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Real Parenting / Re: child tantrums
« on: November 23, 2011, 08:28:15 am »
the best thing is not to give in to what he wants. minsan kasi para tumigil na lang kasi nakakahiya pingatitinginan kayo ibibigay nyo na lang ang gusto which is bad kasi ang tatalino kaya ng mga bata, once na narealize niya na kapag nagtantrums siya eh makukuha niya gusto niya uulit ulitin niya hanggang sa makalakhan na niya yung gawain na yun. stand your ground and set the rules. mappagod din yan at marerealize niya na he cannot get his way.

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Baby Development and Milestones / Re: my baby still has no teeth!?
« on: November 23, 2011, 08:21:41 am »
six months pa lang naman still plenty of time. each baby is different kasi when it comes to their development. my twins nga are 1 year 4 months na and they are just learning to stand ng walang hawak but i am not worried kasi they big bro is the same age when he started walking and he's perfectly fine. just consulkt your pedia on your next visit for your peace of mind.

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Sexuality / Re: vaginal dryness
« on: November 22, 2011, 03:48:35 am »
we all undergo hormonal changes and even emotional changes that could lead to dryness. dumaan din ako sa ganyang phase. just give it time and it will getr better. why not use this opportunity to experiment and use those lubes that adds pleasure di ba. if it doesn't get better in time then just talk to your ob again.

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siguro kasi concerned lang siya sa health mo di rin naman kasi natin talaga alam kung ano effects nun sa body natin. kaya nga ako kahit no matter how insecure i am di ako gamit ng creams or pills baka nga lumaki magka cancer naman ako eventually di bale na lang, not worth it.

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iba iba naman ng pacing ang mga bata, we can't force them to be ready just because others their age are doing it na, baka mapressure lang sila at lalo tamarin o magkatroon ng insecurity di ba. boys talaga kung minsan at that age eh medyo behind sa girls lalo na sa pagsusulat kasi medyo may kalikutan. nung nasa day care pa anak ko 3 y/o siya nun sabi ng teacher niya di daw talaga pwede pilitin sumulat ang bata kasi like any muscle in our body need lang paunti unti na exercise kasi pag bigla masasaktan sila. ikaw nga subukan mo kung matagal ka ng hindi sumusulat probably because lagi computer ang kaharap try mo now sumulat ka mga ten pages ng madalian kung hindi manakit kamay mo, how much more mga babies natin. now grade 2 na anak ko pangit pa rin sumulat hehe oh well he excels in math and science and reading naman eh, talaga lang siguro iba iba strengths ng mga anak natin, merung kinder pa lang kagaling ng magdrawing at lettering merun naman katulad ko na nakatapos na ng college di pa rin marunong.

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Employment and Business Opportinities / Re: Re: Home based jobs
« on: November 05, 2011, 05:13:13 pm »
well you can be an online seller. kung may puhunan ka buy ka na lang stuff to sell sa multiply and such stuff. you can try and sell pre owned stuff na di mo na gamit and then maybe later on pwede ka na rin mamimili ng mga second na gamit and resell them. if you can cook, you can always sell food sa kapitbahay kahit nga 2 klase ulam lang. christmas is coming pwede rin mga brownies and cookies and such. kung magaling ka naman sa arts and crafts you can sell cards, invitations, souvenirs kahit online lang di ba. just play oin your strengths.

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sabagay may mga point kayo. when the time comes naman gravity will take it's toll and di apektado ang mga flat chested na katulad ko (bitter!). dati naman kapag may nang aasar sa akin about it sabi ko lang kung binigyan pa ako ng big breasts di perfect na ko kawawa naman yung iba hahaha. siguro medyo insecure lang ako now dahil my body is not quite where i want it to be after giving birth, need to work out lang muna.

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Romantic Relationships / Re: cheating husband...
« on: October 31, 2011, 03:34:40 pm »
@sassy_lexy
parehas pala tayo, ako rin kasi dati super cool wife lang ako, i let him have his boys night out, hindi rin ako pala text to check him out. hindi ko pinakikialaman cp niya. kaya nga when i found out sobrang feeling ko naging tan** ako. now super paranoid na ako. pag may nag text or tumawag duda na agad ako. i put meaning into everything. trust is not a right naman di ba it is earned ewan ko lang kung mabalik pa yun. ako rin parang di ko na maatim na mag i love you. i just don't feel that i do, everytime i feel pain kasi i also feel resentment towards him.

