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The Balancing Act: Career and Family / Re: Quitting Job, Apply for a new one or be a WAHM?
« on: April 18, 2014, 01:17:52 am »
Ako since nung nagstop ako sa school last October and I became a WAHM (buntis pa ako nun sa baby ko) hanggang ngayon WAHM ako. Medyo stressful yung schedule nung current job ko kasi it requires me to work from 7pm in the evening to 4am in the morning. Kaya ngayon I'm deciding to quit my online job since ngayon may tumanggap na sakin na ibang job pero online din siya. Eto at least flexitime and start ako sa May. So I can be with my baby most of the time. Parang feeling ko kasi inaagaw ako sa baby ko sa haba ng time na nakaharap lang ako sa computer. Tapos gabi pa. I'm not there right away to comfort her kung need niya ng yakap. Natatakot din kasi akong baka si Mama ko yung kilalanin niyang mom niya. Kaya nga I decided to find for a home based job na hindi ako aagawin sa anak ko. Yung tipong daytime lang ako magwowork para mostly time pa ng sleep niya.

Suggestion ko sayo sis, try a new path like online jobs. Pero piliin mo din sis kasi may mga online jobs na irerequire nilang committed ka sakanila most of the time.

I can refer you dun sa bago kong papasukan this May. :) just message me your email address :D

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Labor and Child Birth / Re: Hospitals and Maternity Rates in Cavite
« on: November 04, 2013, 03:38:20 am »
Hi mga sis! :D

I wanna ask sino na po sainyo nakapanganak na sa medcrest multispecialty clinic and lying in?

Doon po kasi ako nagpapacheckup ngayon and OB ko is Dra. Samonte-Alamo..

I just wanna know kung ano price range nila. Hindi pa kasi namin napaguusapan ng OB ko yung about sa panganganak ko since I just turned 7 months last week. Tomorrow pa scheduled check-up ko..

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Labor and Child Birth / Re: Hospitals and Maternity Rates in Cavite
« on: November 01, 2013, 08:02:28 pm »
Hi mga sis. Im on my seventh month ng pregnancy. My mom suggested a lying in. Wc is queens crown sa queens row sa molino. Kasi dun daw nanganak manugang ng friend niya and medyo dehado kami ngayon sa ob ko kasi bagong panganak din dpa namin alam when is she gonna be back sa work kasi on leave pa sya. and doon daw sa nirecommend ng mom ko pag nsd covered na ng philhealth. :) im also contacting the lying in itself para makapagset ako ng appointment by monday agad. Kasi past due na ng scheduled checkup ko. hehe ayun. Tsaka andito kasi kami sa buhay na tubig eh yung kung saan ako nagpapacheckup recently is in dasma. Kaya medyo hassle na magpnta pnta. Gusto din ng parents ko and ni bf na mas ok na yung malapit kesa yung malayo pa para ready agad whatever happens :) tight din kami sa budget ngayon ni bf kasi iniisip naming pagkapanganak ko there are more expenses to come pa.

Ayun lang :)

God bless sa mga nagbubuntis like me <3

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Getting Pregnant / Re: Baby Shower? Yes or No?
« on: October 28, 2013, 04:32:24 am »
Yeap! First baby :D hehe kaya totally clueless ako about the things na mangyayari HAHA

Naisip ko din kung walang magpapathrow ng baby shower samin, might as well food trip nalang with family and daddy to be since andito naman sya sa bahay nakatira :D

Dami ko pa ngang iniisip eh like yung paglipat namin ng OB kasi nanganak din OB ko so medyo madedelay yung 7th month check up tapos gusto ng parents ko yung medyo malapit nalang dito samin na pwedeng may connection na agad sa hospital kung san ako manganganak.

Then yung mga gamit ni baby wala pang nabibili ni isa. Nabobother din ako kasi ayaw ko naman yung tipong last minute shopping. hehe

Sorry medyo TMI, clueless lang kasi talaga :) pero at the back of my mind I would still like a baby shower para naman medyo makabawas sa mga bbilhin hehe. :)

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Getting Pregnant / Baby Shower? Yes or No?
« on: October 26, 2013, 03:05:52 am »
Hi mga sis :)

Ideal ba na magkaroon ng baby shower for baby? Naisip ko kasi, I'm on my 7th month na this coming November.. Bday ko din kasi next month so medyo thinking ako kung ideal ba na magkaroon ng baby shower.. And para sainyo when's the best time to have one?

