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Sexuality / never had an orgasm with my hubby.
« on: November 02, 2013, 07:36:42 am »
I have been married for 12 years and never pa akong nagclimax. don't get me wrong I do enjoy having sex hindi lang talaga ako nag oorgasm not even close. I have orgasms when I do it on my own pero lately after three kids kahit self help orgasm parang di na rin bonggang bongga tulad ng dati. I feel that I am no longer that sensitive down there. mga mommies nag iisa lang ba ako sa dilemma ko na to? may hope pa kaya for me?

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Romantic Relationships / Re: i want to know the name of the other woman
« on: October 27, 2013, 08:53:32 pm »
mahirap na talaga ibalik ang tiwala pag nasira. it's like a vase na kapag nabasag kahit idikit mo pa it's never going to be the same ever again. based sa kuwento mo I think your husband is an insecure person kaya kailangan niya ng ibang tao to boost his confidence, don't ever think o feel na dahil maganda si other woman kaya niya nagawa yun. dahil kahit gaano pa kaganda si babae at kahit maghubad pa siya sa harap ni lalaki ay walang mangyayari if he's happy and contented with his life, again it's not your fault. I believe na in a relationship hindi totoo yung you complete me na dialog dapat di ba kumpleto siya at kumpleto ka para both of you can bring something to the table. feeling ko user si girl kasi kung di ba naman makapal mukha wala na sila humihingi pa ng pera. engot naman si husband nagbigay. hindi naman ang asawa mo ang una't huling lalaki na mabobo ng dahil sa babae. it's hard to say kung nagbago na talaga si husband, I guess a wife knows somehow deep in her heart kung may kalokohan ginagawa ang asawa. don't feel pressured to forgive him right away, paligaw ka ulit, start frm scratch so you both can learn to love each other again. focus on your baby. don't let her think that life is full of sadness and pain. at the end of the day no matter what happens, you have her.

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Romantic Relationships / Re: i want to know the name of the other woman
« on: October 25, 2013, 12:18:31 pm »
if you are really serious about moving on with your husband, then move on, knowing the details won't help you actually move on lalao ka lang mababaon. totoo ang sabi nila the truth doesn't actually help the wife, sa cheater lang nakagagaan yun. akala ko rin dati knowing the truth will help me by stopping my imagination from running wild pero lalo ka lang masasaktan, every thing no matter how innocent nagkakaroon ng ibang meaning. dating mga bagay na maganda nagkakaroon na ng pangit na kahulugan. everything will just remind you of that person, maybe a movie they saw together or a mall or whatever. don't let her rule your life that way. baka maging stalker ka pa niya, naku di malabo yun. maicocompare mo pa sarili mo sa kanya, lalo ka lang mahihirapan. kung bakit kasi kahit alam naman natin n asawa natin ang may kasalanan, we can't help asking what's wrong with us.

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mine is worse nga  since I have twins, they touch each other's penis sabay sabi kuchi kuchi, nagkikilitian siguro. ok lang yun they are just exploring their bodies, that's their way of learning eh. explain mo na lang siguro na it's only ok to touch pag naliligo to clean but outside no no kasi baka magkaboboo. naalala ko tuloy nung ganyang age yung panganay ko he's so fond of showing his penis sa ibang tao kala niya joke, I explained naman to him that it's not proper and mommy's the only one allowed to see and touch his penis. kauulit kauulit naintindihan din naman eventually.

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Tweens and Teens / Re: Dealing with a very reserved 12 year old Son
« on: June 30, 2013, 06:07:25 am »
speaking from experience, not as a mom but as a painfully shy tweener, you have to push him to socialize kahit sa una it may seem cruel na pilitin siya sa ayaw niyang gawin but it will help his confidence in the end. limit his computer time,kapag nainip yan la na siya choice kundi makipag interact di ba. make him join extracurricular activities especially during summer things like theater para ma expose. son ko nga has two left feet pero enroll ko nga dance lessons and nope his dancing did not improve much but he did gain a lot of confidence sa pagharap sa tao, the mere fact na hindi siya nahiya na mag isa lang siya sa stage is a big accomplishment. get to know your neighbors with same age kids, dai talaga the only friends I had were those sons and daughters ng friends ng parents, pitiful pero at atleast it's a start and it might evolve from there.

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Tweens and Teens / Re: Pimples for my 12 year old son
« on: June 30, 2013, 05:55:22 am »
my son is 9 pero dami na rin niya pimples. I make sure na lang that he washes his face with safeguard morning and night. lam mo naman boys tamad when it comes to hygiene kung minsan. teach him na wag hawakan ang face kasi baka makatuwaang tirisin eh lagot na. saka make sure na his hair is not touching his face irritating din kasi yun. so far naman nag clear up na pimples niya and no marks din.

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Home / Re: gardening
« on: June 27, 2013, 06:31:24 pm »
really merun pala nun sa hypermarket. which section? kala ko kasi sa mga  seed and garden suppliers lang merun nun. gusto ko rin sana siya I try noon para kapag all soul's day at nangunguripot ako at naggagaling galingan mag flower arrangement. good luck with your orchids. sobra kayang nakakalungkot pag namamatayan ng plants especially ganyang may sentimental value pa.  :)

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Home / Re: Feedback pls. : Inflatable bed
« on: June 26, 2013, 05:36:06 pm »
one reason pa why I keep an inflatable bed is just in case may baha puwede floater, mainam nang laging handa :)
pero feel ko talaga magkaron ng sofa bed na may wood frame for visitors o kaya kung mag away kami ni hubby. la pa budget eh.

