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Title: My husband cheats but wont leave the house
Post by: Wifey 893 on January 29, 2016, 08:24:55 am
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Mga sis,
Im already frustrated.
I caught my husband twice already cheating.
Pinastay ko pa rin sa house, dami niya pinangako. That was i guess a year ago pero ni isa non wala nangyari. One is sabi niya sasabay na siya sa amin magsimba lagi pero kahit yon man lang d niya nagawa. Im thinking kasi baka magbago siya pag the Lord will be the center of his life. Di po kasi siya nagsisimba. Marami siya dahilan at iwas lagi pag magsisimba na. Lately I can feel there is something na naman. I dont know if bago or same girl pa rin. So i ask him to leave the house na pero ayaw niyang umalis. Im frustrated I want him to leave because I dont want to go through the same pain again pag nahuli ko na naman. Including my child kasi nakikita niya yong dati at affected din siya kahit na ang bata pa niya. Malakas kasi intuition ko, even my dreams. I consider it as a gift, proven several times. kaya alam ko this time meron na naman. How can I force him to leave? Di ko alam kung saan nakakuha ng kapal ng mukha. Pls help..meron kayang legal actions na pwede gawin..Thanks..
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Title: Re: My husband cheats but wont leave the house
Post by: mdeluna on February 02, 2016, 05:11:34 am
Hi Sis.

Sorry to hear your story. Anyway, I think you can file temporary separation if you want. Ask for a help in women's helpdesk, it was located to the nearest police station in your place. They can give you an advise on what you can do. Yun nga lang, masyadong issue.
Naawa lang din ako sa anak nyo, kasi I'm sure he/she will be affected. Pero kung ganyan naman yung husband mo, teach him a lesson para hindi na umulit pa.

Good luck sis. Sana maayos na problem mo :) God Bless!
Title: Re: My husband cheats but wont leave the house
Post by: Mommy Jazz on February 11, 2016, 08:01:21 pm
You can file for Barangay Protection Order. With the BPO, he's not allowed to be near you or or place of residence. PERO, dapat mapatunayan mong may pangaabusong nangyari. Physical, emotional, financial o psychological.
Read this for more info:
http://karapatangbabae.weebly.com/anti-vawc.html
http://www.pcw.gov.ph/sites/default/files/documents/resources/VAW-flyer-fil-20131111.pdf
Title: Re: My husband cheats but wont leave the house
Post by: Wifey 893 on February 16, 2016, 04:56:45 pm
Guys,

He decided to leave after I've said so many things I never thought I can say, out of frustration, out of anger.

The most painful thing is he never said sorry, meaning he is really not sorry for what he did. First time ko mkaencounter ng taong di marunong magsorry to think na hindi maliit na bagay yong nagawa niya.

Naawa ako sa kanya pa rin. Pero gusto kong isipin yong galit ko else di ko kakayanin na mahiwalay kami sa kanya.

Thanks for all your inputs. 
Title: Re: My husband cheats but wont leave the house
Post by: Sara Palma on January 09, 2022, 07:47:45 pm
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