgpabinyag ako ngbigay c ex
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: sissymeg on July 14, 2013, 07:14:48 am
tama sis! kaya doble kayod ako ngayon, hindi ko pa plan mag-resign, siguro pag malapit nako manganak, todo ipon.. tapos pahinga konti..lipat sa kumpanya mas mataas ang sweldo para sa bata.

mabuhay lahat ng single moms! :)
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: maia2013 on November 08, 2013, 12:51:29 pm
I was on my 5th month pregnancy when my wrong half just don't show up na. But then, mas malalaking bagyo ang napagdaanan ko na, at hindi ito ang time to give up. Good thing is I have a good paying job, saka may sahod pa din ako kahit na naka-leave ako for 2months iba pa yung Benefits from SSS tapos na-cover pa ng PhilHealth ko ang delivery ko.
God is my provider, He knows when I need His help. Kaya hindi ako namroblema sa needs namin ni baby while waiting for her to see the world.
Right now, turning 5 months na ang daughter ko this coming 13th. Never ako humingi sa wrong half ko, even his name hindi ko ginamit. Tama na yung naniniwala ako sa karma. If he is man enough, he knows his responsibility.
Right now, I'm still working, and mother ko ang nag aalaga kay baby. Kahit pagod from work, Nawawala agad pag nakikita ko ang anak ko. I CAN'T ASK FOR MORE :)
I don't have plan of finding a new dad for my daughter, but if God will give one-a better one. Why not?
As of now kasi I'm focus at work and my daughter. And I need a long break for relationship. Actually I feel contented na, malaki talaga ang naitutulong ng Family, lalo sa moral support.
Maraming hard times, pero natutuwa akong harapin lahat. Lalo at anak ko ang iniisip ko :)

Payo lang mga sis: Don't give up, then try to open up sa mother nyo or sister or any member ng family mo. Wag mahiya na mag open ng feelings, para walang Bigat sa dibdib. Stay positive, and don't forget to thank God. Maybe hindi pa lang ngayon yung blessings niya for you but I'm sure darating yon, just have faith and trust Him. :)
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: ahyzeyuh on November 08, 2013, 01:38:04 pm
Hi mga mommies,

Im a single mom too, my daughter is now at 5yrs old. my SD abandoned me and denied his paternal responsibility when i was pregnant. after i gave birth, we try to work it out, but di talaga magkasundo , so "he" decided to stop it na lang.

Kaya mo yan sis. focus on the good things and ignore the negative. lahat ng emotions natin can affect our child kaya happy thoughts lang lagi. Kausapin mo din si baby sa tiyan, tell her stories etc.

btw we have a single parent support group sa FB, we recently had our grand EB last OCt.19. it was a fun both sa aming mga mommies and the kids as well.. pam pawala ng stress kahit papano

You can join us if you want
 ;)
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: sissymeg on November 11, 2013, 12:35:54 pm
hi sis! ano name ng single parent support group nyo?

I'm due on December and still..no show parin ang SD ko pero okay lang, kinaya, kinakaya ko ngayon with the help of my family at kakayanin.
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: ahyzeyuh on November 13, 2013, 09:20:05 am
Single Mothers Club - hindi kc siya nasesearch, private group siya sis due to sensitivity ng topic shared ng mga mommies

if interested please check this thread http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,53321.msg893040.html#msg893040


- post your email add or add Ira (admin) to add you sa group
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: n_titong on November 13, 2013, 04:15:07 pm
pano po ba sumali?
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: jealousygirl_15 on November 14, 2013, 10:56:03 pm
I salute you guy's.. single mom here too.. for 8 years now.. @sis sissymeg.. kaya mo yan..!
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: sissymeg on November 20, 2013, 09:15:28 am
hi sis jealousygirl_15:
3 weeks to go before my due date! eto excited and at the same time may fears of being a single mom.
thank you! any tips?  ;D
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: MaraMeow on November 20, 2013, 09:18:57 am
Goodluck sis and have a safe delivery!! Just focus on your baby ♥
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: kayliebaby on March 12, 2014, 04:52:56 pm
na-inspire naman ako lalo maging strong samga post nyo girls.. im a single mom too and mag 6mos na na preggy. rollercoaster ride pa rin kame ng daddy ni baby kasi hindi ko nararamdaman yung support niya kahit moral support na lang. sabi ng friends ko tama na daw kasi stress lang binibigay niya saken so kinakaya ko ngayon wag na makipagcommunicate sa kanya. thankful ako sa mga pinsan at pamangkin ko, napaksupportive at excited na sila kay baby. kaya as much as possible ayoko na mag-isip na maayos pa kame kasi dun ako ngsisimulang magbreakdown. alam ko na masama sa baby kaya lang minsan mahirap iwasan eh kaya binabawi ko na lang sa healthy foods.  ;)
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: MaraMeow on March 12, 2014, 10:42:46 pm
@Kayliebaby

Congrats sis sa baby mo. Always remember that your baby is a blessing from God. ♥ Tama stress lang aabutin mo dun. May i ask, how about your parents? Sinabi mo na ba sakanila? :)

Tama yan think positive lang and good vibes all the way, pero minsan okay lang din naman ilabas mo yung sama ng loob mo once in a while para di maipon hehe pero after nun just think about happy things, ganun kasi ginawa ko dati nung buntis ako hehe. Hindi naman kasi maiiwasan talaga isipin yun mga negative things. :)

Have a safe and happy pregnancy sis! ♥♥
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: kayliebaby on March 13, 2014, 02:31:28 pm
@MaraMeow thank you :) wala na dad ko since i was 8, then si muji nasa malayo, independent na ako since college pero my aunts and cousins yung companion ko when it comes to trials.. naku sa dame ng napagdaanan kong heartache positive naman ako na malalampasan ko to lalo na kapag nakita ko na si baby, my emo times lang talaga.. hehe
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: MaraMeow on March 15, 2014, 01:44:23 am
^Okay lang yan emo times sis hehe pero paminsan minsan lang ha? bwal kay baby hehe.. Alam na ba gender ni baby?? :D
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: kayliebaby on March 15, 2014, 12:02:18 pm
baby girl :) pagka5th month ko nagpaconginital scan ako as advised din ng OB ko to check for any abnormalities, thank God wala at anghahaba ng biyas.. hehe pero sabi din kasi niya late nadedevelop birdie ni baby kaya balak ko paultrasound ulit by 7th month para sure. :)
Title: Re: single mom and pregnant
Post by: MaraMeow on March 15, 2014, 05:49:15 pm
wow nice naman sis!! hehe yes pa ultrasound ka ulit para sure ka sa mga bibilhin mong gamit ni baby hehe baka boy pala tapos pink nbili mo.. buti naman okay si baby just eat healthy foods ha and of course bawal mastress hihi alam mo naman yung mga usual na bawal sa buntis. always pray :)

think happy thoughts  ;)