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Author Topic: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest  (Read 62396 times)

misyelicious

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@sis ryuu kapag umaangal na sya sinasabi ko lang sino ba nagpataba sa akin??di ba ikaw??binuntis mo kasi ako! haha..sasagot naman sya  ng.. kayo ni baby kain ng kain nung buntis ka eh..pinipigilan kita ayaw mo papigil.. :D ..sagot ko naman..an sarap kumain eh..saka di ko mapigil di kumain nung buntis ako..pag gutom ako,kain talaga..kaya siguro laki ng tinaba ko..hayyzzz!!
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@misyelicious: natawa ko dito sobra. and to think im in training right now, napatingin tuloy trainer namin sa akin. sabi ko i just read something funny hahaha

ako rin i gained weight after pregnancy hopefully mabalik ko kase frustrated ako na masuot ko yung dati kong mga damit. si hubby, support lang sa akin. he wants me to lese weight also but di naman niya ko kinakahiya kase kahit naman saan sya pumunta kasama ako.
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sis misyelicious
oki lang yan, mommy.. malayo pa naman ang first birthday ni baby miggy.. may time pa para magpapayat.. hihi.. ;D
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ako din sobrang laki ng tinaba ko after my pregnancy..hay.. pero kadiri naman hitsura ko nung highschool days ko patpatin talaga parang  dko na keri ang ganun.. gusto ko lang yung medyo may laman ng konti.. :-)
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Mas masarap kayakap ang mataba at medyo mukhang losyang lalo na kung mahal mo.  Ako, ayoko ng wife na sa sobrang conscious about appearance eh nababawasan o affected na ang interaction namin.  Mas nakakalungkot naman na ang marami diyan na parang isa lang o limited ang notion about beauty.  Siguro, sa sobrang panonood ng TV, Magazine, Billboards, internet images at iba pang media. 

"Beauty is truth, truth beauty," - that is all
        Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know."

- John Keats, Ode on a Grecian Urn

Hindi mo na alam ngayon kung totoo pa ang nakikita mo sa media.  Parang standard procedure na ngayon ang mag-alter ng pictures.  May makita ka mang maganda in person, di mo alam kung babae ba iyon o lalaki.

Ang babaeng sinumpaan mo na mamahalin habang buhay ay kilalang-kilala mo na. 


When you came, you were like red wine and honey,
And the taste of you burnt my mouth with its sweetness.
Now you are like morning bread,
Smooth and pleasant.
I hardly taste you at all for I know your savour,
But I am completely nourished.

-- Amy Lowell, Decade

You no longer see her as she appears but you experience her, wholly, completely.  Paghawak mo sa braso niya, hindi mo mapapansin na kung medyo iba na ito...pero mararamdaman mo ang kakaibang init.

Pagyakap mo sa kaniya mula sa likod at mata-touch mo ang tiyan niya...di mo na maiisip kung nagbago man ang puson niya...may kilig pa rin na nararamdaman sa paglalapat ng inyong katawan.

The body remembers, that's what my wife and I would always say.  Meron kayong intimacy na kayo lang ang nakakaalam.  You no longer see each other at a distance and see mere appearances.  You are so close that you are no longer two different persons.  Body and spirit - you would always feel each other's existence because you are one...and you are as infinite as the universe itself. 

Sana madiscover pa ng maraming tao ito.


You know what daddy jojo..sana lahat ng husbands kagaya hehe..wish ko din my husband is kagaya mo..there are times kasi specially when were at the mall..hindi niya talaga ako makuhang sabayan sa pglakad..minsan nga ako nalng ang lumalayo sa kanya kc I donít wanna feel the pain na  nararamdaman ko everytime when were together na the feeling parang nilalayuan..na mas nauuna siya lumakad as if wala siya ibang kasama..katwiran niya ang bagal ko daw lumakad..for me its only an hehe...minsan nga I rather prefer na ako nalng pumunta ng mall kung hindi mn lang kasama mga kids hehe..siguro nga Iím not presentable na for him..thats why I feel so hehe...I donít know eh..feeling ko hindi niya ako makuhang ipagmalaki sa mga friends niya..even sa fb niya wala tagala siya upload na pix na kasama ako.. :) that is why ngpapapayat na ako but not for him for my self ofcourse..just to gain my self confidence .. :)
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Hi iecubita

Binasa ko yung qouted message, akala ko sulat mo.  Sabi ko, aba okay ah, very interesting ito.  Uy, may quoted poems din siya.  Ano ito, parehas ng quoted poems ko rin.  And then saka ko na-realize na message ko rin pala yung quoted.  Hindi ko talaga na-recognize sarili kong message.  Haay, I should really tell the moderators about this na talaga...wala nang distinct formatting ang quote as message.

