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moonriver

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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #45 on: August 10, 2011, 03:40:03 pm »

si hubby everyday nakikita ko sa history ng browsed sites... errr.
delikado talaga internet when it comes to porn kasi very easy access!
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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #46 on: August 10, 2011, 03:55:35 pm »

ilang beses ko na sya nakita nanunood ng porn,minsan inaasar ko sasabihin ko 'ano gusto mo tirahin yung porn star?...' tatawa lang yung...ginagawa naman niya sakin yung pinapanuod niya...isa pa lalaki naman sya eh so ok lang wag lang gawin niya sa iba ...hehe tsaka ingat lang baka makita ng kids...
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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #47 on: August 11, 2011, 06:31:16 pm »

initial reaction po??? oy bakit di mo ko sinama manood!!!

sa totoo lang po samin 2 ni husband, ako po un mas mahilig manood, at magbasa ng porn di dahil sa ma-L po ako pero parang normal lang po kasi ang view ko po sa sex is part ng life parang, pag gutom, kakain ng meryenda. pag antok, iidlip sandali. pag horny, sex un na! ganun po. di po siya big deal or di ko po kinahihiya na i'm into porn watching (and reading).

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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #48 on: August 11, 2011, 06:39:36 pm »

saka pag nanonood po kami, nood lang po talaga, parang sa ordinary movie lang.  di po namin trip un mga scandal scandal na porn. di ba po madaming nagkalat na kun ano anong scandals??? ang gusto ko po un mga porn movies talaga na ginawa for adult audience ng mga legitimate na production houses. kasi may story line po un at may lighting na maayos, editing na maayos, director na tunay at production staff na talagang sanay sa paggawa ng film na ganun. kasi un mga scandal po diba parang home films lang na shot by a digicam?? tapos ang gugulo pa ng angles..

ayun po
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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #49 on: August 13, 2011, 07:43:53 pm »

my initial reaction?
 
my husband is a normal man
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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #50 on: August 15, 2011, 11:49:28 am »

Never ko pa siyang nahuli nanuod ng porn. Hindi ko nga alam kung talagang hindi siya nanonood or tinatago niya lang sakin. Di ko talaga kasi mahuli, may sarili siyang laptop tapos lagi siyang nasa work. Sa bahay naman, naglalaro lang sila ng mga kids.
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Re: What was your initial reaction when you caught your hubby watching porn?
« Reply #51 on: August 16, 2011, 01:04:29 pm »

That time years ago, I did not actually catch him watching porn.  I saw the images he saved, in his own and our other home office computers (5).  Good thing for him, he was not home when I saw those images.  He had asked me to open because he wanted me to forward to him a draft report he was working on but he neglected to tell me which directory/sub-directory that draft report was saved in.  When I saw those porn images in his computer, I ran a search in all of the other computers in our home office, and found hundreds of images - save over a period of two years!

I got angry.  Then, I set up the whole network so that all those images will be erased.  I also ran a check on all the browsers of his many email addresses, set up "reject incoming" on those porn sites that were regularly sending him messages, erased all suspect email addresses in his directory, etc.

Then, I sat down and cried that whole night, because I felt so rejected.  "So that was it!" I said, quarrelling with him in my thoughts.  "You were choosing those images over me.  First it was that kabit, then those por kilos, and then just when you promised that you would no longer engage in pambababae, you do internet pornography!  How could you do this to me!!!!  THAT too is infidelity, because you deny me your attention and love while you are there, nakababad in your computer all night long, jacking off I bet!"

By the time he got home from his out-of-town trip, I had cried my eyes out, and I had "verbalized" all my anger and rage.

The next day I opened that news paper and read about this program that was a lifeline for hurting marriages.  I clipped that columnist's article that included a mention of the program, showed it to my husband and told him I was at my wit's end, and I am at the verge of making a decision to separate with him, but that I was willing to try one more time, by doing this program.  I told him the decision is his to make, and that he had a day to  make that decision.

The next day, he said he would do the program with me.  Then we did the program, during which the priest said, "Husband, your body is not your own to give to just anybody; your body is owned by your wife.  Wife, your body is not your own to give to just anybody; your body is owned by your husband."  My spouse now says that was the statement that fell on his head like a rock, that made him realize that he had hurt me grievously when he forgot about that: his body being mine, and no one else's.

We now trek the road of forgiveness, making amends and healing.  That road is craggy, and difficult to negotiate.  But we go on, trying our best - for each other.

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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing at porn / naked women on internet...
« Reply #52 on: August 16, 2011, 01:28:54 pm »

Anything one does that will no longer make one's spouse the priority in one's life, is an act of infidelity.  Having an affair is one glaring act of infidelity.  Others are:
- when you take your spouse for granted
- when you fail to keep promises to your spouse
- when you belittle them
- when you engage in alcohol or drug abuse
- when you engage in gambling and other addictions
- when you engage in in internet pornography
- when you put your children first, ahead of your spouse
- when you put your work first, ahead of your spouse
- when you put your volunteer work first, ahead of your spouse
- when you put your parents first, ahead of your spouse
And more.

Engaging i internet pornography IS an act of infidelity.

That is what my spouse and I learned when we did the RETROUVAILLE program.

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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #53 on: August 16, 2011, 01:53:25 pm »

Same topics merged.
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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #54 on: August 21, 2011, 10:18:04 pm »

for me , it depends on the situation .. hindi namin ikino-consider na infidelity yung reading adult magazines or watching porn vids. kasi my husband is a seaman, so napakadalang namin magkasama. i understand na mga ganong bagay ang nakakatulong sa kanya everytime he is on board. at ako naman , im always spending time with my family and friends. every fri and sat night ang gimik. ganon lang.. pero pag andito sya , walang araw na hindi kami magksama. minsan nga kaming dalawa na lang ang nag iinuman :) hehe. im 24yrs and he is 25 yrs.old naman ..
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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #55 on: August 21, 2011, 11:09:42 pm »

ok lang naman saken kase di naman kami madalas magkita, mas ok na yun kesa mambabae sya. hehe

ako din naman napapasilip sa porn e, we used to watch it together din minsan. naghahanap kami ng magagandang moves. LOL
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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #56 on: August 25, 2011, 01:01:22 am »

For me, okay lang naman..
And he admits na ginagawa lang niya yun pag ang tagal naming walang do..
Ang masaklap, when i browse his history on the internet, sometimes i see links from facebook na pictures ng girls na naka two piece, take note, kakilala pa namin ha, schoolmates.. I don't know kung napadaan lang sya, or if he fantasizes about it.. Yun lang yung kinakalungkot ko..
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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #57 on: August 26, 2011, 06:16:46 pm »

He does that naman if matagal kaming wala eh. Pati he always tells me afterwards (at least I think he does). But whenever we are at the same place naman, we watch it together, sabay criticize... or you know, copy.  :P ;D
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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #58 on: August 27, 2011, 12:23:47 pm »

ok lang sakin, nagpapaalam pa nga siya sakin kung manonood siya ng porn..lol LDR kasi kami, once or twice a year lang siya nakakauwi dito sa pinas kaya minsan pag magkasama kami, sabay kami nood. haha :D Ang importante open kami sa isa't isa at confident akong wala siyang iba.. :)
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Re: If you caught your hubby browsing/watching porn on internet/tv...
« Reply #59 on: August 27, 2011, 12:30:42 pm »

samin ni hubby nga pag my bago syang nakita/napanoud na porn sasabihin pa niya sakin "bhie tignan mo/panoorin mo my bago ko hehe... ;D ;D ;D
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