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nanaylovesbaby

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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #45 on: September 24, 2010, 09:59:22 pm »

natawa naman ako sa story ni sis pinoytamil :D
Tama nga, kasi early in the pregnancy,sobrang crazy talaga ng mga hormones nating mga mommy kaya yung iba sa atin, nagiging mahilig kahit malaki na ang tiyan. Sa kaso ko, nung first and early in my 2nd tri, ganun ako, pero nung na notice ko na yung bump sa tiyan ko, parang na turn off ako sa sarili ko kaya di na ko maka feel ng arousal. :D :D :D kahit si mister, gusto pa rin, pinagbibigyan ko pero sinasabi ko, wag masyadong madiin at baka mastimulate yung cervix ko, mag open ba. takot ko lang ma early labor hehe :D :D :D anyway, may mga iba namang paraan para pagbigyan ang gusto ni hubby, pero di ko na lang idedetalye LOL XD... about naman yung gusto ni mrs, kahit malaki na tiyan, may iba naman position para dun. basta... *wink wink*... ;)
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #46 on: October 10, 2010, 01:02:38 pm »

I've been really depressed lately and may separation anxiety rin ako. I live with my baby daddy and we work in the same company so talagang magkasama kami most of the time but on Sundays he plays footsal sobrang nagagalit ako pati nassad pag umaalis sya kahit ilang oras lang naman, I just feel so alone pag wala sya and it's driving me nuts  :-[

I wasn't like this before, naexperience nyo rin ba yung ganun?
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #47 on: October 11, 2010, 02:52:13 pm »

^ ako din, sis! instead of footsal e basketball naman hobby ni hubby. he plays with his brods on wednesdays and with his officemates naman on thursdays. dati i'm totally ok with it. now, pag wala sya, I feel so alone and neglected. ayoko naman i-nag sya about it kasi alam kong part naman sya ng pregnancy. ang lagi kong senti theme e "ang dami kong ginive up pero bakit buhay binata ka pa din" saka "9 months lang to bakit hindi mo pa mahintay before ka maglaro", at "hintayin mo pag nanganak ako, saka ako babawi"  ;D kalokah talaga. to think na i'm a super bubbly person.  :o
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #48 on: October 13, 2010, 08:22:44 am »

Ganyan rin ako, may pa-guilty effect. Pero ako yung nagguilty sa huli kasi oo lang sya ng oo. Kelangan yata natin ng hobby! Let me know pag may maisip ka :)

^ ako din, sis! instead of footsal e basketball naman hobby ni hubby. he plays with his brods on wednesdays and with his officemates naman on thursdays. dati i'm totally ok with it. now, pag wala sya, I feel so alone and neglected. ayoko naman i-nag sya about it kasi alam kong part naman sya ng pregnancy. ang lagi kong senti theme e "ang dami kong ginive up pero bakit buhay binata ka pa din" saka "9 months lang to bakit hindi mo pa mahintay before ka maglaro", at "hintayin mo pag nanganak ako, saka ako babawi"  ;D kalokah talaga. to think na i'm a super bubbly person.  :o
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #49 on: October 13, 2010, 10:53:14 am »

i can totally relate to everyone. Masaydo akong madrama ngayong preggy ako, may farm kasi kami sa antipolo minsan dun si hubby nagi stay, i feel so lonely umiiyak talaga ako kapag umaalis sya, nalulungkot din sya pag umiiyak ako pero kelangan nyang pumunta don.  :'( pero pag umuuwi naman talagang spoiled! kapag wala akong work pinapalaro lang niya ko ng playstation 2 buong araw tapos inaankyatan niya ko ng food and everything. minsan nahihiya na nga ako eh. kaya lang pag umaalis nanaman, iyak nanaman ako :D I hate hormones.
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #50 on: October 13, 2010, 11:11:37 am »

normal nga yata ang depression mga mommies especially during the first trimester.... i'm on my 24th week pero ganyan din, ang dali ko ma depress sa mga bagay bagay... nag worry nga ako na baka dahil dito maging super prone ako sa mga anxiety attacks at post partum depression... ngayon lang ako nakaramdam ng ganito during pregnancy to think 3rd baby ko na to and situationwise, everything is better now than before...
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #51 on: October 13, 2010, 04:18:52 pm »

nakakaloka yung mga weird feelings natin mga sis..

tulad ngayon namimiss ko nanaman love ko, nasa second floor lang siya,., huhuh... gusto ko siya ihug at ikiss ng sobra! bedrest kasi ako ngayong maghapon kaya di ako lumalabas, dinadalan lang ako ng maid ng food dito s 4th floor... feeling ko tagal na namin hindi nagkikita.. sobrang lungkot ko... di ako makatulog... huhuhu
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #52 on: October 17, 2010, 01:04:27 pm »

Hello mga sis!

