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[mika-madz]

@CallcenterMom
sis mga ilang weeks tatagal to? worried ako bk masayang bayad kasi talagang napakamahiyain ng anak ko..

[Mommy Jazz]

@CallcenterMom, I'm happy to know na naging effective ang workshop sa daughter mo. I've been getting a lot of feedback and complains (like I'm connected with the agencies) that they got ripped off with workshop offers na wala namang naging result sa anak nila. For the longest time naghihintay ako ng good feedback and it's good to know na from a fellow SP member ko mababasa yon.


For those who are thinking of enrolling their kids, do it for fun. Alamin niyo po muna if your child would like to try it, hindi yun tayo ang magtutulak sa kanila. See if they have a 1 day trial. If you find it too expensive, look for other workshops. This directory was of last year pa pero you can call to check if they have an off-summer class.
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/directory/summer-activities/culture-performing-arts/performing-arts/

[CallcenterMom]

@MommyJazz:  Depende siguro.  I feel the same with JMNTC.  Iba kasi sila mag-salita talagang nag=promise na makukuha or nakuha na ang bata sa commercialor may project na.  With regards naman sa NTC, they didnot promise and they did explain their part.

Ang sa akin kasi, importante mawala ang shyness ng anak ko.  I'm glad NTC (Neophyte) and pag-VTR sa mga modeling agencies help her a lot. 

Siguro, ang importante lang tama ang sabi mo, let the kid enjoy the activities.  Wag masyado ma-pressurekung walang project ang bata.  Ang importante, your kid is having fun at her own phase.

[mvm723]

I have a 3 yr old girl who never participates in group activities in school...At age 2 she only attended play school twice then dreaded going back to school. At age 3, I sent her to summer play school and she did not want to join when the class had a pajama party, pizza making and lastly their culminating activity. During practice she would sulk and I would see her cry and not want to join the class. Her teacher was wondering why at the 2nd week of class, she would start crying when everyone else was doing the dance. At home she loves to sing and dance, she has her guitar, mic, piano and stuff like a rock star. She even has her own song while strumming the ukulele. But at school, it was a nightmare. On the last day of school, everyone was on stage except her. She was just taking photos of her classmates. I was worried...Is this because she doesn't see her dad much? I also have trouble making her listen to me aside from not following teacher as well. Should I take her to a psychologist? She is very sensitive and smart and in the middle of things, she would ask why daddy doesn't sleep in the house...help! I will enroll her to a new school again because she doesn't want to go back to her former school. I'm afraid this might be a yearly school change

[mika-madz]

hi sis.. i have the same problem with my 6 yr old daughter. sabi ng teacher sa akin ayaw daw magsayaw sa practice nila ng dance for the field demo on July25. as in naka statwa daw. e dito naman sa bahay ang kulit kulit. pag ask ko naman sya bakit ayaw niya magsayaw nahihiya daw sya tapos nun ayaw na magsalita..  hindi ko alam gagawin ko para mapasunod ko sya

[Mommy Jazz]

Merging "My 3 yr old doesn't participate in school activities" with this topic. Stage fright in school were discussed on the 1st page of this thread. Please keep your comments coming.

[alec_18]

help po..i have a 3 yr old son, i just noticed that as he grows older he's getting a bit shy towards other people, especially if all faces are new to him.he's facing the ground pag ganun nahihiya sya, pano kaya maalis sa kanya un.is is possible na nakuha niya saken un, medyo shy type kasi ako..tia!

[toughmom moderator]

Same topic merged.

[KCsMoM]

Hi SP mommies, I'm from bf homes. I'm looking for a toddler na makakalaro ng 2 yrs. Old daughter ko. Wala kasi kaming ibang kids sa bahay. And my relatives are in province area. Gusto ko Lang sanang maboost yung social skills. So, whoever is free for toddler playmate/playgroup, set tayo ng date.

[mamaluvs]

Hello mga mommies!
My 4- year old daughter won't recite nor participate in school. She's in kinder 1 this year. Last year, nag daycare sya sa baranggay, same case din. Until this school year, hindi pa rin sya nag sasalita, nag rerecite, or nagpaparticipate sa school activites. Pero pag may quizzes or need na magsagot sa seatwork, ginagawa naman niya. Anything lang na kelangan magsalita ,yun yung ayaw nyang gawin..Sobrang mahiyain niya. Ibinibigay naman namin lahat pwedeng isuhol para lang mag recite sya sa school. Nag paparomise naman si daughter ko na mag rerecite na sya. Kaso at the end of the day, malalaman ko sa teacher na hindi pa rin nagparticipate.Matalino naman sya. As in ang bilis nyang matuto ng lessons,  at  makamemorize ng bible verses. Super bibo nga sya sa bahay. Natutuwa sa kanya mga kapitbahay. Kaso ganon sya pagdating sa school. Super mahiyain to the point na ayaw niya maki join/participate even makipagusap sa classmates at kay teacher.  I don't know what to do na.  help mommies kung ano pa pwede ko gawin.

[annefajardo]

Hello Mommy, my daughter (5yrs old) is like your child too. Nagsabi sakin ang Teacher niya earlier that my daughter doesn't recite in school, eh kasali un sa grading system. Nag Recognition sila kanina sa School for first grading, sa kanilang magkakaklase na babae sya lang ang walang special award. Although okey lang naman sakin kasi I really don't wanna stressed her on having an award every grading para hindi ma pressure. Takot din ang anak ko sa Teacher niya which is medyo nagtataka ako, nund Kinder 1 sya from her previous School, takot din sya sa Teacher niya, ni hindi sya lumalapit or nakikipag usap. Yung Teacher ng anak ko ngayon mabait at madaling i-approach, sya pa nga ang ang rereach out sa anak ko pero umiiwas talaga anak ko, ni ayaw magpahawak sa Teacher niya kapag hinahawakan daw ang kamay ng anak ko. I felt guilty when we got home kanina, I think may mali rin ako kasi palagi syang napapagalitan dito sa bahay, my mother told baka resulta na daw yun ng palagi namin sya napapagalitan, nagkaroon ng inferiority complex ang anak ko. I feel you Mommy, I am also seeking advice from peoplte who will not judge us but instead who will understand us and our situatio and help us cope. God Bless Us.