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Home / Re: Rainy season is Mosquito season! help!
« on: October 31, 2011, 02:36:46 pm »
kung sensitive talaga skin ni baby, lagyan mo na lang siya ng mosquito patch kaya lang minsan sobra amoy kaya i cut it in half , kasi smell lang naman ang need para umalis ang mosquitos, merun din kami mosquito swatter kaya lang tamad ako gamitin kaya bumili na lang kami nung ilaw na panghuli ng lamok, ok din yung ilaw na kulay yellow sa ace yata o handyman nabibili pero pambugaw lang yun. if you want naman matipid just buy a bottle of citronella essential oil 1 drop lang sa damit ni baby. if you don't like naman the smell of citronella i love bgone poroducts, organic naman, yun ang gamit ng babies ko kasi dami rin langgam dito, di lang panglamok ang bgone, i am not sure though if it's hypoallergenic kasi hindi naman sensitive babies ko.

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there are times lang talaga that i feel down and unappreciated. siyempre when you're a SAHM la ka naman suweldo, it's a 24/7 job, madalang makaalala mag thank you, when you're doing your job right (disciplining them) minsan ikaw pa masama, wala kang karapatang magkasakit, you won't really know if you're doing a great job until they are grown ups na. pero isa lang naman ang iniisip ko whenever i feel down i remember that time when i was still working at a hospital and my son was sick, i stayed with him to take care of him but still he cried out for his yaya, that broke my heart into a million pieces. so now i guess i just have to learn to tune them out, care ko ba sa mga sinasabi nila, bakit kaya ba nila to take care of a 7 y/o, tutor him, take care of 1 y/o twins, do the housechores, and still manage to have some me time. being a SAHM is not for everyone, a lot are not cut out for it, it's the hardest job in the world.

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i have twin boys din. they are 1 year 3 months na. nung maliit pa sila i was cleaning one's poop tapos yung isa hinawakan di ko tuloy alam kung sino una kong lilinisin.

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i have always been flat chested and i was ok with that nung single pa ako katwiran ko take it or leave it pero when hubby admitted that he likes big breasts and can't help but stare at them i was really hurt and insecure. especially now that we have three kids and my body has changed a lot lalo ako nainsecure. i am afraid that he will cheat on me again

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i was raised by yayas and had a hard time with emotional connection when i was growing up. even now i don' feel connected to my mom. so i vowed to myself that i will not let that happen to me and my kids. pero lately i've been feeling down kasi i feel pressured to work, parang people are looking down on me because i am a stay at home mom, what hurts the most eh yung mom ko pa madalas mag pressure sa akin, she keeps comparing me to my former classmates na kesyo doctor na daw o kaya napadala na parents sa abroad. di naman mayaman si hubby kaya we're just making ends meet pero di ba mas important ang kids more than any material thing? i feel so unappreciated and disrespected. :'(

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Tweens and Teens / responsibilities for a 7 y/o
« on: October 25, 2011, 07:51:37 pm »
when i was growing up the yayas did everything for me kaya nga may asawa na ako saka lang ako natuto mga bagay bagay. total opposite naman si hubby, he was left to take care of his younger siblings nung elementary pa siya. i am just wondering pano ko ba mabalanse? what kind of house chores o responsibilities ang dapat ibigay ko sa 7 y/o son ko? yaw ko kasi siya maspoil pero yaw ko rin naman na parang pakiramdam niya too much responsibility na.

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it's ok to feel stressed and worried because our body is going through a lot during pregnancy. don't sweat the small stuff sis remember in just a few weeks the happiest moment of your life is going to happen. mahirap talagang maintindihan ng ating mga hubby ang ating pagiging emotional wreck during these times, aminin mo man o hindi ikaw mismo nahihirapan nang intindihin ang sarili mo at times. as for your mom, excited lang yan stage lola as they say. just be thankful na super involved siya sa pregnancy mo kesa naman la siya pakialam di ba. di na natin maiaalis sa lolo at lola ang pakikialam kasi super love lang nila ang mga baby natin eventually naman maiseset rin ang boundaries. saka if you don't like naman the things na binili ng mom mo meron naman sulit at ebay and such sites to sell or swap di ba. wag ka na ma stress just enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. good luck

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