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gharz412

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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #15 on: August 21, 2014, 09:22:27 pm »

feeling ko kase mapipilitan lang siya, but atleast I let him know about it. Bahala na siya.
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #16 on: August 21, 2014, 11:17:55 pm »

tama din c sis mariann...

Agree ako jan talaga... May kanya kanya talaga tayong kwento ng buhay, walang perfect.. {Pero kung ipipilit mo na maging perfect ang bday.. Useless sis.. Parang ikaw lang ang nageeffor. Ako deadma lang ako nun.. Tinanggal ko talaga lahat as in tinapos ko lahat ang kaugnayan ko. Yung anak ko lang maguguluhan din. Tama din naman ang naging desisyon ko.
Isang beses na walang naging effort sa side ng SD ko.. I donít care anymore.

Ikaw sis.. maging kontrabida man kami ni sis mariann, in the end of the day ika wpa din masusunod. Andito kami para mauntog ka.. hehe
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #17 on: August 22, 2014, 03:42:51 pm »

actually medyo tinimbang timbang ko talaga before ako magdecide and I chose not to nalang imagine sis may sakit anak namen alam niya naman bahay namen (parents ko) night shift ako ni di man lang pumunta samen just to see his child. He just texted me yesterday, "musta (name ni baby ko) and I didn't bother siya rin naman kahit balitaan ko siya wala rin naman siyang maitutulong. Hindi siya madali sa totoo lang pero kakayanin ko kesa magsuffer ako kame for a lifetime. I ate my pride na kaso he said " I'm open with the discussion about our baby but about the 2 of us not for now" As if, I'm his gf para sabihin niya yun. Hay ayoko na talaga actually im starting not to care anymore.
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #18 on: August 22, 2014, 03:45:21 pm »

Huway na lang, masisira pa ang mood ng party. Besides, kung tsismis ang iniiwasan mo, baka mas lalo kang mapag-usapan kung gagawa yan ng eksena sa party.
 
Actually even nung sa baptism ni baby ko he didn't act right napansin naman nga ng mga friends namen kaya nga napag isip2 kong wag na kahit na siya ang tatay if he doesn't want to be a part of it, d bale nalang.
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #19 on: August 24, 2014, 08:47:45 pm »

That is the one I am waiting for you sis.

I even receive that message from my SD before. "We can talk about the baby, we can still be friends... etc etc"

Name it sis... Ilang balde at drum na ata ang naiyak ko noon.. Mga 6years ago ahahah Pero ngayon wala na. As in.. OO masakit.. Sobra talaga... pero ano gugustuhin mo masaktan ka araw araw o mka MOVE ON ng mabilis?

Sa akin sis mga 1 or mag 2 years ako bago naka move on. As in matagal. Pero may process naman yan.

Mahirap talaga sis kasi umaasa ka pa e. Pero i-try mo i-focus ang sarili mo sayo and sa baby mo.. Hindi ka mag sisisi. Ikaw pa magpapsalamat samin (Nyahahaha) Imbes na asikasuhin mo yung nararamdaman mo jan sa lalake na yan... Wala papanget ka langkakaisip kung hindi naman nageeffort!!!

Sinasabi ko sayo, Wag mo nalang pansinin ang chismis. May sabihin man sila about sau or what, deadma ka nalang.. Mas importante hindi sila ang nagpapakain sayo!!!!!!!

Tatandaan mo to: Pag naka Move on ka na.. Tatawanan mo nalang yung guy.
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #20 on: August 24, 2014, 10:22:37 pm »

hi, just want to share my opinion, sa tingin ko it's ok to invite the father of your son but be ready for a decline, instead mas invite mo yun mga inlaws mo since in good terms naman ata kayo. atleast, sila binigyan importance mo and wala sila masasabing negative about you. in the future, makikita pa ng son mo yung pix ng grandparents niya.
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« Reply #21 on: August 25, 2014, 02:55:57 pm »

Hi Sis Basti, I really cried last night we talked about us already he just called me. He sounded so selfish and accusing. Ang sakit2 really I break down kase he told me na nanlalaki daw ako etc. as in i was really crying over the phone My mom actually hindi nakikialam but last night she was really furious about it kase she knows everything eh. He told me that he will do some legal actions daw. Then I never slept talaga inicip kong mabuti what I should do and naawa na ko sa sarili ko ayoko na talaga. He kept on calling me this morning, telling me "one more try, let's talk" peru dko na pinansin. Ginawa na niya akong puppet na sunod sunuran niya. He's 11 years older than me.
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #22 on: August 26, 2014, 08:25:50 pm »

Hmmmmm... Sis interesting huh?!
Tumatawag siya ulit after ka niya kausapin din last Sunday?

Ano na naman kaya ang susunod? Baka may nakalimutan pang sabihin?

Sis Naiintindihan ko na ayaw mo muna siya kausapin. Pero why not give it a shot? Once na tumawag, mag "hello" ka lang and let him do the talking.... Pag tapos na siya magsalita or wala ng sinasabe, then ang isasagot mo lang, ""Meron pa ba? kung wala na, Sige bye na" --- Tingnan natin mangyayare.... Siya nahahabol nyan.

Sis natural lang yon mag sasalita siya ng ganon ganon. Ako din ang dami dami ko din narinig na puro hindi totoo form sd pero hinayaan ko lang. Sige iiyak mo lang if you think na sa pag iyak mo mailalabas ang lahat.

Basta GO, Kaya mo yan sis...
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Re: I want to do this for the sake of our son
« Reply #23 on: August 26, 2014, 09:36:22 pm »

^Ano na naman kaya ang susunod? Baka may nakalimutan pang sabihin?

Well I guessed your right sis, He kept on calling me and I just texted him using my friends phone I just said that " What else do you want from me? If you want our wedding photos to be deleted in fb I will do it very soon. I already deactivated my fb and no plans to open it again. And about our baby you will still be the father" tpos he didn't call anymore. I think nakuha na niya yung sagot dun. palagay mo?
 
^Basta GO, Kaya mo yan sis...
 
Well eventually I will but alam mo yun ang sakit sa loob na pagbibintangan ka ng dimo ginawa. That's the reason why I decided not to let him near me or else he will hurt me again. I'm just trying to cope up with my situation, it's not easy though, But since I don't have a choice then I have to keep going..Sana dumating nako sa stage mo...
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