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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #30 on: August 23, 2009, 04:10:56 pm »

Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....
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« Reply #31 on: August 23, 2009, 07:40:20 pm »

hmm i think kung pagbabasehan mo yung 1week before and 1 week after i think safe ka... pero ang tamang inomon pills is 2 weeks dapat me iba pang form of contraception un ang pinakasafe pag bago ka lang iinom.....
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« Reply #32 on: August 23, 2009, 08:26:53 pm »

Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....

mommy i think since wala naman na bf mo stop ka na take pills kc ako sa daughter ko ganyan nangyari i got pregnant while on pills (not pregnant b4 i took pills and my ob confirmed it na nabuntis lang ako during that month).. kc nag stop ako tapos uminom unlit ako den dapat pala yan 1st day ng mens mo iinomin tapos for 2 weeks dapat me ibang form of contraception kang gamit after 2 weeks un safe na talaga un.. i suggest u ask your doctor una mali na agad yung pag inom mo... pills kc should be taken on the 1st day or 2nd day ng mens pagbago ka lang iinom..
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« Reply #33 on: August 24, 2009, 08:36:10 am »

^^
Thanks sa advise mommy yvaughne...actually mas lalo akong kinakabahan hehe.. Yong mga symptoms kasi nong nabuntis ako nararamdaman ko na naman ngayon although its too early pa to end into conclusion. Yong parang namimigat puson ko. Maybe epekto din to ng pills.  May I ask mommy, healthy naman ba si baby pag labas niya, wala bang birth defect na cause ng  tinake mong contraceptive pills?

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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #34 on: August 24, 2009, 08:51:28 am »

i have nothing to say,,d sko marunong sa ganyan eh,,,,
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #35 on: August 24, 2009, 10:11:13 am »

I think it's safe.  It's been working for us for 7 years now.  This is why we get excited and we look forward after a period. 

Here's why I think it's safe.

A period is simply some sort of a room refreshment.  A woman's body has determined that no conception/pregnancy had occured so it's clean up time.  Replace those "red curtains" please.  It will take another fertility cycle before the body can welcome another possibility of bringing in a new life to the world. 

Here's how I understand it:

  • Safe days
  • Fertile, slippery mucus days
  • Safe days
  • Sticky mucus days
  • Red, menses days
  • Go back to 1

Concentrate na lang tayo siguro sa presence or absense ng cervical mucus.  This type of Natural Family Planning is called Billings or Cervical Mucus (CM) Method.  To make it simple...be conscious starting from the time you wake up and go to the bathroom in the morning...and if possible all throughout the day. 

It's almost always dry, which means that you are not fertile.  If sperms gets inside, they will not stand the acidic environment and die.

Inside the womb blood gradually fills and gathers on the walls.

If the mucus is slippery

Wait, this is not lubrication from being sexually stimulated ha. 

This is the fluid secretion on those days where you decide to use liners/shields.  A slippery mucus means that you have a protective, nourishing fluid for sperms to swim into.  If you want to have more children, this is where you might want to focus or schedule everything. 

Women are said to be more sensitive and easily stimulated during these 4 to 6 days.  In the middle of these days, A woman releases an egg.  This egg will travel through the fallopian tube in a fluid that resembles a wedding gown.  She will meet or await just one out of millions of sperms. 

When semen is deposited inside

Semen will contain millions of sperms.  They will "ride" the slippery mucus inside and rush to the opening of the cervix.  If the egg and a sperm meets, conception will occur and a new life begins. 

The fertilized egg will bury itself on the blankets of blood inside the womb.

If a contraceptive (like a pill) had been used, the chemical would have made the womb dry.

The new life - your little one - will not be able to hold on to anything inside the womb...thus abortion happens.

If the egg does not meet a sperm immediately
, it will remain in the womb and wait.  If it still doesn't get fertilized, it will come out on your next menstruation period.

Going back up to having slippery mucus.

If it seems dry today but you remember you had fluid secretions yesterday.  Consider it a fertile day (2-Day Method).

After days with slippery mucus, it will be dry again and this will be until you have a sticky type of mucus and your mentruation period. 

We cannot tell if there is a slippery type of mucus during menstruation days, so these are considered like fertile days.