share ko lang din yung akin, dati grabeng depression din pinagdaanan ko lalo na yung 1st and 2nd trimester ko (teka--tama ba? nablanko ako bigla.sorry.) nasisira ulo ko pag wala si hubby and pag wala ako kausap. di ako mahilig manuod ng TV so ang last resort ko is kumain and matulog. I gained 15 pounds and lalo yun nakakadagdag sa depression ko. Nung lumipat ako ng OB sa CGH, my new OB gave me fish oil capsules take ko daw as a regular vitamins. nung una okay okay ako, andyan parin yung depression ko nung kalaunan, napapansin ko kakainom ko ng fish oil, nawawala yung galit ko sa mundo and yung ga mundong depression ko. nag research ako and I found out na maganda itong fish oil for pregnant moms na may depression and nakakatulong na mabalanse yung hormones kaya ayun, naging okay ako and balik normal na naman kahit buntis. ;)
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #53 on: October 17, 2010, 07:59:11 pm »

waah grabe feeling ko now... kc naman ngselos ako, my customer kc maikli shorts, tapos huling huli ko si hubby na tinitingnan legs nung girl habang paalis. huhuh feel so jelous.. lalo na now na sobrang laki ng weight gain ko.. huhuh...
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #54 on: October 26, 2010, 05:36:32 pm »

ako naman ang pinaka nakakatawang hindi ko maintindihan, nakita ko nag wawatch ng Victoria Secret fashion show si hubby. galit na galit ako kasi nagseselos ako. feeling ko hindi na ako sexy kaya kailangan na niya mag watch ng ganon :( sobrang sad ako and gusto ko umuwi sa mommy ko. ganun pala talaga yun. super amo naman si hubby and hindi na daw mauulit. weird :( parang napaka insecure ko sa lahat ng girls na sexy. lalo na mga naka 2 pc! :(
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #55 on: October 26, 2010, 05:52:08 pm »

naku kakaiba na nga talaga at out of this world ang moods nating mga preggy mommies! while reading the other mom's posts, super relate ako! hahaha
 
kaya lang ba't ganun mga sis, i have this weird feeling about my hubby and his ex. dati kasi talaga super na insecure ako dun. tapos na overcome ko. then nung first trim ko, na brought up ulit yung issue for no reason at all.. bigla lang ako na insecure at naging away pa namin. tapos when i learned na preggy ako, super nasabi ko na lang sa sarili ko, kaya pala. then ngayon parang bumabalik ulit, to the point na napapanaginipan ko! tapos maiiyak na lang ako pag gising ko sa morning... nagtataka si hubby why minsan bigla ako natatahimik at sad. di ko naman masabi yun kasi sasabihin lang niya kung ano ano iniisip ko...  :(
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #56 on: January 27, 2011, 12:18:17 pm »

haay! buti na lang may thread na ganito. I feel so sensitive these past few days. grabe! naiinis ako sa bf ko kasi laging busy. sobrang iba ang mood swings ko ngayon, I feel ugly and at the same time I feel really bitchy! haayz! I hate it.
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #57 on: January 31, 2011, 03:37:43 pm »

 Ganito talaga siguro kapag buntis. Medjo nakakarelate ako sa mga kwento niyo mommies. Hindi ko alam kung depression ba ito o anxiety. Pero nalulungkot ako lagi, siguro dahil na din sa situation namin ng bf ko. He was about to board a cruise ship for his work,and 2 years na niyang hinihintay to. Ako naman i was studying law when we found out na i was pregnant. I begged him na wag muna umalis kasi malungkutin talaga ako and di ko kakayanin. Although tangap naman ng both sides ang situation, pero ayaw ng dad ko na pagsamahin kami kasi di pa kami kasal.

Lagi ako umiiyak talaga nung 1st trimester ko. Yung tipong habang nagsshower e umiiyak. Tapos kapag nagkikita kami ng bf ko lagi ko sya inaaway. Ang sama ng mga iniisip ko sa kanya. Kapag di niya nadala yung gusto ko na food e todo iyak ako na kesyo di niya ako pinapahalagahan. Minsa nagagalit na siya sakin kasi iiyak na naman ako at nakakasama kay baby yun.

Lately medyo ok na kasi nakahanap na siya ng temporary work dito sa pinas. Pero kapag namimiss ko sya e iiyak talaga ako. Di naman nagkukulang bf ko sa paalala na magtiis muna para kay baby kasi para sakanya naman lahat ng gingawa niya. Buti nga nakahanap ako ng libangan dito sa SP kasi naaaliw ako at nawawala yung lungkot ko. Sana talaga pumayag na father ko na pagsamahin kami. Haaay.
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #58 on: February 03, 2011, 06:59:50 pm »

Welll, sad to say, medyo depressed nga rin ako. I'm 7 weeks pregnant tapos yung dad pa ng baby ko, umiiwas sa akin nung nalaman na preggy ako kasi hindi niya daw gusto to. Anyways, as much as possible, ayoko magentertain ng mga negative thoughts. Right now, di pa rin alam ng parents ko na buntis ako. I'm scared, oo pero iniisip ko na lang na soon matatanggap din kami ng family ko. I'm hoping and praying na igui2de kami ng baby ko ni God. I know kakayanin ko to.. :)

Goodluck and Godbless mga moms! :)
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Re: depression during pregnancy
« Reply #59 on: February 04, 2011, 11:46:52 am »

^iacy thats sad sis. Pero its good na your still keeping the good vibes. Ako din, i tried to hide my pregnancy at first.. At hindi talaga ako makatulog. It was on my 8th week nung sinabi ko na sa dad ko. And nakakagaan ng feeling. At nabawasan na yung iniisip ko. Like mine, im sure matatangap din nila si baby mo. I suggest na as early as possible, sabihin mo na kasi makakadagdag lang to sa pagiisip mo. Makakasama kay baby yan. Kausapin mo si bf to be with you when you tell your parents.
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