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missmemay

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #30 on: November 18, 2010, 10:50:40 pm »

hi mommies!
i'm a SAHM too! =) very rewarding talaga maging SAHM but there are times na nadedepress ako coz i'm missing my old life (shopping, gimik, friends, etc. )..
minsan nga naluluha nalang ako..haha buti nalang anjan si baby makita ko lang gumagaan na pakiramdam ko.

Hello, SAHM din po ako, I used to teach preschool, grade school and high school all in one day, everyday. When I was on my 4th month nag stop na'ko mag work kasi thrice nako nag spotting in 3 months time, so kesa masisi ko pa sarili ko nag stop nalang po ako. It's true na very rewarding ang pagiging SAHM, however just like missmemay, namimiss ko rin yung mga bagay na yon like gimmik, partey till you drop, shopping ng mga gusto hehe, hindi nagrereklamo yung term eh, kumbaga namimiss lang ganun. Old Life kasi. Ngayon dahil may baby na, my daughter is a new part of the future I'm creating for myself and my family. Naeenjoy ko yung pagiging SAHM, yun lang minsan talaga di mo maiiwasang mamiss ang old life mo, siguro dahil 4 months palang akong nag-aalaga ng baby ko  ;D

As of now, I'm learning the art of multi tasking (cooking, farming in FV, washing the dishes, chatting, answering mails and changing diapers in between)  ;D


natawa naman ako dun sa "farming in FV" momie cherrylej.. akala ko
naman totoong farming un..haha true..hindi nga nagrereklamo yung term..namimis lang talaga. ako nga minsan naiinis na kay hubby kasi kapag gusto ko magmall ayaw ako samahan..yong sinasabi pagod daw dapat pag-off pahinga nalang siya. naintindihan ko naman kaso hindi maalis na magtampo diba? sympre kelangan din natin magunwind paminsan minsan.  :P
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #31 on: November 21, 2010, 01:39:18 am »

Present!  ;D

SAHM din ako dito sa Singapore for the past two years ++. Nag-work ako dati pero nung nanganak ako hubby and I decided na sa bahay na lang muna ako. Gusto ko din naman kasi gusto ko na ako mismo mag-alaga sa anak namin at ma-witness ko development niya. Nag-offer na dati parents ko na sila muna mag-aalaga sa anak ko (dyan sa Pinas) para daw makapag-work ulit ako pero di kami pumayag ni hubby. Ayoko talaga malayo sa anak ko. Di ko kakayanin. Pero next year maghahanap na ulit ako work. Kailangan na ng tulong ni hubby dahil lumalaki na din gastusin namin dito. Papupuntahin ko na lang Nanay ko dito para mag-alaga sa anak ko kung sakaling makapagtrabaho na 'ko ulit. Bukod kasi sa asawa ko, sa Nanay ko lang ipinagkakatiwala anak ko.
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #32 on: November 21, 2010, 03:51:43 am »

a sahm here!

i've worked for 5 years and even up until several weeks before i gave birth to my son, he is 1 year and 2 months now. i also worked for several months after my maternity leave until i decided to quit altogether. mahirap kasi wala mag aalaga sa anak ko, i just asked my sister (who is in between jobs back then) to take care of him. and the idea of getting a nanny is just out of the question gusto ko talaga tumutok magalaga kay baby and aside from my siblings wala iba pwede mapagiwanan sa kanya kasi both my parents were gone..

being a sahm is both rewarding and unnerving at the same time, sabi ng iba sayang ang work bakit daw ako nagresign, but i'm also getting loads of wonderful feedback..well in the end, it's basically good to know na ikaw mismo ang nagaalaga ng anak mo every single day, day in, day out. nakakapagod at times too, and frustrating or lonely (when you miss your old life) but it is the ultimate sacrifice most mothers are not willing to make (no offense meant po s mga wahm, hands down din ako sa inyo!)  and what you wouldn't give for your child, diba?

go sahms!!! :)

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« Reply #33 on: March 31, 2011, 03:06:39 pm »

Mommies, ask ko lang... what's  your daily schedule like as a SAHM?
Pa-share naman how your day goes.
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #34 on: March 31, 2011, 04:26:02 pm »

SAHM dn ako. :)
Nagstop ako magwork simula ng mlaman namin ni hubby na preggy ako. 1yr and 6mths b c baby. Minsan,nkakamiss dn magwork kaso pag iniiwan ko si baby kahit sandali lang,naku nagmamadali dn ako umuwi..naiisip ko kasi umiiyak na sya,hind sya sumasama sa mom ko,daddy and mommy lang talaga kaya very hands on ako sa kanya and ky hubby. Ayaw na rn hubby na magwork ako mas gusto niya house lang ako :)
Very Happy dn naman maging SAHM.nasusubaybayan paglaki ng mga babies. ;)
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #35 on: March 31, 2011, 04:38:02 pm »

sahm here.
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #36 on: April 01, 2011, 04:55:21 am »

Still SAHM to my little angel :)
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #37 on: April 02, 2011, 08:30:51 pm »

@ sis XiansMam: sadly sis, meron ngang ganong notion dito sa tin about stay at home moms. Iba yung tunog ng 'housewife' dito sa Pilipinas. :-( I've been working for five years, had a high-paying job, until I decided to resign and be a SAHM last January 2010. And sobrang nakaka-bad trip yung mga reactions nung ibang tao when you say 'I resigned, sa bahay na lang ako to take care of my baby', para bang may ginawa akong krimen sa facial expressions na nakita ko. :D

