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Title: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
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Daddies,

Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone???? how often? saka ok lang ba na meron silang full access sa personal mobile natin?

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Mommies,

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Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: aletha on July 03, 2009, 04:59:37 pm
Kami ng mister ko, oo. Wala naman kasing dahilan para hindi i-access e, kahit na ba sabihing "personal property" yan. Pero hindi naman namin pinakikialaman yung cp ng isa't-isa, kumbaga respeto na lang. Pag may nagtext/tumatawag sa kanya tapos ako ang malapit sa cp n'ya, sa akin n'ya pinapabasa yung message, pero hindi ko sinasagot yung call, lalo na kung pwede ko naman ipasagot sa kanya, at ganun din ako sa kanya. :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: riddermark on July 03, 2009, 04:59:44 pm
hi.  yes, my hubby let's me get hold of his phone.  very few lang siguro yung messages na hindi ko na dapat mabasa or hindi naman ako involved sa sobrang personal issue (whatever it is). 

hindi naman niya tinatago ang phone niya, i would think otherwise kung dala-dala niya lagi kahit nasa house.

para sakin kasi i'd rather want it na maging open kami sa isa't isa. he can check my phone as well. lagi lang syang available if ever he wants to check it.

mas masarap ang feeling kapag open kayo. if ever me hindi sya alam sa subject ng text he can question it, pero nasa paguusap naman and pag explain yan e. pag andun sya sa bahay at me nagtext hindi ako nakikipagunahan i'd let him get it or ako naman inuutusan niya. after him reading, if i wanted to ask who was it from sinasabi niya and gives the phone to me. pag me calls sya hindi ko rin basta sinasagot. inaanounce ko lang that *** is calling. then he'd say to answer or not.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: meme on July 03, 2009, 05:01:03 pm
Sa opinion ko daddy ok lang un kung wala ka naman tinatago diba. Cellphone lang naman un, eh ano kung magpakialamanan kyo... hehe  ;D pero sympre nga pag personal calls, kung knino cellphone, sa kanya mo ipasagot diba, respect lang.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ace.ara on July 03, 2009, 05:09:27 pm
We have access sa mga mobile phones. Ok lang sa amin ni hubby kasi yung mga cp namin nakakalat lang sa table..minsan pag tamad ako kunin cp ko siya n pinakukuha at pinababasa ko..ganoon din siya. wala namang dapat itago..pero i knw few people na di nila pinakkialaman cp ng isat isa..pero kami well, open kami pwede pakialaman ang mobile phones ng isat isa,pero cyempre kung may call/txt sa fone niya at sinabi niya sagutin ko dats d only time n sasagutin ko phone calls/txt niya;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: riazagala on July 03, 2009, 05:11:45 pm
sa mga ibang friends ko, eto madalas ang pag awayan o maging issue. sila rin ang napa paranoid. ang hirap pag dumating ka na sa stage na ganyan.
 
sabi nga "what you don't know won't hurt you'

sa amin ng hubby ko, we respect each other's personal space. importante yun. we just have to TRUST our partners.

the same goes with wallet - hindi rin natin dapat pakialaman ang hindi sa atin kahit pa sa asawa natin yun.

i share ko lang rin, yung friend ko nagalit sa hubby niya dahil pinahiram yata ni hubby yung gift niya. sagot naman sa kanya ni hubby, hindi naman dapat magalit si wife sa kanya, dahil binigay na niya yun, so kung ano'ng gusto gawin ni hubby sa gift eh right niya dahil sa kanya na yun.

ano sa tingin nyo mommies/daddies?
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mariann on July 03, 2009, 06:38:33 pm

sabi nga "what you don't know won't hurt you'

sa amin ng hubby ko, we respect each other's personal space. importante yun. we just have to TRUST our partners.


i agree with you, mommy.  may pagka-paranoid ako minsan.  so buti pa huwag ko ng pangunahan ng kung ano-ano ang pag-iisip ko. 

although wala naman kaming tinatago sa isa't isa.  actually, we allow each other to access our mobile phones, but we choose not to.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Chie77 on July 03, 2009, 07:49:57 pm
we have no issues about our cellphones. like mommy ara, nakakalat lang ang cellphones namin :) sometimes i used his cellphone, whichever is more accessible ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: jobregon on July 04, 2009, 11:27:36 am
bakit ako, he allows me to hold his phone. hanggang doon lang. pano ko mababasa e may pincode.

Daddies, ano ba pwede maging reason nilalagyan nyo ng pincode ang cel phone nyo? Tiwala naman ako sa asawa ko, i dont smell something fishy naman. but i cant help wondering bakit kylangan ng code.

Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: soumy01 on July 04, 2009, 12:55:42 pm
ako ang secretary ni hubby pag nasa bhay ako tiga open ng msg  ;D ;D
minsan iwan lang rin dito yung cellphone sa bahay.
sabi nga niya akin na daw yung cellphone niya eh yung no. niya gamit ko na minsan haha

ano namang masama kung silipin nyo ang cellphone ng mga asawa nyo... may kaylangan bang itago para ipagbawal niya wag tignan. haha...

sabi ni hubby ok lang saka kung lalagyan daw niya ng pincode pipilitin ko pa ring buksan haha...
pag daw dumating yung time na tinatago na niya may kakaiba na daw dong msgs.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: okfine on July 04, 2009, 02:04:34 pm
hi!wala rin kami issuepagdtng sa celfone.mnsan nga palit pa kami..kc mnsan lowbat na fone niya,yung akin ang dadalhin niya..
'sexytary din niya q'hahaha..tamad kc mgbasa ng msg. un e.kaya ako ninuutusan niya.
kung wala naman tinatago siguro di na kelangan magtaguan ng hehe..opinion ko lang..
pero yung bil q and yung wife niya no.1 rule daw nla mag asawa wlng pakealaman ng cp!
bongga db!
kaya bil q free na free mangbabae!
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: MamaNilaJ on July 04, 2009, 02:16:20 pm
Sa amin po,walang usapan na wag mo babasahin messages ng cp ko ha... we just don't read each others messages , respect na lang. Kahit wala naman dapat itago.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ayaNmisha on July 04, 2009, 02:55:19 pm
walang issue samin magpakeelamanan ng cp.. we don't hide anything from each other.  ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: johnjoyce on July 04, 2009, 03:06:10 pm
hindi naman magiging issue yon sa mag asawa kung wala clang tinatago sa isa't isa eh.. ryt?
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: sharkeyes on July 04, 2009, 03:42:09 pm
POV lang.. pagdating ko sa bahay from work binibigay ko sa asawa ko ang cp ko.. hehe.. tapos before ako magerase ng mga msgs pinapabasa ko muna sa kanya.. wala naman ako dapat itago..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: YANCY&SOPHIE'Snanay on July 06, 2009, 02:58:05 pm
hindi naman magiging issue yon sa mag asawa kung wala clang tinatago sa isa't isa eh.. ryt?

there are things you will discover sa CP ni hubby...things that would affect your relationship with each othr as wel as the future of your family.  for me, wives should check their hubbies CP....
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: keih liwanag on July 06, 2009, 03:19:45 pm
same here with most of the mommies, no big deal din samin ni hubby kung nandyan lang ang mga cellphones. we rarely check din naman kase each others' phones. minsan pa pag wala lang magawa. ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: julianciv on July 06, 2009, 10:04:17 pm
sa amin kasi ng honey ko, iisang cp ginagamit namin, sa kanya yung cp sa akin yung hehe ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mommy daryl on July 08, 2009, 10:56:35 am
sa amin naman ni hubby we respect each other's privacy whether it's our email or cellphones.. trust lang talaga sa isa't isa..  ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ann_07 on July 10, 2009, 02:49:15 pm
sa amin ni  hubby free ang checking. he doesnt mind and i dont mind either, taga charge ako ng cp niya :D

i agree... kung walang dapat itago it should be ok if you guys go through each others fone from time to time
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Mariel Arun on July 10, 2009, 06:43:08 pm
hindi naman magiging issue yon sa mag asawa kung wala clang tinatago sa isa't isa eh.. ryt?

i agree with you mommy.

its as simple as passing the remote for tv.

my hubby shows me unusual texts narereceive niya kung meron, just helping out w/ his curiosity.



Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: my_journey4life on July 10, 2009, 06:53:42 pm
sa amin ni  hubby free ang checking. he doesnt mind and i dont mind either, taga charge ako ng cp niya :D

i agree... kung walang dapat itago it should be ok if you guys go through each others fone from time to time

(sis ann_07 same tau ah taga charge ng cp ni partner ko..hehe)pag pa lowbat na pasa na agad sa kin pra charge ko..haayyzz


me i have full access sa mobile ni hubby..minsan ako pa nga inuutosan mgreply sa mga text messages niya..wala na kasing maitatago kaya no prob...
kaya alam ko lahat...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: audrey's daddy on July 10, 2009, 07:39:01 pm
my wife can see/access my mobile phone anytime she wants. my wife even knows the password of mylaptop, as well as passwords of my e-mail, chat and forum accounts. trust and faithfulness lang po...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: soumy01 on July 10, 2009, 07:43:26 pm
my wife can see/access my mobile phone anytime she wants. my wife even knows the password of mylaptop, as well as passwords of my e-mail, chat and forum accounts. trust and faithfulness lang po...

very good husband

very good nga ba?!! hehe ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: minime30 on July 11, 2009, 03:14:39 am
Im guilty of constantly checking my hubbys phone and online accounts. ..my courious mind says it but my heart says i SHOULD trust him.

Gusto ko kasing may malaman sa kanya . .for me to understand him. Pero hindi naman ako gumagawa ng big deal out of it . . i dont ask him about it ..its just for me to know.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: youngmom@20 on July 11, 2009, 04:11:31 am
we can access each others phone.. even nung magbf/gf pa lang kame.. what is important lang naman is you trust each other, ako nagtatanong ako pag may nagtext sa kanya na hindi ko kilala..he even do the same.. :) at least we know kung sino sino nakakausap or nakakatext ng isa't isa diba?
and we believe kase na pag magasawa na kayo, you both can share common things. And on my personal opinion, dapat lang naman talaga na ma-access ng mga wives ang phone ng hubby nila.. ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: akirablade on July 11, 2009, 05:22:54 am
 ;D kung walang pong tinatago, walang kaso kung makita ng wife or hubby yung messages sa cp...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: zyra on July 11, 2009, 07:33:12 am
very good nga yung mga hubby na nag aallow sa mga asawa nila to check their cp's. hay i don't know kung ako ba wlang tiwala kay hubby or sya wlang tiwala sken.. evrytime i wud check his cp, sinasabi niya sken he needs privacy daw. tama ba yun? feeling ko tuloy wala sya tiwala sken.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: gelytayz on July 11, 2009, 08:41:34 am
yes, i believe it's no big deal...and let's not say were checking on their cp's--para naman kaseng meron talagang ginagawang hindi maganda.lol it's like a conjugal property hehe may karapatan both to see and ask di ba whatever it is that ur curious about db d naman siguro masama itanong hus dis n dat. :D.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: okfine on July 11, 2009, 09:08:55 am
my wife can see/access my mobile phone anytime she wants. my wife even knows the password of mylaptop, as well as passwords of my e-mail, chat and forum accounts. trust and faithfulness lang po...

ganyan dimn c hubby!
gnyan kami parehas.
as in lahat.
 ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mommy_mia on July 11, 2009, 10:41:24 am
share ko lang... my hubby doesnt care kung pakialamanan ko phone niya, la naman kc xang dapat itago and ako din sa kanya, gaya ng ibang mommies sexy-tary din ako ni hubby ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mommy_mia on July 11, 2009, 10:42:58 am
oh yeah, we share everything ultimo password ng simcard niya
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: soumy01 on July 11, 2009, 11:00:04 am
if i check his phone it doesn't mean na i don't trust him,
it just a matter of curiosity,
saka minsan kasi may msg pala na para sa akin nakakalimutan niya akong iinform.

 
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: akirablade on July 12, 2009, 11:10:10 am
according to hubby, if your wife can access your  body what more daw yung cp ..lolz  :D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mych on July 12, 2009, 02:32:30 pm
wala kaming issue sa celphone..minsan nga nagpapalit pa kami ng cel kapag aalis siya tapos lowbat siya...celphone ko gamit ni hubby..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: YANCY&SOPHIE'Snanay on July 13, 2009, 07:07:50 am
we should have access to our hubbies' phones and vice versa...

madami akong nalaman na sobrang malaki naging effect sa family namin from my hubby's phone...i have always been transparent sa mga account account ko with hubby pero sya, hindi..yun pala....but then, it's all in the past.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: vivaciousjen on July 13, 2009, 01:06:08 pm
Naku ako kc sobrang paranoid tsaka paki-alamera sa gamit ni hubby. yung mga email add ng asawa ko alam ko na yung mga password kasi pag surf sya nakikita ko pag type niya. yung iba naman hinulaan ko at himala tama. Sa cellphone before medyo ayaw niya pagamit sa akin tsaka laging malinis yung inbox at send items then one time ako nakasagot ng phone kc CR sya ayun girl yung tumawag. ALam nyo may extra curicullar pala sya. Pero I don't know pagbalik niya dito if allowed pa ako to access his phone. Kaya nakakatuwa na may mga daddy na open sa wifes nila to access thier emails and CP's.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ACI_GIRL (^.^,) on July 13, 2009, 01:21:00 pm
access sa phone meron... (kasi unit ko un eh borrow niya lang hehe)
tsaka parang ganito kami... common fone... kasi 2 lang phone namin isang sun isang smart hehe... (tsaka there's something in the past kaya un...)

sa email hindi eh...
pagod na din kasi me ma hurt...
un nga wht u dont know wont hurt u.. pero ano? di ko na ba talaga aalamin?
un pala ng eenjoy na si damuho...  ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: DenzJinx on July 15, 2009, 03:09:32 pm
access sa phone meron... (kasi unit ko un eh borrow niya lang hehe)
tsaka parang ganito kami... common fone... kasi 2 lang phone namin isang sun isang smart hehe... (tsaka there's something in the past kaya un...)

sa email hindi eh...
pagod na din kasi me ma hurt...
un nga wht u dont know wont hurt u.. pero ano? di ko na ba talaga aalamin?
un pala ng eenjoy na si damuho...  ;D

Natawa naman ako dito... the word "DAMUHO" hahaha... I guess majority dito sa topic na to agreed na ok lang yung ganun, but of course with full respect na lang... kahit gawing dyaryo na yung cell phone nating mga daddies... hahaha