Anyway, thank you ha.

Alam mo ang mga husbands ang nagpapaganda sa wives nila.  Mahalin lang ng husband ang wife niya and make her feel good about herself...magbu-bloom na ang asawa niya.

It works both ways ha.  Kaya just take a look at couples.  If they look fresh and beautiful kahit nakasakay mo lang sila sa jeep...alam mo how much they love each other.


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thanks for that daddy jojo..yeah! mga husbands talaga ngpapaganda sa mga wives nila..sana nga ganun din c hubby ko =)
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go daddy jojo.. tama ka dyan!
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 hindi din ako dad... makiusyoso lang sana..sa first year namin ng hubby ko sexy ako, after a year i really gain weight. as in yung mama ko pa parang concern sa diet ko kesa asawa ko. I ask naman my hubby what if lalo pa ako lumaki, he says okey lang naman daw eh. wow, humaba an tenga ko, jeje... pero gurls, we need to take care of ourself pa din, we must be presentable and SHOULD always look beautiful to our dearest partner. kaya ngayon healthy lifestyle na ako.
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My hubby told this on my face  :'(

"Ang taba taba mo na kain ka pa rin naman ng kain. Mag-ayos ka naman para maiba lang. May times sa totoo lang nawawalan na ako ng gana sa yo.Mag manicure ka naman ng pula  :-[ Mag-iba ka man lang ba."

Until now almost a month na it still depresses me pag naaalala ko. He said while we were fighting and out of nowhere, out of topic talaga sinabi niya lang to. And the answer he gave days after I asked him why? He said he said that just to inspite me because of the things Im saying was hurting him. How could one just do that? The moment I heard him say that was like my soul left my body and I felt I was outside looking in. So that it wont crush me. I was so stunned for a few moment I literally forgot how to breath.

In fairness naman just like all the mommies here I was a bit chubby when he met me. He even said before I was like the ones in those paintings nung panahon ni da vinci. And I still breastfeed up to now. Mag 2 na si baby. But I am what a "normal mommy" would look I guess. And even proud of my body despite of my love handles because I wear it like a badge for being a happy mommy. A lot of times I still catch a man or 2 staring at me while Im out alone tulad nung dalaga pa ako. Fastfood, supermarkets, jeepneys, church and wet markets where I got a lot of freebies because of being pretty despite of being chubby. Dialogue ko lagi "Thank you ha. Paborito kasi ng anak ko eh." And they would laugh shyly "Sorry te ha akala ko dalaga ka pa."  ;D Kahit sa mga babaeng tindera A lot of times nasabihan na ako ng  "Nanay ka na pala."or "Nanay ka na pala ate." I have that since I become a mother and for a long time Im really happy.

That's why of all people, something like that would come from somebody who I thought loved me unconditionally. I never thought he measured me so very little for being his wife and as a mother compared to what in his eyes is beautiful. It just so sad.
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^Hi Mommy CIB, sorry guys ha out of topic to. I knew it, there must be reasons why your husband is watching porn baka isa yan sa reason. From what i remembered may boy friend ako as in yung friend lang ha and she has a wife na friend ko rin(actually magkakapitbahay lang kami). Hiniram ko cp niya para makitext, since pakialamera ako sa mga app ng phone eh tinignan ko yung video gallery niya and shocked na puro porn video. Sympre lam ko naman na common lang sa guys yun di ba pero shocked na as in buong laman ng video gallery/folder x-rated. As a friend, tinanong ko siya i asked "Friend baket naman puro porn laman ng video mo?" Sabi niya "Badtrip yan kasing kaibigan mo, laging ayaw. saka feeling di na ko naattract" sabi ko "Sama mo naman!". Her wife is so cute before, medyo napabayaan lang nung magkaanak not so losyang naman pretty pa rin siya pero di ko alam kung baket di na siya tingin attractive sa hubby niya. I advise him na baket di niya kausapin wife niya, na baket dati kulang na lang sungkitin niya moon and starts just to be with her. Hindi ko alam kung nafall out of love na si boy friend sa wife niya.

