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@ea_brea
thank you sis, infairness kay hubby kinu-consider naman niya decision ko, naka-hold ang wish  ;) . ewan ko b sis si SIL nahihiya makisama sa in-laws niya pero di siya nahihiya sa akin  ::)

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hay Mommies,

just want to share more about this issue, na friday the 13th ako ang aga about sa wish ni hipag na cash support in completion of their dream house, to the limit nanaman and blood pressure ko kanina. I told myself madamot lang ba talaga ako who who who. I know its a necessity to have house para sa isang pamilya pero di ba dapat problema nila yun.

Sabi nila maliit lang naman daw 20k lang naman ang hinihiram, maryosep! 10 hrs/ 6days a week ko pinaghihilahudan dito para kumita , once a month akong lumalakad sa 1.3 km na 22 meters below the ground n tunnel para kitahin ko kung ano mang sinusuweldo ko ngaun. nginig tuhod ng 2 araw tuwing nagtratracking ako ng mrt project dito.

I told my hubby bakit tayo nagsasakripisyo andito na malayo sa anak natin para ifund ang future ng anak natin at hindi ifund ang kaginhawahan ng iba.

sabi ko sa asawa ko bakit di niya (sister niya) magtry lumabas ng bansa kahit atleast 2 years para makumpleto bahay nila, di daw kaya iwanan mga anak. Anak ng pusa di kaya kami n lang magsakripisyo para mautangan nila, utang n ilista mo sa hangin.

minsan sarap na lang umuwi at mag stay sa comfort zone tulad nila.

pacensya uli wala masabihan e.

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Kaya lang Mommyjazz I feel unfair kasi, ako eto nasa ibang bansa malayo sa anak ko, wala pa nga kming bahay o sariling negosyo. Pero mga kapatid ni hubby kung manghirap pangpagawa ng house, pangstart ng negosyo, pangpaanak. Gusto kong sumigaw ng hello kami muna puwede pagnakaestablish na kami ng amin tsaka na muna kayo :(

May thinking kasi sila na ay 20K lang yan ano ba naman sa kanila kung pahiramin nila ako ng ganyang amount, e kung 6 silang magkakapatid n mang hihiram ng ganyan wasak bulsa ever, e ako nga ni hindi ko mabilan sarili ko ng levi's n pants o branded bags na hindi 50% sale naawa ako sa sarili ko minsan promise.

Hindi po ako materyosong tao kaso minsan kasi di b gusto mo rewardan sarili mo ng mga bagay a out of the usual stuff kasi sa ngaun di ko maatim gawin yun kasi nakafocus ako sa pagiipon kasi gusto maganak uli, pero mukhang kahit anung tipid gawin ko kung may ibang taong manghihiram n hindi matangihan mukhang pangarap n lang ito.

I am so depress, di naman halata no mga sis, sorry... dito lang nailalabas.

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@buuurp

Yup sis yung sando niyang suot before siya umuwi nung feb, dito kasi siya ng xmas at new year :(

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Distance Parenting (OFW Parent) / Re: SP moms overseas
« on: March 21, 2012, 01:02:35 pm »
@mommy rhozie

Hi Im in SG too! :)

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Hi! it's been long since nagpost ako dito anyways...

to OFW Moms, you experience this? Nakakaloka as in, most of the time nakakapikon. Ang mga kamaganak nageexpect lagi na may mahihiram sayo pangbayad utang, pangpaanak, pang repair ng house and all hay. Hindi naman po sa madamot kaso nakakapika lang kasi akala nila dami naming pera dito sa ibang bansa. Tapos may maririnig ka pang inngitan n bakit sa ganun pina utang ako hindi , madamot etc.

Sana Alam nila kung anung hirap ang nasa ibang bansa. Sacrifice na malayo sa anak ang pinakamahirap sa lahat. alam b nila na 6 days a week 10~12 hours per day ang trabaho may bonus pang sigaw at pagminalas ka may kasamang pang panglalait yun. tapos sa gabi kahit 9pm n nakauwi kelangan pang magluto ng dinner at pang baon sa office tomorrow. Then sunday  n nga off gugulin mo p yun sa paglalaba at paglilinis ng flat.

Kaya sana yung mga iba dyan na may kaanak n ofw hinay hinay lang sa demands at wishes nyo dahil sa totoo lang yung  nakikita nyong ngiti sa pictures namin sa facebook 10% lang yun ng kung anung emotion meron kami dito sa ibang bansa.

Dyahe naman siguro picturan at ipost namin umiiyak kami sa gabi habang yakap yung stuff toy n sinuutan mo ng sando ng anak mo.o pagnginangarag kami ng boss namin o nahiwa ang kamay kasi inaantok n pero kelangan pang magluto ng baon para bukas.

