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Sarah Jhane Mendoza

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Selos sa katrabaho ni husband
« on: March 07, 2018, 03:28:01 pm »

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Need some advice lang po meron po kasing ktrabaho yung asawa ko n pinagseselosan ko at feeling ko parang meron sya kahit konti n gusto s girl ngkakasama sila sa work  may tiwala ako sa aswa ko dati kaso bgla nalang nwala ngayon simula nung nagka isyu sa girl n yan tinawagan ko yung girl kasikaand gngamit niya ang mga stuff ng aswa ko may pics din.kasi and puro deny sya n di niya kinkausap etc.. alam ko may gusto din yung girl sa asawa ko marami n ko edbidensya nkuha n may gusto sya.pero ngayon may nkita ako sa cpng asawa ko nasa trash files (deleted na) na nagkaka chat sila at nagpapalitan ng picture at medyo sexy ang sinesend n picture ni girl pinaamin ko sya kinausap ko umamin naman sya n ngkakachat sila ano bang dapat gawin ko sa girl?
Thank u po sana may makatulong
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Mrs.Ridz

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Selos sa katrabaho ni husband
« Reply #1 on: March 08, 2018, 12:03:30 pm »

Hello po Sis!  ;)

I was reading your post po, first i was hesitant na magreply since this is a very sensitive matter. I'm sorry to hear that sis, kung sa akin yan for sure di ko din alam ang gagawin  ko.

You cannot have a better judgement kung di ka kalmado. So, first, give yourself time, seek for support of your family and friends. Mahirap kung ikaw lang magisa ang didibdib nyan sis. Now, if you have the courage to ask your husband regarding the matter ask him calmly. Though this might be painful, it is important to ask questions so that you can assess exactly what has happened, try to focus on the facts. Avoid cutting in kung nagpapaliwanag yung husband mo sayo, let him finish before responding. Ask your husband to tell the truth kahit masakit sis. Avoid immediately blaming your partner, the gurla na involve nor yourself. Now, once you have your facts, it will depend if your husband will resolve to end the affair and re-commit to your relationship, just wag magjudge agad. Take time to think of what you want to happen next. Try not to make any assumptions.

About dun sa gurla, kung ayaw niya tumigil report mo sa office nila. O kaya budburan mo ng asin para mawala ang pangangati. Choz. Gigil ako sa malalanding girls. Just kidding po. Kausapin mo muna ang hubby mo for that matter yung masinsinan. Hopefully, makausap mo nga siya ng maayos.

I'll pray na malagpasan mo ang pinagdadaanan mo ngayon and may God guide you sis. 
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Re: Selos sa katrabaho ni husband
« Reply #2 on: March 10, 2018, 09:08:41 pm »

A wife's intuition is the most powerful force there is. Try to be calm and clear your thoughts before making a move. These maybe difficult to do at this trying times but this will help you think what's best for you and your family. No wife deserves a cheating husband. But never humiliate yourself by attacking the third party because more often than not it gives them satisfaction seeing the wife devastated with the situation. It gives the other woman a feeling of victory. Instead try to win back your husband before its too late. Share your feelings and fears with him. However, if it calls for extreme action, course thru the right avenue. Report it to HR without making a disgraceful act. Lastly, pray. It works! I wish you well, mommy Sarah.
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Re: Selos sa katrabaho ni husband
« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2018, 02:52:46 pm »

Try to be calm sis,pag-isipan mong mabuti ang mga bawat hakbang na gagawin mo kasi hindi mo na maibabalik ang kung anong magagawa mo..
Kausapin mo ng maayos si girl,if hindi tumigil pati asawa mo then isumbong mo na sa hr kung talagang naconfirm mo na.Napakahirap ng nasa sitwasyon mo,walang peace of mind lalo na pag hinihintay mo siyang umuwi...
Pagpray mo sis ang lahat ng nangyayari,and kausapin mo ng maayos ang asawa mo kung ano ba ang status nyo...but alam mo naman ang mga lalaki,lulusot at lulusot ang mga yan.ilayo mo ang sarili mo sa badvibes,ang hirap kalaban ng stress..if malaman mo yung totoo,do it in legal way na lang din.napakahirap na mawala ang tiwala,everyday akong beastmode as in...kaya nilayo ko ang sarili ko sa makakasakit sa akin...talk to your trusted friends and family,wag mong kimkimin ang galit mo ha..
basta yung rights mo ang ipaglaban mo at gawin mong tama..tandaan,wag mong padadapuin sa madumi ang mga kamay mo haha if you know what I mean.
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