Basically, one can only be pregnant if:

  • there's sperm
  • there's slippery mucus
  • there's still blood on the walls of the womb

Contraception/pills use chemicals to try to:
  • kill the sperm
  • thicken the cervical mucus so no sperm can fertilize it
  • dry up the womb so the new life can't implant and get aborted

Natural Family Planning enables us to:
  • know more about our body and how a new life comes to the world
  • find the right time, perfect moment to bond wih the one we love
  • give our whole self, without reservation or worries

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« Reply #36 on: August 24, 2009, 12:52:25 pm »

I got this from one of the threads. Its very easy to follow:

onset of menses                      unsafe period

        1                                                   9-18                 
        2                                                  10-19
        3                                                  11-20
        4                                                  12-21
        5                                                  13-22
        6                                                  14-23
        7                                                  15-24
        8                                                  16-25
        9                                                  17-26
      10                                                  18-27
      11                                                  19-28
      12                                                  20-29
      13                                                  21-30
      14                                                  22-31
      15                                                  23-1
      16                                                  24-2
      17                                                  25-3
      18                                                  26-4
      19                                                  27-5
      20                                                  28-6
      21                                                  29-7
      22                                                  30-8
      23                                                  31-9
      24                                                  1-10
      25                                                  2-11
      26                                                  3-12
      27                                                  4-13
      28                                                  5-14
      29                                                  6-15
      30                                                  7-16
      31                                                  8-17

madali lang yan! ONSET OF MENSES IS THE DAY WEN U START UR MENS, UNSAFE PERIOD yan yung date na di ka dapat pagalaw sa partner mo, rest of the date is ur safe period.


thanks stargazer, itatry ko eto  :)
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« Reply #37 on: August 24, 2009, 12:54:42 pm »

I think it's safe.  It's been working for us for 7 years now.  This is why we get excited and we look forward after a period. 

Here's why I think it's safe.

A period is simply some sort of a room refreshment.  A woman's body has determined that no conception/pregnancy had occured so it's clean up time.  Replace those "red curtains" please.  It will take another fertility cycle before the body can welcome another possibility of bringing in a new life to the world. 

Here's how I understand it:

  • Safe days
  • Fertile, slippery mucus days
  • Safe days
  • Sticky mucus days
  • Red, menses days
  • Go back to 1

Concentrate na lang tayo siguro sa presence or absense ng cervical mucus.  This type of Natural Family Planning is called Billings or Cervical Mucus (CM) Method.  To make it simple...be conscious starting from the time you wake up and go to the bathroom in the morning...and if possible all throughout the day. 

It's almost always dry, which means that you are not fertile.  If sperms gets inside, they will not stand the acidic environment and die.

Inside the womb blood gradually fills and gathers on the walls.

If the mucus is slippery

Wait, this is not lubrication from being sexually stimulated ha. 

This is the fluid secretion on those days where you decide to use liners/shields.  A slippery mucus means that you have a protective, nourishing fluid for sperms to swim into.  If you want to have more children, this is where you might want to focus or schedule everything. 

Women are said to be more sensitive and easily stimulated during these 4 to 6 days.  In the middle of these days, A woman releases an egg.  This egg will travel through the fallopian tube in a fluid that resembles a wedding gown.  She will meet or await just one out of millions of sperms. 

When semen is deposited inside

Semen will contain millions of sperms.  They will "ride" the slippery mucus inside and rush to the opening of the cervix.  If the egg and a sperm meets, conception will occur and a new life begins. 

The fertilized egg will bury itself on the blankets of blood inside the womb.

If a contraceptive (like a pill) had been used, the chemical would have made the womb dry.

The new life - your little one - will not be able to hold on to anything inside the womb...thus abortion happens.

If the egg does not meet a sperm immediately
, it will remain in the womb and wait.  If it still doesn't get fertilized, it will come out on your next menstruation period.

Going back up to having slippery mucus.

If it seems dry today but you remember you had fluid secretions yesterday.  Consider it a fertile day (2-Day Method).

After days with slippery mucus, it will be dry again and this will be until you have a sticky type of mucus and your mentruation period. 

We cannot tell if there is a slippery type of mucus during menstruation days, so these are considered like fertile days.