PS: paano kaya yung mga daddies na 2 mobile? hmmm.... kasi ako isa lang...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: katdgurl on July 17, 2009, 04:22:32 pm
kung 2 cellphone ni hubby  na di ko alam ay nko! gulo na hehe
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mommy_mia on July 18, 2009, 07:35:09 am
kung 2 cellphone ni hubby  na di ko alam ay nko! gulo na hehe

korek ka jan sis!!! maghahalo ang balat sa tinalupan!!! riot na!!!
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: domeva on July 23, 2009, 12:43:56 am
mine no prob!!!!!!!!!!  i kupit nalang  minsan ng load masipag kc magload si hubby eh! hehe
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: cutie_enzo on July 23, 2009, 02:16:26 am
kami ni hubby, alam namin password of each other's email. ganun din sa cellphone & since nakasave pa mga old messages ko, nabasa na niya rin yun lahat. wala naman kaming tinatago from each other. kaya ok lang naman...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ♥peachy♥ on July 24, 2009, 07:36:17 am
kami always.. everyday checking nan cp.. haha..
d na q madalas gumamit nan cp hubby q nalang.. lhat nan nagtetext alert ako.. lahat nan naka phonebuk sa kanya iniinform niya q kun my bago.. :D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: raqs82 on July 24, 2009, 11:48:42 pm
i have a full accceesss on my hubbys fone... and he doesn't mind it at all, minsan kpag wala akong magawa un tinitignan ko, pero kpag my mga un-open txt msg. hindi ko binasa or kpag sinasabi ko s kanya pinapabasa niya skin and kpag ny twag kpag sinabi niya n sagutin ko dun lang... pero sya walang paki sa fone ko hahaha
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: charm on July 29, 2009, 04:02:51 pm
sa tingin ko naman daddy wala naman siguro masama dun , although alam natin na dapt di ganun na pinapakialaman natin yung mga things ng bawat isa pro as long naman siguro na wala kang tinatago bakit di ka papapayag di ba sa ka kung mei tiwala kayo sa isat isa wala naman ako nakikita na masama dun na basahin o galawin yung cp. kasi kami eversince open kami sa isat isa pag dating ko ng bahay galing office kapag ipinatong ko na yung cp ko sa table kukunin niya na un , den kapag no. lang ang nag register , he asked about that same din naman ako sa kanya , pero di naman ibig sabihin nun na wala kami tiwala sa isat isa , as long na di masira ang isat isa buhay mag asawa sa tingin ko wala naman dapt pang pag usapan ,d po ba????? di naman porke binasa o pinakialaman na natin eh pinag iisipan na natin sial ng masama ,pero na sa inyo parin un kung dapt ba natin i pahiram o i pabasa sa spouse natin yung cp nati............ :) :) :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: SEAMANSWIFEY on July 29, 2009, 04:19:49 pm
pg andito c hubby, kahit my cp ako, isa lang ginagamit namin cp.. cp niya..sya kz mahilig mgload kasi dami niya txtm8s.pg dumadating sya s bhay, kinukuha ko talaga cp niya. hndi sa ngdududa ako.mahilig lang talaga ako mgbsa ng txt.parang komiks. ;Dtska pra kahit hndi sya mgkwn2 s akin, my idea ako kung ano ngyari s araw niya.pg dumating sya n mainit ulo niya, at least i knw d reason why.ok naman c hubby dun.hinahayaan niya lang ako.pg mg asawa siguro kayo, wala n masama kung pkikialaman mo cellphone niya.not a big deal, actualy. ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: dave_ mom on August 08, 2009, 11:45:06 pm
Wala kaming ganyang arrangement ng hubby ko..pero if ever, ayoko din naman nakikialam kami ng fone ng isat isa...Parang kahit we are married na, i think yung privacy kahit sa isang maliit na bagay lang dapat iretain..wala lang, i think dapat may some sort of space pa din..pero kung halimbawang may lamat na...like may ginawang "kahindikhindik" si hubby by means of texting or calling (u know what i mean...)then kailangan yatang mapag usapan ng masinsinan yan....
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: fairytink on August 08, 2009, 11:58:35 pm
well, samin naman - not a big deal din, open kami sa bagay na yan, you can access or not, up to you... walang problema  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: chel_928 on August 09, 2009, 12:01:17 am
yup, ok lang naman un eh, lahat n access namin, SP, ym, email etc  ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: jackiebee on August 09, 2009, 01:08:01 am
i can access his phone, but i'd rather not to. its my way of respecting his privacy. ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mumy-jan on August 18, 2009, 12:34:42 pm

ako kay papa bear I don't read his text msgs anymore, baka may makita lang akong iksasakit ng loob ko.. so kapag may nag-text at ako malapit sa fone niya,  ::) dead ma! I just inform him agad na may nagtext skanya, same with calls.

pero siya, he reads my my inbox kapag may nagtext.. he answers my fone kapag may tawag then ska niya sasabihin sakin kapag nakita na niya..

unfair nuh?!! pero ok lang sakin, I have nothing to hide naman eh!
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: jackiebee on August 19, 2009, 12:37:30 am

ako kay papa bear I don't read his text msgs anymore, baka may makita lang akong iksasakit ng loob ko.. so kapag may nag-text at ako malapit sa fone niya,  ::) dead ma! I just inform him agad na may nagtext skanya, same with calls.

pero siya, he reads my my inbox kapag may nagtext.. he answers my fone kapag may tawag then ska niya sasabihin sakin kapag nakita na niya..

unfair nuh?!! pero ok lang sakin, I have nothing to hide naman eh!

pareho tyo sis
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: freddie on August 19, 2009, 07:32:16 am
newbie here..

im a father of a 3yr old boy

for me.. Yes i let my wife access my mobile phone.. kasi dati yund di ko pinayagan makuha niya phone ko yun pa naging dahilan ng away namin, kaya simula nung ok lang sa akin kuha niya phone ko..

Kung wala ka naman ginagawang masama, Worry-free ka diba..

just my 2 cents..

:)

hi po sa lahat ng parents..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: charmom on August 19, 2009, 07:42:37 am
ako pinapakialaman ko talaga cp ng hubby. as in pati send messages niya binabasa ko...
pati nga incoming/outgoing calls tinitingnan ko...
pero para sa akin walang masama dun kasi asawa ko naman sya eh....
wala namang tinatago sa akin husband ko kc ok naman kami...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: DM on August 22, 2009, 06:57:19 pm
Never! Dapat vice-versa rin.  The trust issue is a factor pero... one should have their own privacy
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: shy (sharlyn) on September 02, 2009, 09:04:59 am
We do not usually access each other's phone..esp. if there's no reason to do such.

Pero, minsan, nakikitext kami sa isa't isa, like lowbatt ako or low batt sya... minsan naman, kapag may nag-text at tinatamad kunin yung phone, minsan "paki-tingnan naman sino nag-text", so in other words, OPEN naman sya... It's okay if we get to see each other's inboxes.  Kapag walang tinatago sa isa't isa, wala naman magiging problema.

I remember one time, naki-text sa kanya yung househelp boy ng kuya ko (katabi namin house nila).. Anyway, may tinext na "pangga"... Tagalog kami pareho ng asawa ko and alam ko na yung houseboy lang ang may ka-pangga kasi bukang bibig niya eh... eh pero, trip ko pa din lokohin si hubby.. kaya sabi ko, "sinong pangga, ha?!?  ikaw, ha!"  And natatawa sya habang defend niya sarili niya, with matching, kahit itanong mo pa dun sa nakitext...  :D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mommy_mia on September 02, 2009, 09:40:38 am
Never! Dapat vice-versa rin.  The trust issue is a factor pero... one should have their own privacy

ask ko lang up to what extent ba ang so-called "privacy" ng mag-asawa?  ??? ???
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: elijah vera on September 02, 2009, 09:58:24 am
yes, minsan nga nagpapalit pa kame ng phone kapag may tumatawag sa akin sya ang nakakasagot pero ok lang yun magasawa naman kame eh....
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: YANCY&SOPHIE'Snanay on September 02, 2009, 12:45:26 pm
ask ko lang up to what extent ba ang so-called "privacy" ng mag-asawa?  ??? ???
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before hindi ko pinakikialam phone ni hubby...the time i did made pakiaalam,  discovered about MONSTER...we got over that painful experience....thing is, had i considered that PRIVACY thing, I wouldn't know about his "activity"...

