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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #210 on: May 27, 2012, 10:51:05 pm »

Naexperience ko din yang ganyang pakiramdam, sa 1st baby ko, siguro mga 2 weeks after ko manganak, sobrang lungkot ko, yung tipong nag uusap usap lang kami ng mga cousins ko tapos biglang maiiyak ako ng walang karason rason, gusto kong pigilan pero talagang naiiyak ako without any reason, then one time im with hubby, nood kami ng wow mali, eh diba nakakatawa yun? Gosh para akong tan** natatawa ako sa palabas at the same time umiiyak ako! Ewan ko, ang kulit talaga, tapos andun yung feeling na gusto mo lagi kasama si hubby, na ayaw mo syang mawala sa tabi mo at sobrang sweet, kalurky talaga magkaPPD, buti sa bunso ko hindi ko na sya naexperience, kasi may knowledge na ko and experience about it so nalabanan ko na sya, medyo happy happy ako with family and friends and wag masyad0ng mag isip ng nega, only positive thoughts! =)

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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #211 on: June 14, 2012, 01:31:51 pm »

naexperience ko rin ito, 2 weeks after giving birth. ako lang kasi mag-isa sa bahay with my baby. good thing yung hubby ko big help, nagtawag ng nagmamanicure and footspa sa bahay, so nauplift yung mood ko, at saka , palaging may uwing cake ,yun bale ang comfort food ko. kung ano yung nirequest na food ko inuuwi niya. buti na lang alam niya pinapagdaanan ko, nasuggest ko na kasi sa kanya yung postpartum depression, and try niya igoogle sa internet para mas marami sya malaman.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #212 on: September 24, 2012, 10:37:39 am »

hi mga mommies... just wanna ask if my alam kayo case na more than a year na last yung PPD?
actually naranasan ko yang mga few weeks after birth ng first baby ko.. but i feel that something really different in me. my signs pa din ako ng PPD kahit 1yr and 1 month na baby ko. I really need to know lang para in case na meron papacheck up ako. Thanks a lot :)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #213 on: November 26, 2012, 09:04:35 pm »

Hi,

I really need help.  I think I have PPD.  5 and a half months ago, I gave birth prematurely.  My baby spent 5 weeks in the hospital but never during those times did I feel any form of depression.  My partner and I even grew closer because of the challenges during that time.

Recently, I noticed that I totally lost interest in sex.  Of course my partner was disappointed and sometimes upset about it.  But I really didn't have any sex drive up to now.  I also noticed that I feel alone and started to be distant from my partner and I constantly cry for no reason at all.  I have NEVER thought about hurting my baby or my partner but I wish that I am dead so that I don't feel this way.  I also constantly feel tired and whenever I sleep, it's always shallow.  I suffered from anxiety disorder before (about 5yrs ago) and took medication and therapy. I can't take any medication now because I am 2 month pregnany but my partner would like to drag me into therapy again.  Would anyone recommend a therapist in the QC area?
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #214 on: April 20, 2013, 11:48:28 am »

I've been pregnant thrice and I've experienced PPD on all those three. I gave birth to 2 boys and then I had a miscarriage during my third pregnancy. The worst PDD is after my second kid. Buti na lang my husband stayed with me. Sobrang galit and depressed ako nun. As in konting mistake lang niya, hinahamon ko na siya ng hiwalayan. I even asked him to leave our house a couple of times. Buti na lang before I gave birth, I already warned and reminded him about PDD so medyo ini-expect na niya yung changes. Plus my parents kept reminding him as well that its just post-partum blues. Anyway. after a few months, everything went back into normal. Kung noon everyday kami nag-aaway. Ngayon once in a blue moon na lang. In fact, a few days ago - he remarked "hindi na tayo nag-aaway no?!".
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #215 on: August 07, 2013, 11:30:31 am »

hi mami laarni06 i think we have same experience
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #216 on: August 07, 2013, 06:33:18 pm »

hi mga mamies im new here
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #217 on: August 08, 2013, 10:34:44 am »

Hi mommies!!

Share ko lang po.
Ako naman after giving birth, ang napansin ko naging serious type of person ako,
parang nagmature talaga ako. Before kasi suer kulet ko and bubbly, puro tawa
pero now parang nahihirapan na ko makipagkulitan. Even nung magmeet kami ng mga friends ko
na kakulitan ko talaga, parang di ko na magawang makipagkulitan sa kanila.

