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Author Topic: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?  (Read 28472 times)

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Re: when is the best time or age of your baby na sundan siya?
« Reply #30 on: March 11, 2011, 03:42:20 pm »

For me gusto ko talaga mga 5 years..mahirap kase din mabuntis at manganak..and for sure CS na naman ako nun so bibiyakin na naman ako! Gusto ko muna na totally heal na yung sa loob bago ulet ako mag conceive. 5 months pa lang si baby ko so matagal tagal pa syang magiging solo :)
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Re: when is the best time or age of your baby na sundan siya?
« Reply #31 on: March 16, 2011, 06:13:46 pm »

I think it depends on many factors like socio-economic.. (un talaga inuna eh?) hehe.. , readiness of the mother to give birth again, readiness of the tatay and the anak to accept the newborn child.. madami factor. Pero number one talaga yung budget hehe.. Most doctors, actually almost all siguro would say 2-3 years dunno why maybe siguro mas closer ang gap, mas closer magiging ang mga babies and by 2-3 years nakabalik na talaga sa pre-pregnancy state yung health condition ng mother. But again everything will depend on the parents involved. Decision yan ng mag asawa.. Si Yanna ko sa totoo lang ayoko ng sundan kc financially I don't think we could raise 2 child with my husband working alone. Siguro pag nagka stable job ako thats the only time I will consider having a baby again. :) aun.. basta masasabi ko ang sarap ng may baby! enjoying much every minute of it! hehe..
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Re: when is the best time or age of your baby na sundan siya?
« Reply #32 on: April 01, 2011, 08:32:19 am »

2-3 years.. it's been running in our family for generations.. hehe.. and we're planning to go with it.. :)
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Re: when is the best time or age of your baby na sundan siya?
« Reply #33 on: April 01, 2011, 08:39:32 am »

Kapag 4 or 5 years old na ang panganay. Sana masundan pa. Gusto ko naman ng baby girl. :)
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Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #34 on: July 19, 2011, 09:37:27 am »

 :) :) :) :)

Hi mga sis, ano kaya ideal age gap for siblings? yong hindi mag.aaway but not that far away from each other yong tipong close pa din

My daughter is near to 3years old na tapos parang gusto ko na sundan./hehehhe
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #35 on: July 19, 2011, 01:23:19 pm »

I'm not basing this sa age ng son ko.
Ang dami nga nagtatanong kung bakit di pa namen sundan kasi 3 years old na rin naman na daw si Miggy.

Ako kasi, I believe na at one point or another, mag-aaway naman ang mga bata. Mag-aagawan ng toys, mag-iinggitan. Kahit nga matatandang magkakapatid nag-aaway eh.

Preference talaga ng mga magulang yan.

Basta kami ng asawa ko, susundan namen si Miggy pag na-attain na namen yung desired and ideal income namen. Feeling ko kasi ready na kami emotionally and physically. Yung gastos lang talaga kasi kawawa naman yung anak ko kung kailangan niya mag-let go ng ibang mga bagay dahil lang gusto na namen siyang sundan.
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #36 on: July 19, 2011, 01:45:04 pm »

there are times na naiisip na din naming sundan si Xian especially kapag yung ibang kabatch ko during my preggy days eh 2 na anak ngayon tapos meron na sila pareho boy and girl parang kambal lang.katuwa di ba. They  say na kapag solong anak may tendency talaga na ma-spoil and medyo guilty din ako sa part na yun.minsan talaga spoiler din ako  ;D same with mommy france, preference talaga yun ng parents since madaming dapat iconsider.ideal age for me kapag 3-4 years old na sya.although kapag tinatanong namin si Xian kung gusto na niya baby sister, answer niya palagi “no like”.probably because mas feel niya na boy din kapatid niya.but I know my son will be a doting kuya to his future sibs kase caring sya sa baby cousin niya  :)
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #37 on: July 19, 2011, 02:37:40 pm »

Same topics merged.