now, we no longer have that PRIVACY thing...at mas naging close kami sa isa't sa...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: SEAMANSWIFEY on September 02, 2009, 02:31:49 pm
Never! Dapat vice-versa rin.  The trust issue is a factor pero... one should have their own privacy

ask ko lang up to what extent ba ang so-called "privacy" ng mag-asawa?  ??? ???

para sa akin, walang privacy privacy.. i own my husband!  ;D ;D kidding aside, sa mag-asawa siguro hindi na importante ang privacy..pero ang respect, dapat hindi nawawala..

i agree with nanayniyancy, mas maganda ang pagsasama kung feeling mo eh kilalang kilala mo ang partner mo..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: HOTMOM777 on September 02, 2009, 03:08:55 pm
Never! Dapat vice-versa rin.  The trust issue is a factor pero... one should have their own privacy
Personally, hubby & I respect each others privacy.  I give him space he gives me mine.  May be because I grew up independently & it liberated me in many ways.  When it comes to his cellphone, i only get to hold it when he asked me..i read his messages when he asked me too & the same thing with him.  He never scrutinizes me whom i talk to or text too.  We have mutual trust.  One of my principles kasi in case magloko si hubby, di naman ako niloloko niya sarili niya :D Also when he wants to go out with his friends or i want to go out with my friends, we're free to do so..our main concern is what time we'll both get home & if we're both safe okay na. we don't interview each other who's with him or who's with me, etc. 

More so, there are times that he brings me with him when going out with his friends & i do the same.  That's one thing I learned from my dad, that when a guy does that I have nothing to fear or vice-versa. kasi nga naman once kilala niya mga friends ko madami makakakita sa kanya pag nagloko sya, heheh..seriously, that only means you're someone he's proud to introduce to everybody :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: DM on September 03, 2009, 02:50:07 pm
Privacy

I was 27 when I got married.  I have lived 27 years without my wife and I can not imagine living the next 27 without her.  I value my marriage but I also value who I am.

There are things that I do that wish to keep to myself.  I sometimes blog under a pen name.  SHe reads it, and likes it... kahit na di niya alam na ako yun...

Sharing everything with each other deletes your being a person.  There will come a time when you know too much of each other that you will tire and bore.  Naysayers may see things otherwise but this is my opinion.  If it works for you, then good. 

Again, there are things I wish to keep to myself.   Let your spouses keep a little of themselves.  I want my own space... so does she.

We're happy.  We do not "access" each other's phone.   
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: shy (sharlyn) on October 09, 2009, 10:35:35 am
Privacy

I was 27 when I got married.  I have lived 27 years without my wife and I can not imagine living the next 27 without her.  I value my marriage but I also value who I am.

There are things that I do that wish to keep to myself.  I sometimes blog under a pen name.  SHe reads it, and likes it. 

Sharing everything with each other deletes your being a person.  There will come a time when you know too much of each other that you will tire and bore.  Naysayers may see things otherwise but this is my opinion.  If it works for you, then good. 

Again, there are things I wish to keep to myself.   Let your spouses keep a little of themselves.  I want my own space... so does she.

We're happy.  We do not "access" each other's phone.

Exactly.
Kami din, agree kami ni hubby dito.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: jvcav08 on October 09, 2009, 09:06:16 pm
kami din ni hubby di nangengealam ng phone..ewan ko siguro dahil foreigner si hubby nasa culture nila un..
mas masarap me privacy...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: daddy-yo on March 15, 2010, 02:25:51 pm
in our case oo, i think it's ok if you're not hiding anything.

Daddies,

Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone???? how often? saka ok lang ba na meron silang full access sa personal mobile natin?

For your comments...

Mommies,

Please fell free to comment as well..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: chubyswife on March 15, 2010, 02:47:08 pm
kami ni hubby hiraman ng phone, he let me read his phone messages ganun din sakin.. :) and wala naman conflict  :)  in fact binabasahan pa nga niya ako ng mga messages niya eh :)

(PRIVACY?) :-\ dont know kung meron kami nyan ni hubby... wala siguro...  pero wala man kami nyan (privacy) but the respect of each other is still there yan ang di pwedeng mawala sa mag asawa o sa kahit na sino man. ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Prometheus on April 12, 2010, 07:33:21 pm
My wife and I also allow each other access to our phones. This was particularly true when we first got married. More often than not she'd ask to see my phone and I didn't mind so as to dispel any doubt she might have. Now its a non issue for us.

I do agree that privacy and alone time is important for each spouse but not at the cost of clouding any trust issues between a man and his wife. Such issues can eat away at wedded bliss.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Nuna on April 13, 2010, 11:13:25 am
dati ako pakialamera talaga sa celfon ni hubby, nung bf ko pa lang sya ha. babaero kasi yon dati! pero nagbago na asawa ko kaya nagbago na din ako! wala naman na kalokohan kaya hindi ko na din  hinuhuli. haha!
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: syndyela on May 25, 2010, 09:20:29 pm
Elow!

My husband and I are married for more than a year na.  Nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami, I already have access sa mobile phone niya and emails niya and other social networks like facebook / friendster...actually siya pa nga nagshare sakin nung passwords niya.  Pero kahit may access ako sa mga yon, paminsan ko lang sila open (siguro once in a week lang).  Actually ayaw ko nga masyado basahin mga text / email messages niya kasi alam ko na selosa akong girl...and nangyari na before sa 1st bf ko na nabadtrip siya sakin (and eventually iniwan ako) kasi obrang selosa ako sa mga ka-text / chat / email niya.  So para hindi maulit un, sobrang rare ko lang binubuksan yung sa account and cellphone ng hubby ko.

But that was nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami.  Ngayung mag-asawa na kami, everyday ko na binabasa messages sa cellphone niya (hehe).  And lagi ko rin ino-open facebook niya (ako aksi naglalaro ng mga applications niya dun).  Yung yahoo email niya, hindi ko na masyado open kasi wala naman akong mababasa dun kasi office email niya yung ginagamit niya and sa office lang niya yun accessible.


Wala naman cyang reklamo pag ino-open ko cellphone or yahoo or facebook niya, kasi wala naman siyang tinatago.  Magtataka ako pag bigla niya akong bawalan ipa-open yung mga yun. Hehe :D

Well, in return, may freedom din naman siya to open my phone or email/facebook accounts ko.  Hindi lang niya ginagawa (either dahil tinatamad siya or hindi lang niya ginagawa sa harapan ko, hehe)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: insensitive on June 18, 2010, 11:08:23 am
guilty ako dito hehe.

Binabasa ko inbox ni hubby and sent items hahaha.May tiwala ako syempre pero tsismosa lang talaga ako.More on barkada,pinsan or sisters at ako lang naman katxt niya pero kasi d sya makuwento.sa txt ko lang nalalaman "ay may ganito palang issue".

And sa CP ko naman minsan nakikibasa sya pag may txt minsan sya unang ngbabasa pero Walang issue sa amin un.ngtatawanan pa kami "hoy akin yan" tas pg tinatamad ako sabihin ko "replyan mu ng ganito"

ayun..so far naman hindi kami nagaaway dahil lang sa mga ganyan.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Mimi Eileen ♥ on July 09, 2010, 11:43:43 am
Nakakatawa naman to. Ako din pakealamera. Madalas ko din paki-alaman ang cp ni hubby. Malinis din ang sent items at inbox(puro messages ko lang sa kanya  :P ). Pero sadya akong ipinanganak na ganun. sorry sya nakalimutan nyang burahin sa "message log" list. Makita ko dami pala niya tinext nung araw na yun. I just don't get the hehe..mga daddy ano ba sa tingin nyo dun? Me itinatago ba si hubby?
 