Ewan  ko ba. anong nangyari sa kin. Tingin nyo mommies, what im going through is normal?
Please advise.. Thank you so much mommies!  :)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #218 on: August 15, 2013, 09:59:39 pm »

Haayy.. i need help.. 8 months na baby ko pero parang may mali sakin. Nung nanganak ako ang dali kong mairitA at nawalan ng gana sa sex.  Parating partner ko ang nababalingan ko, konting mali lang niya o may di ko gustong ginawa niya nagagalit na ako. Feeling ko ako lang ang gumagawa o nag aalaga sa baby namin. Lalo na pag ako nag aalaga tapos makikita ko nag ca candy crush yan nako magdadabog na ko kasi di man lang maisip na tulungan ako. Tinetext ko si mama tungkol sa nafefeel ko tapos sasabihin ng partnerbko kung ano ano daw tinetxt ko. Hindi sya supportive sa mga gantong bagay. Hyper baby ko tapos muntik ko ng mapalo sa kulit, butit napigilan ko. Madali akong magalit. Di ko alam kung PPD to o PPSS.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #219 on: August 16, 2013, 12:23:29 pm »

Aware ako na I'm experiencing PPD, but I can say na I have the ability to control my feelings, sometimes. Pero kapag late night and I feel like crying, iiyak ako talaga :'( Pero after ko mag drama will just say to myself na, "Tomorrow is another day." :D

Kapag naman naiinis ako sa partner ko >:( imbis na mag focus ako sa inis ko, lalambingin ko siya. Weird noh? Pero after ilang days, kapag nakagetover na ako sa inis ko, i-share ko sakaniya yung concern/issue ko sakaniya. At least peaceful yung usap, hindi kasagsagan ng init ng ulo :)

Sobrang dame ko insecurities na dumadaloy sa dugo ko :( Pero what I do is, ginagawa ko na lang positive yung feelings ko imbis na i-nurture ko yung negativity na nararamdaman ko.

Happy ako dahil ang partner ko naman ay sensitive kahit papano. May kusa mag alaga kay Baby kapag nakita niya sobra ang pagod ko, nag-ooffer mag linis and sterilize ng bottles, bigyan ako hugs kahit hindi ko i-request. ::) Simple acts, pero sobra ko na-aappreciate.

Mommies, sana aware tayo na meron din Paternal Postpartum Depression. Alam ko sobrang madame tayo pinagdadaanan, pero wag tayo masyado maging selfish. Isipin din naten yung partner naten ;)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #220 on: December 03, 2013, 04:47:20 pm »

@krizzia - I think everyone who went through PPD knows how you feel. PPD can also be aggravated kapag wala ka ng time at all for yourself, lalo na kung kulang na kulang ka sa tulog. Based on my experience, I was at my angriest and lowest kapag wala akong tulog and kapag physically exhausted na talaga ko. So ang ginagawa namin nun, at least once a week - my husband lets me sleep for like half the day. Kahit di na ko magpa-salon, shopping or something - 8-10 hours of  uninterrupted sleep lang ok na sakin. Especially if you have an active kid, physically draining talaga yan.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #221 on: April 21, 2014, 02:15:33 pm »

hi, pwede ba makisali? i am feeling a lot better today than the past 3 days. i have started a journal now lang. i thought i was ok until 4 days ago, when nagkasabay sabay ang masama pakiramdam ko (headache, sipon), gutom, pagod, init, at eventually galit sa hubby.

i was lucky enough to have online friends na went thru the same me since pregnancy. we were pretty close and at this time nandito na kami sa stage na birthday parties ng mga bata. we have an ongoing chat for more than 6 months na and we talked about anything under the sun. marami kami more than 10 people there in the chat. 4 days ago, i ranted what i have been going thru and no one responded for i dont know, almost an hour. at the same time nag aaway na kaming mag asawa, and i was looking forward to read something fromthe chat man lang but none. i saw some seeing my message but no one replied. my hubby and i had a misunderstanding and sobra hurt ako. then seeing no one replied i said in the group chat. "wow. what a support group. thanks for not replying on my rant" then i left the conversation.

my misunderstanding with my husband lasted for more than 2 hours and even though he was apologising na i still cant control my feelings. i am so hungry , devastated that we haven't had a decent picture on my baby's 11th month because of our fight. then on my mind pa i was guilty and sad halo halo na when i left the chat. there were several people fromt hat chat who managed to send me private messages and apologised for not replying. when i gathered enough strength to sit up and stop crying i replied to them na "it's ok i understand that it is not your obligation to comfort me" one person replied accordingly, one didnt, and the last one blasted me out more questions and challenge like if i really understand daw i should have not leave and she felt offended kasi nag sorry na daw sya and isipin ko daw iba mas may mabigat pa prob sa kanya. then in aminute she said kung gusto mo ikaw bumalik sa chat ako na aalis. i accidentally pressed the part to view her profile and i saw in that instant she unfriended me. i said to her "that was fast. i saw you unfriended me" then she said afterwards i unfriend na niya lahat daw and she is leaving the chat. i just replied "ok if that is your decision"

during that time sobrang kabog na dibdib ko di ko na maintindihan bakit kailangan pa niya makisabay. nagkaayos na kami ng asawa ko in a while at kumain na rin ako gutom na gutom na ko nagpapabreastfeed pa ko and not feeling well.

