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Kids With Special Needs / Re: 2nd Son, also with ASD
« on: July 11, 2013, 12:57:13 pm »
@riddermark
...my son is in a regular school... and I'm not sure if it's helping him or not.  the last feedback we had from the teacher is, it's too early to say, if he can or cannot catch with with the lessons... kasi nga dahil dun sa k-12. lahat nag aadjust, pati teachers.  so more or less, the kinder teachers are now teaching supposed to be nursery kids pa... eh mostly makukulit at malilikot.  he can sit still, sabi nila much improved than when he was in nursery, plus mas madaldal na siya...  :-\
... paano i-handle? if ako, I'll have him transferred nalang sa mga montissori school (tama ba spelling ko???), better nalang yung approach base sa capability ng learning ng kid kesa pilitin ang hindi pa naman kaya as of now... kaya ako, I am ready to transfer my son to JASMS sa 2nd sem, if hindi na niya ma-cope up ang regular school... I just hope JASMS will accept him.

@darna88
...to answer your question if pwedeng mawala ang mild asd, ang alam ko, basta asd ka, asd ka na, lifetime... may mga cases na nagkamali lang ang diagnosis ang doctor kaya they say nawawla pag laki.  there will always be actions, etc which will show that he is different from the other regular kids.
...well, it seems may delayed echolalia nga si bunso, replacing the "immediate" echolalia?  :-\ waah....!
...doctor's appointment is near end of the month, but I still need to re-confirm pa, paminsan kasi namo-move depende sa last minute activities ni doc...

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Members' Kumustahan board / Re: Random Thoughts [Part 4]
« on: July 08, 2013, 02:33:32 pm »
...should I stay or should I go?   ...naka-1 year na rin ako, but I'm not making progress...  :-\

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Kids With Special Needs / Re: 2nd Son, also with ASD
« on: July 03, 2013, 12:44:09 pm »
hi darna88,

...he is (or was) echolalic.  but naka move-on na siya sa stage na yun... but he still repeats phrases or question which he usually hears from us, just out of the blue, not during the time when we are asking him.

...actually, them more I read about mild asd on-line, the more convinced i am that he really has mild asd... nasa denial stage pa rin ako...  :'(  hirap talaga tanggapin.


 

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Kids With Special Needs / Re: 2nd Son, also with ASD
« on: July 01, 2013, 05:12:18 pm »
Bunso will be having his follow-up check up with Dra. Eusebio this month... I'm both dreading and at the same time hoping the best doon sa magiging result...  :-\

...dreading na baka na baka sabihing walang improvement... or very little improvement, therefore, mild asd pa rin - baka mataas ang magiging expectation ni doc sa kanya
...hoping the best that his chances to improve is malaki... meaning in a few months time, he can be as normal as any kid his age can be... hope we can get more info on how to help him improve more...

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Yaya Solutions / Re: Feedback on Yaya/maid agencies.
« on: June 26, 2013, 12:48:56 pm »
Currently, I'm back with BETH looking for kapalit ULI!  It's now my 2nd week of follow up and wala pa rin silang mabibigay pa, again.

... I waited for LYNX to call me up, kapag nakakita na sila ng replacement kasi she said naka-line up naman daw ako, so talagang tatawag sila.  They never did.

I followed up with her yesterday.  She did reply... but she also mentioned something about "approved na ang kasambahay law" na "4K" daw ang minimum sweldo kapag through agency.... 2.5K minimum if direct hire... etc... etc...

I said, there is no such thing in the NEW LAW about 4K minimum IF UNDER AGENCY...  (that, is already another topic)

Anyway, bottom line here is hindi parin niya napalitan ang "ran-away" maid/yaya ko... almost 1 month na ito.

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Romantic Relationships / Re: Material Obsessions
« on: June 18, 2013, 04:06:53 pm »
...lahat na nga ata ng "lessons" na "teach" ko na sa kanya...  :-\ 

...last Father's day, I bought him a "cheap" watch... BOARDWALK lang siya... around P600.  Kahit cheap he was very happy to receive it... kasi mukhang "expensive" watch daw...

...BUT, he is again, looking around watch stores for another NEW watch, which he again found on-line/internet.

... pag iipunan DAW niya ito... I "nag" him na baka hindi niya nabasa yung "list of expeditures" na binigay ko... I list  down those expenses na galing sa sweldo ko binabayad... to let him see, how much nalang natitira every time.... (my expenses are more or less fixed per month, mga nangagaling sa sweldo niya naman are those that are not... a.k.a. Credit Card expenses na hindi ko kayaing i-control, kasi siya rin naman ang gumagamit madala ng CCard, freely pa....)

Haays! I DON'T THINK HE STILL GETS IT.   :(


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... went through CS for my 3 kids... hindi ako naniniwala nung una... during my first CS, tine-test ko pa sarili ko kung sharp pa memory ko, but truely, it had affected my memory nga...  it seems I have short term memory gap!

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Yaya Solutions / Re: Feedback on Yaya/maid agencies.
« on: June 13, 2013, 12:46:25 pm »
... I took in the new maid just last Friday, but since then until this very minute, hindi mapalagay ang loob ko.  Parang lagi akong kabado...

UPDATE LYNX...