Tapos sya naman, he can also access my phone. So what ala naman ako tinatago.Pero hindi sya nakiki-alam kung sino-sino ang mga ka-text ko. For me kasi, masarap din sa feeling na lagi ka tinatanong-atleast you know na "he cares what you do" , "he wants to know every single detail about you". Tama ba ako mga mommies? ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: BrandonVera on July 09, 2010, 11:50:01 am
Daddies,

Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone???? how often? saka ok lang ba na meron silang full access sa personal mobile natin?

For your comments...

Mommies,

Please fell free to comment as well..


Yeah my does. I mean kahit pagbawalan ko pa sya gagawin at gagawin niya. haha I love you Mommy.

I think lalo lang syang magdududa if you refused her to look into your mobile..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: kheysi19 on July 09, 2010, 12:33:38 pm
bakit ako, he allows me to hold his phone. hanggang doon lang. pano ko mababasa e may pincode.

Daddies, ano ba pwede maging reason nilalagyan nyo ng pincode ang cel phone nyo? Tiwala naman ako sa asawa ko, i dont smell something fishy naman. but i cant help wondering bakit kylangan ng code.
sa asawa ko mga mommies my pin code din ang cellphone niya pero alam ko naman kung ano un code, open din kami sa mga cellphones and email sa lahat pati nga sa fb and fs hehe... basta open kami sa lahat pwera lang po sa personal wallet... d naman po tama pati waller uriratin diba?? un lang po
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: FrankosMom on July 09, 2010, 02:30:42 pm
we dont have issues with phone, nakakalat lang mobiles namin sa hauz so whenever it rings or meron message, ssbhin lang nung 1, u have a call/msg, should i answer/read?

pero we have this incident, i know kasi his email pw, i acessed his YM one time and aba may kachat na stranger, hahaha! and a girl!!!
the conversation went like, my husband has a son not married and he is going to visit him on his binyag. so INAWAY ko that time! he flew from Shanghai to manila the next day to explain and apologize. bored lang daw, walang meaning and walang magawa. now he understand na mali un gnwa niya to deny us and flirt with strangers.

so i guess on my POV, dpt paminsan minsan u spy on your partner.. hahaha




Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mybhie06 on July 09, 2010, 02:36:21 pm
Kami ni hubby full access sa lahat, cellphone, facebook, friendster, emails. Pati pin code or lock code ni hubby alam ko din. Actually, wala naman problem kay hubby na pakialaman yung phone niya..kaso selosa kase ako, nung mag bf/gf pa lang kami masyado akong matanong. Kung sino yung nasa phonebook niya, kung sino yung nagtext..haha! Kaya ayun medyo nainis din si hubby wag ko na daw tingnan! ::) At well, nahuli ko din sya nakikipagtext sa ibang babae dahil sa pagtingin sa phone niya! So you know, I strongly agree sa what you don't know won't hurt you. Lalo ako, I can always forgive pero I can't forget. Kaya naiinis din si hubby kase nga I always brought up yung nangyari na yun. :-\  Pero ngayon na kasal na kami, I rarely look na sa phone niya. Wala lang, parang I'd rather not check na lang para di niya na ko masabihan na wala akong trust sa kanya. Mahirap din kaseng maparanoid kaya tama na. Pinahihirapan ko lang sarili ko eh..hehe..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: MissPychi on July 09, 2010, 02:45:59 pm
I used to have access to his mobile phone (business line), but a year after he was assigned to Cebu, I found out na nilagyan na niya ng PIN Code yung cellphone niya.  When I asked him about it, he said it was for protection, kapag ginalaw ng mga bata. But then, when I ask for his password, he won't even give it to me...

We have never had issues before about this nor any trust issues.

So, daddies (or even mommies) out there, any comments sa ginawa ni hubby ko?
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: momi_chesca kikay on August 17, 2010, 12:30:05 am
Yung cp/fb/fs/personal e-add niya alam ko, ska free ako iaccess yun anytime ;D super selosa rin kasi ako. Lahat chihecheck ko..hehe ;D pero when it comes to my cp, medyo madamot ako...it`s not because i`m doing something bad pero mostly, puro personal msgs. kc andun from my parents, sis and cousins kaya nilagyan ko ng PIN un cp ko. Unfair db?!? pero ok lang naman s kanya...good thing mbait future husband q.. ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mommy ni lijah on August 21, 2010, 12:24:36 am
Yung cp/fb/fs/personal e-add niya alam ko, ska free ako iaccess yun anytime ;D super selosa rin kasi ako. Lahat chihecheck ko..hehe ;D pero when it comes to my cp, medyo madamot ako...it`s not because i`m doing something bad pero mostly, puro personal msgs. kc andun from my parents, sis and cousins kaya nilagyan ko ng PIN un cp ko. Unfair db?!? pero ok lang naman s kanya...good thing mbait future husband q.. ;D

same pala tayo sis.. hehe minsan inuunahan ko syang magbukas ng mail fb niya. hehe
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Grimlock on August 22, 2010, 04:41:53 pm
oo naman lahat pati net accounts ko, wala naman ako itinatago :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: reynjoyce on August 31, 2010, 06:56:12 pm
[quote author=MissPychi link=topic=7344.msg247241#msg247241 date=1278657959]
I used to have access to his mobile phone (business line), but a year after he was assigned to Cebu, I found out na nilagyan na niya ng PIN Code yung cellphone niya.  When I asked him about it, he said it was for protection, kapag ginalaw ng mga bata. But then, when I ask for his password, he won't even give it to me...

We have never had issues before about this nor any trust issues.

So, daddies (or even mommies) out there, any comments sa ginawa ni hubby ko?

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hi sis,

how's u and ur hubby na? well based on ur story for me it's very unusual for a couple to keep a secret esp sa mga password/user name.kasi actually sobrang simpleng bagay pa lang yun what more kung mga investment na pala like house and lot contract etc.

you have to talk to him and explainwhy he doesn't want to give you the pin # . and tell him dorectly na baka may other woman sya kaya ayaw niya bigay pin # ny phone niya. hope maging ok na uli kayo. goodluck ss!
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Tian on September 01, 2010, 02:26:55 pm
very open kami ng wife ko so nothing to hide. alam namin almost lahat sa isa't isa, from FB, email accounts, cellphones, pin codes, passowords, even wallets and other personal stuff. we're very transparent sa mga ginagawa namin. we talk about anything under the sun. basta we share sa lahat ng bagay.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: yhamsloveŽ on September 01, 2010, 04:42:35 pm
^Sir Tian... you're the man!!

Welcome to SP!! Sabi ko na nga ba, marami pa rin ang mga mababait na lalake sa mundo!

We would really love to hear a lot from a man's point of view.  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Mommy France on September 01, 2010, 05:19:38 pm
My husband gives me access sa phone niya. Ako rin naman ganun.