well that last act by a supposed friend, the unfriending part, it took a toll on me. i really dont get it until yesterday one of the people part of the chat gave me an advice na not all are real friends. most chatters kasi in the chat ang message nila is magkakaayos din kayo, magiging maayos ka. para bang lahat ako may kasalanan. nag apologise na ko sa kanila. kasi narealise ko naman yung mali sa action ko. pero yung mag unfriend, parang ang hirap naman nun. di ko alam kung tama ba i add ko sya uli. i asked her in private message why did she unfriended me and wala sya reply. one common friend said na she did it daw to make way for me. hello? how can she make way when i already get out of the way before her exit? and i already told her na it is not about her. i cant fathom why she thought that way. i even do the part to ask her directly and still no reply. i have been crying for days since that happen kasi di ko matanggap why she did it. no we are not super duper close but i consider everyone in that chat as a friend. however the eyeopener advice na "not all are real friends" may be the best answer to this.

in a way, masama rin loob ko kasi i felt like they all thought i was the only problem. like i am the problem. makes me think to be more depressed actually. most advice that i seek medical help for that one blow. i thought they knew me better after pouring out almost all of my personal life.

now i am lost in cyberspace. as a sahm, with no much mommy friends around, a first time mome whose only consolation is going thru online,  my online world is limited. i can discount the fact that it hurts me seeing that person unfriending me all over my other friends' page and even posing a status publicly within this time "how lucky she is to found mommy friends" i dont really want to think she is doing this on purpose but looks like it is.

lesson learned for me is not to pour everything without leaving for yourself. im glad some member of the chat showed me a professional or maayos na disposition sa private messages but it left me doubtness now who amongst them are really my friends. maybe time to go back to my real friends - the one really tangible and have known me for decades.

sorry sa nobela, this is my way of letting it out. i hope in time i will have peace and even to that person too. maybe it is good riddance after all.
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #222 on: September 14, 2014, 09:41:17 am »

hi mommies, i need ur help.im so really depressed ilang months na to, ngsimula ito nung july pa until now always ako nagacry pag nag aalaga kay baby, dami dn kc happen skn cmula nung nanganak ako, naraspahan ako,nagkabinat tos nmatayan ng father sunod sunod nangyari skn tos ako lang tlglagi gabantay ky baby, pag ngkukwento naman ako sa hubby ko d naman naniniwala skn, lagi maexperience yung malungkot ako then teary eyes, nagigising ako minsan sa pagtulog yung nangiginig ako then gapawis mga kamay ko then yung pkrmdam na malungkot at maisip ko hala mmtay na ata ako. buyag!!! lagi masakt dibdib ko then daw my bumabarado sa lalamunan ko.sumasakit dn likod ko sa sobrang pag aalaga ky baby.ako lang yung laging puyat wala lang mn talaga gaassist skn.hahay! gusto ko ng magbalik sa normal pkrmdam ko.ayaw ko na ng gnto.lagi ko nalang maisip dn mnsan na lahat ng nkkita at hapen skn nangyari na noon.nakakainis na talaga to.. d ako snsamahan ng asawa ko mgpacheck up.snsb niya pa matanda nko kaya ko na daw mg pacheck up ky wala sya oras. hahays! d niya ko naiintndhan.. sori sa haba ng sinulat ko.need ko lang talaga ng help.d naman siguro to nakakamatay noh?
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #223 on: September 15, 2014, 09:50:32 am »

Hello mga mommies, naka tulong sa akin to cope up with this postpartum depression, nag take ako ng Essentials and BiOmega, a friend of mine recommend niya sa akin then a week's time of taking this nag ok ang mood ko di na masyadong umiyak at happy na rin si husband kasi sa kanya ko laging napagbuntungan kapag naiinis ako at wala sa mood, kaya Natuwa siya when I took up that nutritional supplements bigla daw nag iba na yung aura ko... :)

One thing more, I always pray that God will help me to cope up with this situation that I am going through and reading the Bible and some inspirational books, it really helps .... Always think positive behind any situations :)
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Re: All About Post-Partum Depression
« Reply #224 on: September 26, 2014, 12:52:43 pm »

hi, mga mommies..hmm..just want to share and eventually to find comfort and care from you SP community..


I was diagnosed with post partum psychosis just last july after I gave birth to my youngest..and until now, hindi ko pa din maintindihan ang sarili ko..siguro nga nababaliw na ako..dahil siguro sa dami ng pinagdaanan ko sa buhay then right after the operation..sumabog na ata talaga ako..i can hear voices..violently saying na saktan ko ang sarili ko at ang mga anak ko..this is hard..i am already seen by a psychiatrist and advised me to take anti-psychotic drugs and sleeping pills so I can relax myself..nung una, i took it, pero parang isang buong araw akong tulog at hindi ko man lang nabreastfeed yung baby ko..at paggising ko, pakiramdam ko nakalutang ako sa ere..bangag..so, i opted not to take the medication..this is hard..and i dont know when and how will i be cured..ayoko din naman maging drug dependent..i just dont want to hear those voices again..ayoko din matulog dahil super nababangungot lang ako lagi..sabi ni hubby, lagi ako tulala..minsan, nagsasalita mag-isa..i dont want to breakdown..i have lots to do for my kids..for their future..for my husband..and for my family..i was too anxious na baka mabaliw ako..if only i could disappear..i dont know really what to do.. :(
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