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Hello Mommy Nes, welcome to Parent Chat. Wow! It seems ang dami niyo na pong alam about child custody. I'm not even aware na para sa mga 15k and below ang salary ang tinatanggap for PAO, tama po ba? I'm basing it from your post, where were you told of such regulation?

We have Smart Parenting articles that touches on some points in your story tulad ng "any child below 7 years old is deemed to choose the mother, unless the court decides otherwise." Is (as mentioned in our article) applicable if the marriage is terminated by an annulment. In your case, you were never married so you have the sole parental authority. Having that, dapat pinagpaalam muna nila sayo if they can make plans for your daughter's birthday. Also, ang custody is 50-50. It is not the father's obligation to give the 100% of the child's financial needs. It's sad that we cannot control how people think but as long as you are demanding only the father's share, don't let the gossips affect you.

All I can share are general information from a legal expert interviewed by Smart Parenting .I want to zone-in on the part of your story about your kids getting comfortable with your husband and their step mom. I think it's a good thing that they are loved by their father and the people around him and that your kids are getting to form their own understanding of their parents's situation. This understanding will grow and change pa naman as everything slowly falls into place.

Having the right basis and intention, yes, you can file a case as mention in the SP article, "In the case a child is taken away without the consent of the single mother, what legal actions can a single mother take?" Take into consideration how your children will feel and that your actions will not badly affect them.

We'll keep your story in mind when we get an expert to answer your questions mainly:
-Kailangan ba talaga na below 15k ang salary mo to qualify for a free advice from PAO?
-May right ba ang bata pumili kung kanino sasama when he/she reaches 7 years old?
-considered bang VAWC kapag ayaw isauli ang bata whether the child wants to stay with the other parent or not?

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Your Kid's Health and Safety / Re: All about Heraclene (dibencozide)
« on: December 15, 2020, 02:41:45 pm »
Hello Nicar. Baka naman po magkaiba ang dosage nung klase na alam nung pinagtanungan ninyo sa forte na nireseta sa inyo ng duktor ninyo. Trust your doctor po.

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Community members can share references, their related experiences and feedback on products and services. Online parenting groups can be comforting and helpful, but they CANNOT replace medical advice. For inquiries on health and medical concerns, please get professional advice from a doctor or a healthcare provider.

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Getting Pregnant / Re: Posible bang buntis?
« on: October 27, 2020, 11:45:04 am »
Sheena, kailan ka huling nag PT?

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Hello Dane. Kung gusto po ninyong i-delay na masundan si baby, talk about birth control po. I suggest Lactational Amenorrhea Method at Basal Body Temperature (BBT). Basahin din po ang napagusapan na tungkol sa When can i get pregnant after giving birth? sa link na ito:
https://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php?topic=66018.msg970437#msg970437

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Hello Alcana. I sent you provate message po. Please check your inbox.

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Getting Pregnant / Re: Blighted ovum, no fetal pole. help!
« on: September 02, 2020, 02:10:38 pm »
Hello Alcana. Ano po sabi ng doctor niyo na dapat niyo nang gawin?

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Romantic Relationships / Re: kelan sapat ang reason para makipag-hiwalay?
« on: September 02, 2020, 11:57:47 am »
Hello Uniquea. May PM po ako sa inyo, paki check n alang po ang inyong inbox.

Samantala, ito po ang mga maaari ninyong pagkuhaan ng tamang impormasyon tungkol sa pinagdadaanan ninyo.

Maituturing Na Emotional Abuse Ang Mga Gawaing Ito

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Dapat Pa Ba O Tama Na?

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Hello Paula. I can only share tips and reliable articles from Smart Parenting about hemorrhoids and constipation. Sana po maging effective sa inyo ang mga tips na nakasaad dito.
Aloe Vera Vs. Tea Tree Oil Para Sa Almoranas? Home Remedies Na Recommended

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How to Prevent Hemorrhoids During Pregnancy

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Kung hindi po talaga ma solve, go check with your doctor, kung need niya po mag prescribe ng tamang gamot. Thanks for posting, join our other topics as well.  :)

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Community members can share references, their related experiences and feedback on products and services. Online parenting groups can be comforting and helpful, but they CANNOT replace medical advice. For inquiries on health and medical concerns, please get professional advice from a doctor or a healthcare provider.

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Big Kids / Re: menstruation at the age of 8
« on: August 31, 2020, 10:41:34 am »
Hello po. Ang daughter ko 8 years old din nung dinatnan pero irregular at parang spotting lang ang flow until mag teenager na siya, doon na naging regular.
Yung sa daughter niyo, regular po ba ang flow or light din na parang spotting lang? Nung 2nd time na dinatnan ang daughter niyo, ilang days po ang tinagal? Nakaramdam din ba siya ng PMS o matinding PMS? Meron po ba siyang health condition? Ang height and weight po ba niya ay pang teenager na?
If all seems well, observe it for another month para complete ang info na ibibigay niyo sa doctor niyo.
I PMd you po for the rest of the story. Please check your inbox po. :)



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Community members can share references, their related experiences and feedback on products and services. Online parenting groups can be comforting and helpful, but they CANNOT replace medical advice. For inquiries on health and medical concerns, please get professional advice from a doctor or a healthcare provider.