Basically, one can only be pregnant if:

  • there's sperm
  • there's slippery mucus
  • there's still blood on the walls of the womb

Contraception/pills use chemicals to try to:
  • kill the sperm
  • thicken the cervical mucus so no sperm can fertilize it
  • dry up the womb so the new life can't implant and get aborted

Natural Family Planning enables us to:
  • know more about our body and how a new life comes to the world
  • find the right time, perfect moment to bond wih the one we love
  • give our whole self, without reservation or worries



thanks daddy jojo...  ;D
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« Reply #38 on: August 24, 2009, 01:36:38 pm »

Hi Bhebe,

Ingat please.  Kung after lovemaking ka nag-take ng contraceptive, that could be considered as an attempt to perform an abortion.  This is on a general sense ha.  From what I know, contraceptives are used on a certain length of period for the purpose of controlling the entire process of fertility.  Hindi yata ito parang gamot sa sakit ng tiyan na iinumin to relieve the pain. 

You said that this was after your period, so I believe there was no possibility of getting pregnant.  The unfertilized egg you released earlier and stayed with the blood on the walls inside your womb had already left your body on the first two days of your period.  You could not have produced a new egg immediately after that, the process takes days. 

However, if this happened during days when you could get pregnant, you could have an egg that was fertilized, hence a new life...and taking contraceptives/pills would be an attempt to kill what is already a person inside of you.

Please learn about fertility and reproductive health.  Learning how your body undergoes the process may even be an interesting time for bonding.  There is so much to discover, many of them are rather intimate or even romantic.  Involve your boyfriend and tell him what is going on with your body and his...you might discover how you have been wonderfully and beautifully created. Cheers!


Hello, i'm newbie here..my concern is....

My period begun last Aug. 14, 2009 and ended Aug. 17, 2009 bali 4 days. My bf arrives nong 18, of course we really miss each other kaya di na napigil mag lovemaking. This was my first time to take contraceptive pills kasi paminsan-minsan lang kami mag do ng bf ko ( when he's on vacation). I used daphne, actually recommended lang ng friend ko na nag wowork sa pharmacy, diane 35 sana kaso wala akong mabilhan sa area namin. He ejaculated inside me nong day time and then kinagabihan pa ako ng Aug 18 nag take ng pill. On the following nights uminom ulit ako at the same time. We sleep together for 2 nights only then he left, para ma sure na hindi ako mabuntis i continue on taking the pills until now every night before i sleep. I decided na ubusin ko nlang yong isang pack. Am I doing the right thing or my possibility paring mabuntis ako?

My miscarriage history kasi ako and it happened last March this year. My period during that time started dec. 20 and ended dec 25. nag contact kami nong dec. 30, 2008. Unsafe practice ginawa namin kaya yon nabuntis ako. Ika 3rd month ko exactly unfortunately nakunan ako... I and my bf was so sad and very depress tlaga coz of what happened. Yong advise sakin ng OB ko hindi pa ako pedeng mabuntis mula nong niraspa ako 6 months to 1 year at my possibility na mangyari ulit yon. Niresitahan niya ako ng diane 35 contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancy. Di naman ako nag take kasi wala naman akong contact at ngayon august palang ulit.

Back to my first paragraph...i am very worried na mabuntis ulit ngayon dahil yon nga ang advise ng OB ko sa akin. No problem naman sana kahit mabuntis ulit ako wag lang maulit ang experience ko.  Nakakadala ang makunan at maraspa.
Ayon, may possibility ba akong mabuntis ngayon? Please help....

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« Reply #39 on: August 24, 2009, 02:29:20 pm »


i hope calendar will work for me  ;)
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« Reply #40 on: August 24, 2009, 04:39:39 pm »

sis ibig sbhin b k2ld ko ngkroon ako yesterday aug. 23 d ako pwede mgpglw ng august 31-sept. 9
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« Reply #41 on: August 24, 2009, 04:58:22 pm »

Hi Bhebe,

Ingat please.  Kung after lovemaking ka nag-take ng contraceptive, that could be considered as an attempt to perform an abortion.  This is on a general sense ha.  From what I know, contraceptives are used on a certain length of period for the purpose of controlling the entire process of fertility.  Hindi yata ito parang gamot sa sakit ng tiyan na iinumin to relieve the pain. 