Kindly search first before starting a new topic and please make sure that you start your topic on the right category/board.
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #38 on: July 19, 2011, 05:31:00 pm »

ako di ko pa alam gusto ko sana 2-3 years si sid ko, pero nag usap kami ni hubby online gusto daw niyang sundan, e 17mos pa lang baby ko, madalas silang maglaro ng pinsan niya pamangkin ko na anak ng brother ko turning 3 this august, at madalas din niyang napapa iyak, may pagka sutil din kasi anak ko, at napakalikot kaya naka kunsume minsan lalo na kung naglalaro sila matigas din kasi ulo ng pamangkin ko minsan kaya nasasabi ko "paano pa ako mag-aanak ng isa kung nakukunsumi na ako sa kakulitan nilang dalawa". hayz gusto ko din sana babae, kasi sabi ni hubby 2 lang sila ng ate niya malungkot daw minsan lalo pa malayo siya palagi (sa barko) at si ate wala man lang mapagsabihan ng mga problema o masayang nangyari sa buhay niya.

sabi ng kapitbahay namin (7 anak) kung anjan na daw wala ng magagawa, kahit mahirap ang buhay hindi naman pwedeng isoli mo uli sa tiyan ng nanay. ang magandang gawin now palang kahit pa onti-onti magsiguro na may maitabi
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #39 on: July 19, 2011, 06:09:00 pm »

Right now, I am pregnant with my second baby and 3 years agwat nila ng daughter ko.  I remember my OB's advise na 3years ang ideal age gap so she gave us pills for control.  Since my husband and I are devout Catholics, we opted to use the natural way and entrust everything to God in case we will be bless with another baby, we will accept it wholeheartedly.  And true enough, God gave us another angel (baby boy) to take care of   at the right place and at the right time wherein my husband and I were both physically, mentally, emotionally and financially prepared.  Even my daughter has felt the excitement of having a younger brother to play with.  Well my point is, every baby is a blessing from God, and He knows when you are ready to have one.  ;)
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #40 on: July 21, 2011, 12:24:33 pm »

in our case, we planned talaga na sundan yung eldest namin after 10 years! yes, ganun katagal kasi na-trauma ata ako sa panganganak (nsd ako) and i got pregnant at an early age (19 turning 20) and i'm still studying pa at that time so feeling ko maaga ako nagkarun ng responsibility and may mga bagay ako na hindi nagawa and yun nga, we want to be stable muna but on the other hand, no regrets kasi parang barkada lang kami ng eldest ko and when she became an ate (12 years old na cia nasundan, na-extend yung 10 years hehe), super love niya baby sis niya kasi siguro nasabik cia magkarun ng kapatid.  funny thing is, kung gaano katagal nasundan eldest namin, dito naman sa 2nd ko, after a year, na-preggy naman me kaagad and it's a girl pa din, ok lang kasi naghahanap na siya ng kalaro and natutuwa siya sa babies pero stop na kami sa 3 kids para mabigay ang mga pangangailangan nila.
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #41 on: September 08, 2011, 12:56:08 pm »

my baby is two months pa lang ngaun. wala pa kaming plan kung kailan sundan si baby. pero right now injectable ginamit ko para hindi masundan agad si baby ngaun.  :)
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #42 on: September 08, 2011, 09:49:58 pm »

Dati gusto ko mga 2-3 years, pro ngyon 4 years old na baby ko, my hubby and i are still not sure kng susundan na ang panganay namin. Depende talaga sa situation, ngyon kasi medyo complicated sa work kaya stressful pa. Kng may new baby, mas lalo ang stress at di na ako makakawork for a time. Gusto na rin sana namin sundan, but may mga complications pa. Munsan nga naiisip namin ni hubby na puwede din only child na lang si justin, because for us he is the perfect son. wala kami msyado problem sa kanya. Mamya pag may second na, opposite ni kuya, at mamuti ang buhok ko sa kunsumisyon hehe. For now enjoy muna namin ang little boy namin :)
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #43 on: October 04, 2011, 11:34:49 am »

Samin naman, 5 years old na yung eldest ko nung nasundan nitong bunso ko. kakapanganak ko lang last sept 23,2011 :) Kaya si ate hindi na masyado alagain, yung lang kumulit! kasi nanggigigil sa kapatid niya, pero sobrang love niya at minsan siya ang tumitingin tingin sa sister niya pag may ginagawa kami ng dad niya :)

Sa ngayon wala pa sa isip ko kung susundan pa namin or tama na.. Ok lang naman sakin kahit hindi na.. Iniisip ko kasi na baka hindi na namin maibigay lahat ng need nila.. Pero kung sakaling masundan pa ng isa, siguro mga after 5-7 years nalang...
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Re: Ideal Sibling Age Gap - Are You Ready For Another Child?
« Reply #44 on: October 04, 2011, 07:58:33 pm »

pag stable na kami ni hubby..
sa ngayon di pa kaya.. baka after 3 years pa.. :D
mahirap kasi pag di planado ulit. haha
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