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Home / Re: Feedback pls. : Inflatable bed
« on: June 25, 2013, 08:02:51 am »
we use an air bed right now. kasi nga panay ang lipat naming ng house so di kami makabili ng bed fame talaga. besides I am allergic to dust so yun naman advantage sa akin ng air bed punas punas lang. though mahirap talaga pag maykatabi kasi kada kilos umaalog, pero weekend lang naman ditto si hubby so ok na rin. in terms of durability naman sa amin it lasts for about a year before magkaroon ng butas which can easily be repaired naman. may patches naman kasama yun eh. kung pang visitors lang puwede na atleast di ba di naoocupy yung room ng bed kung la kayo bisita, it's quite affordable pa. if you opt to buy naman a sofa bed, yung may frame and bilhin mo kasi yung as in kutson lang na natutupi after some time na dedeform so bed na lang talaga siya mahirap ng upuan kasi dumudulas.

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Home / Re: gardening
« on: June 20, 2013, 11:33:15 am »
may konting green pa naman ok pa siguro yan. yung sa tita ko nga as in puro ugat na lang pero after awhile nabubuhay. just keep it na lang even for sentimental reasons alone. besides kung di man siya talaga mabuhay magiging fertilizer naman siya ng ibang plants. nature is wonderful that way.

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Yaya Solutions / Re: Newborn yaya duties - fair or unfair?
« on: June 18, 2013, 04:46:01 pm »
Yes I do agree that she is well compensated. But before we over react we should at least have all he facts first. Baka naman kasi Hindi naman as in complain yung sa kanya Kung di nagkukuwento lang na puyat siya o nagugulat sa bell. Even us moms naman no matter how much we love our kids we still sometimes get cranky lalo na if sleep deprived. As long as she is doing her job no worries na. The best thing is to talk to her directly but don't be condescending kasi di ba yayas are part of our family since they spend more time with our kids than we do. This is just probably a misunderstanding that does not need to be blown out of proportion.

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Home / Re: gardening
« on: June 18, 2013, 04:26:24 pm »
I don't know much about orchids coz I can't make mine bloom again but they are quite healthy. My aunt has orchids pero di naman siya yung tipo na Talagang maalaga. Minsan kala mo patay na pero after a few months masigla ulit. Just don't throw them away Baka naman resting stage lang. Minsan naman an plant kapag na trauma due to change in water, or light o Baka nagalaw need niya time to recover. Buy ka sis fertilizer lagay mo sa stockings sabit mo ner orchids para tuwing spray mo siya may fertilizer na rin. Good luck.

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Home / Re: Feedback on profriends developer?
« on: June 18, 2013, 12:14:59 pm »
sa palagay ko may change of management sila kasi kahit paano may nakikipag usap na. dati kasi ni ayaw nilang makipag dialogue ngayon open naman na communication nila. kais talagang about ready na kami to pull out eh and we told them that. since talagang 0% pa bahay namin the found a house na 90% built na thequestion lang is kung kanino kaya talaga yung house na yun? hmmmmm? I want na kasi ma turn over na yung bahay tapos matirhan muna ni hubby since manila sa work, para Makita na lahat ng palpak at mapagawa na before me and my kids move in since mahirap na magpa repair ng bahay pag marami na gamit at malilikot na bata di ba. well fingers crossed sana nga totoo na sinasabi nila at hindi lang kami pinapacify.

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me too as soon as my babies reached 1 purified na. sabi kasi nila mas magiging sirain ang tiyan ni baby eventually kung wilkins ang gamit kasi nagiging super selan. besides feeling ko naman hawak sila ng hawak kung saan saan tapos subo ng subo kahit anung bantay mo makakalusot din so exposed na sila sa germs no matter how oc you are about it.

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good morning!

sobra ako nakakarelate, but i have a big Q, what if si hubby ang nagpaparamdam sayo na sobrang worthless ka because mas pinili mong maging SAHM ? mas masakit un buti nga ikaw mommy mo lang, di mo kasama araw-araw pag nagkita lang kayo, ako sobrang stress na at sobrang sad, di naman ako asa lang kahit pano may mga sideline naman, bakit ganito ang pakiramdam ko, ano gagawin ko ?

yes I guess lucky pa rin ako kasi whenever I ask my husband if he needs me to work, he always answer no kahit na obvious na hirap na hirap na rin siya minsan. and when sinusumpong ako minsan he gives me budget pang unwind while he takes care of the kids. you know what better ask him na lang talaga ng direchahan baka naman nag vevent out lang siya na nahihirapan siya to make ends meet pero he doesn't mean to belittle you or put pressure on you. minsan di ba need lang nila ng sounding board kasama sa role natin yun eh. wag na lang ganung sensitive (I really should take my own advice). kapag naman kinuwenta mo babayaran ninyo sa yaya, labandera, cook, tutot at etc baka sa kanila na lang mapunta suweldo mo plus di naman nakakabili ng tlc di ba. so cheer up, you're actually saving him money by doing the job of 10 people. ;)

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