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Hello Alcena! Ask niyo po Pedia niyo kung pwede na. Malamang tatanungin niya weight ni baby mo. Huwag po kayo magalala kung mukhang payat ang baby niyo basta tama ang timbang. Alam niyo naman maraming tao ang judgemental pagdating sa anak ng iba. Common po sa breastfed babies ang hindi mataba kasi daw po mas mataas ang fat content ng formula pero mas healthy pa rin ang breastmilk.
Eto po yung guide sa weight ni baby:
Gamitin ang mga Growth Charts na Ito Bilang Gabay sa Timbang at Taas ni Baby
Click HERE.

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Ang Payat ng Anak Ko! Kailangan Niya Ba ng Vitamins na Pampataba?
Click HERE.


Tigilan Niyo Na Ang Pag-Comment Sa Timbang Ng Anak Ko
Click HERE.

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Breastfeeding / Re: giving up on breastfeeding
« on: July 18, 2020, 03:23:57 pm »
Hello mommy Mady. Back read po kayo para mabasa ang mga naging solution ng ibang mga moms dito. :)

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Birth Control / Re: All about Injectables
« on: July 18, 2020, 03:21:40 pm »
Hi Diane.
Ang personal experience ko naman po, I also gained weight pero hindi dahil sa injectable lang. Lagi lang kasi ako nasa bahay noon, accessible ang ref kaya boom!
Payo ko po, kung weight gain lang ang habol ninyo, sa ibang paraan niyo nalang po daanin para hindi niyo na maexperience ang mga side effects ng contraceptive. Kung babalik din naman si mister niyo sa mga susunod na buwan, continue niyo nalang po ang shot kasi 3 months po ang effectivity niyan.
For weight gain, sana pwede magdonate :) . Kung hindi po kayo active, try niyo po mag exercise kasi may mga cases na nagge-gain sila ng weight at nakakaganang kumain kapag pagod, pero hindi ko din ia-advice na kumain lang. Eat healthy pa rin. Nakaka taba ang carbs at minimal activity pero masama po sa kalusugan lalo na kung nakaugalian. Alam niyo po ba yung Pinggang Pinoy? Here's more info:
This Is What Your Plate Should Look Like During Meals
Click HERE


Dieting to have better health is not the same as dieting to lose weight.
Click this link to read
https://www.smartparenting.com.ph/health/fitness-nutrition/best-diet-losing-weight-a00228-20190106?ref=parentchat

Mod's note:
Community members can share their related experiences and feedback on products and services. Online parenting groups can be comforting and helpful, but they CANNOT replace medical advice. For inquiries on health and medical concerns, please get professional advice from a doctor or a healthcare provider.

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Your Health / Re: Laming sa katawan
« on: June 22, 2020, 03:02:33 pm »
Sino po kaya dito may same condition as mine? Ano pong remedy ginawa nyo? Salamat po

Hi Maddie. Naku, parehong-pareho tayo. Number 1 na kalaban ng masahista ko yung lamig sa likod ng balikat ko. Napapansin ko rin na kapag nasa computer ako ng regular at matagal kaya namumuo yung sa akin.
Lymph nodes ang totoong tawag dun. Tinatawag lang na lamig kasi kapag naiinitan, nawawala. Once napanood ko sa TV interview ng isang doctor, topic nila tungkol sa pagpapamasahe. Sabi niya, hindi daw dapat pinuputok o dinudurog sa pamamagitan ng pagmasahe yung parang bukol na yon. Warm compress lang daw ok na. Hindi man mawala agad, dalasan nalang ang pag apply kaya tama po ang sabi ng doctor niyo. Mabuti nga po nagpatingin kayo, mahirap na kung sa iba kayo nagtanong, baka mali pa ang advice na makuha niyo.
Ang ginagawa ko nalang po, hindi ko pinapahanginan o hinahayaang malamigan. Nagbabalabal ako ng shawl o towel. Try niyo rin i-exercise ang arms and shoulders ninyo after a few minutes kapag nagko-computer kayo.
Ngayon po wala ang akong problema sa balikat ko kasi bawas na computer time ko at regular na rin po akong nakakapag exercise kasama yung shoulder upper back and arms. Tingin ko po nakakatulong yung na malaki kasi naiinitan ang katawan natin habang nage-exercise at nagagalaw yung muscles kaya hindi nakakapag build up yung lamig. I'm not an expert po, just sharing my experience.

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Mommy Reign, log in to Smart Parenting and check your inbox po. Nag message po ako sa inyo dun.
https://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php?action=pm


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Home / Re: Ano mga ginagawa nyo sa bahay habang naka quarantine?
« on: April 16, 2020, 04:31:19 pm »
Ngayon pa lang ako magtututong manood ng Kdrama kasi hindi ako makarelate sa mga mommy friends ko. Thanks to this SP article, alam ko na kung anong una kong panonoorin:
140 Titles! Pinay Makes K-Drama Starter Pack For Your Viewing Pleasure


Other quarantine activities:
relearning to play the guitar and workout every 2 days. Medyo malaki na mga kids ko kaya hindi na alagain.

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