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kweykerz

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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #120 on: March 14, 2012, 02:35:34 pm »

naisip ko lang yung someone in my past nung nabasa ko to.. hehe
malamang kapag kami pa ng Ex kong yon.. eh nd pa ko nag aasawa hanggang ngayon...
siguro nd ako nagmature.. masaya ako at napangasawa ko si hubby.. d man sya perpekto.. masaya ako.. masaya kami.. :D
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #121 on: March 14, 2012, 09:31:48 pm »

wala naman talaga akong pakialam (my head says that) pero whenever i see him in facebook esp when i knew he was getting married, parang may hurt or a feeling of sadness or discomfort, i really dont know..or baka pride ko lang yun?
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #122 on: April 06, 2012, 10:26:00 am »

My hubby & I are 24months married now, may 1year old daughter na kami.
But still yung family ng hubby ko is still so attached sa ex-gf niya for almost 5years (9months pa lang yung relationship namin ni hubby when we get married) So, pakiramdam ko mas gusto pa rin nila yung ex-gf ng hubby ko...
Nasa abroad yung ex-gf pero thru facebook & other social network nakakapag-communicate pa sila specially yung mga sister in law ko.
Sabi ng hubby ko, "do not be so affected kc hindi naman daw siya apektado"
But sometimes syempre there is some jealousness na lumalabas sa akin...
Alam ninyo yung bang.... I give all the patient para pakisamahan sila ng maayos & then ganyan pa sila...
Nakakabwiset minsan talaga lumalampas sa limitations.

Naisip ko minsn "am I so mabait lang talaga?"
hindi naman sa ayaw nila sa akin kasi paminsan-minsan naman I feel that they care...
pero minsan nakakairita ng ulo...
samantalang si hubby super embraced ng family ko...

minsan tuloy kami ni hubby yung nagaaway because of that matter...

ano ba magandang gawin dito? do i need to talk to them?
or just follow my husband na "kami naman ang nagsasama at hindi sila"
   
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #123 on: April 06, 2012, 11:52:27 am »

san ba kayo nakatira sis? sa in-laws mo ba? if yes, mahirap nga yan.. nakakairita talaga pg ganyan. pero kung nakabukod naman kayo, e madali ng umiwas, like punta ka lang dun pag may okasyon.. tapos kay hubby ka lang mag didikit..importante naman e nararamdaman mo na mahal k ni hubby at "ikaw" talaga ang pinili at pinaglaban niya sa pamilya niya. para sken ok din naman n paminsan e maramdaman nila na nakakaoffend sila.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #124 on: April 06, 2012, 12:17:42 pm »

Same topics merged.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #125 on: April 08, 2012, 03:06:46 pm »

hi sis...

syempre hindi naman maiwasan na maalala si ex diba?
kc kahit papaano naging part ng life natin pero
buti na lang at hindi siya yung nakatuluyan ko
i know him baka nga hindi kami umabot ng years sa sobrang babaero niya...
buti na lang kahit simpleng life lang ang naibibigay sa akin ni hubby, masaya ako... un ang mahalaga...
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #126 on: April 20, 2012, 09:47:07 am »

@mika-madz

may sarili kaming house... pero yung house ng mga SIL ko within the area rin...
pero ngayon okey na ako... medyo nabawasan yung pagseselos ko...
kasi inassure sa akin ni hubby na past is past nga naman... pwedeng lingunin pero hindi na pwedeng balikan... :)
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #127 on: April 20, 2012, 11:11:51 am »

Nakakalungkot talaga pag may mga unclosed relationship status. Pero nabagabag ako with sis chillaxmom situation. :( Threaten kasi sya with her Ex BF. But then, I agree with other moms na nag-advice na huwag na lang kausapin pa yung Ex niya since magmula nag-reach out ulit yung Ex niya to say sorry for everything still nagulo ang tahimik nyang family life. Buti na lang talaga at understanding ang hubby ni sis chillaxmom pero syempre maari na hindi lang niya sinasabi na uncomfortable na sya lalo na at nag-start yung wife ng Ex ni sis chillaxmom na manggulo.

Sis chillaxmom better to stop talking and communication with your Ex. Huwag mo na isipin yung past nyo. Better to pray for it and raise your burden to God. Makakahanap ka ng peace of mind and heart pag ni-raise mo yan kay God. At isa pa kung napatawad mo na sya with those things na nagawa sayo, you don't have to think anything na at ikaw na umiwas with his calls. Isipin mo na lang din ang family mo ngayon. Hope everything will be fine soon... :)
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #128 on: April 21, 2012, 08:41:31 am »

Minsan. And I thank God I met my hubby.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #129 on: April 21, 2012, 09:51:23 am »

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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #130 on: April 29, 2012, 11:57:56 pm »

Exes are a taboo topic in our relationship. Di naman sa insecure pero why bring them up when it's been us for a decade na rin halos in just a few years?  :) Hubby won't dare bring them up dahil alam niya paano ako magalit kapag ayaw ko ang topic.  ;D
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #131 on: May 23, 2012, 10:45:45 pm »

san ba kayo nakatira sis? sa in-laws mo ba? if yes, mahirap nga yan.

may sarili po kaming house ni hubby kaso yung house ng 2 SIL ko ay sa gilid namin at likod ng house. Na.relieve na ako kasi hubby is planning to get a house na far from them..hay salamat naman!
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #132 on: May 23, 2012, 11:14:19 pm »

wag na sis, it's not worth it.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #133 on: June 14, 2012, 10:38:39 am »

im okay sa mga exes ko. pagdating sa ex hub ko ..since 1st gf niya ako eh ang problem ko un mga na link sa kanya .ganun din ang scenario ..welcome sa family niya un girl so ako sinabi ko talaga sa ex hub ko na ayokong makasama yun dahil nagseselos ako at pinaalam ko din sa family niya yun. hindi ko na kinakausap yung mga exes ko so ganun din dapat gawin niya para walang gulo sa relationship namin.

open lang dapat communication niyo and be vigilant sa gusto mong mangyari.  :)
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #134 on: July 17, 2012, 10:49:58 pm »

When it comes to MY EX:
    Wala naman, deadma lang. 3years kame nang first BF ko and now were friends. Pati nga wife niya minsan katext ko and lagi ko namang sinasabi kay Hubby. Open naman kase kami. But sometimes he got jealous kase kala niya nami.miss ko pag na.oopen ko yung topic about them. And recently sabi ko ayoko na nang pinag-uusapan yang mga PAST na yan sa buhay namin.

WITH HIS EX:
    As long as hindi niya kami kinukumpara walang problema. Pero ayoko nang nakikipag-usap sya sa mga EX niya kahit sa FB Chat man lang. May pagka.PLAYBOY kase dati si Hubby. Pero mostly, nagtatagal naman mga nakarelasyon niya, nagkakaroon nga lang siya nang other woman. Pero ngayon good boy na siya, and i'm 100% sure of that.

    On my opinion, mas maganda talaga if mas mahal tayo ni Hubby kesa sa mas mahal natin sila. Kase dika niya hahayaang masaktan intentionally/unintentionally man, hindi papasok sa isip niya na lokohin ka man lang, he will not going to take advantage of your Love and Trust. Yan kase nakikita ko kay Hubby ngayon ee. I'm so lucky to have him. <3

-ZHEii <3
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