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Author Topic: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)  (Read 54696 times)

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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #45 on: August 23, 2011, 09:29:26 am »

 ;D ;D ;Dkakalokang mga ex topic yan...

actually hindi naman talaga dapat pinag uusapan ng mag-asawa bout the past relationships eh...
admit it or not tinatamaan din talaga tayo kahit pa sabihin na ex na niya yun.

@sis MissPychi-better siguro na tell your hubby bout how you feel kapag binabanggit niya bout his ex.

tapos kapag medyo feeling mo eh tagilid ang relationship nyo due to tampuhan and misunderstandings plus other issues affecting your relationship..go back to square one..

why did you choose me instead of her?
how did you start your relationship?
how much love you can offer me?am I holding your heart or i share it with a ghost from your past?
what are the qualities you posses that made him chose you and love you?
do you have regrets?
am i not enough?
how long have we been together and how many storms have we passed together?
etc...

those are the possible questions you could ask your hubby when things are getting cloudy...
kasi hindi kayo magtatagal ng ganyan kung walang element na bumuo sainyo right?
so stick to it and forget the past..
he could always look back to his past but he should live his life with his present and future w/c is you..

napansin ko sa mga guys ok lang sakanila na ikwento yung past nila sa babae pero pag tayo na nagkwento napi-piss off sila...that's true.. ;D
si hubby friend niya parin yung ex niya sa FB at yung picture nila together nakasave parin sa laptop niya at sa wallet niya andun parin yung pic nung girl..gusto parin niyang kausap until now ...
nag kakachat pa sila minsan at nagkakatext...
pinagsabihan ko na siya bout it..and so far hindi na niya ineentertain...
kasi kung susukatin namin yung pinagdaanan namin sa pinag daanan nila..
those were just the days..eh kami from the day na nagkakilala kami up to this time..andami na namin na accomplish together..
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #46 on: August 23, 2011, 12:07:58 pm »

alam nyo mga momys ang masarap pag usapan kesa sa mga x? yung mga past nyo na kung pano kayo naging kayo at yung mga dati nyong ginagawa na wala pa kayong baby at hindi pa kayo kasal..super sarap kagabi lang pinag usapan namin andyan yung nalasaing kami na nag batuhan kami ng ladero hahaha dami namin naalala na pangit non pero nakakatawa naman nga un...hayaan nyo na mga x nila..x nga diba? tyo ang check!!1 ;D
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #47 on: August 23, 2011, 12:47:14 pm »

 ;Dmamachristal agree ako sa sinabi mo..

oo naman masarap isipin yun..
kami ni hubby pag medyo nagkakalabuan kami minsan we talk bout our past,.
pano nagkakilala,pano nagsimula,nagligawan,first dates at first away  ;D ;D ;D

correct ka dyan masarap i reminisce..kasi check hindi X ;D ;D
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #48 on: August 23, 2011, 12:51:24 pm »

 ;D
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #49 on: August 26, 2011, 06:05:37 pm »

Actually, hindi ako windang sa mga ex niya, kasi di hamak mas maganda ako kesa sa kanilang lahat!   :o ;D  :o

Joke lang.

Sa totoo lang, pag tinatanong (or for a want of a better word, kinukulit) ko siya, hindi na rin siya masyado nagkkwento kesyo raw nalimutan na raw niya, o saglit lang naman raw naging sila. Baka ginagawa rin lang niya yun para di mahurt feelings ko.  ;) Okay lang naman. Past naman na yun. Pero subukan lang nila maghabol kay hubby.....
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #50 on: August 26, 2011, 11:26:50 pm »

ako naman dati nagkukwento sya tungkol sa ex niya nung 1 month palang kami kase nagkukwento din ako sa ex ko. para bang nakikipag kumpetensya ang mokong. pero ngayon kapag nabo brought up yung mga ex ko, pissed of sya masyado kaya ayoko na mababanggit kahit na hint lang. seloso kase yun e. isa lang kilala ko na ex ni bf, yung iba nyang ex, di ko na tinanong kase feel ko di naman sya gnaun talaga interested sa mga girls e.
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #51 on: August 28, 2011, 01:33:45 pm »

there's nothing wrong with talking about the past.  but if it's being discussed over and over again (same topic/girl), i'd say, "do you want to go back?"  once is enough, or if you're asking about it again, then he can retell it. it's not bad to say frankly that talking about his ex repeatedly is already getting to your nerves.
 
i know all of my hubby's ex-GF and flings.  i even became friends with some of them.  and the first person to befriend him in facebook is his ex-GF whom he had a relationship for two years.  it didn't bother me at all.  i am the present, and i make sure that i'll still be his future.
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #52 on: August 28, 2011, 01:57:16 pm »

sis mariann sana gnyan din yung view q noh!!it seems that ur confident enough na secure ka s hubby mo.. ako hindi kac 1st yr plng ng relasp namin as bf-gf eh pinmukha na skin n talagang mas love niya yung ex ewan ko ba bkit nging kami na (i mean husband and hehe.. until now kahit may aswa n yung ex niya bothered padin ako lalo na nung nlaman q ng eemail sila ng ex niya pati husband nito ..haist. kilala ko n yung girl i have most of her information like san sia work,nkpgaral,bday etc kaya d talaga ako maka move on minsan  brought out q issues s kanya na talaga naman gus2 rin ng husband ko un kasi pinkamtgal at serious relsp niya before ako. :'(
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #53 on: August 28, 2011, 02:07:47 pm »