Technically, I'm still a SAHM dahil nasa  bahay pa din ako, pero I'm a work-at-home-mom na din. I have regular online work na, pero dito pa din ako sa house every day, seeing my daughter grow up, taking care of her, taking care of hubby...ang sarap ng pakiramdam. :-)

Hindi lang minsan naintindihan ng ibang tao how big a sacrifice we had made to leave our promising careers to be a stay at home mom... And just how noble it is to be a 'housewife' who dedicates her time and being to her family. :-)

Go SAHMS! :D

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #38 on: April 03, 2011, 11:31:05 am »

present... im also a SAHM... ;)
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #39 on: April 04, 2011, 09:59:01 am »

ako rin.. SAHM to my 4-month old son.. 1 year na rin akong SAHM.. i resigned from work when i was two months pregnant na kasi hirap ako nung mga time na yun.. and my husband was scared na malaglag si baby (though malayo naman mangyari :P) pero i'm enjoying every minute of it kasi kasama ko si baby.. ;D
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #40 on: April 04, 2011, 03:37:02 pm »

present SAHM here :)
officially turned SAHM on April 01, my 7th yr anniversary working in our company.
5yrs pa lang ako sa company I've been wanting to resign coz I wanted to stay at home na lang to take care of hubby and to get pregnant na agad. But nung nabuntis ako at nanganak, I stayed 2 yrs more as preparation.
Now I have an online shop lang pang-aliw kapag nabbore ako. I crossstitch den para may matapos ako project na matatawag kong saken. I plan to fix my baby's photo album this April, so excited :)

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« Reply #41 on: April 06, 2011, 11:10:42 pm »

hi sis .. same here SAHM almost 6 yrs. since pinagresign ako ni hubby sa work ko and now we have our son ... until now .. pero minsan nabobored din ako gusto na ding magwork ,gusto kong mmaging busy pero pagnaiisip ko naman son ko walang titingin sa kanya . kc hindi uso sa amin ang yaya... pero life must go on diba .
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« Reply #42 on: April 27, 2011, 02:58:24 pm »

I've been a SAHM myself sa eldest ko for 8 years..  mahirap pro ngayon pag may nagtatanong bat di ako nagwork ng ganun katagal sabi ko nga mahirap iwan ang bata sa di mo kadugo at wala ka mapag iwanan pag papasok ka ng work..

So lahat ng school na napasukan ng anak ko andun ako, nursery, kinder, prep, grade 1 and 2 kasama ako sa school, grade 3 di na kasi medyo independent na ang anak ko.  Dito nga ako natututo ulit ng verb.. grammar, subject and predicate.. pandiwa, tula, etc.. hahaha! kakatuwa kasi yung mga di mo naiintindihan mo nung nag aaral ka ikaw na magtuturo sa anak mo tas nun mo lang marealize na ay madali lang pala, bat nung ako aral di ko maintindihan to.. tas pag exam gawa ng maraming reviewerm, halos lahat ng subject gagawan mo ng exam para makapagreview kayo sa house..

So ang tawag ko nun sa akin ay yaya, cook, kusinera, labandera, plantsadora lahat na, name it I can do it! pati maging technician ng videoke hehe..

Happy naman ako sa naging result kasi never nagkasakit ang anak ko, di yun naconfine since birth, simpleng ubo sipon, lagnat na madali naman napapagaling... Tapos ayun maganda ang grades sa school, kasi natutukan ko ang studies, at higit sa lahat love ang mommy ng sobra.. (cempre pa) Si daddy niya lang ang provider namin,more than  two years sya nag saudi.

Pro nung malaki na sya naisip ko na din magkaron ng career kasi naman di ko man lang nagamit ang inaral ko na BS Accountancy, ni hindi ko na nga alam gamitin ang mga ledger at journal.. tas ang dami pa technology kaya nahirapan din ako makahanap ng work nung nag decide ako na mag work na ulit. Good thing that there are call centers na nag accept ng walang experience sa work, so since nag 8 years old sya nag work na ullit ako.. sa ngayon meron ako baby na 1 year old, di ko naaalagaan mabuti kasi nga minsan night shift tas pabago bago sched buti andun hubby ko tas lola niya, pro I make it a point na may bonding kaming family pag off ko tas weekend we go out. Minsan naiisip ko na Mag SAHM ulit kaya lang di afford kasi HS na ang panganay ko ang mahal ng tuition tas after a year mag aaral na tong baby ko, so need talaga doble kayod kami ni hubby..

I salute those moms na may career at iniwan ito maalagaan lang mabuti si baby.. Ang career na walang Day OFF.
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #43 on: May 07, 2011, 11:42:29 pm »

Hi Sisses!

Hmmm... kilala nyo pa ba ko? grabe, it's been a while since the last time I posted here... have not been so active because of work...

but the good news is... tsaran.. nag resign na ko.. and will be back in the circulation soon! 1 month na lang!!! tsaka na kwento pagbalik ko! miss you mga sis! i have a lot of catching up to do!

Will be an SAHM again in a months time! :)

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #44 on: May 08, 2011, 05:22:25 pm »

Present!
I have been a SAHM since I got pregnant Jan 2010. Would you believe na ang reason ko nung nagresign ako is "I want to be a full time mother.."
Nakakamiss din yung life mo outside your home, as a career woman, pero it is very fulfilling being a full time mother. . :D
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