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i have a 2yo 4 mo old son close mas close pa siya sa yaya niya kesa sa akin im a stay at home mom. before kasi my baby sleeps on the crib and yung yaya naman may sariling bed. But lately, i noticed ayaw na ni baby sa crib niya mas gusto niya tabi sila ng yaya mag sleep. The only solution i could think of is to buy a Little Tikes toddler bed and we put it in our room. At first, ayaw ni baby sa new bed niya almost 2 weeks umiiyak siya pagpasok pa lang ng room namin. Pero ngayon  ok na kay baby mag sleep sa room namin di na siya maarte... haha


I think it's better to explain to your daughter na kapag daytime whole day  naman kasama niya yaya niya. Pag sa gabi tell her that Mom and Dad wants to be with her naman...it's good that wala na siya tantrums.  :)

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Yaya Solutions / Re: Ayaw ni baby sa new yaya
« on: April 05, 2013, 11:24:02 pm »
If more than a week ganoon pa din reaction ng baby mo i think it's better to find a replacement. I just hired a new yaya last April 1 my son is 2 yrs old  sa umpisa nilang meeting nag smile si baby and nagpabuhat. pero on her 1st day umiyak si baby  ayaw pasubo and paligo but now i noticed magaan na loob ni baby lumpalapit na siya sa bagong yaya. Siya na ngayon nagpapaligo and nagpapakain. Medyo ilang pa si baby kung patulugin sya ng new yaya niya i just told her to be patient and gagaan din loob ni baby eventually.

 Andyan pa naman yung previous yaya ni baby aalis kc siya 2nd week of May. I hired a new yaya  1 month in advance para at least kapag umalis na yung dating yaya mas sanay na si  baby sa new yaya niya.

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Yaya Solutions / Re: yaya uses my laptop & ipad
« on: April 05, 2013, 11:07:20 pm »
i think you should let your yaya know that she is using your laptop and your son's iPad while you're away and you should not tolerate it. Tell her na kapag nasira kaya ba niyang bayaran? If after ng first warning ganoon pa rin i think you should let her go na lang walang respeto yan kasi hindi nagpapaalam. Im sure kapag wala kayo sa house naglalaro din yan ng games sa iPad. 

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Your Health / Re: Lactacyd or PH care?
« on: April 05, 2013, 10:48:32 pm »
i prefer PH care mas mabango kasi siya. i have also tried Lactacyd before di ko talaga type yung local mas prefer ko yung nabibili na imported na Lactacyd i bought mine at Hongkong,

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ako naman i feel na maghihiwalay kami ni hubby kasi everytime na lang na mag away kami lagi niya sinasabi na maghiwalay na lang kami kahit sobrang petty na reason ang pagawayan namin lagi niya sinasabi na di kami magtatagal. I remember when i gave birth to our son, dumaan lang yung male nurse na naka assign sa akin sabi niya if kelangan ko ng help aalayan niya ako sa CR and then bigla na lang nagalit si hubby. I told the nurse i could manage with the help of my husband  I remember nag pa breastfeed ako at that time and all my relatives are in our room, tapos siya pinuntahan pa ako doon sa BF station para mag vent ng anger niya iniwan niya ako doon nagsmoke siya sa labas i have to wait almost 20-30 minutes para i-wheel back  sa room and then pag uwi namin sa house galing sa hospital ang dami niya sinasabi na maghiwalay na lang kami etc... sawang-sawa na siya sa buhay na feeling niya katulong lang tingin ko sa kanya. i always tell him that i love him naman i dont know why mabilis siya magalit tapos minsan ko lang marining sa kanya mag sorry. Every time that he's angry tahimik lang ako di ako masyado sumasagot sa kanya but he can see me crying pero wala pa rin siya pakialam mawawala lang galit niya after 1-2 days kaya tinitiis ko na lang for the sake of our baby. Sometimes i would lower my pride and say sorry to him i would like to be with him pero kung ganito naman lagi ang scenario i dont think na matiis ko pa.

Dito ko lang sa forum nilalabas sama ng loob ko di ko masabi sa family ko na ganito na lang lagi kapag nagaaway kami. I want to resolve our issues gusto ko andun pa din siya when i grow old, as much as possible wala ako sinasabi na masama sa kanya he doesnt want to attend kung may birthdays sa family namin  i would make excuses pa nga for him. Pero syempre, alam nila na hindi talaga mahilig sa gatherings hubby ko i think alam nila na iniiwan sila ng hubby ko pero they cant say it to my face naman minsan nga nahihiya na ako kasi ako lang magisa lagi mag attend...

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Romantic Relationships / Re: totoo ba ang "girl's instinct?"
« on: April 05, 2013, 06:31:13 pm »
hi Sis BabyLove26 yes i believe in women's instinct. Pero sabi mo kasi nagawa na ng asawa mo na magkaroon ng iba noong di pa kayo kasal but you chose to be with him and he met your ultimatums naman i think paranoid ka lang since nangyari na once, baka pwedeng maulit. He shows you he's sincere naman sa iyo pa niya pala iniiwan celphone niya which means wala talaga siya tinatago. I think it's better to stop nagging him and see his positive side... i dont think your husband would like to be reminded on what happened in the past...