@yesha ann: sis, try to ignore it na lang. para di ka ma stress. pero pag naman c hubby mo ang talagang nag bbrought up e ibang usapan na yon. at isa pa. kung di ka naman komportable na nakikipag communicate pa din sya sa ex niya , e di sabihin mo sa kanya. para malaman niya din yung feelings mo. kaya mo yan sis. :)
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #54 on: August 28, 2011, 02:15:07 pm »

i hate this topic...hehheh bitter..
nagkaroon ng gf ang asawa ko nung buntis ako,wala kasi siya dito sa manila nun.nasa cebu siya,alam na niyang buntis ako pero nagpabuyo siya sa mga letch*** tauhan niya (civil engr. si hubby) at nalaman ko lang ng nakapanganak na ako nakita ko yung picture nila sa bag at sobrang tago pa.naku hindi niya ako matataguan,sabi niya pamangkin daw yun nung family friend nila.sobrang close naman kasi nakaakbay siya pero inunahan niya ako ng galit niya at nahihiya akong awayin siya at bungangaan kasi nandun kami sa in-laws ko nakatira.di hindi ko na inopen,nung lumipat na kami at si friendster pa ang bida,nakita ko na may comment sa family picture namin at sinabi nung girl na "alam ko naman kung sino ang mahal mo eh,balikan mo na siya" nagduda na ako at check ko profile niya at nakita ko dun na may quote pa siya na sobrang mahal daw niya si hubby ko at tanggap daw niya sitwasyon.tinawagan ko kaagad si hubby kahit nasa work pa at pinauwi ko siya ng bonggang galit na voice..uwi agad siya at nakita niyang nakabaligtad na ang bahay namin sa mga tinapon kong gamit at binugbog ko siya...nagagalit ako kasi alam niyang buntis ako tapos nagsyota pa siya ng iba,so malinaw na ginagago niya ako habang nahihirapan ako sa pagbubuntis ko...

yan ang hindi maioopen na ex kasi alam na niya mangyayari sa kanya,pag naiisip ko yan talagang kumukulo ang dugo ko,at ilang beses ko na ding napasaan ang asawa ko,hindi siya lumalaban kasi guilty siya...pero ngayon di ko na inoopen at ayoko ng iopen kasi baka kawawa na naman siya sa akin...

pasensiya may pagkawar freak ako minsan...pero sa pagkakataon lang na yan...
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #55 on: August 28, 2011, 02:17:58 pm »

tanx sa advice sis iAmMa___net!nsv qn s kanya kaya lang dedma lang sia..kaya convince q nalang s sarili q talaga gnn focus nalang ako s son q..:(
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #56 on: August 28, 2011, 03:41:59 pm »

@kawaiimaridel: hahaha grabe sis. natatawa ko sa ginawa mo.at naiintindihan ko yung napi-feel mo. kahit naman siguro kanino gawin yon diba. :)

@yesha ann: tama yan sis. libangin mo na lang din dito sa SP yung sarili mo. hehe. :)
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #57 on: August 28, 2011, 04:37:21 pm »

tinawagan ko kaagad si hubby kahit nasa work pa at pinauwi ko siya ng bonggang galit na voice..uwi agad siya at nakita niyang nakabaligtad na ang bahay namin sa mga tinapon kong gamit at binugbog ko siya

winner ka talaga sis! lakas ng tawa ko dito sa "binugbog ko siya" tama yan minsan kasi pag kinausap lang o kung anong diplomasya  hindi nagtatanda eh. basta lang ginagawa mo yan ng may rason ok lang yan.

gusto ko yang mga topic ng ex na yan . actually lagi ko tinatanong yan sa kanya pag kwnetuhan mode kami pero ayaw na ayaw niya sabihin sakin. kaya ako lagi akong curious .. siya naman galit na galit na sa kakakulit ko. gusto ko lang naman malaman  :( pero ako hindi ako nag oopen ng mga naging ex ko sa kanya wag na lang kasi di naman true love un. naks!
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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #58 on: August 28, 2011, 05:03:28 pm »

Nagpapasalamat naman aku sa dyos kasi hindi babaero asawa ku. Yong mga dati niyang gf, ayuko nang malaman kung sang lupalop na sila. Baka mas maganda, seksi at mayaman pa sila saken.

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Re: Your hubby's EX-GFs
« Reply #59 on: August 28, 2011, 09:54:58 pm »

hubby has all the capabilities to have an affair (he's a practicing lawyer and he has clients even out of town, aside from playing basketball with his fellow lawyers all over the phils whenever they have conventions).  hindi naman kagwapohan si hubby pero alam nyo naman ang mga malalanding babae, pag pera na ang kaharap walang paki kahit married na ang pinapatulan nila.
 
i just keep my self-confidence because i know succombing to insecurities would make me look haggard (losyang).   i do to him what an other woman could possibly do.  i can be his wife and his whore at the same time.  so ano pa ang hahanapin niya? 
 
but if ever he'd look for another one, problema niya na yon!  i have my job, i have my kids.  and i'm keeping myself fit.  bakit sya lang ba ang may karapatan ng bagong lovelife?!  joke!
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