Thanks in advance! :D

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Single Moms / Re: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.
« on: October 22, 2013, 01:27:28 am »
Try proposing kay bf mo sis kung okay ba sakanya na while you're preggy jan muna sainyo makapagstay. Since diba sabi mo nga hindi kayo financially stable. Parang kami ng partner ko dito muna sya nagstay sa amin para bawas gastos din muna from renting a place of his own. And kung if ever ang gastos nalang para sa aming tatlo. Good thing naman open na open family ko sa pagstay niya dito. Hiya na nga ako sakanya kaya tinutulungan ko sya ngayon in working.

Good thing din naman na you and your father are okay na. Mahal na mahal ka talaga basta family. I think sis mas magiging kampante family mo kung the guy stays with you while you're having your pregnancy. Sa ganung paraan mas nakikilala nila yung guy and nawawala yung gap na nadedevelop dahil sa turn ng events. Iba din kasi yung dalaw sa staying talaga. Sabi nga ni papa ko, "iba padin daw talaga yung nakikita yung lalake sa bahay ng babaeng nabuntis niya." Meaning its never enough sa dalaw lang. Syempre need magain ng father ng baby mo yung trust ng family mo.

As for the kids of your bf, convince him to stay close to them. Kahit sa mga bata nalang. Encourage him to see them every now and then. Not yung bdays lang nila. Syempre iba yung feeling ng mga kids na bday lang nakikita yung dad nila. Tapos kung malalaman pa nilang you're gonna have a baby with their dad, iba yung selos and possible na hatred na madevelop between both parties. Nasabi ko to kasi mga kuya ko anak ng papa ko sa ibang babae. And they never grew up with my father. Tama yung naisip mo din welfare ng family niya. Consider mong nauna sila before pa naging kayo. Kumbaga nag exist na sila kahit di pa kayo magkakilala.

Payo ko lang naman yun and based lang din sa perspective ko..

Just keep seeking guidance from above and pray that you would be guided to do the very right thing. :)


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Pregnancy Health and Nutrition / Re: Nadulas, is there any effect on my baby??
« on: October 11, 2013, 01:51:49 am »
Hi mga sis!

6 months preggy ako. And kanina nadulas ako tapos grabe kaagad yung worry ko kay baby ko. Kaya I immediately texted my OB and una nyang tanong is kung nag bleed ba ako and kung gumagalaw si baby. Sabi ko no bleeding and baby is moving. Advice niya din na it's better that I should go visit her tomorrow sa clinic niya to be sure daw. Sana talaga baby is doing well.

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Getting Pregnant / Re: Dealing with babys' gender dissapointment
« on: October 05, 2013, 04:29:29 pm »
Me and my partner are really wishing for a baby boy. Kaso the other day, I had my ultrasound and sabi ng ob ko mukhang girl talaga. Although medyo nakaharang daw yung umbilical cord.. More likely girl daw si baby namin. Tsaka hirap si doctora sakanya kasi malikot daw puro booty shake ginagawa. Hahaha at caught in the act pang dinidilaan inunan niya :)

Im still looking forward sa next na sisilipin namin si baby to be sure kung ano talaga gender niya. Pero whatever the gender, super blessing padin samin si baby. :) lalo na unang apo on both sides. cant wait nadin for January para makita and mahawakan na talaga namin siya. :D

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Single Moms / Re: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.
« on: October 03, 2013, 02:38:17 am »
Ako 20 lang din and im currently pregnant. Buti ka nga tapos na ako hindi pa.

Basta mend things with your dad sis. Kasi family talaga yung pinaka malaking support group na meron ka.
Share ko lang sa side ko, grabe yung interrogation nila sa dad ng baby ko. They really wanna know na talagang may plans for me yung dad ng baby ko. Minsan on my part nakakairita kasi puro tanong pero on the other hand, naiisip kong they just wanna know that i'm in good hands. Disappointed din sila sakin at first kasi nga may past na akong disappointment na nabigay sakanila then ngayon im pregnant at a young age and first pa sa magkakapatid. Considering im the youngest sa amin. Pero in the end, pakita mo lang naman na you're sorry and you want to make up for messing up, they would come along somehow. All we really need is to admit sakanila nagawa natin. Hindi din naman nila tayo matitiis.