.... naglalabas lang po ng sama ng lood..

ikaw anung hinaing mo let it all out mga Sis.

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Toddler Development and Behavior / Re: banging her head
« on: July 29, 2010, 09:48:25 am »
Sis pareho tayo baby ko din ganyan. 18 months n si levi, medyo na-outgrown na niya yung pagpagsak at pagtalbog talbog sa kama pero yung gigil thing ganun pa yung mga pets niya (stuffed toys po yun) laging basa kasi kinakagat ang nanggigigil siya.

We even made a bed extension para yung 3 sides ng bed wall to wall tapos yun walls namin may nakadikit na 3 layers rubber floor mats lahat para hindi siya mauntog tuwing nasa "talbog" tripping siya.

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The Balancing Act: Career and Family / How good is your English?
« on: March 16, 2010, 05:49:08 pm »
How fluent do you write and speak in English? It was a fact that for you to land a job you need to undergo a written exam that is usually an essay type and a nose bleeding interview, and if your lucky you got a panel of critics who readily have questions for you. And this are all done in one universal language English.

Test you English fluency here http://philippines.youthsays.com/kayth/improve ;)

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Your Kid's Health and Safety / Re: Kiddie Salons and Haircut thread
« on: January 13, 2010, 02:36:19 pm »
My son just had his first official haircut sa barbero lang po kami semi kalbo ang cut niya

We use to trim his hair dati but then 1 year old na siya kelangan na  ;D

This is his santino look

when we use to trim his hair

After the haircut


Fot full story visit my article here
http://kasaisjourney.blogspot.com/2010/01/from-santino-to-bad-boy-baby-ama.html

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MOMMY KAY !
birthday din ng bebe ko kahapon..
tpos sa haws lang din..


Sis nakakapagod noh pero rewarding tsaka nakatipid tayo kahit papano  ;) ;) ;)

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My son had his 1st Birthday yesterday Jan 03, we first planed it in a fastfood party but due to some reasons we lost our budget for it and we can no longer cancel all those kids who are waiting for it so we opt to have it in our home

For foods we prepared Spaghetti, F. Chicken, lumpia, hotdog on stick, tetrapack juices, pastries & marshmallows and off course cakes & gelatines. All of there are packed in a big styro para hindi man maubos ng bata pwede i-take out.

For older ones we prepared our all time fave na kare kare at dinuguan my mommy's specialty.

for games i just buy toys and candies for pabitins & 5 other games, we have the balloon for giveaways.

For more pics you can view here on my blogs  http://kasaimizuhana.blogspot.com/2010/01/james-levis-street-birthday-bash.html and http://kasai-mysimplelife.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-sons-birthday-party.html

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Money / Re: SSS loan inquiry
« on: December 03, 2009, 04:43:28 pm »
sis same tyo lasy nov 27 naman yung date ng cheque ko as per their website. I also ask kung puwede pick up hindi daw wait n lang dadating yun after2 to 3 weeks.

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a had my levi few weeks before turning 28. ;)

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Yaya Solutions / Re: Yaya Salary/Compensation/Benefits
« on: December 01, 2009, 05:48:00 pm »
My yaya is almost 4 months n s amin, from bicol 23y/o may 2 anak.

She recieve 2.5K free lahat (even s cookies, fruits, at juices ni baby  ;D). almost all around siya from luto ng almusal up to luto ng dinner with weekly laba at plansta ng clothes namin ni hubby. But we dont obligate her to do everything yung kaya lang niya but im ver satisfied s kanya kasi as i have said she does all of the dirty works s hause.

Shes very ok medyo madaldal nga lang, she dont take day off. pagsunday lang 6pm simba with her friends.

Were planning to increase her to 3k next year plus sss & phic benefit. & give here bonuses for xmas plus 7 days paid & all espense paid vacation  ;D

Though we dont really treat her as others, pero still we impose some restrictions.

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Toddler Development and Behavior / Re: Baby Toys
« on: November 27, 2009, 03:31:39 pm »
Sis at birth siguro mga 2 months n makkaenjoy si baby ng toys, buy ka ng mga soft toys n safe kahit isubo nila but not to small n bka malunok kasi. Tendency kasi ng babies is first touch then grab derecho s bibig he he he subo agad si baby ko 10 months n ganyan pa din isinusubo lahat ng mahawakan. yung mga rattles din colorful para makita mo yung responces niya s sound at moving objects later on s colors n din.

yung mobile or gyms helpful din yun kasi may mga sounds at small thing to touch & play kasi sila dun.

Baby bouncer sis helpful to lalu n yung may music at sabit sabit n pedeng hawak hawakan ni baby, this thing helps me lot he he he.

buy k din ng lullabyes at soft music it will a lot.

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