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Tweens and Teens / 12 year old with very poor listening skills
« on: January 20, 2016, 04:54:24 am »
I believe my son does not mean na maging matigas ang ulo at ayaw sumunod. It feels like he really does not understand me at times. If i give him for example a multistep instruction he will only understand the 1st one. Is this just a phase na medyo confused o do i need to get him help? I already have two sons with special needs  am i just being over vigilant? I worry kasi kung pano siya makacope sa high school if he can't follow simple instructions.

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Other Relationships / Re: RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM WITH YOUR PARENTS :'(
« on: November 05, 2014, 09:58:18 am »
mayroon siguro talagang mga magulang na walang parental instinct. yung tipong basta naipanganak ka dun na nagtatapos yun. financially di naman nila ako pinagdamutan. pero sa atensiyon at pagmamahal yun ang kulang na kulang. yung tipong di ka man lang suklayan lahat inaasa lang sa yaya. maiintindihan sana kung kailangan niyang magtrabaho eh di naman daddy ko lang naman ang nagwork. graduation kasal binyag ng mga kids ko never siyang umattend. maski nga nung nanganak ako ni di dumalaw at take note 2 months sa ospital baby ko kasi preemie ni hindi nagparamdam. nung iuwi ko anak ko sa halip na kamustahin alam mo ano ang sabi ang pangit daw. hay naku i have tried and tried to be at least civilized with my mother para man lang sa mga bata pero give up na ako. hindi ko talaga siya maintindihan. kakausapin lang niya ako para utangan o kaya para laitin. mula naman nagkasakit daddy ko parang hindi na makapag isip ng sarili niya sunod sunuran na lang sa mommy ko. right now i am not in speaking terms with them. ok nang lumaki ang mga anak ko ng walang lolo at lola kesa naman lumaki sila sa ganung environment na mamaliitin lang sila.

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have a little faith on your husband. ikaw na rin may sabi hindi siya tanggap ng parents mo so put yourself in his shoes kung ayaw sayo ng inlaws mo okay lang ba na sa kanila kayo tumira? soemtimes kasi pag masyado na tayong komportable sa ating situation natin ayaw na nating magbago yun therefore no growth. mag two na yung baby mo so it's about time na maging independent na rin kayo para na rin sa sake ng pride ng asawa mo di ba. mahirap sa una pero magagawan ng paraan. like one of you pwede mag night shift para laging may maiiwan kay baby o mag negosyo na puwede siya isama. mahirap talaga maging independent dahil sa hirap ng buhay ngayon pero in the long run you will reap the benefits. i'll tell you a story about my sister. dahil walang permanenteng trabaho si hubby at siya rin naman walang natapos at sadyang tamad pumisan sila sa parents ko hanggang umabot na ng lima ang anak nila at pati asawa niya tinamad ng magtrabaho kasi nga naman puwede namang tumambay lang libre naman pagkain nilaat pati pag aaral ng mga bata ay inihihingi lang nila. i know medyo extreme yung kwento ko pero ganun talaga nangyayari pag masyado tayong nagiging complacent. minsan kailangan din ng lakas ng loob at tiwala sa sarili at isa't isa.

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Health and Nutrition / Re: did you get any vaccines while your pregnant?
« on: October 30, 2014, 06:58:06 pm »
yes, i remember for my first pregnancy i had a tetanus vaccine pero since hospital naman tayo manganganak i don't think necessary yun baka just in case lang. i also got a flu vaccine yun important yun especially if you have school age children kasi maari silang mag uwi ng sakit, plus may immunity na rin si baby pag labas niya.

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Labor and Child Birth / vbac
« on: October 19, 2014, 09:42:51 pm »
Has anyone here na naka experience ng vbac? Cs kasi ako with my twins,  after 4 years i am preggy again. Gusto ko sana normal delivery na lang since mabilis naman akong manganak like with my panganay. Akala ko kasi pinupush na nila vbac pero parang dito sa pinas di pa rin ata. Any information will be appreciated. Thanks.

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i don't think powder causes asthma but it does trigger asthma sa mga baby na may asthma na. when my kids were younger since may asthma sila bawal talaga powder so i used yung baby spa liquid powder. liquid upon application pero dries up like a powder super bango pa medyo pricey nga lang saka mahirap mahanap. pero now my kids are bigger kahit naglalaro pa sila ng powder di naman na sila hinihika.

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Romantic Relationships / Re: husband cheats
« on: September 19, 2014, 09:02:20 am »
hugggssss... ang sad kapag hindi nakikita ni hubby ang worth natin. pero tama si iamnica kailangan talaga may nakareserve tayo sa sarili. we should love ourselves too otherwise our hubbys will not find us worth loving too. nakikita kai ng mga bata yan eh. pag wala respeto sa atin ang asawa natin baka isipin ng anak natin na lalaki na it's ok to treat girls that way or worse kung babae baka pag daanan din niya pinagdadaanan mo ngayon. fight for your love but have a back up plan just in case hindi naman na willing lumaban si hubby. sis lantis bakit ba kasi kayo long distance? matagal naman na is there no way para magkasama kayo? either he moves for you or you go there to him. apparently his love is not strong enough to withstand separation. you need to be together to fix a broken relationship otherwise mababaliw ka lang kakaisip kung nag cheachaet ba siya sayo. para namang di siya remorseful at di naman nangangako na di na mauulit. bilib ako sa lakas ng loob niyo mga sis ako siguro mababaliw ako kung umabot sa ganyang level ang cheating ng hubby ko. fight for your love, fight for what's rightfully yours but  do it with dignity.