Kaya ko natanong sayo na kung alam na ba sa side ng guy, kasi baka sinasabi niya lang sayo yung mga plans niya just for the sake na may assurance kang papanagutan ka niya and yung baby nyo.

Wala lang medyo narelate ko lang sa situation ko ngayon kahit magkaiba tayo ng story, somehow, may parts na pwedeng mairelate.

Sakin ngayon my family wants na nakikita nila yung effort ni partner ko sa pregnancy ko and gusto din nila na mameet yung parents ng partner ko para din malinaw yung usapan. Like my mom said mahirap nga din naman yung puro salita lang. Mas okay yung may actions talaga.

God bless ulit sa pregnancy mo sis. Dito lang kami for you. Isipin mo din number one kakampi mo ngayon si baby mo. :)

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Pamahiin / Re: Gender Predictions. Lalaki o Babae?
« on: October 02, 2013, 12:05:27 am »
I tried that one po. Boy lumabas.

Pero sinilip namin si baby kahapon. Girl daw sabi ni doc..

Malikot daw at mjo nakaharang umbilical cord ni baby sa u/s pero more likely daw baby girl daw sabi ni ob ko. hehe

Sisilipin pa ulit namin next checkup since papasok na ako sa third trimester ko this november. :)

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Single Moms / Re: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.
« on: October 01, 2013, 11:59:41 pm »
Sis :)

Mend mo muna yung sainyo ng dad mo and mas better din na makilala ka ng side nung guy. I mean there's a formality na ikaw na yung present girl niya sa kids niya. Na kahit papano mapaintindi sa mga anak niya. And i wanna ask din po kung formal na ba yung relationship nyo sa side ni guy? At least alam sakanila yung situation mo diba :)

Pray lang sis. :) update mo kami dito :3

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The Balancing Act: Career and Family / Jobs for almost 6 months pregnant woman
« on: September 30, 2013, 02:38:14 am »
Hi mga mommies!

Im almost 6 months preggy pero di naman gaanong halata pa.

I was just wondering meron ba kayong alam na jobs na tumatanggap ng pregnant women? I really need to earn some extra money for my expected date.

Ayoko kasing maging burden sa partner ko when it comes sa gastusin namin eh. Tsaka nabuburyo talaga ako kapag nasa bahay lang.

Patapos palang kasi sem ko sa college and I've decided na by october kung pwede makakuha ako ng work to add sa magiging financial needs namin nila baby.

Before i've tried naman working part time as a virtual assistant kaso nawalang parang bula yung boss ko. Pasaway na american un.

May suggestions po ba kayo?

Thanks in advance! :*

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Single Moms / Re: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.
« on: September 30, 2013, 12:09:06 am »
Hi sis.

Tama yung sabi ni sis hollabackgirl na di okay talaga yung may relasyon ka with a married man.

Kahit na you really do love him, kailangan mong iput aside yung love mo for him kasi nga married pa sya and wala pang annulment. Yun nga lalo na ngayon at preggy ka. It would complicate things more.

Iwas nalang din sa gulo lalo na't nasa first trimester ka palang.

Do whatever it takes nalang for you and your baby. Kasi hindi mo pa naman sure kung talagang magsstay yang guy lalo na't married sya and 5 months palang kayo. Baka ikaw lang din yung binobola nyan.

Plans are only plans hanggang hindi pa nangyayari. Sa ngayon, you cant just hold on to those plans. Be strong for yourself and your baby. Yung sake mo and baby mo nalang iprioritize mo ngayon kasi yang sa guy anytime pwede magbago yan lalo na't may sabit siya.

God bless sayo sis. Im sure all would be well eventually.

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FAQs and Common Pregnancy Concerns / Re: All about ultrasound 2D, 3D, 4D. (2nd thread)
« on: September 24, 2013, 01:42:43 am »
Mommies,

Sino sainyo may alam na 4d dito sa cavite. Yung tipong mura lang din :)

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Pamahiin / Re: Gender Predictions. Lalaki o Babae?
« on: September 24, 2013, 01:29:26 am »
Hi mga mommies!

May mga nagsasabi sakin na friends ko na bka boy. Kasi parang wala lang sakin yung pregnancy ko. Hmm, kahit si partner gusto ng baby boy. Ako din actually.

Kaso grbe craving ko sa chocolates. Nakita ko sa net girl daw pag nagccrave ng sweets. :3

Sa sept 30 pa namin malalaman gender ni baby :3

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