You said that this was after your period, so I believe there was no possibility of getting pregnant.  The unfertilized egg you released earlier and stayed with the blood on the walls inside your womb had already left your body on the first two days of your period.  You could not have produced a new egg immediately after that, the process takes days. 

However, if this happened during days when you could get pregnant, you could have an egg that was fertilized, hence a new life...and taking contraceptives/pills would be an attempt to kill what is already a person inside of you.

Please learn about fertility and reproductive health.  Learning how your body undergoes the process may even be an interesting time for bonding.  There is so much to discover, many of them are rather intimate or even romantic.  Involve your boyfriend and tell him what is going on with your body and his...you might discover how you have been wonderfully and beautifully created. Cheers!

Hi Daddy Jojo,

You're absolutely right. What I've done is actually 2nd remedy to prevent on getting pregnant kaso palpak din pala. Now I learned but very worried. I'm not scared of getting pregnant naman talaga, what i'm frighten about is baka maulit yong nangyari sakin 5 months ago( i had miscarriage it was threatened abortion ). Ang advise kasi ng OB ko non, di pa ako pedeng mag buntis 6  months to 1 year. Nakaka phobia maging pasyente lalo na mawalan ng magiging anak! Anyway, gusto ko narin naman tlagang magka-anak na. ;D
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« Reply #42 on: August 24, 2009, 05:27:40 pm »

Hi uli,

Quick tips.  1. May surpirse gift na malaking grasya (grace) si Lord if you get married ha.  Romantic pa kung kayo lang ng boyfriend mo and the priest sa church (side altar wedding ba tawag don). 2. Mas okay kung planadong mabuti yung day na you will want to conceive your child (identify your fertile day schedule doon ang do).

Hi Bhebe,

Ingat please.  Kung after lovemaking ka nag-take ng contraceptive, that could be considered as an attempt to perform an abortion.  This is on a general sense ha.  From what I know, contraceptives are used on a certain length of period for the purpose of controlling the entire process of fertility.  Hindi yata ito parang gamot sa sakit ng tiyan na iinumin to relieve the pain. 

You said that this was after your period, so I believe there was no possibility of getting pregnant.  The unfertilized egg you released earlier and stayed with the blood on the walls inside your womb had already left your body on the first two days of your period.  You could not have produced a new egg immediately after that, the process takes days. 

However, if this happened during days when you could get pregnant, you could have an egg that was fertilized, hence a new life...and taking contraceptives/pills would be an attempt to kill what is already a person inside of you.

Please learn about fertility and reproductive health.  Learning how your body undergoes the process may even be an interesting time for bonding.  There is so much to discover, many of them are rather intimate or even romantic.  Involve your boyfriend and tell him what is going on with your body and his...you might discover how you have been wonderfully and beautifully created. Cheers!

Hi Daddy Jojo,

You're absolutely right. What I've done is actually 2nd remedy to prevent on getting pregnant kaso palpak din pala. Now I learned but very worried. I'm not scared of getting pregnant naman talaga, what i'm frighten about is baka maulit yong nangyari sakin 5 months ago( i had miscarriage it was threatened abortion ). Ang advise kasi ng OB ko non, di pa ako pedeng mag buntis 6  months to 1 year. Nakaka phobia maging pasyente lalo na mawalan ng magiging anak! Anyway, gusto ko narin naman tlagang magka-anak na. ;D
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« Reply #43 on: August 24, 2009, 07:01:32 pm »

thank you so much sa tip daddy jojo..  :)
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« Reply #44 on: August 24, 2009, 10:11:58 pm »

thank you so much sa tip daddy jojo..  :)
hi mommy luckily healthy naman baby ko siya yung nasa pix.. hmm i took gracial kaso after 5 long years of taking it nagpalpitate na ako sabi ob ko nag thicken daw blood ko so i stopped using it last month i missed my period 1st time ao naka expoerience but since my ob and the trans v utz confirmed im not preggy i just waited for my period to come so last sat. i have mine i also started a new contraceptive its a patch called EVRA.. i hope this works for me god bless..
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