Parent Chat

if i can remember correctly she first sent me a message nung july. then sent me two friend requests after that and a couple of messages. nangangamusta lang naman saying na ang dami nang magagandang nangyari. i am just puzzled as to why she is friending me di naman kami magkakilala before or even after their break up. i can understand why someone would check on their ex boyfriends's fb page, even i am guilty of that. pero to go as far as send a friend request to his wife di ko magets kung bakit pa. would it be rude if i just ignore her?

we used to live in Makati but after my twins were born three years ago ditto na kami sa liblib na province. we're planning on taking the kids to manila to welcome 2014 para ma experience naman nila ang sibilisasyon  any suggestions on where to go and sights to see, yung tipong mura lang if not free admission. mababaw lang naman kaligayahan ng mga anak ko since wala naming mall dito sa lugar naming (really). yoko naman kasi na maubos lang yung Christmas bonus sa ilang araw na libutan lang. I have already read the article on 100 Christmas attractions so aside from those mentioned ano pa mga sis ang suggestions niyo? TIA

I have been married for 12 years and never pa akong nagclimax. don't get me wrong I do enjoy having sex hindi lang talaga ako nag oorgasm not even close. I have orgasms when I do it on my own pero lately after three kids kahit self help orgasm parang di na rin bonggang bongga tulad ng dati. I feel that I am no longer that sensitive down there. mga mommies nag iisa lang ba ako sa dilemma ko na to? may hope pa kaya for me?

We have no firewall like those in the city it's a barely there chicken wire fence. I am trying so much to be patient. For the last six months merun sila inuman at sugalan on their yard and when you combine alcohol with gambling sa away ang uwi Kung Hindi man maingay pa rin at wala silang  oras minsan 7 am till 2 am. Ngayong election time natigil siyempre papapogi kala ko matatahimik na kami. 2 days na ngayong nagvivideoke from 6 am till 3 am San ka pa? NASA open space pa sila ha at dalawa ng dipa lang layo sa room namin. La silang pakialam sa ibang Tao kasi feeling nila Sobrang powerful nila kasi mahilig silang kumabit sa mga pulitiko. Hay I feel so depressed right now. All I want is a nice place for my kids to grow up, Hindi naman ako mahilig makipagtsismisan o manira ng ibang Tao, I try to be friendly and civilized with my neighbors but still keeping boundaries. I try to be very considerate why can't other people do the same?

Sometimes I feel ill equipped to be a mom kasi I grew up with nannies. Even when she's there she lets my father deal with me. She's not the kind to change dirty diapers and such. She never went to one school event not even my graduation. I have never seen a picture of us together, at least not one where she is holding me. All I can remember about her is when she gets me in trouble with my dad because she would cry about something I said or did no matter how trivial it is. So growing up I learned to stay away from her so I would not accidentally hurt her "feelings". The one time I ever came to her was when I was in high school and I told her I had a bf. she told me not to tell my dad. And when my dad found out she totally denied ever knowing anything about it and made me a liar. So never again did I open up to her about anything. I think I never trusted anyone again after that, not even my father because he only found out about my bf by reading my diaries. That's the reason I feel that I'm emotionally bankrupted. I don't let anybody get close to me. I'm just afraid that my kids will eventually pay the price for that. I guess if my mother taught me anything, it is to make my children my priority, coz I never felt I was even in her radar.

i have always been flat chested and i was ok with that nung single pa ako katwiran ko take it or leave it pero when hubby admitted that he likes big breasts and can't help but stare at them i was really hurt and insecure. especially now that we have three kids and my body has changed a lot lalo ako nainsecure. i am afraid that he will cheat on me again

when i was growing up the yayas did everything for me kaya nga may asawa na ako saka lang ako natuto mga bagay bagay. total opposite naman si hubby, he was left to take care of his younger siblings nung elementary pa siya. i am just wondering pano ko ba mabalanse? what kind of house chores o responsibilities ang dapat ibigay ko sa 7 y/o son ko? yaw ko kasi siya maspoil pero yaw ko rin naman na parang pakiramdam niya too much responsibility na.