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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #195 on: January 06, 2012, 01:31:34 pm »

siguro ito din yung pinagdaanan ko.. pag-uwi namin dito sa bahay from the hospital naging monster ako :D hindi makatulog si baby sa kwarto kaya inilabas namin sa salas yung crib, tapos feeling ko nakikipag-compete ang mom ko sa pag-aalaga, pumasok ako sa kwarto at di na lumabas kahit naririnig kong umiiyak si baby, umiyak ako ng umiyak hanggang sa di ko na maidilat ang mata ko. mas lalo akong naging cry baby nung lumala ang ubo at sipon ko  di  ako makalapit kay baby sa takot na mahawa sya, kaya feeling ko talo ako sa competition.. lagi ko inaaway mom ko, nagtagal din yun ng mga 2 weeks. ngayon ok na ako, at naguilty talaga ako sa mga pinag-gagawa ko :(
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #196 on: January 09, 2012, 10:18:51 am »

1m0nth na baby ko and im starting to feel this kind of depression na my gawd it true pala dati sbi ko str0ng ako d ako madedepres but i was wr0ng. Super self pity and drama ko n0w at over ang pgka jelly. Sana ma overc0me ko. Ang hirap. Iyak ng iyakk
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #197 on: January 09, 2012, 10:19:30 am »

1m0nth na baby ko and im starting to feel this kind of depression na my gawd it true pala dati sbi ko str0ng ako d ako madedepres but i was wr0ng. Super self pity and drama ko n0w at over ang pgka jelly. Sana ma overc0me ko. Ang hirap. Iyak ng iyakk
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #198 on: January 11, 2012, 12:23:26 pm »

2 months na si Br.. andun parin yung inis ko kapag napapansin yung paraan ko ng pagaalaga.. to tell the truth, i think my mom is the culprit and also my partner.. nasa isang bubong kasi kami and i hate the fact that two of them are barging on my 4 sides (emotional, financial, physical, moral) badtrip talaga ako!!! i have lots of ideas how to raise my baby well.. i really dont want to raise my child as my mom raise me, CAUSE i accept to myself that i am not raised well... i am so dependent, low self esteem, lagi nanggagaya...lagi nakasunod sa mas nakakatanda. i know someone here knows what i mean.. im like an idiot always second in line of my older sister. I dont trust the way my mom wants to share her thoughts because really she was not able to listen to my thoughts EVER since i was a child. she's like I AM THE BOSS and you are slave, i am the mother and you're JUST a child, i chose you to live so you must follow my steps and your opinion are not WELCOME and i think you have done a good job but its not enough you must do hard work not just good must be BEST!!! arg! grabe 2 months na 'to. kung puwede lang kung puwede ko lang i-swipe yung CC ko at magpunta ako sa hawaii kasama anak kol (its the best relaxing place i think hehe)!!! wd regards to my partner, hay nako kung ano ang karahilang problema ng babae sa lalaki un dn ang akin, hindi niya ako maintndihan :)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #199 on: January 13, 2012, 02:41:19 am »

naku mga mommies, natural lang yan.. Sooner or later mawawala din yan..
I gave birth last Dec.1,2010 sa panganay ko thru CS.. Nun pinakita sya sakin while tinatahi ako, kinakapa ko sarili ko parang blank emotions ko.. Then 1st few days, nanibago ako, parang sino ba tong batang to bigla na lang sumulpot.. But then, nandun yung care ko sa baby ko.. and of course love ko yun! When we got home naman, dun na nagstart talaga post-partum blues ko.. Feeling ko lungkot na lungkot ako, nag-iisa, wala kasama.. Feeling ko di na ako pinapansin ng hubby ko.. Everytime din may dadalaw at kukuha sa baby ko, iniisip ko na ilalayo nila sakin so cry baby talaga ako! I cried almost everyday, kahit kung sino pa makakita.. My mom once asked me, bakit daw ako umiiyak.. I said, "Ewan ko,di ko mapigilan eh. nababaliw na ata ako."  ;D One week din ako HB sa dami nang iniiisp ko, BP ko was always 170/100 for a week! As days went by naman, unti unti nawala.. I wonder kung maulit na naman when I give birth sa second ko this year..  :-\