Pero sa computer ayaw niya ibigay yung access. At alam ko kung bakit. hehe... Yung passwords sa email di din namen alam kahit sa facebook. We just want to keep it that way. May sense of privacy. I'm sure if he feels I need to know, he'd tell me. kasi ganun din ako sa kanya. Mabuti na alng pareho kame ng point of view pagdating sa topic na to.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: maiaurmatam on September 01, 2010, 05:34:06 pm
My hubby and I have access to each other's phone. Minsan we ask each other to check on our phone specially if we're busy doing something else. Hindi rin ako masyado mahilig mag-delete ng messages so sometimes I ask his help in cleaning up the Inbox. Ganun din sa computer, email, facebook, etc. We know each other's passwords. I don't know if that's healthy or not. But so far it is in our case.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: momofrainchira on September 01, 2010, 05:51:47 pm
may i sabat sa usapan na eto hehe...
kami ni hubby very open,walang usapang na walang pakialaman wala ring usapan na pakialamanan ang kung ano naman,basta nag ring ang fon sagot kung cnu man ang malapit,somtyms iwan niya pa ang cp niya skin...sexytary rin niya ko fb fs etc kahit cnu samin ang mag open lalo na email ads namin kung cnu unang magbukas ng pc.
i believe kasi and i think we both believe na once we get married wala n yung privcy o personal privacy na yan eh kasi your one na...iisang tao nalang kayo pag nasa kyo sa iisang bubong ang pangit naman kung may tinatago pa kayo sa isat isa,siguro surprises treat pedeng isecret kasi nga surprice pero personal?...parang wala ng ganun sa mag asawa...(my opinion ha)
kapag pinag bawalan niya nko naku mag dududa talaga nun...3rd party man o any kind of trouble dapat alam ko,ofcors to help na rin to solve the issue if there is,kasi pag lumaki or lumala ang gulo hindi lang naman kami dalawa ang mag susuffer nun pati mga anak namin...

may exfrends kami na wife and hubby as in walang pkialamanan sa cp nila even wallets,unfortuantely yung kids nila ciempre bata wallet ni daddy pinakialamanan ayun nahulog yung mga discount cards sa motel,ayun buko ni mrs niya...so dun na chineck na ni mrs yung fon at huli c hubby niya puro sex vid eeewww...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: iheartnoodles! on September 01, 2010, 08:46:36 pm
we have access to each others phone and FB accounts... pero we don't check that much talaga lalo na sa FB, because we have nothing to hide from each other naman, and we trust each other...

sa phone mahigpit si fiance ko.. hehe... pero okay lang, wala naman siyang nahahanap na incriminating eh.. ako rin naman wala nahahanap sa kanya...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ❤Xian&Mam ❤ on September 03, 2010, 08:58:23 pm
di naman issue samin yun,
lahat naman pwede namin
buksan o pkialaman
anytime namin gusto :)
...haaayy...buti nalang, ;D
kc TAMANG-HINALA pa naman ako...hyahahaha ;D

Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: loneylou on December 23, 2010, 02:56:59 pm
naku pag di mo ma access alin man dun ibig sabihin may tinatago sya. kami naman ni hubby okay lang din naman. ako naman minsan ko lang tinitingnan ang mobile phone niya. pag lang natripan ko o naalala ko at nakita ko lang wala titingnan ko  lang kung sino tumawag nagtxt.. minsan kasi nagttxt ang mga kapatid ko di niya nasasabi sa akin o kaya naman may mga important na dapat gawin nakakalimutan niya kaya ko check para mapaalala sa kanya... pag may call sya at nanjan naman sya sa malapit sya sumasagot pero pag la sya ako nasagot ng mga tawag sa kanya...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: pretty_girl on February 04, 2011, 12:20:43 pm
full access sa lahat :) haha :) di pedeng hindi . hehe.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: misyelicious on March 06, 2011, 07:45:30 pm
hehe..me too..kahit sa fb niya alam ko password!  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: bachyds mom on March 06, 2011, 08:54:45 pm
sa amin din ni hubby, we have full access sa mga accounts and cellphones namin...

better na ganon basta di lang naabuso
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: ryuu on March 09, 2011, 11:44:22 am
yep.. may access kami pareho sa cp namin.. :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: amosias on March 12, 2011, 09:16:49 am
yes and no!

She can look through it, and use it to send messages from time to time for me -- but she can't change the configurations, change the apps (Android phone), or otherwise interfere with the personal tools / planner / calendar stuff that I use it for.

Of course, my son has full access sa phone ko -- forcing me to figure out what has changed after I give it to him.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: simplyme28 on March 17, 2011, 02:54:05 pm
yes.. we both have access sa phone namen... kung wala ka naman tinatago theres no reason para d nyo maaccess yung phone ng isat isa.. d ba?
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: jhoicee_01 on March 17, 2011, 07:08:49 pm
full access in everything. :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: iecubita on March 23, 2011, 03:22:40 pm

hi everyone!  :)

kikisali lang po.i'm new here and really got interested with the topics dito sa forum.

as for me.dapat lang talaga we have access sa phone ni hubby. it's not that I don't trust him, but may lamat na kc eh. imagine kung hindi ko surprise na pinakialaman yung fon niya noon during bf ko palang sya hindi ko malalaman na may anak na pla siya (but they are not married with the bbs mom)..hindi lang yan when we are married na dami ko parin nadiscover na hindi maganda and it really hurts me :(..noon patago lang kasi ako kung makialam sa fon niya (para isipin niya na hindi ako nakikilalam sa gamit hehe)..I confronted him and he is sorry naman daw and hindi na niya uulitin. infairness din naman i can feel his sincerity..as of now, he let me use his cp..pro paminsan-minsan ngrereklamo kc daw may cp naman ako bakit hindi yun ang gamitin ko..sabi ko naman sa kanya " wala akong load,load mo kaya ako" ayaw niya hehe :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: miekee_18 on April 02, 2011, 06:04:35 am
Full access...bakit hindi..bakit kailangan ilihim pa ang mga passwords or anything kung walang dapat itago diba.. saka sa lahat ng bagay dapat open na sa mag asawa.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: yangyang08 on April 24, 2011, 06:20:01 pm
Tama!Bakit kailangang itago kung wala naman dapat itago?Tsaka as partners dapat open kayo sa isat isa..Kami what we're doing is like halimbawa may nagtext,iaabot ko yung celfone niya sa kanya poz sya magbabasa ng message then tatanungin ko sya kung sino yun,poz ipapabasa niya saken.Saken din ganun pag may nagtext,inaabot niya yung fone ko saken then magtatanong lang sya kung sino yun.Para hindi naman parang masyadong invader ang labas ng bawat isa.Pero yung mga passwords alam din ng bawat isa..ganun kami!Pati chismis sa kapitbahay sabihan din kami haha! ;D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: simplyme28 on April 25, 2011, 03:51:46 pm
ako may access sa lahat.. FB, fone, email etc.. pero d ko sya friends sa FB.. hahaha.. kasi nagaway kami before and i deleted him sa friend's list ko.. until now d ko pa rin naadd though ok na kami ulit ni hubby.. hehe..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: rheign on April 25, 2011, 04:00:12 pm
we both have full access... we also have the same passwords sa mga accounts namin...hehe!  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Mommy_Aubs on May 30, 2011, 06:13:06 pm

full access.  :) ako pa ang operator ng phone niya. he lets me to answer calls and text messages.
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Post by: mommy honamie on May 30, 2011, 06:33:48 pm
d lang full access VIP access pa! ;D
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Post by: beb ♥ on June 06, 2011, 01:27:50 pm
executive sec namin ang isa't isa hehe :D
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: techno_green on June 15, 2011, 05:29:15 pm
im a dad, yes i give my wifey full access sa phone ko, personal cphone and company given cphone..yun nga lang she must not change the settings on my phone..she can call or text someone if she used up all her load..ayaw niya kase mag line. pati my toddler girl always requesting to view her videos on the phone. yun nga lang minsan naka email sya to all recipient ng company email ko. from that experience monitor ko na access ng toddler ko.  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: cheena on July 04, 2011, 02:28:43 pm
nung bf/gf open kami, we even swap phone pag uwi after the date, after the marriage ganun pa din, even lahat ng email and fb acount alam ko password, open pa din, pero recently, early this year nakita ko sa wallet my other sim and nung ilagay ko sa fon ko 1 no. lang nkasave, no. ng other girl niya... since then nilagyan ng ng passcode ang phone, at first alam ko pa passcode, napansin yata na alam ko binago niya. anyway alam ko na naman na may babae sya kaya hindi ko na pinapakialamanan fon niya. maiinis lang ako. sya naman walang pakialam sa phone ko. ako lang mapakialam eh pero hindi ako nagsisisi at least nalaman ko na niloloko na pala ko. ngayon hanggang cr dala yung fon, kunwari magpapatugtug habang naliligo...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: SunlifeAdvisor on August 18, 2011, 03:55:51 am
walang dapat itago, kung walang dapat itago..

