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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #75 on: October 26, 2011, 06:32:14 pm »

kakainis talaga ang ganyan. dati nga rin si hubby pati sexcapades nila ng mga ex niya kinukwento tapos ikakasal na lang kami sabihin ba naman na that day rin ang anniv nila ng ex niya. siyempre kakainis di ba lalo na nung nalaman ko na sa bedroom namin now niya dati pinatutulog ex niya. siyempre can't help but think na baka even when we are intimate iniisip pa rin niya yung mga dati gawa nila ng ex niya. kuwentuhan ko nga rin nangyari sa amin ng ex ko makaganti lang ayun nagselos di tumahimik siya.

kakainis naman hubby mo sis. Nakakaselos kaya yun, tska di mawawala sa isip mo yun. Sana di nalang sinabi ng hubby mo..
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #76 on: October 26, 2011, 08:53:41 pm »

Everytime na china-chat ng Ex niya yung hubby ko naiinis ako d ko lang pinapahalata kay hubby at ang malala sinasama pa sa mga inuman tskk buti nlang sumusunod skin si hubby . . 
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #77 on: October 27, 2011, 09:11:56 am »

Can you be friends with your husbands EX.?
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #78 on: November 01, 2011, 09:02:10 pm »

My sister-in-law told me na madami daw ex-girlfriends yung kuya niya way back in High School. I meet one of her ex-girlfriends and okay naman. We're friends, actually. May family na din kasi siya. Past is past na para sa kanila yung naging relationship nila. :)
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #79 on: November 02, 2011, 12:13:58 pm »

kawaiimaridel

sorry pero ang shufal ni ate naman.. ang sakit niyan.. dapat bago kayo ikasal mapag-usapan nyo maigi at makapag set siguro ng bounderies... pero kaya mo yan be strong..

Joana Amber

i don't really think so.. sometimes kasi magkakaroon at magkakaroon ng hinala e... at selos..

mga mommies.. para sakin the less u know the less it will hurt.. kami ng tatay ng anak ko.. di kami friends sa FB hehe.. nabwisit kasi ako dun sa EX niya na patuloy padin ang pagcocomment sa kanya e sinabihan na siya na wag na sila mag-usap.. kea para mwalan ako ng pagseselosan at kakainisan.. unfriend na hehe..

works for me pero i dunno sa iba.. hihi
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #80 on: November 03, 2011, 10:01:55 am »

hindi naman sa makitid ang utak pero what they had was between them and hindi ko na kailangan balikan yun. my partner doesn't like me talking about my ex. i don't like him talking about his ex. agreement na namin yun. kasi before i would talk about my ex hehe. then tinanong ko sya if bothered ba sya, sabi niya lang, what if he would talk about his ex, ok lang ba daw sakin, sabi ko agad hindi! minsan nagtatanong ako, pero iniisip ko muna if i can answer those questions myself if sya ang nagtanong sakin nun. i knew he had a lot of exes. alam niya rin past ko. what's important is now.  8)
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #81 on: November 03, 2011, 12:09:06 pm »

 Basta ako kahit anong gawin ko di ko mapilit yung sarili ko na maging friends sa Ex ng hubby ko. Ewan ko ba.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #82 on: November 28, 2011, 08:31:48 am »

My ex just called at around 3am and he was so drunk. I'm just being nice so I answered the call and told him I'm at work (graveyard shift :-[ ) but he's insisting that he wants to go to my office and talk to me. Medyo hindi ko na maintindihan yung ibang mga sinasabi niya so I'm pretty sure he's drunk. I put the phone down and texted him saying that he can call me pag di na sya lasing and we can talk. It's been more than 6 years since we broke up, a mutual decision since we're both studying at that time and can't find time to prioritize such relationship. I know nagkaron din sya ng ibang mga girlfriends after me and my cousin just told me na kakapanganak lang two months ago ng latest girlfriend niya. I want to stay friends with him but I'm afraid hubby will not want that.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #83 on: November 28, 2011, 12:35:10 pm »

@princess_jasmine: sis for me lang ha, para saan pa communication kung manggugulo din naman sa buhay mo? even though gusto mong maging friends kayo eh kunng guguluhin ka rin naman niya eh bakit pa.  may katwiran naman siguro hubby mo kung bakit ayaw niya.  unless, may feeling ka pa sa kanya sis.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #84 on: November 28, 2011, 09:06:19 pm »

@chester
Point taken. What I had with my ex was young love, we were both very young then. Almost 7 years na ang lumipas and we both have different relationships and own kids na rin so on my end, I honestly just don't want na masabihang iniiwasan ko sya or something. Meron din kasi kaming common friends and some of my relatives sa province are friends with him. Although considering hubby's feelings which is more important, I guess I can try to ignore it na lang.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #85 on: November 29, 2011, 08:03:01 am »

There comes a point na habang naghaharutan kayo o naglalambingan kayo ng hubby/bf/partner mo, biglang kukurot sa utak/isip mo yung ex mo.

Naranasan niyo na?  :-X
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #86 on: November 29, 2011, 12:30:30 pm »

There comes a point na habang naghaharutan kayo o naglalambingan kayo ng hubby/bf/partner mo, biglang kukurot sa utak/isip mo yung ex mo.

Naranasan niyo na?  :-X

yes, but on our first 2-3months of relationship with my bf/hubby now.. ngayon, pag naiisip ko sya, naiinis na ko kase nagsisisi pa din ako na naging bf ko sya.  ::) i think he still wants to have me back kahit malapit na kami magkababy ni hubby.. haha! :P  :P maglaway sya..
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #88 on: January 26, 2012, 07:14:50 pm »

naiisip nyo pa ba si ex until now?

na isip nyo ba kung ano ang buhay nyo ngayon kung kayo nagkatuluyan?

wala lang po, bigla ko lang naisip.
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Re: Dealing with the EXes (yours and your partner's)
« Reply #89 on: January 29, 2012, 07:43:35 am »

Ako sis oo. Naiisip ko sobrang good thing that I ended up with hubby kasi kung yung ex ko ang nakatuluyan ko baka sobrang hirap ng buhay ko ngayon. Last time I heard, ex is working as a salesperson sa isang mall ngayon, his girlfriend just gave birth in the province and mahilig pa rin sya makipag inuman with friends. Super glad na walang bisyo si hubby (except for buying gadgets and gears for his guitars, hehe) ;D
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