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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #15 on: March 04, 2010, 05:41:56 pm »

 ;D hehe i'm happy naaliw ka sa kwento ko. normal na din kasi naming sagutan yung ganyan eh.
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #16 on: March 04, 2010, 07:24:33 pm »

hello mga sis, while i was cleaning my husband's room, i found a loveletter in his old college book,syempre curious binasa ko agad,i was shocked to find out that it came from a common friend, may poem at i love you talaga sa letter.eh i can still remember pa nung college kami, very friendly sa kin yung girl,un pla trying to sulot my boyfriend that time,  i was so angry,although it happened a long time ago,kasi hindi cnbi ni hubby yung tungkol dun,but at d same time proud kc love talaga ako ni hubby, imagine yung girl gumgawa pla  ng paraan para mghiwalay kami, pero dnedma niya.hay pgnakikita ko nga yung girl sa friendslist niya naiinis ako,ask niya why? sabi ko lang basta i dont trust her...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #17 on: March 04, 2010, 08:06:08 pm »

sus sis...sa amin naman kay hubby 1x lang  na brought up ang mga exes...pero na uwi yon sa away kasi na jeli jeli ang asawa kong wlang ka selos selos sa buhay...exes ko lang na wala na sa history. hehe thankful lang din naman ako kasi hindi pinag.uusapan sa kanila ang mga exes at kung ano ano pang mga past... hehe...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #18 on: March 04, 2010, 08:13:36 pm »

minsan sa house nila sa probinsya nakita ko ang album niya with all the exes hehe well proud ang beauty ko kasi ang mga babaeng yon is hindi naka half sa ganda ko.hahhaha

well ako naman ang love ni hubby na serioso sabi pa niya na naging gf lang niya ang mga girls na yon kasi sinasabi bakla sya pag.hindi niya pinatolan...mga malalandi...well sabi pa  nga ng mom and family niya ako lang naman ang pinaka una at huli na pinakilala na gf niya na ngayon is asawa...hahah kaya hindi ako nag.seselos sa mga exes niya.
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #19 on: March 04, 2010, 10:06:51 pm »

hmm... ano bang meron ang mga exes ni hubby na wala ako?...

well, each of them is gifted with a pair of plump tits... magaganda sila... (actually, hubby's 1st gf is our barkada..) at dun ako insecure!  :'(

pero okay lang... may cleavage din naman ako eh...

sa butt!! he he he!!  ;D

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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #20 on: March 06, 2010, 09:58:27 pm »

may agreement kami ng husband ko that we won't talk about our exes. we opened up about this topic when we were still dating. masyado kasi ako nagiging affected dati to the point na nag-iiba mood ko so sabi niya kalimutan na. basta happy ako na totally out his life na sila.  ;D
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #21 on: March 08, 2010, 10:20:54 am »

yung x namin ni hubby di namin napag-uusapan.

its just that I think last april 2008 yata yun when we go to his province with our kids. tinuro niya lang sa kin na x niya raw yung girl....asus! walang panama sa kin yung girl eh..(hahaha)..

tapos nginitian ko lang si hubby...feeling proud ako..haha..proud din sya kasi Manilenya (Manila) daw ako eh...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #22 on: March 08, 2010, 11:03:47 am »

Hay naku, ni-brought up na naman ni hubby yung EX niya!  >:(

Listening to the song "all gone", sabi niya maganda daw ang lyrics, remembering the movie we just watched (miss you like crazy, take note, siya ang may gustong manuod nito, not me!).  Then binangit niya, si EX daw naaalala niya sa song na yun!  Bad Mood tuloy ako this morning...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #23 on: March 08, 2010, 12:20:49 pm »

ganun!..hay sis..better settle that with your hubby.
For me, it is not healthy na palaging naaalala niya X niya then will tell you.
if in case kamo na ganun, better left unsaid na lang sana.
kasi ang mahalaga na nga yon is kayo..hay...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #24 on: March 08, 2010, 01:23:20 pm »

Hi sis mamiof2, I can try and tell him to stop talking about his EX, he may shut up, but sometimes actions speaks louder than words... what will you do kung bigla na lang ngigniti siya while listening to a song or just quiet lang pero dun sa expression ng mukha, you know something's going on sa mind niya... pwede ko rin naman i-dead ma, but syempre deep inside, maiipon pa rin yun.

