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Separate Bank Accounts
'Para Mas Madali, Siya Na Bahala'

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Recently ko lang na realize kasi that every since naging settled na kami ni hubby sa isat-isa family and all and I do all the budgetting and money handling and stuff, pero never ako tinanong ni husbandry about how much do I own, or if me nasave ba ako or what. He tells me all his income at magkano ang na earn niya sa mga racket or sidelines niya or magkano nagastos niya sa this and that, but never the question like  "MAGKANO SAHOD MO MONTHLY? sa work mo?" yong ganun na tanong.

Is it me lang bah? or ganyan lang ba asawa ko? or ganito lang ba talaga ang mga lalaki.  ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???

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Family Fun / Fun Ranch - Puede ba yon sa 3year old?
« on: October 04, 2012, 07:22:12 am »
Sali na sa Play-Workshop sa Fun Ranch kasama ang inyong 3+ years old, Hatid ng Smart Parenting at Nido 3+
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Hi mga sis, I saw this promo in fun ranch and very interested talaga ako bumili but me downside kasi me duration kelan magamit, which is tama sana kasi nasa city kami by that time or I  can map out a plan to that days or vacation nexttime. Ok ba ang rides dun for a 3year old??
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just wondering lang ako or more of hindi ko alam ano reaction ko dapat sa silent mode na sagot or hindi talaga sumagot. we were talking ng hubby ko chitchat this and that conversations namin about sa bahay, needs and kumusta kami at ng anak ko. then there was this moment na nagpatweetams na sya ng luv u ganun...ako naman tinanong ko "why do you love me?" weird lang kasi hindi sya sumagot and parng binuhusan ko sya ng cold water. yong ganun, instead he asked sino daw other kong kausap at bakit ako nagtanong ng ganun. e sya lang naman kausap ko videochat sa skype. i really have no idea o ewan ano ba tong na feel ko this moment. hidni ko alam papaano magreact sa ganun na response niya. hubby is somewhat emotionally disabled na husband kung baga hindi marunong magshare masyado ng mga emotions niya kaya rare lang talaga ang biglang luv u's moments pero yong ganun na simple tanong hindi sya kumibo at well nawala na hanggang pumangit na ang net connection.

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diba sa tagal ng pagsasama or sa relationship nyo nagkakantyawan ba kayu about each others insecurities? me shame pa ba sa inyong dalawa? or like na aapektohan ba ang feelings nyo literally if kinakantyawan na especially us women yong body areas na very insecure tayo?


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Romantic Relationships / meron ba kayo pic sa wallet ni hubby?
« on: April 08, 2012, 04:31:39 pm »
hehe wala lang natanong ko lang. kasi ewan feeling insecure o ano bah, never kasi ang picture ko nilagay ni hubby sa wallet niya. ewan lang...reason niya ayaw lang niya makita ng iba agn asawa niya, pero i dont feel good kasi. feel ko hindi sya proud sa akin to show off or ano, kahit man lang with baby or ano..

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Tweens and Teens / Gift Ideas For A Tween
« on: March 21, 2012, 11:49:23 am »
Hi mga sisses, need help talaga

my hubby is outside of the country, tapos his favorite pamangkin is going to graduate nah. He told me na ako na bahala bumili ng gift para sa pamangkin niya. Ok naman si pamangkin very friendly and mabait. Comes my problem, im on a tight budget.

gusto ko kasi ang ibigay something na trendy, pero entertaining and magagamit niya talaga sa school pag start niya sa colleget. Lalaki po sya and very bright kid, graduate syang validictorian now, ano kaya ibibigay ko sa bata na halos meron na lahat...im sure dami din naman syang matatangap sa mga other aunts and uncles niya.

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Jokes and Funny Stories / Funniest Things Kids Say About Love
« on: January 06, 2012, 01:04:26 pm »
Hi mga sisses,

I just to share. our conversation with my 2nephews age 4 matet and age 6 mic2x , after we were watching BEAUTY and the BEAST.

matet: Is KUYA (my hubby) your beast ate iashi? where is your prince charming
hindi ako nakasagot agad, hahaha sorry but true na windang ang mundo ko
me: what is love to you?
matet: love is PRINCE CHARMING MARRIES PRINCESS AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER
mic2x said: paano si dragon?  (tapos bigla sabi) Ate iashi?? si kuya ba is si PRINCE CHARMING, DRAGON AND BEAST ng buhay mo??
me: smile and speechless
at dahil hindi ako nakasagot,
matet said: (patting my back) OK lang ate, magiging guapo naman si BEAST after you kiss him eh!!! (wahhhh!!!!!)

mga sisses have you ever encountered this special moments na kids will say things that will make you speechless... ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D  hai tawa parin ako until now...

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Recommended Reads / The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman
« on: December 29, 2011, 08:12:02 am »
What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! Millions of couples have learned the simple way to express their feelings and bring joy back into marriage: The 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman’s New York Times bestseller!

Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

Quality Time

In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

Receiving Gifts

Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

Acts of Service

Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

Physical Touch

This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.


what do you think is yours and your husband?

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Other Relationships / Is your Mom toxic?
« on: July 03, 2011, 04:20:16 pm »
Basahin sa Smart Parenting:
8 Ways to Respectfully Handle a Meddling Mother or Mother-in-Law
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Hi mga sis..

By this time I'm asking this to you is because...Hind ko na maintindihan mom ko...instead of helping me get through this tumulous times, she is making it worse. Worse in a sense that she keeps on bringing my past over and over again. Yes mga sis for 3years hindi pa sya naka get over na ang daughter niya is nabuntis and until now hindi pa nagpakasal ng dad ng anak niya. Ewan ko bah...instead na happy ako na makipag.usap sa kanya kasi namimis ko sya naopen always ang past...ayoko nah...its not helping naman us in our financial difficulities. Instead of understanding us and support us in our decision ewan.

Hindi ko na talaga maintindihan mom ko. The worst pa is she posted on my wall sa facebook kugn ano ano about me and my hubby... lahat tolooy ng friends namin ni hubby nagtext kung totoo ba or ano bakit nagpost ang mother ko ng ganun.

Mom ko kasi is super disheartened nung nabuntis ako pero pinagutan naman ako ng hubby ko pero hindi pa lang kami kasi nagpakasal mutual agreement. We want to get married by our own means and dapat settled na lahat. Hindi dahhil sinabi ni mother and inlaws na we should get married or sa mga tao na nakakahiya..

Sorry napahaba...dissappointed lang talaga ako sa mom ko. No matter ano ang explain ko in a nice way hidni na naiintindihan. :'( :'( :'(

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