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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #180 on: February 07, 2014, 09:50:51 am »

Hi Elisabel21

Yes, possible na nabuntis ka.

Hindi mo nilagay ang pinaka-important information...kailan nag-start ang mentruation period mo...ano'ng date?  Yun lang ang mahalaga, ang Day 1 at hindi yung final days.

Jan. 17 ba o Jan. 18...ang first day?

Kung bibilangin,  Jan. 30 is about Day 14.

Ang Day 14 ang estimated most/highest fertile day ng 28 Day Cycle.  Ibig sabihin yun ang possible time na nagrelease ng egg (Ovulation/Peak Day).

The only possibility na hindi ka nabuntis ay kung na-delay ang Ovulation mo at naging long cycle ka.  This means na mare-reschedule din ang next menstruation mo on a later date.

Sana makapagbigay ka pa ng dates ng first day ng menstruation mo at para malaman na rin natin kung ano ang cycle length mo.

Kung fertile ka during that time of sexual intercourse...wala nang paraan para pigilan pa yun ha.  Mabubuo na ang baby nun.  Any attempt would be considered as trying to perform an abortion and this puts a mother to a great health risk and the baby being born with abnormalities.

Pregnancy test will not be accurate until around after a week a period has been delayed (I think I read that somewhere).


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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #181 on: March 20, 2014, 10:46:47 pm »

Hi moms and dads! I've been reading this thread and i learned a lot since i just stopped taking contraceptive pills. My hubby and i wanted to try SDM. Pero may question lang po ako, dinatnan kasi ako around 9:00 in the evening. Should i consider it as Day 1? TIA
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #182 on: March 25, 2014, 07:30:55 am »

Hi mommygracy,

Congratulations on your decision.

My answer to your question is, yes, that's Day 1.

It should be a flow of blood and lasting for more than two days, that is what's considered a menstruation and that first day of observation is Day 1.  You may send me a private message if you need more help. 

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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #183 on: April 01, 2014, 10:11:55 pm »

Thanks for your response Daddy Jo. Very informative ang thread na ito because of you. Just by merely reading, marami na akong natutunan  ;D
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PLS help ME PO, LAST MENS KO APRIL 13 TO 18 ...NAGKARON PO CONTACT SA BF KO APRIL 21 TO 23...TAPOS NAGKARON PO KO MAY 06 SPOTTING lang D KO NAGAMIT NAPKIN KO LINER lang DEN 2DAYS lang PO ALA NA AGAD ....EARLY naman PO MASYADO yung BLEED kasi dapat 1MONTH BGO PO KO MAGKARON ULI....NKA TRY NA PO KO 3 TIMES NG PT PERO NEGATIVE LAHAT NGAUN NASUSUKA naman AKO ALA AKO MAISUKA AT yung MANGGANG MAASIM PARA SA KNILA EH MATAMIS SA PANLASA KO PLS help IM SO VERY CONFUSED ...THANKS
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Hi anna014,

Kung Apr. 13 ang first day ng last mens mo, ang Apr. 21 to 23 ay Day 9 to  Day 11.  For many women whose cycle is 29 days and below...high fertile days ito.  Possible na buntis ka.

Kung buntis ka nga, di na ito mapipigilian at pwedeng may masamang mangyari kung susubukan mong pigilin.  Sana meron sa family na nakakatanda na babae...tulad ng mother mo, older sister o tiyahin na pwede mong makausap tungkol dito.  Then magusap kayo ng BF mo at sana makausap din ang side ng family niya.  Sana maharap ninyo together ang responsibility na ito.
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Elow mga mami...newbie po ako
tatanong ko lang po kung buntis ako.nagkamenz po ako noong may 4,2014 tapos po nag end siya ng may 8.then ngcontact kame ng husband ko may 16,2014 possible po ba mabuntis ako? Patulong po mga mami..thanks po
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #187 on: June 08, 2014, 01:31:10 am »

Topic title modified. Please refrain from posting in all-caps.
« Last Edit: June 08, 2014, 01:33:52 am by toughmom »
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #188 on: June 28, 2014, 03:03:01 pm »

hi po daddy jo. ask ko po sana kung posible ba na buntis ako. first day po kasi ng mens ko june 2 gang june 4. then nag do-do po kami ni bf ng june 6 at 7 sa loob po nag c*m. then june 17 po nag do ulit kami kaso nagwidraw po sya 2 times. after that, next day dami na po lumalabas sa akin na white blood. then nung 23 po nag do ulit kami kaso may konting blood na lumabas. so di na po namin tinuloy. akala ko po may period na ko kaso di  naman nagtuloy, pero yung white blood madami pa rin. posible po kaya na buntis ako? pls help."
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #189 on: June 28, 2014, 04:05:01 pm »

