hi mommy yuri...
i think your husband needs to go back to the neanderthal times hahaha. no, seriously, chauvinist yung attitude niya. my kumare ako. she used to be a SAHM, di din sya binibigyan ng datung ng hbby niya. ginawa niya nagtindatinda sya ng pansit, ice candy sa tapat ng bahay nila. when her hubby confronted her about it ang sagot niya, may pinagiipunan kasi ako.
for one, mommy yuri, you realy need to learn to wake up early din kasi paano pag nag schooling na anak mo di ba? besides, mas prone ang babae sa weight gain, hypertension when we overstay sa bed. it realy takes an effort. specially kung teething na si baby.
household chores given na yan sis, sa buhay natin. maganda din sana kung mapag usapan ninyo n hubby your preference in doing your household chores. why don't you draw your own weekly plan, and shove it, este, show it to hubby. like, tell him, o i will wash our clothes every mon, wed,fri. day off ko sunday. i will pre cook na some food para iinitin na lang. then maybe, since dito naman sya sa pinas dvide the household chores between the two of you. like, brieakfast sa kanya, lunch and dinner sa you. encourage him, too, to bathe the baby, disguise mo na lang na bonding moment nila ni baby yun.
y hubb ain't perfect but am thankful he is the one who washes the clothes. paano nagyar yun? tld him, "Ney, ang lalak ng damt mo (he's 5'9", am 5'4"), di ko kaya mga pants mo" so, nakita naman niya yung point ko, wash and press clothes kanya. tiklop, akin.
i'll give you one las tip whichmy aunt-in-law gave me: if you're a Catholic, you'll appreciate this: put a drop or two of Holy Water in his coffee or water and breathe a prayer: Holy Spirit, sanctify my husband_______. Bless Him with a kind heart and a listening mind. Amen. MY AIL did this with her hubby many, man years ago and it worked.
sorry medyo mahaba, but it irks me when men take advantage of us women. We are the life giver and the vessel of life.
Goodluck mommy yuri. pag hindi nagtino, bash him in the head, hehe. joke