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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #200 on: January 19, 2012, 06:30:53 pm »

Hi mga mommies, I just wonder if meron din ditong nakakaexperience ng naeexperience ko right now, I don't even know if it's still part of PPD pero after ko kasi manganak sa youngest ko a month ago, I started to become very much jealous dito sa particular x ng hubby ko na wala namang ginagawa. Basta bigla nalang inis na inis ako sa kanya and ayoko na ng ganitong feeling :(
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #201 on: February 02, 2012, 10:36:39 pm »

just want to sahre mine mga sisses :)

i gave birth last Nov2011, at grabe 2weeks akong nagiiiyak everytime papa gabi na. yes , very timely talaga yung sadness ko that time. in denial pa ko nung una na PPD na nga yung naffeel ko. ayoko ng madilim kasi feeling ko super kawawa ako. palagi ko lang karga si bagets while nag ccry me a river ako :D feeling ko inapi ako. kahit full support naman ang family ko at mga in-laws ko. tapos wala akong gana kumain , ayoko manood ng tv, ayoko mag laptop, ayoko magbasa. then sabi nung mga friends ko, labanan ko daw. kasi baka matuluyan ako. kaya kahit ipinagbabawal pa ng matatanda dahil baka mabinat daw ako, e nag laptop na ko. nagbasa ako at nanood ng tv, pinilit ko kumain. pinapalitan ko yung ilaw namin sa kwarto nung pinaka maliwanag. :D after a month , totally recovered na ko sa post partum blues.

kaya for all the mommies out there na nakaka feel ng unexplainable sadness, nako labanan nyo yan habang maaga. because it will lead to post partum psychosis, syempre ayaw natin yon diba? divert your attention sa mga bagay na makakapagpalibang sa inyo :) goodluck!
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #202 on: March 15, 2012, 10:41:35 pm »

nung una nakakatuwa at may baby sa house pero dumadating talaga yung panahon na nakakaramdam ka ng lungkot parang mixed emotions, masaya dahil sa new baby pero may lungkot factor di ko rin alam kung saan galing...siguro dahil sa mababawasan na ang paglabas labas mo or siguro yung figure mo nagbago na or minsan pag di supportive si hubby nakakaramdam ka ng loneliness lalo na pag nasa work sya at kaw nasa bahay though like me may work ako pero iba naman ang linya ko kaya kahit sa house may mga business pa rin akong inaasikaso....nadivert ko naman eventually yung sadness dahil naging busy sa work at sa pagtitig ko kay baby......kasi sobrang happy ako pag nakikita ko sya...parang walang kapalit yung mga moments na naiiwan sa isip ko yung mukha ni baby kahit kasama ko naman sya lage kasi pag lumaki na sya mamimiss ko yung face niya na sobrang innocent...
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #203 on: March 16, 2012, 02:13:57 pm »

I think I suffered din from PPD. It lasted for so long. 6months na ata baby ko parang iba pa rin kinikilos ko. I had a vey sensitive pregnancy and my pregnancy was unplanned. So ang transition mahirap from a happy go lucky me to being a mom na 24hrs and 7days a week nkakulong sa bahay with no helpers. Kapag nakikita ko asawa ko inis na inis ako sa kanya. Bwisit na bwisit ako sa pagmumukha niya. Gusto ko kapag dating niya ng bahay after work siya na ang mgalaga sa anak namin at ako matutulog which is I know hindi puwede dahil ngbbreastfeed ako and ofcourse I know pagod din siya sa work. Kapag nakikita ko siya tulog ako gising sobrang inis ko at naiiyak ako. Hindi ko makuha maging sweet sa baby namin. Parang hndi ako cute na cute sa kanya. Feeling ko kawawa ako. Ang pangit ko. Parang galit na galit ako sa mundo. Little by little nababawasan tho kailangan pa umabot ng months. Mgcoconsult na sana ako sa OB ko kaya lang i was too hesitant kaya dinaan ko n lang sa dasal 
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #204 on: March 16, 2012, 05:41:36 pm »