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Romantic Relationships / Re: Do we always need to forgive?
« on: September 17, 2014, 07:57:42 am »
minsan forgiveness is not about what the other person deserves but what you deserve. there's a quote “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”

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Other Relationships / husband's ex sent me a friend request on facebook
« on: September 12, 2014, 08:35:26 am »
if i can remember correctly she first sent me a message nung july. then sent me two friend requests after that and a couple of messages. nangangamusta lang naman saying na ang dami nang magagandang nangyari. i am just puzzled as to why she is friending me di naman kami magkakilala before or even after their break up. i can understand why someone would check on their ex boyfriends's fb page, even i am guilty of that. pero to go as far as send a friend request to his wife di ko magets kung bakit pa. would it be rude if i just ignore her?

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Sexuality / Re: Purely sex but not an affair
« on: July 07, 2014, 08:41:06 am »
men can say sex lang as if it's nothing. they are i guess built that way na kaya nilang i compartmentalize ang emotion sa sex. pero ano nga ba ang mas masakit ang ma in love si husband sa iba o "sex lang". when hubby told me that she did not mean anything to him, it made me more angry because he was willing to risk our family, he was willing to hurt me for something that meant nothing to him. eh ano ako ngayon, less than nothing?!!

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Yaya Solutions / Re: To SAHM or not?
« on: June 17, 2014, 04:03:41 am »
if the doctor advised you to stay in bed it seems to me na you have no other choice but to do so. whether you have to resign or to take an extended leave depende sa situation mo yan. ang importante ngayon magfocus ka sa pregnancy mo kasi pag may nangyaring di maganda you might blame yourself. in the end kasi pera lang yan kikitain mawawala kikitain ulit pero pag pregnancy ang nawala forever  hole na sa puso mo yun. kahit naman nasa bahay ka you can find a job that doesn't require much physical demand from you, maybe maliit lang ang sweldo but still every peso counts, pantanggal bugnot na rin. that doesn't have to be forever naman, when you are in a better place health-wise, you can find a better job where your boss respects and appreciates your skill set. financially, you will be alright, isipin mo na lang bakit yung iba nakaksurvive sa kakarampot na sweldo kahit isang dosena ang anak. it's just a matter of lifestyle adjustment, a few snips here and there konting tiis lang. like they say, pag maikli ang kumot matutong mamaluktot. goodluck :) ;) :-*

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Sexuality / Re: Mababa po sex drive at age of 19.
« on: May 20, 2014, 10:00:17 pm »
sex is very important sa marriage. isipin mo na lang if the tables are turned at ikaw ang laging nangangalabit at siya ang panay ang tanggi, di ba iisipin mo na baka hindi na siya attracted sayo or baka may iba na siya. mahirap talaga pag may baby na. bukod sa pagod la na ring time, mahirap dumiskarte lalo na kung katabi nyo pa si baby sa bed. kami nga may 3 kids so minsan kahit nasa mood di pa puwede kasi gising pa kids pag tulog naman nila minsan pagod na rin kami. dun na ngayon papasok ang date nights. ask someone to look after your baby, just go out and rekindle your romance, mag unwind kayo and discover what you originally loved about each other. i admit naman na we don't have as much sex as we used to, we simply don't have the stamina but we make sure it's quality over quantity.

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dapat talaga open ang communication niyo para walang maoffend di ba. with these things kasi it can go 2 ways. either sobrang hot o mag away kayo kasi  feeling nung isa hindi siya adequate. pero aminin after many years of marriage kailangan din ng konting spice di ba otherwise it gets boring. my husband and i bought a sex toy together para we can decide kung ano ang acceptable to both of us. siyempre i wouldn't buy naman something like a huge dildo na makakainsulto sa kanya baka isipin niya hindi siya enough for me. we only bought a small clit vib na we can both use and enjoy.

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Sexuality / Re: Mababa po sex drive at age of 19.
« on: May 18, 2014, 06:37:26 am »
you didn't say how old na si baby. kasi kasi i experienced the same thing early on in my marriage after giving birth. from super hot to icy cold talaga sex life ko. siguro ganun lang talaga may mga periods of tagtuyot ika nga. maybe because of the hormonal changes that our body goes through. in addition to that i felt somewhat desexualized (is that even a word) after giving birth kasi di ba dami tumingin sayo na nakabukaka. for a while i felt that my body was for feeding not for sensual purposes. isa pa stress is a great factor in low libido and having a new born can be very stressful. talk it out with your husband. let him know that you are not losing interest in him, you're just tired. in my 13 years of marriage we have had periods of drought pero pag bumalik na desire bagyo.

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Real Parenting / Re: Do you allow your son/daughter to use facebook?
« on: April 07, 2014, 06:07:51 am »
my son is 10 and i do allow him to use fb for games and communicate with his classmates. but i did change the privacy settings and removed the geotagging on all of our gadgets. only post pictures after the fact and not while we are there. he is not allowed to post anything without my permission and told him that he shouldn't read the posts too. he does not seem to mind or care about the close monitoring as long as he gets to play.

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