The new maid na I felf "kabado" about, ran off too!
- 1st time was during her "election day-off" bumalik lang para kunin ang mga gamit niya, mas kailangan daw siya ng anak niya ngayon kasi nasa ospital, kailangan daw niyang ilabas.  But then again, she came back  the day after siyang umalis...
- 2nd and last was after nakuha na niya sweldo niya, end of May.  Nag paalam lang na half day lang siya mawawla to buy school supplies para sa anak niya... she never came back nor informed us na hindi na siya babalik.... we even tried calling her sa cellphone, but she can no longer be reached.
She left the house with just her wallet daw sabi ng isang yaya,  when I checked her things, only 1 set of clothes were left. ni toiletries nga wala na.

Currently, I'm back with BETH looking for kapalit ULI!  It's now my 2nd week of follow up and wala pa rin silang mabibigay pa, again.

It is already getting too frustrating... I would really like the Kasambahay Law to include protection sa mga employers tulad natin na wala ng nagawa kundi magbayad lang ng magbayad sa agencies for a replacement... kaya nga ang sabi ko kay BETH, hindi ito "win-win" situation.  Ang nakikinabang at kumikita ay yun agency lang!

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Money / Re: All about Credit Card - tips, do's and dont's
« on: June 06, 2013, 03:47:20 pm »
Only use your CC during times when:
   1. wala kang cash na dala at urgently needed ang  bibilhin
   2. it's safer to charge than to bring cash (mahal or malaki masyado ang amount at delikada
       magbitbit ng cash)

- ALWAYS treat your CC as "cash" (meaning, charge based on your capacity to pay)

- ALWAYS pay on or before the due date

- ALWAYS pay the full amount due

- Ask for options to waive annual fees, if any (some cards offers free annual fee for life... as long as you can maintain a minimum required spending per month)

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Yaya Solutions / Re: YAYA number 15 and counting...
« on: June 05, 2013, 04:19:17 pm »
Hindi pa naman umaabot ng 15 ang sa amin, but I'm praying huwag naman!  Hirap kaya.... here's my situation:

In my case, I had a Yaya who stayed with us for more than 10 years (13 years to be exact), but she left kasi nag-asawa, then, here comes the dilema...

Batch 1 - who's looking after my 2 kids plus luto/linis
Yaya #1 (13 years) - nag asawa na
Yaya #2 (6 months) - nag paalam, mag bi-business daw sila ng asawa niya... then I discovered lumipat sa iba
Yaya #3 (5 months & 2 weeks) -  left w/o paalam.  sumama daw sa BF niyang "tibo"
Yaya #4 (2 months & 2 weeks) - left w/o paalam. nag hanap daw ng mas masmalaki ang sweldo (she was previously an overseas worker/maid)
Yaya #5 - currently on her 2nd week pa lang... but heard rumors that she will not stay long.  Up to end of the month lang daw! Waaah....  :'(

Batch 2 - who's looking after bunso, plus laba/linis
Yaya #1 (2 months) - hiram lang
Yaya #2 (3 months) - bumalik ng province, kasi di siya sanay sa hindi "compound" ang location
Yaya #3 (2 years) - sumama sa BF at nag live-in
Yaya #4 (1 year & 1 month) - nag abroad
Yaya #5 (2 weeks) - left w/o paalam.  nag deduct daw kasi ako ng "holding fee" sa sweldo niya
Yaya #6 - still looking  :(

I'm now thinking, is there something wrong with the set-up or with the kids, or is it with us?  Kaya di na tumatgal sa amin ang mga maid/yaya?  Kawawa nga mga kids sa mga ganung situation, mag-aadjust sila ng mag-aadjust every time.

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Members' Kumustahan board / Re: Go USTe! Thomasian on SP anyone?
« on: June 05, 2013, 12:43:00 pm »
Thomasian here...   BSC - Major in Accounting pa ang tagawag sa course ko at that time!  ;D

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Members' Kumustahan board / Re: How are you feeling today? [Part 9]
« on: June 05, 2013, 10:40:05 am »
... frustrated! Yaya RAN-OFF again...  :'(

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Members' Kumustahan board / Re: I would love to have a....?
« on: May 31, 2013, 12:36:55 pm »
...still a lot to go... already accomplished 2!  ;)
- brand new house & lot with garage (in Manila area) with space/rooms enough for a family of 5 with 2 yaya's
- enough money to buy the brand new house (of course!)
- few days off from work (with pay) and have a worry free vacation with hubby
- yaya for bunso who is as good as my 2 older child's yaya
- new laptop (to replace my old one which is a "hand-me-down" from hubby and more than 5 years old! - so slow na)
- own business
- overhaul of my closet (new clothes!)

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Health and Nutrition / Re: Driving a car while pregnant??
« on: May 27, 2013, 06:34:35 pm »
...been there, done that... until sa nag-maternity leave na ako... :)

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... I just give PhP20 allowance every M-W-F. 

I like to try this approach for my incoming Grade I. 

- May in-arrange na kaming packed lunch sa canteen nila which we will pay every end of the month
- Plus continue pa rin ang baon niyang snack pang recess naman niya

... let's see if she will learn how to manage/save her allowance, since this will be the first time we will give her money for her own spending.   :)


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