walang dapat ilagay na pin code kung wala naman dapat itago.

anytime pwede i access ni misis ang phone ko, pwede niya rin basahin lahat ng messages since wala naman dapat itago...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mamacharis on August 18, 2011, 03:24:50 pm
agree ako sa sinabi ni SunlifeAdvisor. walang dapat itago kung walang itatago. sa case naman namin pwede ko pakialamanan yung cp at basahin lahat ng gusto kong basahin nakakatulong pa nga sa kanya ang ginagawa ko kasi before siya umalis nasasabi ko yung mga dapat nyang gawin kasi nabasa ko sa text yung mga conversation nila . o diba? kaya sabi ko sa kanya wag siya makikialam pag hawak ko cp niya. hehe
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Bry♥Shey on September 13, 2011, 12:21:28 am
yup. wala namang problema sakin if my wife checks my phone. wala naman dapat itago e. besides minsan may nababasa siya sa inbox na nakakaligtaan kong gawin like sending details sa aking clients. kaya ok rin.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: cheena on September 13, 2011, 07:51:29 am
hayy buti pa kayo mga daddy open ang cp nyo sa mga misis nyo, before pa kasi magkaron ng other girl si hubby sinabihan na niya ko na bigyan ko naman daw sya ng privacy, yung mga fb, email account daw bka pwede wag ko iopen pati cp niya wag ko naman daw basahin mga messages, don't know bakit ayaw niya eh kung wala naman dapat itago diba...

hindi na niya dinadala sa cr cp niya, sinabi na din niya passocde pero di ko na pinapakialamanan, feeling ko kasi malulungkot lang ako pagmagbasa pa ko ng mga messages niya and i know naman na wala naman na sya text messages dun sa ibang tao aside from me, meron kasi sya new phone line na iniiwan niya sa office pag uuwi sya, yun ang ginagamit niya pantxt sa iba, madiskarte diba. hehe
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Shey♥Bry on September 13, 2011, 01:33:48 pm
Hello po sa mga daddy and mommies here :)


Samin naman po ng Hubby ko, he allows me to access lahat, emails,fone,facebook,cameras.. Wala naman pong problem sa hubby ko na minsan tinitignan ko fone niya. Alam ko nga passwords niya sa emails and other networking sites.. pero hindi po ako mahilig mag bukas ng email at FB niya, privacy na din po kasi niya yun. Pag naka bukas naman ang email at FB niya, wala naman akong nakikitang ibang messages aside sa mga nag papa send sa kanya ng mga info, clients na nag tatanong, ganun lang po. Same lang din ako sa kanya, alam niya lahat ng passwords at emails ko.

Everytime na may mag te-text sa kanya, sinasabi niya sakin kung sino.. Like kung client ba yun, relative, friend or stalker niya. hehe. (Yeah! may stalker ang hubby ko) minsan tawag ng tawag sa kanya yung stalker niya, pinasagot niya sakin yung phone niya, sabi niya para di na daw tatawag ulet, kasi naiinis daw siya pag may tatawag tapos hindi magsasalita, eh usually pag may tumatawag sa kanya na hindi naka register ang number, he assumes na Client ang tumatawag kaya need sagutin, kasi yung number ng hubby ko eh masyado naka publicized , since we both engaged into Real Estate, so naka advertised talaga mga numbers namin...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: unknown on September 13, 2011, 02:47:15 pm
sa akin naman accessed ko naman lahat cellphone, fb, yahoo mail. pero dati nagkaroon na rin kami ng issue dito.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: CIB on September 13, 2011, 03:05:29 pm
Wala naman kaming naging issue dito. Fb, email accounts lahat pareho namin alam password. Isa lang naman kasi password namin pareho sa lahat  ;D  para wala ring hassle sa pag-alala. Never naging issue ang access sa phone namin pareho kahit sa mga gadget niya.

Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: cheena on September 13, 2011, 05:09:02 pm
waaahh, i remember pati pala atm password niya iniba niya, pati yung online banking niya pinaclose niya para di ko ma access salary niya if how much.. hmmmpp   >:(
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: honeybabyme on September 19, 2011, 06:31:38 pm
Hi to all!!

In our case super open din! as in lahat, fb,multiply, email accounts, cellphones, bank account pin ano pa ba?Basta lahat ng may security/PIN alam ko lahat and vice vera po. Kasi diba a husband and wife, we are one. Sa mata ng Dyos at tao... Di rin naman ako masyadong palatingin ng phone niya, pag naisipan lang.

Pati salary niya lam ko rin, kasi pati pay slip binibigay niya sakin (together with the salary).

TAMA, pag walang tinatago di dapat issue ang ganito lalo na a mag asawa (personal opinion) ;) ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: MommyMichell on October 23, 2011, 10:16:50 pm
sa amin ni mister open din sa lahat, alam namin password ng isa't isa mula sa fb hanggang atm, sa phone niya naman di ko pinapakialaman, kahit nagri-ring at di available si mister para sagutin (like naliligo) pinapabayaan ko lang, di ko sinasagot, sa phone ko naman ok lang din kung tignan niya pero di rin naman niya gano pinapansin, kanya-kanyang space pero alam namin na pwede namin check anytime kung gusto namin  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: clytie_27 on November 08, 2011, 07:47:57 am
Hi!!

Lesson learned.. hehe though I have an access with his mobile, I chose not to access it po and read the messages kasi..

Sure naman ako na may mga number pa ng ex's at messages din na makakasakit sakin ng sadya o hindi. kaya the less i know the less it will hurt.. besides, kukunsumihin ko lang ang sarili ko sa selos if ever.. heheeh... same goes with any social networking websites and email ala akong access at hindi na kami friends nga para wala akong mabasang masakit..

Kung lolokohin niya ko or what konsensya na niya un.

