Parent Chat

sis simple lang ang solution dyan: quality time. the reason why your daughter likes the yaya more is because she spends more time with her. kaya pag after work at tuwing weekends talagang tutuunan mo dapat ng pansin ang daughter mo. go out na kayong dalawa lang. treat her out to her favorite restaurant. kailangan nyang maintindihan na ikaw ang permanent part ng buhay niya at hindi yung yaya niya.

i think your daughter needs to be more comfortable speaking her mind with her family. moving her to another school won't help. what will help is if you encourage her to say whatever she wants to say at home. she has to learn to be more comfortable being honest with people. wag mo nang alahanin kung masakit yung mga sinasabi niya at first. what matters is that she opens up to you and the rest of the family.

alam mo sis it sounds like post-partum depression. the best thing you can do is visit a psychiatrist and tell him or her how you feel. try mo sa med city o sa st. lukes

yung maid namin mga 6 months pa lang sa amin but she's been very good with my daughter. what i like most about her is that she keeps my daughter active. overweight kasi anak ko at natuwa ako na may initiative talaga yung yaya na ipaexercise sya.

ngayon palaging sumasayaw yung anak ko ng Goldilocks Bitbit dance, kasi pinakita ng yaya niya sa Youtube. gusto pa nga niya sumali sa contest e!

rare talaga makahanap ng maid na ganun ka-ok pero rest assured na marami din akong dinaanang "bad eggs". patience lang talaga ang sikreto. 

you should think positively as much as possible during this time. the more negative you feel baka maaffect ang katawan mo tuloy. baka magkaroon ng psychosomatic effects sa body mo. so during this time kung gusto mong magkaanak, think positively. just try to stay calm and think happy thoughts para hindi mastress katawan mo.

hindi talaga maganda ang paggamit ng pagpalo para idiscipline ang isang bata, so tama yung grandparents on that point. pero hindi ibig sabihin na hindi mo siya dapat idiscipline. do it by communicating with your daughter. sit down and talk to her ng masinsinan. talk to her like a grown-up. treat her like an individual. pag nakita nyang siniseryoso mo sya, magrerespond yun ng tama.

what's important is that she gets into the course that she is passionate about. wag mong piliting pumasok sa course na wala sa puso niya, kasi kung gawin mo yun, magdrodrop out din yan eventually. give your daughter the freedom to make her own decisions for her life. it's her turn to take care of herself.

if you have a small budget, simple couples games can be a good alternative. try nyo yung "love dice." it's a pair of dice -- 1 has body parts, and 1 has commands like "lick" or "kiss" --  tapos you just have to take turns rolling the dice and trying the commands with your partner. sexy but not too naughty fun!