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Author Topic: Dads: Kinahihiya nyo ba wives nyo pag mataba at mukha silang "losyang" Be Honest  (Read 62719 times)

^_mOmmyaIra_^

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ill try to answer ha kahit di ako dad.. hehe.. Based on my observation, dati kasi nasa med-large lang ang mga damit ko.. after giving birth now nasa XXL na sya.. tsk!!! (poor me, thats one of the reason y ako may PCOS  & highblood )  Anyway, sa hubby ko feeling ko nahihiya na sya nung lumaki ako ng ganito.. Especially before nung kakapanganak ko lang, im so haggard & wala talaga akong tsaga mag ayos.. In short, na losyang ako.. Pag lalabas kami nung dati nung mag bf kami kung todo akbay sya sa akin, since tumaba ako ng ganun kalaki hindi na..  Meron pang point na nauuna pa sya maglakad sa akin as if di na kami magkakilala... tsk!  But now, since my baby is with my mom in nueva ecija, Ive change a lot.. I started to have my hair rebond, fix my self, take care of my skin, nails & im trying to loose weight.. I can see that my hubby change.. hehe.. Medyo mas naaappreciate na niya ako ngayon, maybe because im starting to gain self confidence again & bring back my own (ME).. :D
« Last Edit: December 12, 2010, 08:10:46 pm by ^_mOmmyaIra_^ »
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JoshuaGummies

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Go sis  ^_mOmmyaIra_^  so happy for you sis!  ;)

oo minsan ayaw lang talaga aminin ng mga BF/patner/hubby pero syempre kung mas sexy ang mahal nila mas naappreciate nila at napapahalagahan:)

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IMO, hindi reason ang pagiging buntis, panganganak, pag-aasawa etc para mapabayaan natin mga sarili natin pati simpleng pagsusuklay, given na hindi naman tayo kinakahiya ng mga husbands natin pero aantayin pa ba na dumating sa point na yun? discipline lang naman yan sa sarili, if we cant lose weight that easy, well atleast maintain natin yung neatness sa katawan na pati pagbbrush ng kuko wag kakalimutan..kasi katamaran na yon.. LOL..

just my 2 cents.
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Prometheus

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Thanks Mommy Jacqui_e!

I think yung loss ng gana na mag-ayos during pregnancy is part and parcel of being together as a couple. I'm sure it's even worse when the post partum depression hits. My point was that a husband should even be more supportive of his wife at this point to bring back her confidence. Keeping your wife at arms length when you don't feel she is pretty or sexy speaks volumes about a husband and his priorities. It doesn't speak well of the relationship either because it sets pre-conditions for a harmonious relationship. This particular thread really shows the difference between love as a feeling and love as a commitment.

Sure, I notice when my wife is not looking 100% but it shouldn't be a condition for me to be sweet and loving to her. When I get home, my wife isn't usually dressed up like a model smelling like the purest lotus bud in china. She's sweaty, in house clothes and sometimes smells like baby poop. But she still is and always will be...my gal.

If you can't love unconditionally then chances are you love yourself the most.
« Last Edit: December 13, 2010, 07:31:40 pm by Prometheus »
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i like this topic. I admire all the Dads that can see and love beyond the flabs and love handles of their wives.
Kasali ko sa mga overweight na Mommies, Mabuhay  ;)
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@daddy prometheus-i like your answer! :) reminds me of my hubby, he said that he doesnt care if tumaba ako. plus nalang daw if I would be able to maintain my figure.. haha.. but guess what, that inspired to go back in shape after maternity... mas payat pa ako ngayon kesa nung bf/gf palang kami, my hubby doesnt mention/compliments me pero I can feel that he is proud of me kasi hindi ako mukhang mommy  ;D ;D ;D
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hehe.... I like this topic..
maybe mahihiya a little..
kasi wife ko sexy pa rin after she delivered our son.
anyway in our case its the husband that gaining weight =(...
Mahihiya din kaya ang mga wifey if your husband is sta clause..
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tammy

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sana lang wag niya akong ikahiya  kahit pa mataba ako noh  at baka upakan ko siya hahaha.pero baka naman ipagpalit ako sa sexy hahaha kaya naku dapat maging kerida lagi sa paningin niya .o diba mga girls
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hehe.... I like this topic..
maybe mahihiya a little..
kasi wife ko sexy pa rin after she delivered our son.
anyway in our case its the husband that gaining weight =(...
Mahihiya din kaya ang mga wifey if your husband is sta clause..

@DD, sa case ko si hubby ren ang nag gain weight.., but it's okay, i don't mind if he looks like santa clause now... Never ko siya kinahiya or ikakahiya... Besides, mas masarap i-hug ang chubby hubby!!! :D
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ay sana wag naman ganun hubby ko na ikakahiya ako pag tumaba ako.. sa ngaun may 1 yr old back to pre preg weight ako.. di lang siguro ako tabain.. sabi niya sexy pa din daw ako. hihi!  sya din medium built till now pero lumalaki tyan .. ganun ata lalaki pag tumatanda lumalaki tyan.













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ay i hope not..

before 55 kilos lang ako, now 74! OMG! i just hope na even if Im this fat (but syempre not ugly! lol) eh di ako ikahiya ng asawa ko. I always ask him if he wanted me to loose weight na ba, he always say "basta masaya ka, masaya na din ako" kaya nevermind na lang muna.. i believe papayat din ako in due time =)
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ryuu

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kapag sinasabi ko sa husband ko na ang taba-taba ko na, he'll always say hindi naman, ayos lang.. mas gusto pa nga daw niya yung maraming napipisil kesa sa tingting.. kaya i'm not pressured to lose the weight i gained during pregnancy.. i was 55kg when i got pregnant and is 58kg three months after giving birth.. :)

so i guess my husband doesn't feel shamed of my physique.. nagagalit lang yun pag hindi nakapuyod/nakatali yung buhok ko.. hindi daw niya makita yung mukha ko saka yung batok ko.. nagiging kamukha ko daw si dora (oo, dora, the explorer) pag hindi nakatali yung buhok ko..  ::)
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yung husband ko naman nakamind set na di talaga madali for me na pumayat ... ang benchmark niya ang mom ko ... i feel na di naman niya ako kinahihiya so long as di ko pabayaan magmukha akong losyang kahit me baby na kami...
 
 
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ako nalang sasagot for my hubby ,yun lang napapansin ko sa kanya..before i became preggy ang payat ko talaga..i was expecting na after ko manganak babalik kahit pano ang weight ko..or konti lang madadagdag sa weight ko..pero na shock ako kasi pagkapanganak ko..konti lang nabawas sakin..huhu..parang di ako nanganak!!haha.. ..yung hubby ko di naman sya sinasabi or pinapakita na nahihiya sya na tumaba ako.. .what he always did is inaasar niya ko like sinasabi niya ang taba ko na daw!,laki na ng braso ko etc.. .pabiro lang naman pero it hurts!!! ..minsan nakahiga kami tapos pipisil pisilin niya yun mga braso ko..alam ko na kasunod non...asaran na naman..o kaya yun tummy ko hahawakan tapos sasabihin .." ano pong hiwa gusto nyo..pang beef steak po ba o pang porkchop?" hahaha... s*ra ulo... alam ko biro lang yun pero tinatamaan ako ..ginawa ba naman akong baboy na tinitinda! pero in fairness to him..nung nag start akong mag food supplement napansin nyang medyo pumapayat ako..yun nga lang butas bulsa niya kasi sa kanya ko humihingi ng pera pambili nun..hihi..
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ryuu

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^natawa naman ako dun, mommy.. butas bulsa niya.. hihi.. ;D
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