Kakatuwa sa gnung set-up namin, parang mas takot pa tuloy siya sakin hihi...
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: peppergurl971 on November 08, 2011, 09:48:49 am
@ mommy cheena  - kaloka naman sis yang asawa mo. Natawa naman ako dun sa pati sa CR dala ang celphone at kunwari magpapatugtog. Parang bedspacer lang sya dyan sa inyo, walang tiwala sa mga kasama. hehe!

ako naman, ayoko basahin ang text messages sa cp niya. yan ang greatest fear ko. alam ko merong itinatago ang asawa ko sakin, takot lang ako i-confirm.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: kweykerz on November 08, 2011, 10:52:37 am
wala kaming issue ni hubby sa ganito.. kahit nung magbf gf palang kami.. nagpapalitan na kami ng phone.. kasi wala naman kaming tinatago sa isat-isa. Ganon kami katiwala sa isat isa..  ;D
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Post by: cheena on November 09, 2011, 05:26:26 pm
kaloka tlaga sis, pero ngayon kalat kalat nlang phone niya, nahihiram ko na rin if i want to play,  ewan lang yung phone na nsa ofc. kung ano meron dun. hehe  ;)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mayshiem on December 15, 2011, 02:51:48 pm
sabi ni hubby, when we got married, we are considered as ONE na, so wala na yung privacy thing but we can a have privacy together. heheh. so yes i can access his phone, email, atm, online banking, fb etc ako pa nga gumagawa ng accounts niya.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: rodcielle_07 on February 18, 2012, 10:22:34 am
nalungkot naman ako nung nabasa ko yung title ng topic..

ako still confused if ano ba talaga dapat? kasi nga di ba when you are married you and your partner become ONE. nasa Bible naman yun. But I don't know about the privacy thing sa marriage.. if dapat ba talaga o hindi.. if ako tatanungin personally gusto ko talaga yung open sa lahat ng bagay..  i dont' care about my privacy kasi wala naman akong dapat itago or gagawing masama. but my hubby is  against of it. ang totoo madami nang beses namin napagawayan  ang bagay na yan. minsan nga naiisip ko  nagkamali ba talaga ako  na pakasalan ko ang taong ito? kasi we have so many differences. kumbag we are not compatible. kaso mahal ko talaga eh... 1st BF ko kasi.. hanggang sa naging asawa ko na nga.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mamacharis on February 20, 2012, 02:26:03 am
sa totoo lang pag sinasabi na dapat may privacy parang naalala ko yung i invoke my right against self incrimination. yung tipong nabibitin ka.. iisipin mo na lang bakit kelangan nyan kung wala naman dapat itago diba? naiintindihan ko na dapat may privacy pero sa panahon ngayon na isa sa pinag uugatan ang mobile phone  ng infidelity etc naku! hay di ko na alam sasabihin ko. minsan kasi nabubuking sa cellphone ang isang tao kung may ginagawang kalokohan eh. 


kung ako  hayaan  na nila siya tignan ang phone  para naman magkaron ng peace of mind ang partner o asawa nila.

Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Mommy France on February 20, 2012, 08:39:21 am
True. Kung walang itinatago I don't think na magkakaroon ng issue.
My husband has  a password sa phone niya pero that is because Miggy learned how to unlock his phone. And nawalan na siya ng apps one time. Pero i know what his password is.

My husband is never nosy about who I text. Magtatanong lang siya kapag natawa ako while texting or kapag naririnig niya yung kausap ko and he'd like to understand what I'm saying.

Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: rodcielle_07 on February 20, 2012, 09:38:26 am
uu nga eh tama kayo dyan.. kalimitan naman kasi na gumagawa ng kalokohan thru mobile eh mga lalaksot eh..  ewan ko ba.. tsaka naiinis ako sa mga haliparot na babae na alam na ngang may asawa eh itetext pa at makikipagtextmate pa.. may shortage na ba ng lalaki nagyon?? (ranting lang hehe)

nwei, noon yun.. pero ngayon eh dahil nga ilang beses na naming napagawayan yun eh ok na naman now.. pakalat kalat na lang fone ni hubby.. kasi talagang sinabihan ko sya ng mga dapat at hindi dapat.. kasi magasawa na nga kami..
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: DadyPoko on February 20, 2012, 10:35:19 am
attention mga papa's and daddy's..

sagot naman tayo dyan.. hehe nadodominate tayo dito sa section natin.  ;D

Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: rodcielle_07 on February 20, 2012, 03:04:51 pm
daddyPoKp: haha natulog na ata eh..

just want to ask though OFFTOPIC: sadya bang madali kayong matukso or mafall sa temptation??
sabagay kung si Father ADAN nga eh natukso ni Mother EBA hehe.. :)) nature nyo na talaga siguro :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Mommy France on February 20, 2012, 03:19:53 pm
attention mga papa's and daddy's..

sagot naman tayo dyan.. hehe nadodominate tayo dito sa section natin.  ;D


Sumagot ka na kasi DaddyPoko. Wala naman kasi masyadong male dito sa SP kaya wala rin makakarinig maciado ng "call" mo.

Why not share your insights sa Daddy Threads?
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: DadyPoko on February 21, 2012, 04:54:21 am
@rodcielle_07, gutom naman kasi si adan nun ng inalok ni eba. pero kung busog siguro si adan.. tatangihan niya yun. kaya bago lumabas ng bahay si mister, make sure busog. ;) . kidding aside.. pero sa panahon ngayon mas madami na ang madaling matukso..

@Mommy France, back to topic. yes may access yung wife ko sa cellphone ko pero bihira naman siya mag inbox / contact checking.  maybe siguro new pa lang relationship namin.  pero I remember yung previous relationship ko eh itong madalas na cellphone ang lagi namin pinagaawayan. lagi ko siya hinahamon mag sim swap pag feel ko nagdududa sya sa akin.. pero one time may nakita syang interesting girl name sa phonebook ng cellphone ko..kinuha niya at tinawagan niya ng hindi ko alam using her cellphone. nabalitaan ko na lang dun sa girl via YM na tinawagan sya.. alam ko napahiya yng EX ko dahil hindi niya ako kinonfront. hindi ko din sya pinagsabihan para wala ng bangayan.  :)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: briella on February 21, 2012, 05:51:57 am
An access to mobile phones means you are not hiding anything and it also strengthens the trust between husband and wives.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: momma_33 on February 21, 2012, 08:40:15 am
Im sorry pero nkakainis basahin ang title ng thread na to. Imagine, somebody questioned if we " the wives" should have an access to the mobile phoes of our hubby's. The answer should be OF COURSE! I think this is not a question to be asked, first and foremost, if you are not hiding anything to your wife then why hinder her to have an access to your phone? 
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Post by: cheena on February 21, 2012, 02:48:46 pm
tama momma_33.  :(
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: drrubencflores on April 24, 2012, 11:51:32 pm
bakit ako, he allows me to hold his phone. hanggang doon lang. pano ko mababasa e may pincode.

Daddies, ano ba pwede maging reason nilalagyan nyo ng pincode ang cel phone nyo? Tiwala naman ako sa asawa ko, i dont smell something fishy naman. but i cant help wondering bakit kylangan ng code.

papost lang mommies!

when my wife was still alive, i also had a security code sa phone ko. the purpose is to protect my phone from other people especially from the invasion of private matters. but my wife knew the code naman so she was able to open it naman before, whenever she wanted to. depende naman kasi yun sa lalaki e. kahit ba hindi mag-pin code o security code yan. kahit ba ipakita pa niya sa inyo ang phone niya the whole day, if gusto niyang magloko, magloloko siya. According to a saying, kung gusto may paraan. hahaha!  8)
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: mich_tatsdwayne on April 25, 2012, 06:05:16 pm
I have access sa mobile phone ni hubby, and vice versa. In fact pareho kami ng password. For me wala namang masama doon. It only means na may tiwala kayo sa isa't isa.
Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: shey25 on June 14, 2012, 05:19:39 pm
May full access ako sa phone ni hubby kase sometimes nagpapalit kame ng phone. Mas madalas pa nga na sya unang nakakabasa ng text intended for me kase since nung maging mag-asawa kame madalang na ko magtext (except importante and may kinalaman sa work). Pag nasa kanya yung phone ko pinoforward ko yung message pag importante then yung iba I just tell him pag nagkita na kame sa bahay and vise versa.

La naman dapat itago sa isa't isa since mag-asawa kayo db? :)

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Title: Re: Do you let your wife have access to your mobile phone????
Post by: Ingly20 on July 15, 2014, 08:35:27 pm
DH never lets me browse his phone. I never thought this can be different...