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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #30 on: March 12, 2010, 10:23:25 am »

@ sis Nuna, ka-liga pala kita  ;D

sis Pychi, nag-heart to heart talk na ba kayo ni hubby tungkol diyan? yung tipong walang nagtataas ng boses, yung parang magkaibigan lang na nagcoconfide sa isa't isa? kasi I really think na yang mga issue na ganyan with our hubby ay dapat pinag-uusapan at inilalatag ng maayos sa mesa para magkaalaman na. alam mo sis, kung ako nasa lugar mo, binugbog ko na asawa ko. seryoso ::)

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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #31 on: March 12, 2010, 11:13:35 am »

... alam mo sis, kung ako nasa lugar mo, bunigbog ko na asawa ko. seryoso ::)
Hi sis!  You really do make me laugh!  ;D

Yes, heart to heart talk kami.  Walang taasan ng boses.  Actually, hindi ko ugali yung manigaw, pero maririnig mo na firm ang boses ko.  So far, 4 days has passed... wala pa akong naririnig kay hubby about his EX!  ;)
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #32 on: March 12, 2010, 11:27:19 am »

^ good to hear that! :) ako din mga 3-4 days ng nagpapaka-stepford wives, kaya hindi kami masyado nagtatalo ni mister.
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #33 on: March 12, 2010, 01:46:54 pm »

@ thirdysmom - yup sis! magka-liga tayo. hehe natatawa ko sa mga hiritan nyo ni hubby mo. ngayon medyo nahihiritan ko na din si hubby ng hindi na nauuwi sa away. basta pag sinabi niya na enough na, dapat stop nako. minsan out of the blue, sabi ko sa kanya "hindi mo ba nakakain yun chinchansu ni ex mo pag nagkikiss kayo?" napatawa ng malakas ang hubby ko! un isang babae niya kasi dati grabe puti ng muka as in fake.

ang sabi ko lang talaga kay hubby, wag na sana magkrus ang landas namin ng mga babae na yon. kasi baka pagsasampalin ko yun knowing na super habol sila kay hubby. ang dami pa naman nila. one time, may nagemail kay hubby, sinagot ko nga sabi ko "may asawa na yun ninanasa mo, pag dika tumigil ipapapatay kita" haha natakot ata yung bruha.

masakit lang talaga isipin yun mga ex ex na yan. pero tama, kailangan pagusapan lang ng maayos with hubby.. pansin ko din pag tahimik naman ako, walang away e. hihi
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #34 on: March 12, 2010, 02:22:20 pm »

^sis Nuna, kung tayo'y magkaliga, tingin ko mga mister natin magclub mates! >:(

hindi naman ako sa nasasaktan pag naaalala ko mga ex niya, naiinis lang ako kasi I cant help but compare myself.

iniisip ko na lang, naghiwalay sila because there was something wrong with THEM at kami ni hubby magkasama dahil kahit madaming mali sa aming buhay, we can still live it up.
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #35 on: March 15, 2010, 04:39:23 pm »

korak ang mga sinabi ng mga sisses... we shall leave the past behind.  ;)

On the lighter side, eto share ko lang....
Kanina nag-F-FB ako, and I stumbled on the profile of one of my ex's.  Out of curiosity, I also searched the profiles nila (tatlo lang naman sila na naging BFs ko way back nung high school before kami naging kami ni hubby).. anyway, when I saw their profiles..(although, hindi ko sila ina-add as friend, ha)... pero yun nga, halos hindi ko na sila makilala.. grabe, ang laking pasalamat ko na si hubby nakatuluyan ko.. bwahahaha!  ;D  (hehe, ang sama ko).  Pero, naranasan nyo na ba na magulat because yung mga super cutee noon na tipong crush ng bayan or star sa school, iba na ang itsura ngayon.. and then yung mga hindi mo pinapansin dati, sila yung mga debonair ngayon??  Well... wala lang.. nakakatuwa lang i-share.  Hahaha.. salbahe ako.   ;D
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #36 on: March 15, 2010, 04:50:01 pm »

chillaxmom...........
          just ignore them......
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #37 on: March 15, 2010, 09:43:57 pm »

sis, bongga!  you were still able to compose a poem, even under pressure!  if that had happened to me, i'd probably report him to the authorities. 

with regards to your queston on communicating with him, i believe you should stop.  he'd done it once, he can threaten you again.  so for the sake of having peace between you and your hubby, better cut off all the communications between you, though your hubby understands and supports you. 
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #38 on: March 15, 2010, 11:36:32 pm »

korak ang mga sinabi ng mga sisses... we shall leave the past behind.  ;)

