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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #150 on: February 22, 2010, 11:17:21 am »

Naiyak naman ako dito leeh_09.. I dont know what could have happened to me kung sa baby ko nangyari ito. I admire your strength and humility before the Lord. God bless to you and baby lala, i know she would be an inspiration to many people.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #151 on: February 22, 2010, 11:40:31 am »

yes! having a baby like mine will teach you so many things in life. you would start to appreciate every small thing and iisipin mo na lahat blessing talaga and we should be happy and thankful everyday. minsan xe  na-overlooked natin mga blessings, akala natin God has left us, and when were so happy naman, nakakalimot din tayo kung minsan. it will be a hard road ahead but i will teach my daughter to be strong and confident and dont take her condition as a defect that will stop her from doing everything and become what she wants in the future. may mga kids xe na bully but its normal for every kid naman especially boys and im preparing myself to that. i just hope and pray na laela will grow up to be strong.  :)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #152 on: February 26, 2010, 10:08:25 am »

almost 3 months nalang manganganak na naman ako.. (2nd baby). i am so stressed thinking if i'll be having a normal delivery again or just stick to my plan of having scheduled CS. what scares me a lot is baka bumalik ang naexperience ko dati na iyak ako ng iyak..ninenerbiyos...post partum blues..

pero sabi ng family doctor namin usually daw hindi na nauulit kase alam mo na ang feeling sa una palang, so mas magiging careful na tayo sa pangalawa..

anyone here na nakaexperience ng ganito for the 2nd or 3rd time, share naman your experience and enlighten me...

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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #153 on: February 26, 2010, 10:51:59 am »

almost 3 months nalang manganganak na naman ako.. (2nd baby). i am so stressed thinking if i'll be having a normal delivery again or just stick to my plan of having scheduled CS. what scares me a lot is baka bumalik ang naexperience ko dati na iyak ako ng iyak..ninenerbiyos...post partum blues..

pero sabi ng family doctor namin usually daw hindi na nauulit kase alam mo na ang feeling sa una palang, so mas magiging careful na tayo sa pangalawa..

anyone here na nakaexperience ng ganito for the 2nd or 3rd time, share naman your experience and enlighten me...

thanks

As long as your baby is ok, safe and healthy, everything will be fine... trust me... my first baby was born with defect... just imagine what i went thruough compared if ill have a normal baby.... just be happy and enjoy... =)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #154 on: February 26, 2010, 01:30:20 pm »

almost 3 months nalang manganganak na naman ako.. (2nd baby). i am so stressed thinking if i'll be having a normal delivery again or just stick to my plan of having scheduled CS. what scares me a lot is baka bumalik ang naexperience ko dati na iyak ako ng iyak..ninenerbiyos...post partum blues..

pero sabi ng family doctor namin usually daw hindi na nauulit kase alam mo na ang feeling sa una palang, so mas magiging careful na tayo sa pangalawa..

anyone here na nakaexperience ng ganito for the 2nd or 3rd time, share naman your experience and enlighten me...

thanks

As long as your baby is ok, safe and healthy, everything will be fine... trust me... my first baby was born with defect... just imagine what i went thruough compared if ill have a normal baby.... just be happy and enjoy... =)

thanks mommy..

i'll pray for you and your baby also.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #155 on: February 27, 2010, 03:19:46 pm »

i really have to be careful lest i suffer from this. i noticed kasi na lately pag nag-aaway kami ng husband ko i end up destroying things. the last time, i crumpled our marriage contract tapos i threw the ring he gave me last year and i don't know where it ended up. nafrufrustrate na rin ako dahil i gained so much weight during my pregnancy and i feel suspicious everytime we're not together. naiisip ko na baka nambababae na siya. catching him chatting with another girl in facebook also did not help. para na akong nababaliw sa kakaisip minsan. tapos may times na i want to slash my wrist pag galit ako. minsan di ko feel alagaan baby ko. good thing, my lola, mom and brother are here to take good care of her.  :(
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #156 on: March 04, 2010, 12:09:19 am »

ako nranasan q yan when i gave birth to my baby girl, nkatira p naman kami s MIL q so hndi niya kbisado ugali q and doesn't know anything about the deppression n pinagdadaanan q..one day i feel very sad n lang suddenly napaiyak ako with no reason..tntnong ako ng husband q and hndi q alm ang issagot and minasama ng MIL q un..galit daw ako s kanya? hndi niya naintindihan n may pinagddaanan ako that time, nsabi q n rin s husband q about it and he's aware already..but my MIL? binubungangaan p ako n parang wala ako krpatan mkramdam ng something..mbuti nalang hndi ako naloka dhil s halip n ako ang intindihin that time, siya p inintindi q..how sad life is when ur with in laws n ganito..hmmp
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« Reply #157 on: March 20, 2010, 09:34:22 pm »

1 and 1/2 months nalang manganganak na ako ulit sa 2nd child ko.. sobrang takot na ako kase i experienced PPD sa first child ko..

anyone can share their experience about this? puwede ba ito maulit?

any advice na puwede ko gawin para maprevent ko na agad ito...

