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Yaya Solutions / Re: help!!! Our Daughter Seems More Attached to Her Yaya!!!
« on: September 14, 2012, 06:28:58 pm »
sis simple lang ang solution dyan: quality time. the reason why your daughter likes the yaya more is because she spends more time with her. kaya pag after work at tuwing weekends talagang tutuunan mo dapat ng pansin ang daughter mo. go out na kayong dalawa lang. treat her out to her favorite restaurant. kailangan nyang maintindihan na ikaw ang permanent part ng buhay niya at hindi yung yaya niya.

Real Parenting / Re: is your hubby hands-on with baby?
« on: September 14, 2012, 06:23:17 pm »
i'm very lucky to have a hubby na super attentive sa anak namin. hands-on sya sa paglampin at pagpakain sa baby namin. our baby's now about to start school at hanggang ngayon maganda relationship nila. yung hubby ko mismo yung gumagawa ng activities para sa kanilang dalawa. for example nakita niya yung goldilocks bitbit dance commercial dati tapos tinura niya sa baby namin. hindi perfect syempre pero they can still dance it together. kung 5 nga lang kami sumali na kami sa contest e! :D

Real Parenting / Re: How to talk to my daughter help!
« on: September 14, 2012, 06:16:12 pm »
i think your daughter needs to be more comfortable speaking her mind with her family. moving her to another school won't help. what will help is if you encourage her to say whatever she wants to say at home. she has to learn to be more comfortable being honest with people. wag mo nang alahanin kung masakit yung mga sinasabi niya at first. what matters is that she opens up to you and the rest of the family.

Preschooler Age / Re: How early should a toddler begin schooling?
« on: September 14, 2012, 06:09:37 pm »
that's too early. i think 4 is the best age para pag dating niya sa college 18 na sya. ;)

Baby Blues or Postpartum Depression Support Group / Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« on: September 14, 2012, 05:51:08 pm »
alam mo sis it sounds like post-partum depression. the best thing you can do is visit a psychiatrist and tell him or her how you feel. try mo sa med city o sa st. lukes ;)

Beauty and Product Reviews / Re: Your Lipstick?
« on: September 12, 2012, 03:13:03 pm »
mac in blankety. mahal nga ang mac but the quality is amazing at the end of the day. talagang halatang mahal ang ginamit mo. plus it doesnt smell or taste weird. yung human nature kasi masyadong weird yung amoy. at least yung mac parang vanilla or marshmallows lang.

Yaya Solutions / Re: Nagtatagal ba mga yaya/maid ninyo?
« on: September 12, 2012, 03:09:35 pm »
yung maid namin mga 6 months pa lang sa amin but she's been very good with my daughter. what i like most about her is that she keeps my daughter active. overweight kasi anak ko at natuwa ako na may initiative talaga yung yaya na ipaexercise sya.

ngayon palaging sumasayaw yung anak ko ng Goldilocks Bitbit dance, kasi pinakita ng yaya niya sa Youtube. gusto pa nga niya sumali sa contest e!

rare talaga makahanap ng maid na ganun ka-ok pero rest assured na marami din akong dinaanang "bad eggs". patience lang talaga ang sikreto. 

Real Parenting / Re: How to explain about kissing and sexy scenes?
« on: September 12, 2012, 03:00:27 pm »
don't cover her eyes. that will just make her more curious, at alam mo naman na pag bawal mas nacucurious ang bata. what you can do is wait for your daughter to ask you questions. just answer her honestly. don't lie about why people kiss. the more you cover up the truth about love and sex the more na madidistort ang idea niya ng mga iyun at  pagtanda niya who knows kung anong klaseng outlook na yung meron sya.

you should think positively as much as possible during this time. the more negative you feel baka maaffect ang katawan mo tuloy. baka magkaroon ng psychosomatic effects sa body mo. so during this time kung gusto mong magkaanak, think positively. just try to stay calm and think happy thoughts para hindi mastress katawan mo.

Maternity / Re: Pumapangit pag Preggy? (Part 2)
« on: September 12, 2012, 02:49:38 pm »
haha! i'd have to agree. the worst thing you could tell a preggy mommy is that she's getting bigger. bumababa talaga raw self-esteem ng mga preggy kasi parang hindi nila macontrol ang body nila. they need as much support and love as they can get  ;)

hindi talaga maganda ang paggamit ng pagpalo para idiscipline ang isang bata, so tama yung grandparents on that point. pero hindi ibig sabihin na hindi mo siya dapat idiscipline. do it by communicating with your daughter. sit down and talk to her ng masinsinan. talk to her like a grown-up. treat her like an individual. pag nakita nyang siniseryoso mo sya, magrerespond yun ng tama.

Kids With Special Needs / Re: attention deficit (Inattentive type)
« on: September 11, 2012, 04:14:27 pm »
my ninang has a kid with adhd, and she told me that the best thing to do is give your child activities that will help her practice her focus. it could be something as simple as a puzzle, or something as challenging as dance steps. yung goldilocks bitbit dance for example tinuro niya sa anak niya. she was able to memorize it naman and we were very proud of her! try to teach her these dance moves, too! simple lang naman.

Tweens and Teens / Re: Ano bang magandang course sa College?
« on: September 11, 2012, 04:11:25 pm »
what's important is that she gets into the course that she is passionate about. wag mong piliting pumasok sa course na wala sa puso niya, kasi kung gawin mo yun, magdrodrop out din yan eventually. give your daughter the freedom to make her own decisions for her life. it's her turn to take care of herself.

Toilet Training and Diapering Essentials / Re: All About Baby Wipes
« on: September 11, 2012, 04:09:30 pm »
okay talaga ang wet ones compared to cotton balls. smells better at mas madaling idispose. madali ring dalhin sa bag compared to water and cotton.

Special Occassions / Re: Bridal Shower and Stag party
« on: September 10, 2012, 04:27:07 pm »
if you have a small budget, simple couples games can be a good alternative. try nyo yung "love dice." it's a pair of dice -- 1 has body parts, and 1 has commands like "lick" or "kiss" --  tapos you just have to take turns rolling the dice and trying the commands with your partner. sexy but not too naughty fun! 

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