Meron lang sigurong mga guys na ganun? tsaka alam ko naman na mas maganda ang EX niya kesa sa akin kung sa physical aspects titignan, wala naman ako masabi dyan, but my insecurities will start building up na, when before hindi naman... kasi nga he won't stop. :(
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #25 on: March 08, 2010, 01:39:03 pm »

correct...action speaks louder than words..
sige sis kaya mo yan...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #26 on: March 08, 2010, 10:33:43 pm »

Meron lang sigurong mga guys na ganun? tsaka alam ko naman na mas maganda ang EX niya kesa sa akin kung sa physical aspects titignan, wala naman ako masabi dyan, but my insecurities will start building up na, when before hindi naman... kasi nga he won't stop. :(

sis, ibigay mo nga sa akin ang pangalan at address ng EX na yan at ipapatumba ko na! Grrrrrrrr! sorry affected talaga ako sa ganitong mga kwento eh!

eto lang sis ha? cheer up at wag mo ng i-down ang sarili mo sa ex na yan ni hubby. sabihin na nating "hot" siya at head turner, pero lagi mo iisipin na kahit anung ganda at sexy ng ex na yan, ang Diyos hindi nagbibigay ng full blessing, for sure, may flaws pa din yang si ex ni hubby mo! so smile, dont let the memories of his ex ruin your day. Tell yourself that you are a strong, smart woman and nobody can let you down
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #27 on: March 08, 2010, 10:47:37 pm »

@sis peach:

ano bang meron yung x na yun at aliw na aliw hubby mo sa kanya?

ano naman ang meron ka na wala yung x niya?

kung kino-compare ka niya... ok, fine! pagbigyan...

ipa-enumerate mo sa kanya kung ano meron yung x at kung ano meron ka... and in the end, ask him:

bakit ako ang pinakasalan mo? anong meron ako at hindi si x ang pinakasalan mo?

sana mapangiti ka ni hubby sa mga sagot niya  ;)
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #28 on: March 09, 2010, 10:24:56 am »

Hi sis, thank you sa mga support niyo.

I had a talk with hubby yesterday (when he started "it" again).  I said although I don't mind na magkwento siya, but there is always a limit to it.  It's like him being with me pero utak/puso niya is with someone else.

Nag-sorry siya, di na raw mauulit.  I do hope so...

@sis yhamslove, I did ask him about it too, kung bakit ako ang pinakasalan niya, he said gusto daw niya yun "talino" ko.  I'm not sure kung matututwa ako sa sagot niya or hindi. By the way, kasal na sa ibang yung EX niya, siya ang "3rd party" sa relationship nila.

@sis thirdysmom, di na alam ni hubby kung nasaan na si EX ngayon, but naiintriga siya kung ano na ang hitsura niya ngayon at kung ano ang magiging reaction nila kapag accidentally nag kita sila.  ???
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #29 on: March 12, 2010, 05:02:31 am »

mga sis, ang hubby ko super dami ng babae dati nung mag bf-gf pa lang kami. as in. simula nung magbait na sya, ayaw na ayaw na niya na mapapagusapan yun mga ginawa niya. sabi niya kasi, pinagsisihan na niya yon at ayaw na niya balikan kasi mabigat sa kanya un ginawa niya sakin. pero sa dami ng naging babae niya, parang lagi nalang may something na nagreremind sakin sa kanila. at inis na inis ako. like yun isa, classmate niya sa college, un 2 barkada ng sis niya, yun isa taga dun sa malapit sa village nila.. so feeling ko forever nalang sila pahara2 sa buhay namin. hay! lagi kami nag-aaway ni hubby. one time nasabi ko sa kanya "kung hindi ka kasi nagloko noon, tahimik sana buhay natin ngayon" and si hubby napatahimik nalang. yung iba naman niya naging babae, ok na sakin hindi na ako naiinis. un isa nga hinayaan ko na sa FB niya. pero merong isa na gusto ko tirisin pag naiisip ko. hihi

nagusap naman kami ni hubby. at ako, pinipilit ko talaga na kalimutan na yon. kasi mabait na asawa ko ngayon. i know din na ako naman ang mahal ni hubby kahit noon. pero alam mo yun, with all that 'pambababae' niya before parang nagkaron ako ng panliliit sa sarili ko. i dont know why. di ko maexplain. but im still trying, and praying hard na matuto ako kalimutan na yun nakaraan. gulo ba?
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