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Precious Mary Soriano-Sadili

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ako rin deadma na lang. like nung sunday dumalaw sa lugat namin yung batang 3 months older sa anak ko. anak ko is 28 months already. pihikan sa food kaya payat, then yung isang bata is 31months sobrang taba parang si clarence sa going bulilit. ang bati ba naman sa anak "oh bakit pumayat ka na?" sabi ko na lang. "ok lang yan payat, kesa sa mataba mahirap pumayat pag lumaki" biglang alis ako..hehe
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KVsmommy

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sis sky_butterfly17: ganyan talaga dito sa atin ano, favorite icompare ang payat at mataba lalo na sa mga bata. feeling nila pag payat, hindi healthy. cute na cute sila sa matataba, hindi nila naiisip yung possible health repercussions pag overweight naman ang bata. Kaya ako, pag may nagcocomment na payat yung anak ko, or maliit, or whatever or if may nagsasabi sa kin na mommy na yung anak nila payat (in a sad tone), I just tell them - basta within average range, and healthy naman otherwise, naku ok na ok lang yun. :)

Hindi kasi minsan naiisip na baka kaya slim or maliit yung bata is because of genes. May mga batang sadyang ganoon ang body build. :) Swerte nga yung ganun eh, hindi nila problema magpa-slim down paglaki nila. :)

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Nakakainis talaga mga taong nagcocompare ng mga developments ng mga bata.  Nakakasakit ng damdamin esp kapag anak mo yun.  Sympre it's heart breaking and it's really difficult to ignore.  I guess, there are people na hindi talaga matikom ang bibig.  I think it is because they themselves feel insecure and hurt.  Di ba may kasabihan, hurting people hurt others.  If you are the type of person naman who is satisfied wiht life and feel loved, I don't think you will say something offensive esp sa mga bata or babies.  You will be more sensitive to the feelings of others.  I hear you sis! 
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jannabanana

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nakakainis nga yung ganyan situation pero walang magagawa kakabit na talaga nila yan.. hay! kaya ako minsan pag nandyan yung isang baby inilalayo ko nalang bebe ko.. minsan kahit wala yung isang baby naccompare padin..  hay buhay. sana lang hindi maapektuhan mga babies namin
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Re: How to deal with people who always compare your baby with other babies?
« Reply #94 on: November 26, 2018, 01:05:21 am »

"We should encourage each other, not judge each other and pull each other down as parents."
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