On the lighter side, eto share ko lang....
Kanina nag-F-FB ako, and I stumbled on the profile of one of my ex's.  Out of curiosity, I also searched the profiles nila (tatlo lang naman sila na naging BFs ko way back nung high school before kami naging kami ni hubby).. anyway, when I saw their profiles..(although, hindi ko sila ina-add as friend, ha)... pero yun nga, halos hindi ko na sila makilala.. grabe, ang laking pasalamat ko na si hubby nakatuluyan ko.. bwahahaha!  ;D  (hehe, ang sama ko).  Pero, naranasan nyo na ba na magulat because yung mga super cutee noon na tipong crush ng bayan or star sa school, iba na ang itsura ngayon.. and then yung mga hindi mo pinapansin dati, sila yung mga debonair ngayon??  Well... wala lang.. nakakatuwa lang i-share.  Hahaha.. salbahe ako.   ;D


hahaha, korek ka jan sis, tapos na yung mga time na nagshi shine sila at hinahabol ng girls, eto rin, nasalubong nung friend ko na ex ng ex ko yung ex naming dalawa at nawindang siya kasi playboy nga naman yung ex namin na yun tapos makita niya na andaming pimples, tumanda in short siya ang nalosyang kasi may familiy na rin, haynakuh, buhay nga naman, depende rin siguro sa status yun noh, nakikita sa aura mo kung ano ka ngaun..Peace ;)
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #39 on: March 26, 2010, 03:04:31 pm »

stop communicating na lang po kasi pag lalu mong in-entertain eh lalong magkakalaks loob na guluhin ka thinking na interesado ka pa rin sa kanya ,. kaya wag na lang para tigilan ka na rin niya ,.
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #40 on: March 26, 2010, 03:38:44 pm »

dapat sa FB pa lang dmo na sya inentertain.Better delete all his contact #s.Delete mo sa FB kung friend mo sya.Pag ngtext or tumawag ignore mo lang.POV ko po. 8)

agree to this...kaysa ito pa maging reason ng away niyo nii hubbby mo...
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #41 on: March 29, 2010, 11:49:58 am »

TAPOS NA PO..............
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Re: EXes..........
« Reply #42 on: March 30, 2010, 10:16:59 pm »

hi sis, for me "DON'T COMMUNICATE". kasi hindi maganda sa may asawa ang nakikipag usap pa sa EX. lalo na long term ang relationship dati. syempre hindi naman biro biro ang pinag daanan niyo. actually, napag aawayan namin ng hubby ko ang ex niya.5 yrs din ang relationship nila ng ex niya. ang kinaiinisan ko, kahit nasa US na yung girl nag ttext pa rin sa hubby ko. although may family na din yung girl i dont know why she still communicates with him. may guilt feeling yata kasi siya ang nagloko dati.sabi naman ng hubby ko, friends lang naman na daw sila. but still, i insisted for him to tell the girl to stop na. kung baga MOVE ON! sabi ko nga, pano kung kausapin ko husband niya, anong gagawin niya?im sure hindi alam ng husband niya sa pag ttext niya or email. basta long story pa.
basta sis, ang sagot ko sa question mo "NO". i know from experience kasi, it doesnt feel good.  :-\
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #43 on: August 22, 2011, 02:30:47 pm »

For the first time, nakita ko in person yung isa pang ex ng asawa ko sa birthday ng kabarkada namin kahapon. Ganon pala yung feeling... (hindi ko maintindihan).

Barkada 1(male) and Barkada 2 (female) have been together since our college days at nagkatuluyan sila. They are now living in Barkada 2's place. Bago kami naging mag on ng asawa ko nung college, yung pinsan muna ni Barkada 2 ang naging GF niya.

Kausap ko yung Nanay ni Barkada 2 kahapon when I saw a chubby lady. She looks familiar. Maya-maya narinig ko, somebody called the attention of chubby lady... Ayun... siya pala yung ex ng asawa ko.

I excused myself for a moment nung kausap ko yung Nanay ni Barkada 2 and went to my husband na nakikipag inuman. Sabi ko "Siya ba yun?", "Oo" sabi ng asawa ko.

Biglang nag pop-up yung kung ano-ano sa isip ko:
1) Ano kaya nararamdaman ngayon ng asawa ko?
2) "Friends" dati sa FB ang asawa ko at ex niya, I can still remember his ex commented on one of our family pictures. Maganda naman yung comment.. nagcomment din ako.. nagpasalamat. A few months after, wala na siya sa friends' list ng asawa ko. Bakit kaya? (Hindi naman daw siya dinelete ng asawa ko)
3) Hindi sila nagpansinan eh, parang hindi magkakakilala - nakakatuwa ba yun on my end?
4) Dapat ba nagpansinan din kami? My son was playing with her daughter eh..
5) Sexy siya dati nung sila pa ng asawa ko... ngayon...  :-X
6) etc.

I felt like I was acting like a kid yesterday... kase pag uwi ng bahay, niloko ko asawa ko (pero may konting laman), "Ba't di ka lumalapit sa akin kahapon... bakit hindi ka sweet?"

"Eh amoy Red Horse ako eh.. wag mo na isipin yon.. .hindi ko na love yun... " sabay tawa.

Siguro nga.. ganon lang talaga...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #44 on: August 22, 2011, 02:39:58 pm »

hayss salamat kay lord at hindi niya ako  binigyan ng ganyang problema..oo nung bago kame if nakikita ko x niya hindi ko malaman ang dapat kong maramdamam kung magseselos ba ako pero bakit? ehh wala namanng ginagawa masama si hubby?  hangang sa tumagal nasanay na ako at taas noo na ako pag nagkikita kame kasi i trust my hubby kaya wala ako dapat ipag alala..at yun naman ang dapat wag nyang masira dahil kilala niya naman ako pag wala na tiwala ko as in wala na hindi na bumabalik...kapit bahay lang namin x niya..as in kak katabi lang house hehe ;D
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