Mommy i'm not saying naman na baka your hubby don't find you attractive anymore or na-fall out na siya. For whatever it is there must be a reason..Try to discuss it with him, kahit na pabiro yung mga sinasabi niya if that affects you that should be settled.
Ako naman sobra sobra yung pinapakitang affection ni partner kahit maraming tao ngunguso yun para ikiss ako, ako na nga nahihiya eh sinasampal ko minsan hehe. That's why i always feel beautiful inside and out it's because of the affection that someone i love giving.
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@sis marikit

Hay naku sis buti ka pa nauna mo pang nalaman. I never knew how deep I was on this Sh!t until he told me that. Last march 23. Imagine  :'( I never even take it that "serious", seriously. We were fighting over something I couldnt even remember now. All I remember was asking him "What do I have to do to make it better?" because he's always angry nagugulat na lang ako palagi. I was even thinking maybe he wants me to be more malambing, to be extra patient with him though in the last few months that's what exactly I been trying to do. And you know what? After pausing for a long time...that's what exactly he said. I felt as though that green-eyed monster that eyeing me for so long has finally revealed his face to me.  I stop crying then look at him and told him "Talaga." At exactly same moment as the hurt of it cut me at my heart I asked myself "God, where is that guy you gave me?" And mind you I really felt so patethic I even laughed so hard. Hahaha  ;D Kinabukasan I researched everything about it and darn, I never knew that the joke was really on me. 2 days after I wrote him everything about it and yun.....

That's the only reason he has. Because Im fat and he is a complete jerk.

To this day sa kanila pa rin sya umuuwi simula nung pinalayas ko sya. Life's too easy for him. Though Im sad on the thought he was hurting right now, the bitchy side of me still nags "He wouldnt know how much it hurts." The agony, the pain, the shame I felt about myself for over a year wouldnt compensate to what he is going through right now. You dont just hurt anyone just like that. Naku, we might need a different topic go on the details of how was it to be a wife to a porn addict  :'(

The red nail polish thing is what gave him away. I was never, ever done a  manicure in my life. Our whole knows that.

Sory uli Ot na haba pa. Thank sis...
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Tama si daddy jojo! Ako Im 8 yrs older than my husband,34 na ko and 26 pa lang sya.To think na at that age,mapaglaro pa yan and malapit sa tukso.pero buti na lang si hubby magaling mambola,he always make it a point na pinupuri ako everyday.For what I did,sa itsura ko or naglalambing sya minsan.Kaya ang feeling ko naman is prettiness ako lagi kasi proud sya sa akin kahit alam ko sa sarili kong hindi naman ako maganda.In return is I make it possible na maayos lagi ang itsura ko tuwing uuwi sya,lagi akong mabango.Hindi ako nawawalan ng cologne sa katawan kahit matutulog na ko.Ganun lang yata talaga yun,give and take ng love!Poz open ang communication para nagkakaalaman kayo kung ano yung mga ayaw nyo kesa maipon sya and comes to the point na bigla na lang mag eexplode!
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natuwa naman ako sa topic na to.. and sa mga nabasa kong response sweet naman ng mga daddy sana lahat ng lalaki ganyan, ;)
ako din when I got pregnant last year sobrang laki ng weight gain ko kaya naging eclamptic ako ayon naging CS tuloy :D hahaha after ng delivery ko ang weight ko was 67kg and now 50kg. nalang!! :) di naman nabago yung treatment and love niya sakin kahit nung tumaba ako kaso di na magkasya yung mga damit ko and kailangan ko rin talaga mag diet kasi nga sa highblood ko also I want to be gorgeous on my hubby's eyes so im doing my best para magawa yon.. I enjoy doing this for him and for my self also, pero sya tumaba na rin sya ngayon pero I still love him so much! ;) ;)! I just want to give him the best out of me.  :D :D
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nakakatawa basahin mga posts dito hahaha ;D
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