Hi, po.. mag tatanong lang po ako.. kinakabahn kasi ako ehh,.. nag start po ang mens ng GF ko june 9 then pag ka june 15 nag make love po kami... pinasok ko po pero hindi naman po lahat kasi natakot ako...  parang dinikit ko lang... pero nilabasan ako sa labas tinanggal ko... tatanong lang ako.. safe bayun? first time kasi ehh,.. kinakabahan ako... :'( . . .
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #190 on: July 17, 2014, 08:19:23 pm »

Good eve! Magpapatulong po sana ako. Delayed na kasi menstruation ko. Bale eto po yung history ng period ko since June 2013:

First Day of Period / days
June 16, 2013     
July 20, 2013 / 34 days
August 17, 2013 / 28 days
September 13, 2013 / 27 days
October 10, 2013 / 27 days   
November 17, 2013 / 38 days
December 22, 2013 / 35 days
January 21, 2014 / 30 days
February 26, 2014 / 36 days
March 27, 2014 / 29 days
May 1, 2014 / 35 days
June 3, 2014 / 33 days
                        / 44 days (as of today 7/17/14)

Wala naman po akong nararamdamang kakaiba. Medyo hilo lang pero parang normal na sa akin, lalo pag nagpupuyat ako. Didn't use PT pa or consult to OB-Gyne. I'm still hoping na sana magkakaroon na ako, na hindi na muna sana ako mabuntis. I & my BF had lovemaking after my menstruation (didn't remember the last day of menstruation), pero pag lipas na ng 5 days pagkatapos ng menstruation ko, we do the withdrawal method naman. Ngayon lang yata ako na-delayed ng ganito katagal. Patulong naman po sa pag-analyse nito please. Tsaka what are the signs po pag pregnant pag wala pang 1 month? Thank you!
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #191 on: July 23, 2014, 12:02:48 am »

Hi Qina,

Sorry for the late response.  I've been quite busy.  Ang shortest cycle mo ay 27 days.  That means na as early as Day 9 (or nine days after your menstruation started), possible na mag-fertile ka na.  Ang period ay 3-5 days.   So kung ang-end ka nung Day 4 or Day 5, then after 5 more days, may penetration ulit...that's already Day 9 or Day 10...yes pwede kang mabuntis.

Hindi lahat ng lalaki, may full control at kaya ang totoong withdrawal.

High risk, hindi lang sa possible pregnancy, kundi lalo na sa pagakaroon ng Sexually Transmitted Diseases...kung hindi mo pa lubusang kilala ang ka-partner mo at ang relasyon ninyo ay hindi lifetime at permanent commitment tulad ng kasal.

Nakakasira ng relasyon kung magiging sexual ang isang relationship kung di pa kayo kasal at nagsasama bilang mag-asawa...kasi di made-develop ang non-sexual aspects ng inyong relasyon.  Mase-set aside ang mga mas importanteng aspects sana tulad ng sacrifice, unconditional loving, at iba pa.

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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #192 on: July 25, 2014, 01:59:08 pm »

hello po sakin po tanng ko na din..

June 19 at July 21 po yung dates ng una kong araw na nagkaroon and it always last for three days... Ask ko po tuwing kailan ako safe na makipag DO sa asawa ko kasi never kami gumamit ng contraceptives puro withdrawal lang kaso after 4 years nabuntis ako sa bunso namin and now ayaw ko na po kasi masundan yung dalawang anak namin... Kindly help po...
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #193 on: August 08, 2014, 10:46:18 am »

Hello guys, just wondering(kinda new sa ganitong process)if pwede mag patulong sainyo about the calendar method..

si wife kase june 17 2014 sya nagkaroon ng mens then july 18 2014 yung pangalawa niya.

so anung araw sya sa august mag kakaroon?

meron ako ditong calendar app which is para syang calculator.. pero hndi ako syempre masyadong nag titiwala sa mga ganun.. so i just want to know if pano ko malalaman yung menstrual cycle and luteal phase niya.. which is kung kelan yung 5 days na fertile sya and ovulation day niya. thanks sa makakapag reply agad.
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Re: paano malaman kung safe/not fertile or unsafe? / calculating your cycle
« Reply #194 on: August 08, 2014, 11:14:28 pm »

Chris011322 and mommyonsale, Please find answers to your question on this post:
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,1092.msg887425.html#msg887425

In addition to that, mas accurate at mapi-pin point ninyo yung 4 days na "no go" if you combine it with Basal Body Temp and Mucous Method. I read that the sperm can live up to 5 days (not 48 hours) if the woman is nearing ovulation and immediately gets killed by the woman's acidity on non-fertile days.

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