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Author Topic: naging madamot ako sa mother ko?...bakit ganun??...  (Read 17423 times)

mumzeth

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Re: naging madamot ako...bakit ganun??...
« Reply #30 on: September 13, 2011, 09:17:37 pm »

may mga daddy din palang may pagkasentimental.. nakakatuwa.. :D akala ko may mga daddy hindi mahilig sa ganun..
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Re: naging madamot ako...bakit ganun??...
« Reply #31 on: January 26, 2012, 07:14:16 pm »

Daddy, that's you baby's stuff and you have every right to want to keep it and not share it to others. Nag-offer ka naman to buy one as a gift. Even my husband, ayaw nyan magpahiram ng gamit ng anak namin. Pag magpapamigay, madame yang tanong and most of the time he wants to keep it for some time muna before deciding kung dapat ba talaga magpamigay. Dont feel guilty, it's a normal reaction :)
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Re: naging madamot ako...bakit ganun??...
« Reply #32 on: January 28, 2012, 12:33:41 am »

Siguro yung goldilocks figurine na yun somehow represents your child kaya ayaw mo gagamitin ng iba.  Tama yung suggestion mo na ikaw nalang bumili ng gagamitin nila.  No need to feel guilty.  Sabihin mo nalang na hindi ka nagdadamot...gusto mo lang na bilhan nalang sila ng something new para ma-keep din nila as their own remembrance.  You don't have to feel guilty na hindi mo ipapahiram yung figurine--- you've already decided a solution to what's bothering you. And I think hindi naman iisipin nung magulang nung bata na nagdadamot ka...baka mas maging thankful pa yun kasi you'll give them something na hindi nila kelangan isoli.  Siguro you just need na ibahin yung mindset mo from "ayaw mo ipahiram yung gamit" to "i'll give them a gift they will need during the day and keep for life para maging mas happy sila".  Bring on the positive thoughts :)
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Re: naging madamot ako...bakit ganun??...
« Reply #33 on: February 20, 2012, 02:33:28 am »

kung ako nasa kalagayan mo  hindi ko din ipapahiram. sa totoo lang yung topper ng baby ko nung bday niya hindi ko din pinamigay kasi alam mo yun parang tatak na niya yun eh tapos makukuha ng iba. ayoko!

kahit baby clothes,cribs etc ayoko pamigay. ako na siguro yung talagang madamot. minsan nga parang nagpaparinig na sa akin pero hindi ko pa rin binibigay kasi alam mo yun ist baby ko parang feeling ko andun pa din yung amoy ni daniela nung baby pa siya. grabe noh?

hindi ka madamot.. may mga bagay lang talaga na may sentimental value sa atin na hindi natin pwedeng i-let go ng basta basta.
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Re: naging madamot ako...bakit ganun??...
« Reply #34 on: March 09, 2012, 03:17:05 pm »

bat ganun? in our case, ako ang madamot, hehe, yung hubby ko naman yung mapagbigay, ako talaga, ayoko magpahiram ng mga gamit ng anak ko... ewan ko, dahil ba sa first baby ito and di pa masyado niya nagagamit or what, lalo na mga toys, ni pahawakan sa pamangkin ng mister ko, ayoko... Yung para sa baby ko, sa baby ko lang. hehe selfish na ba ako? hihi
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Re: naging madamot ako...bakit ganun??...
« Reply #35 on: April 24, 2012, 08:50:42 pm »

simple lang sagot diyan.

gamit kasi ng anak mo yun kaya ayaw mong ipahiram.

no more, no less.  8)
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