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Miscarriage Support Group / sex after miscarriage
« on: August 27, 2014, 10:03:23 pm »
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i miscarried last aug.8,i was given methergin for 3days kaya lang i was not able to pass the placenta naturally so i was advised to undergo d&c which happened aug.13.
since the discovery of my pregnancy till after my d&c,my relationship with my husband had been really shaky,we dealt with our pain individually kaya magnified ang stress and problems.
we talked already and wr promised to save our marriage because we really love each other and kawawa naman yung 2.5 year old son namin.
our church sponsored a talk about progression of sex in marriage,and we were counselled to use and enjoy sex in its true context,with God's love and guidance.biblical din naman na hindi dapat tumatanggi with each other bec its our duty to our partner.
eto yung tanong ko,or namin ng hubby ko:when it will be fine to have sex after d&c? may number of weeks ba of healing?my ob kasi is bestfriend ni sis in law,at i think very conservative.wala ciang sinabi sa akin about resumption of sexual activity.
hope to be enlightened sisses.

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ako din,sisses,problemado ako ngyon.im around 5-6wks pregnant and ive a 2yr old son.natatakot din ako sabihin sa parents ko,kasi ako lang inaasahan ng mama ko.yung dad ko wala ng work tapos 1st year college pa yung brother ko.lagi ako sinasabihan ni mama na sana pag mas malaki-laki na yung panganay ko bago sundan para hindi hirap.although kamu bg husband ko may work,kaunting financial changes affected ang lahat.ive already accepted the baby,natatakot lang ako na baka di cia matanggap ng mga magulang ko,at pag-isipan siya bilang kaagaw o problema.siyempre bilang ina ayaw kong marinig yun para sa anak ko.hanggang ngayon di ko talaga maamin.bahala na,si God n lang siguro gagawa ng paraan.nakaka-depress talaga.

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Health and Beauty / ZUMBA for fitness
« on: April 21, 2014, 02:45:16 pm »
hello sisses, licensed Zumba instructor here...:-)

if you want to have Zumba at the comfort of your place, or anywhere near your area, just make a group, contact me and we'll have a fitness party...:-) it can be an event, a charity work, or just a bonding moment with your friends :-)

don't worry, I don't charge much, and the rate is very mommy-friendly, and of course negotiable...

I am also a trained teacher and fitness instructor so no need to worry about your safety :-)

you may pm me for details :-)


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Real Parenting / Re: When did your baby learn/recognized the Alphabet?
« on: January 28, 2014, 11:14:07 pm »
mine is at 1year plus...can recognize,read and recite alphabet,numbers and shapes, phonics na din,pero nahihirapan pa siya with colors... :-) i always wonder if kids this time and age ay kaya nang magawa yun,or he is just smart,but after reading your posts,normal lang pala yun,hehe :-)

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Hello joey.first of,id like to ask what religion are you in?you might be wondering why but because i would like to help you out.i was in the same situation before but through counselling and neurolinguistic programming,i became well. Psychiatrists and medicines did not help me,but prayers from my community and caring group helped me and my husband alot. If you need details,just send me private message.
for now,just be patient with her,she needs you now.tc

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Sexuality / is sex really essential in marriage?
« on: August 01, 2013, 09:55:32 pm »
Hello sisses, askmko lang, ok naman kami ng asawa ko, kaya lang pakiramdam ko magkapatid na lang ang turingan namin...we are young couple with 1year old son pero wala na kaming intimacy in all levels..we are jusr parents, not lovers.we do not cuddld up or even kiss..sex is already out of the story, ang dahilan niya ako daw mah ayaw dahil we might got pregnant, maliit pa baby namin..madalas ako ang nag iinitiate pero na we-weirdan na din ako dahil wala talaga e.we can go on for months without it.
Iniisipnko lang na need ba talaga ang lovemaking, kasi okay naman kami, kaya lang parang platonic na lang talaga relationship namin.minsan iniisip ko in the long run, relationship naman talaga ang important dahil ang sex nagdidiminish as we age, kaya lang, on the other hand, ang aga naman, we are both below 35!
Just need your tso cents on this. Thanks!

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Sexuality / Re: sex is important in a relationship
« on: March 31, 2013, 01:19:39 am »
Yup i view this as important as well,kaya lang parang ako nlang may gusto,parang baliktad..ayaw na ni hubby, kasi daw may baby na...ewan ko ba,ayoko naman mamilit ng ayaw..kakainis lang.

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Party Planning: Birthdays and Baptism / Re: March Birthday Preparation
« on: September 19, 2012, 08:32:16 pm »
yey!done with the preps...waiting for the day na lang...here's the breakdown of my suppliers:

catering-nashley's...eto super okay kasi siya lang ang pumayag na pwedeng kunin lahat pang kiddie meal...200php/head ang kinuha ko, inclusive na ng lahat...may mas mababa pa sa 200php/head.

balloons -c/o nashleys na din...imported balloons gagamitin nila..

foode cart-sorbetero lang kasi inclusive na choco fountain sa catering, freebie niya...ayoko din maraming sweets for the kids..

host and entertainment - lhen peralta..inclusive of simple magic, balloon twisting, bubble show, bubble machine and bubble show...

venue- bulwagang tandang sora, cswcd up diliman

photographer (magastos kasi if may video pa sabi ni hubby)-y2j pictures

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Party Planning: Birthdays and Baptism / Re: March Birthday Preparation
« on: September 07, 2012, 06:40:18 am »
nakapag-pencil book na ko ng host, as of now yun palang kasi madali daw mapuno booking yung mga hosts e...i will have ms. lhen peralta...venue sisses, may ma-suggest pa kayo?quezon city sana...

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i also got their face painting...okay naman kaya yun??

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i booked ms.len na for my baby's bday in march (excited, hehe)...sana it will turn out well kagaya ng mga naunang kumuha sa kanya...question, may nakakuha ba sisses ng balloon packages niya?okay ba naman yung gawa nila?

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Party Planning: Birthdays and Baptism / March Birthday Preparation
« on: September 05, 2012, 08:56:39 am »
hello sisses, medyo excited lang...meron na bang nagpeprepare ng bdays ng kiddos para sa march?

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Party Planning: Birthdays and Baptism / party venues near quezon city
« on: September 04, 2012, 05:01:43 pm »
sisses, baka naman meron kayong alam na kiddie party venue na  nasa quezon city...ok kung malapit sa cubao or diliman lang...thanks!

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sisses help...i so want to get jiggles for my son's bday in march...ive been contacting her thru the number i got from various sites, but no reply...i emailed her but it bounced back..do you know how i can get in touch with her?

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sisses help...i so want to get jiggles for my son's bday in march...ive been contacting her thru the number i got from various sites, but no reply...i emailed her but it bounced back..do you know how i can get in touch with her?

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