naexperience ko din to...after i gave birth, my inlaws went to the US for a month-long vacation, while my parents naman are in the province so wala ako support aside from hubby na whole day nasa work din...ako and si baby lang naiiwan pero may mga helpers din but no yaya pa that time...as a first time mom talaga naman nakaka-drain, tapos sobrang daming changes na maeexperience like di ka na makalabas, feeling ko sobrang panget ko na, ni hindi makaligo ng maayos tapos puyat ka everyday...although i can say na very excited ako sa baby ko, di pa din maiwasan yung feeling na nadedepress ka na at naaawa sa sarili as if aping-api na...one time sobrang iyak ni baby ( i think mga 2-3 mos old na sya nun), di ko na alam gaagawin para mapatahan ko sya, nilapag ko na lang sa bed tapos di ko na pinansin, nakatanaw na lang ako sa window habang umiiyak din, tamang-tama naman dumating yung inlaws ko galing sa office narinig siguro iyak ni baby so kumatok sa room, what i did was turn off the light para di mapansin pag-iyak ko pero no effect..pagdating ni hubby sinabi daw ni mil na umiiyak ako hehe...di ko napigilan talaga sumbatan si hubby, sabi ko buti pa sya nakakatulog sya mahimbing, naghihilik pa samantalang ako laging puyat...after nun, gumigising na din sya sa gabi, at pagdating niya sya na nagpapatulog kay baby, minsan naaawa din ako kasi i know pagod din sya sa work...supportive naman si hubby, every weekend pag off sya from work punta kami ng mall to buy things for baby (nakakaaliw to for me ;D), pasyal then kain....later on di na din ako nalulungkot, finally naka-adjust na din ako sa life ko now as a mother na ibang-iba nung single pa ako, sobrang naeenjoy ko na si baby kahit nakakapagod pa din esp now na sobrang likot na ;)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #205 on: March 20, 2012, 08:43:43 pm »

ang naeexperience ko naman up to now eh yung parang sayang yung pagiging dalaga ko..haha hindi ko pa na-enjoy, I graduated march 26, 2011 and march 29 nalaman ko na preggy na ko! shocks! wala pa kong career magiging mommy na.. happy naman maging mommy kaya lang daming worries, hindi ko alam kung PPD to or nagsisisi lang ako na napaaga masyado ang pagdating ni baby kaya no time for myself na.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #206 on: March 23, 2012, 06:08:28 am »

@marienne,

siguro sis, more on pagsisisi kasi after college mo gusto mo makakuha muna ng career, pero andyan na yan work around it nalang siguro sis. It will pass din naman yong PPD mixed emotions lang yan, patong patong kung baga take it slow and take a step one at a time. hehe
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #207 on: April 02, 2012, 12:49:47 pm »

try to listen music and watch comedy movies it helps alot... nangyari din sakin yan:)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #208 on: May 07, 2012, 08:50:32 pm »

hello mga moms,
5 weeks post CS na ko.
Feeling ko nagstart na ko madepress. Dami kasi prob dito sa house.
Actually financially lang naman, kaso worried ako kasi naka-ML ako at wala sweldo for 3months.
Tapos minsan si Hubs nasisigawan ako, naiiyak ako agad. :'(
Feeling ko din ang panget ko at ang taba taba..

Kaya pag may time nag-OOL ako para mawala sadness ko.. yoko kasi madepress ng todo..
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #209 on: May 27, 2012, 09:15:06 pm »

me too..madalas umiiyak. dami kasing iniisip. umaatake pa high blood, back pain at lahat ata ng sakit ko lumabas after kong manganak last Apr 12. si baby madalas gising pa sa madaling araw. financially medyo problem na din kasi walang pay naka ML kasi. mahal ng gatas, diapers, water at medicines ko pa..  :'(
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