pls mommies, i need your help.. pls enlighten me.
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« Reply #158 on: March 21, 2010, 04:14:12 am »

i really have to be careful lest i suffer from this. i noticed kasi na lately pag nag-aaway kami ng husband ko i end up destroying things. the last time, i crumpled our marriage contract tapos i threw the ring he gave me last year and i don't know where it ended up. nafrufrustrate na rin ako dahil i gained so much weight during my pregnancy and i feel suspicious everytime we're not together. naiisip ko na baka nambababae na siya. catching him chatting with another girl in facebook also did not help. para na akong nababaliw sa kakaisip minsan. tapos may times na i want to slash my wrist pag galit ako. minsan di ko feel alagaan baby ko. good thing, my lola, mom and brother are here to take good care of her.  :(

I started having this unexplained (or at least I cant explain) condition months after I gave birth. Yes, na-depress ako. I believe I have had this postpartum depression for a year (though my injectables might have contributed more of the depression). Dagdagan pa nang mahuli ko si hubby na nakikipaglandian sa "cyber world". Whenever I am bursting out of anger, I can feel shortness of breath, followed by stiffness of my fingers or a sharp pain on my chest. The first time this happened to me (my son was only 2 months old), I blacked out and it was my hubby who told me what happened. Until now, sumusumpong pa din siya pag galit na galit na ako. From then on, I am very cautious pag nararamdaman ko na na magtitrigger siya.

Anyone who's had or might be experiencing this? Or anyone na pwedeng magrefer sa akin isang psychologist? I would really appreciate your help mommies.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #159 on: March 25, 2010, 05:09:30 pm »

hi to all mommies...
i'm a newbie mom,at naexperience ko yan post patrum depression until now..there are times na gusto ko ng maglayas at iyak na lang ako ng iyak...happy ako to have my baby pero bakit po ganun, minsan pakiramdam ko i'm all alone!wala akong makaramay...kahit na i'm with my parents naman...but they dont understand how i feel...ang worst scenario pa eh gusto ko umalis at lumayo muna pansamantala and iwan muna yung baby ko sa parents ko...ang sama ko bang mommy????and sometimes i get mad sa baby ko kasi naaalala ko yung father na niya nang iwan sa ere!!!....haist!but ilove my baby so much,but i need time for myself naman..since manganak ako wala na akong social life eh...haist talaga...hirap kasing alagaan ni baby eh..meron bng pwedeng inumin na vitamins to lessen my depression????help mga mommies....
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #160 on: March 26, 2010, 02:17:02 pm »

^sis,

nangyari na yan sa akin. nakasakay na ako sa FX nun, dami ko dala gamit nun. tapos na-realize ko, kung aalis ako panu kung umiyak ng umiyak yung anak ko tapos di mapatahan ng mister ko. kaya ayun, umaandar na yung fx pero nagpumilit akong bumaba  :-[

minsan, you really have to let it go. release all your emotions. and you need find a friend or a relative whom you can talk to who can relate or understand what you are going through. I know mahirap pinagdadaanan mo dahil single mom ka, pero you have to be strong for your baby. get your strength from your baby and your baby will get his/her strength from you.

I am not sure kung pwede kang bumili ng mga over the counter meds to lessen depression. You have to get a prescription for that.

if you feel you cant handle it anymore, just send us PM or post your messages here. dami naman naka-online araw araw. Get yourself a hobby din, read bible pages or recite Psalm 91. You'll feel better afterwards. Wag kay baby mo ibuhos ang emotions mo. sensitive ang mga babies sa nararamdaman ng mga nanay.  :)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #161 on: April 21, 2010, 06:43:51 pm »

mga mommies, anyone here na nakaexperience ng PPd sa second baby nyo?

buntis kase ako ngayon with my second child..malapit na ako manganak..fear ko talaga na baka maulit ang PPD ko..

share nyo naman experiences nyo mommies..
mas mdali nyo ba naovercome ang PPd sa second child nyo?ano ang mga ginawa nyo to avoid it?

hope to hear from you asap..thanks in advance
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #162 on: April 29, 2010, 09:42:57 am »

till when ba tong post partum depression na to?

mag 7 months na since i gave birth and there are lapses nito. good thing hindi naman continuous.

hay.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #163 on: May 06, 2010, 09:55:21 am »

Ako naman, parehong may post partum depression ako sa 2 anak ko. yun sa eldest talagang feel ko umiyak konting bagay lang napaka sensitive ko, pero nawala din agad. iba naman sa 2nd ko, yung feeling of depression talaga na biglang nararamdaan ko na lang especially pa nagsimula akong mag breast feed, biglang parang may lungkot na bumabalot sa akin. ayoko ng ganoong pakiramdam. pero unti unti din nawala.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #164 on: July 29, 2010, 03:58:33 pm »

Everyone's baby blues manifests differently. Mine kind of felt like PMS--for an extended period of time. Same ugly, bloated feeling, same snappy temper, same desire to be alone. The difference was that I resented my husband for not taking care of me. I felt like I was giving 1 million percent to my baby and no one was looking after me. I felt neglected. Day by day it got better. I talked it out with my hubby and also made sure I pampered myself every day-- candle lit shower, nice lotion, aromatherapy--something to make me relax and feel human again. What a ride!
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