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Money / Re: Practical Shopper or Impulsive Buyer
« on: April 05, 2013, 12:20:21 pm »
im impulsive naman if im out of the country sagot ko lahat ng gastos, airfare and shopping money i have savings naman i only use it when i need it. Just recently, may nag demo na Saladmaster cookware i bought a set for 269K. Nagalit si hubby when he found out kesyo di ko raw siya ni-respeto eh ako naman ang gagastos. Sobrang galit talaga siya that i told him na ipa-refund ko na lang yung na- downpayment ko.

 I told him that it's an investment mahal nga pero magagamit ko naman... Where can you find a cookware na di gagamit ng cooking oil and it would last for many years to come. i want to change our eating lifestyle lalo na may baby ako gusto ko naman na mas healthy yung pag prepare ng food.

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Money / Re: Practical Shopper or Impulsive Buyer
« on: April 05, 2013, 12:14:36 pm »
im a practical shopper i usually buy clothes that are on sale bihira lang ako bumili ng nasa regular price. My husband doesnt give me an allowance so sariling money ko talaga if im out shopping with my sister. Pero kung kasama ko si hubby siya naman nagbabayad i buy clothes na naka sale, sa grocery naman siya din nag pay i buy only what we need ... Mas generous si hubby kay baby he buys toys and clothes.

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Romantic Relationships / Re: Have you seen your hubby cry?
« on: April 05, 2013, 11:59:04 am »
3 years na kami married but i havent seen him cry. Kapag galit siya para siyang tulala lang ako yung lagi niya pinaiiyak niya everytime we argue kahit maliit na bagay pinalalaki niya lagi may may dialogue na maghiwalay na kami

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my hubby works in a call center company his shift is from 9am - 6pm  bawal sa kanila magpasok ng cellphone sa loob  kaya nasa locker lang yung cellphone niya. Pero he gets his phone during lunch break bihira lang talaga mag text si hubby once in a blue moon  minsan nag text siya if may gusto ba ako na food... Pero aside from that, wala na di siya nagpapaalam if ma-late ba siya ng uwi or kung may lakad siya after work...

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hi mommy france i think tama naman yung ginawa mo mahirap naman na subuan mo pa siya ng spaghetti while driving ok lang siguro kung hamburger order niya. Buti pa   hubby mo marunong mag say ng sorry and may surprise pa na flowers afterwards...

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im a stay at home mom. But i have an online shop at multiply im selling affordable tops,skirts, dresses and accessories


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it crossed my mind sobrang mainitin kasi ulo ni hubby we had an argument last night nagpaalam naman ako na aalis ako kc im visiting a friend whose son is confined in a hospital. I went out of our house around 6:30pm syempre gagabihin na ako ng uwi kc after ng visit sa hospital we went to eat outside pa. He texted me around 12 midnight asking kung may balak pa ako umuwi and i replied na malapit na ako sa house. When i got home around 5 minutes later, sinumbatan na niya ako agad na may hirit pa na umuwi ka pa? hindi na nag workout yung relationship namin lately palagi sya nagpaparining na hihiwalayan niya ako   After that sabi niya lalabas sya ng house he went to our room to get some of his things eh parang asar na rin ako kc pinipigilan ko sya ayaw niya ako lumapit sa kanya kaya nung paalis na sya sa room namin sadya ko talaga  ibalibag yung door. Lalo pa sya nagalit na sbi niya gusto ko tumindi away namin and then he began enumerating my mistakes like:

- hindi ako marunong mag-alaga ng bata
- pag galing sya sa work pagod siya lalo pa siya na stress pag nasa bahay siya
- pag pumasok kc sya sa room bigla ko ni-lock yung drawer ko feeling niya tingin ko nanakawin niya gamit ko / this is way out of line na syempre kc minsan bigla na lang pumapasok yung yaya pag andun yung baby sa room i explained it to him naman pero he insists na magnanakaw tingin ko sa kanya
- kesyo di siya nagdinner sa kaantay sa akin tinapon niya yung binili niya
- parinig effect na wala ako pakialam sa kanya


hayz... pagod na rin ako na halos everytime na umalis ako pag uwi ko galit siya agad na di ko man lang alam yung reason. I told him nga na kung ayaw niya ako umalis, mag-stay na lang ako sa house and he retorted like kelan ba kita ipinagbawal na lumabas?  I think he resents my sisters kc  kapag may birthday  reunion ayaw niya magpakita ako lang mag-isa uma-attend ....Im a stay at home mom minsan lang talaga ako umalis mga 2x a month Lately puro parinig siya na hihiwalayan niya ako i admit na it crossed my mind pero i would like to stay pa rin kakayanin ko for the sake of our baby  ako pa nga una  mag sorry sa kanya. In hindsight, i would like to keep our relationship intact i still love him pero i dont know if he still loves me back when i ask him parang pilit pa sagot niya  :'(

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i got 2 boxes of Royce Chocolate Potato Chip spent our post Valentine date on feb 16 at Spiral booked 3 rooms with our whole family at Sofitel Phil. Plaza. I really appreciate the effort of my hubby

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Sleep Training / Re: Where does your baby/toddler sleep?
« on: February 27, 2013, 09:40:55 am »
My baby is now 2 1/2 yrs old. He has his own room naman pero ayaw na niya sa crib madalas katabi niya yung yaya sa bed kaya i decided na sa room na lang namin si baby. Nagpalagay ako ng little tikes toddler bed dinikit na lang namin sa king size bed namin para kasama namin siya sa room. Minsan he cries pa in the middle of the night, pag nangyari yon sa gitna na lang namin siya sleep kaso pag katabi namin si baby kami ni hubby ang hindi makatulog super likot talaga niya matulog.... hehe

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